{"type":"rich","version":"1.0","provider_name":"Transistor","provider_url":"https://transistor.fm","author_name":"Beyond the Gray","title":"Why High Performers Ignore What’s Broken (And the 5-Minute Habit That Changes Everything) |Ep.18","html":"","width":"100%","height":180,"duration":1310,"description":"You already know something is off. You've known for a while. And yet you keep hoping it'll somehow fix itself while you pour another drink to make it easier to not think about it. Sound familiar? This episode is for you.\nIn this solo episode, Kari Schwear breaks down the pattern she sees in high-performing men over and over again. One area of life is thriving while everything else is quietly collapsing. Great business, dying marriage. Just quit drinking, but now the faith is gone and the health is declining. The blinders are on and the hope-it-fixes-itself strategy is running the show. She shares the cultural lies that keep you stuck, what Scripture actually says about trying to compartmentalize your life, her own experience with tunnel vision after she quit drinking, and the one five-minute daily tool called WIGS that creates the awareness and intentionality needed to finally address what you've been ignoring.\nThis one is practical, honest, and hits exactly where it needs to.\nIn this episode you'll hear:\nWhy high-performing men focus on the one thing that's working and ignore everything elseHow alcohol fills the gap when awareness isn't paired with intentionalityThe hustle culture lies that keep successful people stuckWhat Matthew 6:33 and Matthew 12:25 say about trying to compartmentalize your lifeKari's own tunnel vision story after she quit drinking and what it cost herThe WIGS framework: Wins, Intentions, and Gratitudes, a five-minute nightly habit that changes everythingA real-life example of what WIGS looks like for a man whose business is thriving but his marriage is notHow WIGS ties into the DECIDE method and why daily habits are the foundation of real changeA practical next step: the Gray Area Audit and how it shows you what you've been ignoringIf you've been grinding harder and hoping everything else catches up, it won't. But intentionality will get you there. This episode shows you exactly how to start.\n\nTAKE THE GRAY AREA AUDIT\nNot sure where your...","thumbnail_url":"https://img.transistorcdn.com/o3QgvEYD_EzW-1N7UZfNYTN4qL2oafyqZIw1SF69BYo/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:400/h:400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS9kYjNl/NjgxZTdjNDY2YjIw/NjdlNjBlYTUyMjgw/OTZjMy5wbmc.webp","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_height":300}