{"type":"rich","version":"1.0","provider_name":"Transistor","provider_url":"https://transistor.fm","author_name":"The Secure Husband","title":"You Always Have Two Wounded People In A Dysfunctional Marriage","html":"","width":"100%","height":180,"duration":780,"description":"If your marriage feels one-sided, cold, or full of blame — you’re not alone.Many men ask, “Why am I the only one doing the work?”“She never opens up. She never wants sex. She avoids everything — but I’m the one who has to change?”This video explains why that feeling is valid… but also why healing still starts with you.What You’ll Learn in This Video:✅ Why your wife’s avoidance often triggers your old wounds✅ Why every broken marriage includes two wounded people✅ How to stop trying to fix her and take back your emotional power✅ What leadership looks like when you’re healing without her help✅ The 6-step Secure Husband Process to help you grow strong againThis Episode Is for You If You:🔹 Are tired of feeling like you’re the only one working on the marriage🔹 Feel hurt by your wife’s shutdowns, silence, or rejection🔹 Want to stop over-explaining, over-functioning, or begging for love🔹 Need clear steps to get emotionally strong again — even if she stays the same🔹 Are ready to stop blaming and start leading with strengthHere’s What You’ll Take From This Video:✔️ How your reactions give away your power — and how to stop✔️ Why fixing her never works — and what to do instead✔️ What childhood wounds get triggered in marriage — and how to meet them✔️ Why your wife’s coldness may be her wound, not her hate✔️ How to lead your side of the marriage — even if she never changesThis is not about blame. It’s about responsibility.You don’t have to fix her.You don’t have to wait on her.You just have to decide:“I will not let her behavior control my peace anymore.”You can become secure — even in a marriage that feels broken.That’s your next step.And it starts now.Need help with that first step?For a free 30-minute consultation, visit SecureHusband.comIf you struggle with life, marriage and relationships and are ready to thrive,check out the resources from Certified Professional Coach Bruce Abbott at...","thumbnail_url":"https://img.transistorcdn.com/YJmHpXqr3wfrhL5fsdmtlNEm6ml1FboHb1lRAj0byEY/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:400/h:400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS8xM2Vj/NGY4MTMxZDhhNmE5/ZGI4YzVmMjNmZjRh/YWU4MC5wbmc.webp","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_height":300}