{"type":"rich","version":"1.0","provider_name":"Transistor","provider_url":"https://transistor.fm","author_name":"Art of Spousing","title":"Hummingbirds, Vultures, and the Mindset That Can Change Your Marriage","html":"","width":"100%","height":180,"duration":1633,"description":"What if the greatest influence on your marriage isn’t your circumstances, your history, or even your differences—but your mindset?\nIn this relaunch episode of The Art of Spousing, James and Lisa return with a powerful conversation about growth mindset vs. fixed mindset in marriage. Using the vivid illustration of hummingbirds and vultures, they explore how two people can walk through the same season yet experience it completely differently—based solely on what they’re looking for.\nYou’ll hear honest stories, biblical wisdom, and practical tools that help couples move from “this is just how we are” to “God is still at work here.” This episode also marks the launch of The Art of Spousing Collective, a new online community designed to help couples grow consistently all year long.\n\nIf you want this year to be marked by greater connection, emotional maturity, and shared growth, this conversation sets the foundation.\nWhat You’ll Learn / Key Takeaways\nWhy how you think determines how you relate in marriage\nThe difference between growth mindset and fixed mindset—and how each quietly shapes your relationship\nHow the hummingbird vs. vulture illustration reveals what you’re training yourself to see\nWhy many couples stop growing even when growth is still possible\nHow “not yet” language creates momentum instead of discouragement\nWhy small, consistent decisions matter more than big emotional moments\nHow curiosity fuels intimacy—and assumptions create distance\nThe biblical foundation for mindset renewal (Romans 12:2)\nWhy marriage requires growing with multiple versions of your spouse over time\nHow a growth mindset honors God, the covenant, and the person you promised your life to\nLinks & Resources:\nJoin The Art of Spousing Collective (Founding Members Open):\n👉 https://aos-collective.com\nEmail Us:\n👉 hello@artofspousing.com\nConnect With Us:\nInstagram: @artofspousing\nWebsite: www.artofspousing.com\nSubscribe & Review: If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe and leave a...","thumbnail_url":"https://img.transistorcdn.com/Vgv9FhcQjXcSe82B5pDPOQiAkldwb-jm4UJnjsTZ07A/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:400/h:400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS80YThk/OTU5YmMyMzk3YmIy/YWRjMDZiMzVmZDZm/ZmU1OS5wbmc.webp","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_height":300}