{"type":"rich","version":"1.0","provider_name":"Transistor","provider_url":"https://transistor.fm","author_name":"That's So Nourishing","title":"Why Boundaries Feel So Hard: Nervous System Healing, People Pleasing & Self-Trust","html":"","width":"100%","height":180,"duration":2369,"description":"Boundaries tend to get a bad rap. We often associate them with creating distance, conflict, or disconnection, but what if I told you a boundary is actually one of the deepest forms of love, trust, and safety you can offer in a relationship?\nIn this episode, we get into why setting boundaries can be a shock to the nervous system, especially if you grew up being taught to people-please, avoid disappointing others, or abandon your own needs in order to stay connected. We talk about why resentment often points to an unspoken boundary, how people pleasing can keep us disconnected from our own truth, and why setting a boundary from a grounded, regulated place can completely shift how it lands & how it's received.\nIf you’ve ever frozen when trying to say no, felt guilty for needing space, or worried that a boundary would ruin a relationship, this episode is 100% for you.\nIn this episode, we explore:Why boundaries feel like a threat to the nervous system and why that makes complete sense given what so many of us were taughtWhy people pleasing, as kind as it can feel in the moment, can actually be a form of manipulation that disconnects us from real connectionHow resentment and anger are often signals that a boundary was needed earlierWhat it actually means to set a boundary versus making a demand, and why that distinction changes everythingHow to communicate a boundary from a grounded, regulated place so it can actually be receivedWhy boundaries can deepen relationships rather than damage them, and what they reveal about the connections in your life\nThis week, notice where you're doing things you don't actually want to do just to avoid saying no, or where you're staying quiet and hoping someone will just figure out what you need. Choose one boundary to practice, whether it be with yourself, your time, your energy, or someone in your life, and notice what shifts when you actually say it out loud.\nCome find me on Instagram at @ohtheplacesashgoes and let me know how it...","thumbnail_url":"https://img.transistorcdn.com/SxLVM1yU492DVEp7g5vDCDaIIySJdSSUI9wUpqiBW-k/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:400/h:400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS83YzRm/YTQ2N2UzNTA0ZmEy/M2Q5OTAyZmFjZTk1/ODM0Zi5wbmc.webp","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_height":300}