{"type":"rich","version":"1.0","provider_name":"Transistor","provider_url":"https://transistor.fm","author_name":"The Secure Husband","title":"The Problem With Giving To Get: Unspoken Deals That Are Ruining Your Marriage","html":"","width":"100%","height":180,"duration":670,"description":"You do something nice.\nYou help around the house.\nYou give a compliment or say “I love you.”\nBut deep down, you’re hoping she gives something back — maybe sex, affection, or appreciation.\nThat’s called giving to get, and it’s ruining your connection.\nIn this episode of The Secure Husband Podcast, we break down:\nWhat “giving to get” really means\nWhy your wife feels confused or pressured\nHow to stop scorekeeping and start leading with honesty\nWhy hidden expectations are hurting your marriage\nIn this video, you’ll learn how to:\n✅ Spot when you’re keeping score\n✅ Stop giving with strings attached\n✅ Heal the fear of being unwanted\n✅ Replace unspoken deals with real connection\n✅ Love without trying to control or earn affection\nTopics Covered:\nThe hidden damage of unspoken emotional contracts\nHow guilt and silent expectations push her away\nWhy clear, calm leadership is more powerful than performance\nHow to give from fullness, not fear\nHow to rebuild trust through honesty and strength\nWhen you give to get, you create pressure.\nWhen you give from overflow, you create peace.\nIf you struggle with life, marriage and relationships and are ready to thrive,check out the resources from Certified Professional Coach Bruce Abbott at https://SecureHusband.com.\n#deadbedroom #marriage \n#sexlessmarriage\n#MarriageHelp\n#SaveYourMarriage\n#SecureHusband\n#MarriageAdvice\n#RelationshipHealing\n#SelfWorth\n#InnerChildHealing\n#MensMentalHealth\n#SelfLoveJourney\n#EmotionalHealing\n#OvercomeRejection\n#HealthyMasculinity\n#MarriageCoaching\n#StopPeoplePleasing\n#SelfGrowth\nFor informational purposes only. This is not a medical or psychological diagnosis. Consult your physician regarding any necessary mental health diagnosis and treatment options. Always seek professional medical advice before starting any new treatment or therapy. Any and all information by or on this site is provided for promotional or informational purposes only and is not to be relied upon as a professional medical opinion whatsoever....","thumbnail_url":"https://img.transistorcdn.com/YJmHpXqr3wfrhL5fsdmtlNEm6ml1FboHb1lRAj0byEY/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:400/h:400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS8xM2Vj/NGY4MTMxZDhhNmE5/ZGI4YzVmMjNmZjRh/YWU4MC5wbmc.webp","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_height":300}