{"type":"rich","version":"1.0","provider_name":"Transistor","provider_url":"https://transistor.fm","author_name":"Dad Starting Over","title":"Sexless Marriage: “I Love You… But I’m Not In Love With You”","html":"<iframe width=\"100%\" height=\"180\" frameborder=\"no\" scrolling=\"no\" seamless src=\"https://share.transistor.fm/e/afb96506\"></iframe>","width":"100%","height":180,"duration":698,"description":"A 47-year-old husband wrote to me after 17 years of marriage.\nNo big fights.\nNo confirmed cheating.\nJust slow emotional drift.\nThen one day she said:\n“I love you… but I’m not in love with you.”\nTheir marriage isn’t completely dead — but it’s nearly sexless. Rare intimacy. No initiation. No spark.\nI break down:\n• What that phrase usually really means\n• Why sexless marriages often slide into “roommate mode”\n• The role of new relationship energy\n• Why becoming “safer” makes things worse\n• What a man must do if there’s any real chance of rebuilding desire\nThis is not about blaming women.\nIt’s about understanding the dynamic clearly.\nIf you’re in a sexless marriage or feel like your wife is emotionally drifting away, watch this all the way through.\nStart with The Dead Bedroom Fix:\nhttps://deadbedroomfix.com\nIf you need grounded support from men who’ve been through this and won’t let you spiral, join the Brotherhood:\nhttps://helpformen.com/join\nYou don’t want 20 years of polite indifference.\nYou want to be chosen.","thumbnail_url":"https://img.transistorcdn.com/YiHzLsFwQs1l2EQbUXztvHyWFsPsmiGIGpfVw4pLN6o/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:400/h:400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS84ODQ0/ODVhZDc4YzQ3OGQ4/MmQ3ZWNmOTBjZWVi/ZDVmZC5wbmc.webp","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_height":300}