{"type":"rich","version":"1.0","provider_name":"Transistor","provider_url":"https://transistor.fm","author_name":"The Secure Husband","title":"I’m Only Okay If You’re Okay (Codependency Podcast Series)","html":"","width":"100%","height":180,"duration":1012,"description":"What if your emotional state depends on your wife’s emotional state?\nIn this episode of The Secure Husband Podcast, we begin a new series on codependency and the hidden belief many men carry:\n“I’m okay only if she is okay.”\nMany men do not see themselves as codependent. They see themselves as loyal, helpful, responsible, and self-sacrificing. But underneath that can be fear, anxiety, people pleasing, and self abandonment.\nIn this episode we talk about:\nHow codependency shows up in marriage\nWhy anxiety and codependency often go together\nHow childhood patterns become adult relationship patterns\nWhy self abandonment feels like love\nHow codependency affects attraction and sexless marriages\nWhat healing looks like through the Secure Husband process\nWe also set the stage for this month’s series as we go deeper into boundaries, fear of abandonment, nervous system work, people pleasing, and healing.\nIf this connects with you, sign up for a free 30-minute consultation. This is just a conversation about what is happening in your marriage and how coaching might work for you. No sales pitch. No pressure. Just seeing if it is a good fit and how I can help.\nLearn more at: SecureHusband.com\n#Codependency #MarriageHelp #AttachmentStyle #MensMentalHealth #SecureHusband\nIf you struggle with life, marriage and relationships and are ready to thrive,check out the resources from Certified Professional Coach Bruce Abbott at https://SecureHusband.com.\n#deadbedroom \n#marriage \n#sexlessmarriage\n#attachmentstyles\nAll content is for informational purposes only and does not provide medical or psychological diagnosis or treatment. Always consult your physician before starting any treatment or therapy. This includes all content on this site, email, blogs, podcasts, social media, and events. Nothing shared constitutes medical or legal advice. Use of this information is at your own risk.","thumbnail_url":"https://img.transistorcdn.com/YJmHpXqr3wfrhL5fsdmtlNEm6ml1FboHb1lRAj0byEY/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:400/h:400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS8xM2Vj/NGY4MTMxZDhhNmE5/ZGI4YzVmMjNmZjRh/YWU4MC5wbmc.webp","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_height":300}