{"type":"rich","version":"1.0","provider_name":"Transistor","provider_url":"https://transistor.fm","author_name":"A Mason's Work","title":"Abiding: The Third Option Nobody Teaches You","html":"<iframe width=\"100%\" height=\"180\" frameborder=\"no\" scrolling=\"no\" seamless src=\"https://share.transistor.fm/e/b47655b6\"></iframe>","width":"100%","height":180,"duration":369,"description":"When someone brings you a problem, the obvious exits are fix it or leave them to it. Neither is what Brian is pointing toward this week. The third option is abiding — staying genuinely present with someone while they carry something difficult, without converting that presence into solutions. The Dude abides. It sounds passive. It isn't. Being with someone in their discomfort without trying to make","thumbnail_url":"https://img.transistorcdn.com/0MKwUQPZVqeGzTPM49TdYKYlcgFFnLZO53ZhnhtIa_8/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:400/h:400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS9zaG93/LzQ2MzU0LzE2OTgy/ODQ1MjItYXJ0d29y/ay5qcGc.webp","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_height":300}