{"type":"rich","version":"1.0","provider_name":"Transistor","provider_url":"https://transistor.fm","author_name":"Into The Wind","title":"#003 — Alexander Bard | Sex for the Marathon of Marriage","html":"<iframe width=\"100%\" height=\"180\" frameborder=\"no\" scrolling=\"no\" seamless src=\"https://share.transistor.fm/e/a449578c\"></iframe>","width":"100%","height":180,"duration":4142,"description":"Alexander Bard is a philosopher, author, lecturer, and musician based in Stockholm, co-author of The Futurica Trilogy, Syntheism, and Digital Libido.In this conversation:Adultification — the process of becoming ready to commit, why women arrive before men, and the older version of yourself who already knows what you should do.Marriage as a business enterprise — choosing a partner you could build a life and a family with, and the test of whether you'd still respect her as the mother of your kids.Romantic love versus being in love — why the sensation never lasts, and what real, durable love toward someone's humanity actually looks like.Monday morning coffee is peak marriage — the everyday life that a lasting marriage is really made of.Seduction versus manipulation — taking responsibility for a stalled sex life and leading toward a destination she didn't know she wanted.The shit test — Bard's provocative read on how men and women communicate, and why feelings and thoughts must stay separate for a man.Ari in the Air:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ariintheairYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ariintheairPGMG (men's group): https://theparaglidingacademy.com/tours/mensgroup/Alexander Bard:X / Twitter: https://x.com/BardissimoWikipedia: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Alexander_Bard","thumbnail_url":"https://img.transistorcdn.com/rBh_V777sxlyK1K8a8Y-13AbdUGnwknln20IML_y1vA/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:400/h:400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS8wM2Vm/M2ZkY2RlNGUxMjlm/NTAxZTgyZTYxNTFk/ZTZlMi5qcGc.webp","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_height":300}