{"type":"rich","version":"1.0","provider_name":"Transistor","provider_url":"https://transistor.fm","author_name":"I Hate You. What's For Dinner? ","title":"Ep 09 - Fear, Resistance, and Flow: Paula Tursi on Letting Parenting Happen","html":"","width":"100%","height":180,"duration":4062,"description":"Fear has a way of obstructing our development as people, as parents, and partners and friends. Our anxieties make us grasp for control when what we really need to do is get out of the way and let things unfold.Easier said than done. Today, we have Gillian’s dear friend and “soul mother,” Paula Tursi, with us. Paula is a New York-based yoga and meditation teacher, spiritual guide, writer and thinker who is at once deeply spiritual and highly pragmatic. In our conversation, we talk about the role of fear in the challenges we face, how she transformed her relationship to fear, and how getting out of our own way can change our lives and our parenting. Listen to the full episode to hear:Defining the roots of fear through the lens of survival and internal resistanceHow the way we’re seen in childhood ripples through our lives, for good and illHow the way we assign meaning to our visceral feelings impacts how we live and parentBalancing parental guardrails and trusting kids to know themselves and what they needHow accepting where we are in the moment helps us move forward and live more fullyHow to show kids they’re loved, safe, and seen even at the hardest momentsLearn more about Paula Tursi:WebsiteInstagram: @paula_tursi_life_designLearn more about I Hate You. What’s For Dinner?Connect with Gillian Boudreau, PhD.:WebsiteInstagram @clearconnectionpsychologyConnect with Rob Galligan, PhD.:Instagram @dr.robert.galligan","thumbnail_url":"https://img.transistorcdn.com/D3tBXD86835pt7yVRDNdUrgGmElQKj6Sry24ZfP4t6o/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:400/h:400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS8zZTAz/ZTZmNTMzN2QzM2Iw/N2JjNzNlMzQ3ZTlm/OGQwNS5wbmc.webp","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_height":300}