{"type":"rich","version":"1.0","provider_name":"Transistor","provider_url":"https://transistor.fm","author_name":"Know Your Children with Rav Shlomo Katz","title":"16. Developing My Child’s World of Emotions","html":"<iframe width=\"100%\" height=\"180\" frameborder=\"no\" scrolling=\"no\" seamless src=\"https://share.transistor.fm/e/a2d59ced\"></iframe>","width":"100%","height":180,"duration":3309,"description":"This week’s shiur comes with a warning: parenting is triggering because it not only exposes our children’s inner world, it exposes ours.\nRav Shlomo Katz and the women of Shirat David continue the conversation about the three garments of the soul—thought, speech, and action— and apply it to a core parenting question: How do we build our child’s world of emotions in a healthy, Torah-aligned way?\n\nWe explore what it can look like when a parent is emotionally blocked (chasum), how that can echo through marriage, friendships, and even one’s relationship with Hashem—and why “being frum” is not the same thing as emotional closeness. Along the way, we touch on attachment theory (including Rabbi Yaakov Danishefsky’s Attached), the difference between “open” and “everything goes,” and why chinuch isn’t only about fixing negative emotions—but also about actively building confidence, love, and joy.\nTakeaway: Emotional safety isn’t permissiveness. It’s a home where the child can grow and where feelings can be named, held, and guided… without shutting the child down or turning the home into a free-for-all.\n----------\nFor more Shuirim and Music from Rav Shlomo Katz, visit: https://ravshlomokatz.com\nJoin Rav Shlomo Katz's WhatsApp Community: https://chat.whatsapp.com/KHKOhhPaeHx5Kb74WL9L9a?mode=ems_copy_t\n\nCHAPTERS\n00:00 Sponsorship and Memorial Acknowledgments\n01:23 Trigger Warning and Parenting Focus\n02:37 Three Garments of the Soul\n04:59 Emotional Blockage in Parents\n08:29 Childhood Origins of Emotional Closure\n11:09 Open vs Closed Emotional States\n14:43 Illusion of Spiritual Closeness\n16:49 Attachment Theory and the Book “Attached”\n21:04 Scope of Emotional Education\n48:20 Psychologists vs Parental Duty in Child Development\n49:25 Common Questions and Experience of Seasoned Parents\n51:32 Beyond Negative Emotions: Building Confidence and Joy\n53:37 Love and Joy as Part of Chinuch\n55:03 Conclusion and Next Session Plans","thumbnail_url":"https://img.transistorcdn.com/1kIczSvIsSLQhU43EiAuIwIwZqNhtmqJjeK1o3ZXq5s/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:400/h:400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS8yYTUw/ODM2ZTE4ZTk5ZWI0/OTFhZTUwYmNkNzli/Y2RlZC5wbmc.webp","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_height":300}