{"type":"rich","version":"1.0","provider_name":"Transistor","provider_url":"https://transistor.fm","author_name":"The Productivity Shift","title":"042: Thriving Through Divorce","html":"","width":"100%","height":180,"duration":834,"description":"The doors are opening this week to my GYST: Build Your Bonus Brain Course.\nHead on over to eliseenriquez.com/masterclass to grab a spot in the masterclass and to get details on how to sign up.\n==============================================\nGuess what, as of July 11th, I have been married for two years to my amazing wife Kim! But what some of you may not know is that I was married before.\nI was married to a wonderful guy. He and I met when we were in high school and we dated through our last couple of years of high school and then dated off and on in college.\nIn this episode, I share all about that relationship, our marriage, and what that ultimately helped me realize that I wasn’t down with where we were headed as a couple.\nAnd the thing that stood out for me when retelling this story was what I took away from that feeling of the ’not this’ space, because it can be a hard place to be.\nFor anybody out there who is in that space, whether it's big like a marriage, relationship, a job or career OR something a little less life-changing...\nNo matter how big or small it is, \"not this\" can be such a gift but it can also be really hard because you want to know \"OK so what is it that I want\".\nAll I can tell you is:\n\nHang in there.\nDon't numb out.\nTake things one step at a time to help yourself get to more clarity and let people in.\nYou don't have to do this alone.\nAnd so if you are in a state of \"not this\" no matter how big or small, I really encourage you to:\n1 - take a step back and establish what is true.\n2 - Get a clear picture of your reality before you start exploring options.\n3 - Get a clear picture of what is currently happening in your life and in your world and what that means for what you actually do want.\n4 - If there's alignment, then it might just be some tweaks that need to get made.\n5 - If there isn't alignment, then there might be bigger changes to explore.\nAnd if you’re still hanging on to something that doesn’t feel right, maybe my question of the week...","thumbnail_url":"https://img.transistorcdn.com/lqZp9d3qdtmUAhBurEhYX8JOknQf4KmhX25xTBp15lI/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:400/h:400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS83Njk4/ZGFjY2FkZTRjMmE3/MjU5NjIyZTVhNGJk/MWYyNS5qcGc.webp","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_height":300}