{"type":"rich","version":"1.0","provider_name":"Transistor","provider_url":"https://transistor.fm","author_name":"Know Your Children with Rav Shlomo Katz","title":"20. What Do You Ask Your Child When They Come Home From Shul?","html":"<iframe width=\"100%\" height=\"180\" frameborder=\"no\" scrolling=\"no\" seamless src=\"https://share.transistor.fm/e/a0628473\"></iframe>","width":"100%","height":180,"duration":3302,"description":"What happens when a child goes to shul… but never develops a taste for tefillah?\nIn this deeply honest episode of Know Your Children, Rav Shlomo Katz and the women of Shirat David explore the tension every parent feels between obligation and connection. Is “good chinuch” just getting children to sit quietly in shul — or helping them discover something that genuinely touches their soul?\nThrough the lens of chush ha’ta’am — a child’s inner sense of taste and emotional connection — this shiur opens up difficult but essential questions about parenting, authenticity, fear, and what children actually experience when they walk into a beit knesset.\nAlong the way, Rav Shlomo speaks about compliments, expectations, honesty in religious life, the emotional memory of shul, and why the question “How was davening?” may not be enough.\n----------\nFor more Shuirim and Music from Rav Shlomo Katz, visit: https://ravshlomokatz.com\nJoin Rav Shlomo Katz's WhatsApp Community: https://chat.whatsapp.com/KHKOhhPaeHx5Kb74WL9L9a?mode=ems_copy_t\nCHAPTERS\n00:00 Sponsorship and Dedication for the Shiur\n01:01 Humility Needed in Parenting Approaches\n02:46 Introducing Chush HaTa’am Concept in Parenting\n04:26 Taking Children to Shul: The Routine\n05:35 Assessing the Child’s Reaction After Shul\n08:30 When Kids Can Read Yet Miss the Meaning\n10:48 Probing the Real Source of Shul Enjoyment\n21:18 Role of Compliments in Encouraging Shul Attendance\n23:24 Why Kids Need a Taste for Prayer\n24:50 Balancing Obligations and Personal Experience\n26:20 Adults Also Struggle with Shul Attendance\n30:25 Modeling Joy in Shul for Kids\n35:04 Unrealistic Expectations for Young Children\n40:26 Honesty About Personal Shul Struggles\n43:51 Fear vs. Authentic Parenting in Religion\n45:10 When Answers Aren’t Satisfying\n46:23 Isidor Rabi’s Deep Question to Children\n47:35 Creating Spaces for Children’s Insight\n49:37 Authenticity and Consistency Across Life\n51:08 Modern Orthodoxy Identity Split\n52:30 Family Tradition of Sitting...","thumbnail_url":"https://img.transistorcdn.com/1kIczSvIsSLQhU43EiAuIwIwZqNhtmqJjeK1o3ZXq5s/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:400/h:400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS8yYTUw/ODM2ZTE4ZTk5ZWI0/OTFhZTUwYmNkNzli/Y2RlZC5wbmc.webp","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_height":300}