{"type":"rich","version":"1.0","provider_name":"Transistor","provider_url":"https://transistor.fm","author_name":"The Secure Husband","title":"You Always Have Two Wounded People In A Dysfunctional Marriage","html":"","width":"100%","height":180,"duration":749,"description":"If your marriage feels one-sided, cold, or full of blame — you’re not alone.\nMany men ask, “Why am I the only one doing the work?”\n“She never opens up. She never wants sex. She avoids everything — but I’m the one who has to change?”\nThis video explains why that feeling is valid… but also why healing still starts with you.\nWhat You’ll Learn in This Video:\n✅ Why your wife’s avoidance often triggers your old wounds\n✅ Why every broken marriage includes two wounded people\n✅ How to stop trying to fix her and take back your emotional power\n✅ What leadership looks like when you’re healing without her help\n✅ The 6-step Secure Husband Process to help you grow strong again\nThis Episode Is for You If You:\n🔹 Are tired of feeling like you’re the only one working on the marriage\n🔹 Feel hurt by your wife’s shutdowns, silence, or rejection\n🔹 Want to stop over-explaining, over-functioning, or begging for love\n🔹 Need clear steps to get emotionally strong again — even if she stays the same\n🔹 Are ready to stop blaming and start leading with strength\nHere’s What You’ll Take From This Video:\n✔️ How your reactions give away your power — and how to stop\n✔️ Why fixing her never works — and what to do instead\n✔️ What childhood wounds get triggered in marriage — and how to meet them\n✔️ Why your wife’s coldness may be her wound, not her hate\n✔️ How to lead your side of the marriage — even if she never changes\nThis is not about blame. It’s about responsibility.\nYou don’t have to fix her.\nYou don’t have to wait on her.\nYou just have to decide:\n“I will not let her behavior control my peace anymore.”\nYou can become secure — even in a marriage that feels broken.\nThat’s your next step.\nAnd it starts now.\nNeed help with that first step?\nFor a free 30-minute consultation, visit SecureHusband.com\nIf you struggle with life, marriage and relationships and are ready to thrive,check out the resources from Certified Professional Coach Bruce Abbott at https://SecureHusband.com.\n#deadbedroom \n#marriage ...","thumbnail_url":"https://img.transistorcdn.com/YJmHpXqr3wfrhL5fsdmtlNEm6ml1FboHb1lRAj0byEY/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:400/h:400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS8xM2Vj/NGY4MTMxZDhhNmE5/ZGI4YzVmMjNmZjRh/YWU4MC5wbmc.webp","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_height":300}