{"type":"rich","version":"1.0","provider_name":"Transistor","provider_url":"https://transistor.fm","author_name":"I Am What I Am","title":"Episode 101: When a Survivor Says, \"Pastor, Can We Talk?\"","html":"","width":"100%","height":180,"duration":912,"description":"\"Pastor... can we talk?\"Those five words may become one of the most significant conversations of your ministry.Every year, survivors of intimate partner violence quietly seek help from someone they trust. Often, that first person is their pastor. Yet many church leaders have never been trained to recognize abuse, understand trauma, or respond in a way that protects both the survivor and the integrity of the church.In this foundational episode, Pastor Felix Cervantes explores the biblical responsibility of shepherds to protect the vulnerable while providing practical guidance on recognizing abuse, understanding trauma responses, and responding with wisdom, compassion, and appropriate referrals.Whether you are a pastor, elder, ministry leader, counselor, or church volunteer, this episode will help equip you to respond faithfully when someone entrusts you with one of the most difficult conversations of their life.In This Episode Why pastors are often the first person a survivor tells  The difference between marital conflict and abuse  Understanding coercive control  The four trauma responses: Fight, Flight, Freeze, and Fawn  What Scripture teaches about protecting the vulnerable  Practical first steps every pastor should take after a disclosureScripture Psalm 82:3–4 (NKJV)  Isaiah 1:17 (NKJV)  James 1:27 (NKJV)Connect with I Am What I Am Ministry🌐 https://iamwhatiam.orgFind resources for pastors, churches, survivors, referral pathways, articles, and training opportunities designed to help churches become places of safety, healing, and restoration.Equipping pastors. Strengthening churches. Restoring lives.By the grace of God,I Am What I Am Ministry","thumbnail_url":"https://img.transistorcdn.com/V9LtZw-0mBTyclTKNnt-wRNdQehWSwzomcvduHHXAG0/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:400/h:400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS9jM2Iy/OTQyNTZhNmI3N2U5/NDcxM2YwMDEyOTYw/MjZkNC5wbmc.webp","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_height":300}