{"type":"rich","version":"1.0","provider_name":"Transistor","provider_url":"https://transistor.fm","author_name":"Second Act Business Owner","title":"Beneath the Surface: Shape Skills, Beliefs, and Actions with the Identity Iceberg","html":"<iframe width=\"100%\" height=\"180\" frameborder=\"no\" scrolling=\"no\" seamless src=\"https://share.transistor.fm/e/a1c3156d\"></iframe>","width":"100%","height":180,"duration":820,"description":"Why is it that sometimes what you see isn't what you get? \nToday we're pulling back the layers on something I call the Identity Iceberg — the hidden forces of environment, beliefs, values, and identity that quietly shape the actions, behaviors, and results everyone can see on the surface. If you've ever wondered why some habits stick and others don't, or why you (or someone you know) keeps landing on the same outcomes, this conversation will give you a framework to understand it — and a few simple steps to start shifting it.\nHighlights\nThe \"identity iceberg\" framework: actions, behaviors, and decisions sit above the waterline — visible to everyoneSkills live just below the surface and start to show up as you get to know someoneBeliefs (often formed as early as age 3-10) quietly drive which skills we choose to pursueValues, instilled from childhood, shape the beliefs we carryIdentity is the self-talk we repeat when we're alone — and it's often more negative than positiveThe environment (people, news, food, education) surrounds the whole iceberg and has a massive influence on every layerReal change starts at the environment level and works inward: environment, then identity, then values, then beliefs, then skillsAction steps: shift one environmental factor, change one identity statement, share a value with someone, and identify one belief to update\nChapters\n00:00 – Intro01:25 – Actions Above Waterline02:24 – Skills Below Surface03:40 – Beliefs Drive Skills04:52 – Values Shape Beliefs05:49 – Identity & Self-Talk07:14 – Environment & the Ocean Effect08:30 – How to Shift Each Level10:28 – Your Action Steps11:22 – Observe Others12:35 – Wrap Up\nWant to get more help from Lee with your business? Visit her website: https://leegray.actioncoach.com/\nIdentify your strengths and weaknesses as a second actor with our comprehensive Second Act Assessment. https://secondact.scoreapp.com\nThis show is part of the ICT Podcast Network. For more information, visit ictpod.net.","thumbnail_url":"https://img.transistorcdn.com/UHctF0fSnGkn2C4Imb7d98gnuXEhzORJCAl2AR04KOY/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:400/h:400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS84ZWFk/NWZhOTQ1NTI5OGZl/YjQ1NmNhZjQzMzcx/ODc4Yy5wbmc.webp","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_height":300}