{"type":"rich","version":"1.0","provider_name":"Transistor","provider_url":"https://transistor.fm","author_name":"The Shock Absorber","title":"Is it all a laugh?","html":"","width":"100%","height":180,"duration":3573,"description":"Is banter just harmless fun — or is something deeper going on beneath the surface?\nJoel, Stu and Tim open with Easter reflections, including JoelChristian humour, banter and friendship, male friendship theology, tall poppy syndrome Australia, hegemony church, belonging and identity, Andrew Huberman friendship, banter church community, shock absorber podcast, soul revival church, church leadership podcast, intergenerational ministry, Christian culture Australia, microaggression, theology of joy, fruit of the spirit joy, church and culture, adolescent belonging, Easter baptism, Christian banter baptising his own son at the river service, before diving into a clip from Andrew Huberman's podcast about male friendship and the role of humour in building trust and loyalty.\nWhat starts as a straightforward conversation quickly gets complicated: tall poppy syndrome, hegemony, the Cronulla riots, a bucks party gone wrong, a proverb about flaming arrows, and the question of whether Jesus ever actually made a joke.\nThis is one of the most honest and wide-ranging conversations the Shock Absorber has had. If you've ever wondered how to think Christianly about humour, banter and belonging, especially with young people, this is worth your time.\nTimestamps\n00:00 Welcome and Easter reflections\n09:30 Andrew Huberman on male friendship — does banter build trust and loyalty?\n13:00 Tim's cautions: power imbalances, adolescent vulnerability and passive aggression\n17:00 Stu's story: family of origin, words of affirmation and learning banter as a foreign language\n20:30 NT Feather, tall poppy syndrome and the Australian pressure to cut people down\n27:00 The bucks party: stocks, a hacksaw and being expelled from the group\n40:00 Hegemony, racism and the Cronulla riots — the darker thread in Australian banter culture\n48:00 Does Jesus ever make a joke? What does God's laughter mean?\n54:00 Tim's takeaway — joyfulness, the fruit of the Spirit and what redeemed humour looks like\nDiscussed on...","thumbnail_url":"https://img.transistorcdn.com/Xefvzfzzrkbs1GjU01qCch0kUaJzwBthG2qO_sgqCm8/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:400/h:400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS9zaG93/Lzg4NjYvMTU4NTEz/OTEyOS1hcnR3b3Jr/LmpwZw.webp","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_height":300}