{"type":"rich","version":"1.0","provider_name":"Transistor","provider_url":"https://transistor.fm","author_name":"Discipling By Jesus","title":"Emotion Incarnate","html":"<iframe width=\"100%\" height=\"180\" frameborder=\"no\" scrolling=\"no\" seamless src=\"https://share.transistor.fm/e/8f576a03\"></iframe>","width":"100%","height":180,"duration":2984,"description":"Healing from “Childhood Emotional Neglect” (CEN)\nChildhood Emotional Neglect (as a child or teen) results in emotional disconnect and lack of emotional intelligence.\nIn a marriage, one or both spouses may need healing from CEN\nSpouses who need healing will often exhibit these 10 characteristics…\nMisread each other's feelings.\nAvoid discussing difficult topics to avoid conflict.\nBe unable to argue productively.\nFocus on logistics rather than feelings.\nNot confide in each other.\nReact inappropriately if the other confides.\nNot feel like a team.\nFeel alone even with their spouse.\nHave difficulty finding topics to discuss.\nFeel awkward experiencing positive emotions like love, or only feel them during sex.\n\nWhen children are emotionally neglected:\nChildren raised with emotional neglect:\nDon't know how to express their emotions and don’t feel comfortable expressing their emotions (because they were not asked questions such as “How are you?,” “Are you sad?,” etc.).\nDon't learn how to recognize and discuss emotions (others or their own)\nHide their emotions and may not be aware of them.\nDo not understand themselves or their own needs or feelings (or others).","thumbnail_url":"https://img.transistorcdn.com/JJth6GhGo9il_lOQHk61t0ZVlC89ow_Ojh0gP3bSb_g/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:400/h:400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS9zaG93/LzEyMTc1LzE2MTUw/NzYwNzktYXJ0d29y/ay5qcGc.webp","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_height":300}