{"type":"rich","version":"1.0","provider_name":"Transistor","provider_url":"https://transistor.fm","author_name":"Do You Feel That? | A Couples Intimacy & Sex Podcast","title":"Watch Me — The Most Intimate Thing Most Couples Have Never Tried","html":"","width":"100%","height":180,"duration":3333,"description":"Scott wants to try mutual masturbation. Brittney is hesitant. Neither of them has done it yet and rather than pretend otherwise, they decided to make that honesty the episode.\nIn Episode 46, Scott and Brittney tackle one of the most commonly cited intimate experiences couples are curious about and one of the least acted upon. Scott represents the eager partner — genuinely excited by what the research says this experience offers, and honest about why he wants it. Brittney represents the hesitant partner — intellectually interested in the science, personally uncertain about the specific vulnerability it requires, and honest about what she'd need before it felt right.\nTogether they cover what mutual masturbation actually is, what watching your partner pleasure themselves teaches you that nothing else does, why the vulnerability is both the most uncomfortable and most intimate part, and the specific dynamic between an eager partner and a hesitant one — what both sides need to hear, and what both sides tend to get wrong.\nFor couples who are both ready: a complete practical framework for doing it for the first time. For couples who aren't aligned yet: language for the conversation that actually moves things forward.\nIn this episode:\nWhat mutual masturbation actually is and what it offers that partnered sex doesn't automatically provide\nWhy it's on so many couples' lists and why it stays there\nWhat watching your partner pleasure themselves teaches you that nothing else does\nThe vulnerability component — why being witnessed is both the most uncomfortable and most intimate part\nScott's honest take: why the research has him genuinely excited\nBrittney's honest take: the specific self-consciousness and what she'd need before this felt right\nThe eager partner vs. hesitant partner dynamic — what both sides get wrong and what actually helps\nWhat the hesitant partner's \"not yet\" actually means and why it's not a no\nFive steps from curious to actually doing it — for couples who...","thumbnail_url":"https://img.transistorcdn.com/Nobw__SsL1MHaP84O1DHUYOUl24hhbPPKmJ36fCapGw/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:400/h:400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS84MGQ4/ZmYxZjRjMDkxMDhk/NTliNzU5OTZhOGMz/ZDhmZC5wbmc.webp","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_height":300}