{"type":"rich","version":"1.0","provider_name":"Transistor","provider_url":"https://transistor.fm","author_name":"Yes, And Otherwise: Feminist Conversations on Work, Rest & Power","title":"The Invisible Labor of Grief: How Women Carry Emotional Weight with Nikki the Death Doula","html":"","width":"100%","height":180,"duration":2371,"description":"Grief isn’t just about death — it’s the emotional response to any kind of loss, from big life changes to daily disappointments. And for women, especially, grief often goes unseen and unspoken.\n\nIn this episode of Feminist Founders, Becky talks with Nikki the Death Doula about the heavy (and invisible) labor women carry when it comes to grief. Together, they unpack how we’re conditioned to take on everyone else’s pain, hide our own, and minimize the everyday losses that still weigh on us.\n\nNikki shares her experience as a death doula, what she’s learned about unrecognized grief, and the simple practices that can help us process it — including her mantra: name it to tame it. They also explore how cultural silence around miscarriage, caregiving, and “small” griefs leaves us isolated, and how community and validation can open the door to healing.\nConnect with Nikki Smith:\nWebsite: https://www.nikkithedeathdoula.com\nGood Grief with Nikki the Death Doula: https://www.nikkithedeathdoula.com/podcast\nLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/nikki-smith-26203b38/\nDiscussed in this episode:\nWhat grief really is (and why it’s not just about death)\nThe “invisible labor” of carrying everyone else’s grief\nHow women are socialized to silence or downplay their own pain\nThe compounding effect of unprocessed grief\nMiscarriage, caregiving, and other under‑acknowledged losses\n“Name it to tame it”: a simple practice to process daily grief\nComparative suffering (aka the grief Olympics) and why it harms us\nThe healing power of validation and community\n🎤 PROUD MEMBERS OF THE FEMINIST PODCASTERS COLLECTIVE: http://feministpodcastcollective.com/","thumbnail_url":"https://img.transistorcdn.com/GBHLYfR1d8vTP6gl28L07YDfK_AQkV3CJwsWm3AU-rM/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:400/h:400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS9hNDE0/MTQ4YzMwYzNlM2Ix/YjIwMzY3NTZlMWIz/OWQ3ZC5wbmc.webp","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_height":300}