{"type":"rich","version":"1.0","provider_name":"Transistor","provider_url":"https://transistor.fm","author_name":"Dad Starting Over","title":"Chat LIVE with Ralph & Laura How: Attachment, Monogamy & Why Nobody Grows Up Anymore","html":"","width":"100%","height":180,"duration":3501,"description":"A full hour LIVE with therapist and author Laura How — one of the very few women publicly saying what she says about sexless marriages. So few, in fact, that the wives in her own village have stopped saying hello.\nWe covered a lot of ground: whether you should stay when the in-love feelings fade, why \"I fell out of love\" is usually an ego defense, what attachment dysfunction actually is (hint: it's arrested development, and it's everywhere), the rise of \"the ick,\" why your algorithm has convinced you all women are avoidant, and the myth that a wife who isn't intimate with you must be getting it somewhere else.\nThen I saved the hot-button for last. I told Laura about the men who feel forgotten after kids arrive — husbands demoted to co-parent and roommate for 18 years — and about the reaction that message always gets online: \"You big baby. Change more diapers, then maybe I'll have energy for you.\" I asked for her honest take.\nHer answer: \"I reject it entirely. I call BS.\" What follows — on staying lovers after kids, the \"devouring mother,\" what your children actually feel when mom and dad are okay, and why a woman keeping her sexuality alive is something she does for HERSELF — is the strongest ten minutes on this topic I've had on this channel. \n👩 Find Laura: https://laurahow.com — and search \"Laura How\" on YouTube and Facebook. She's building her audience there, and if this hour did something for you, subscribing to her is how you say thanks.\n\n🔴 FREE: Fix Your Dead Bedroom (Instant PDF Download)\nhttps://go.helpformen.com/tl/545\n🔴 FREE COURSE: The Dead Bedroom Fix Course\nhttps://deadbedroomfixcourse.com\n🔴 NEW!: The Dead Bedroom Fix App\nhttps://studio.com/ralph/deadbedroomfix?c=gNiRtwcj\n🔴 TAKE THE QUIZ: What's your REBUILD score?\nhttps://helpformen.com/insights/rebuild-score\n🟢 JOIN THE BROTHERHOOD (Private Community for Men)\nhttps://helpformen.com/join","thumbnail_url":"https://img.transistorcdn.com/YiHzLsFwQs1l2EQbUXztvHyWFsPsmiGIGpfVw4pLN6o/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:400/h:400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS84ODQ0/ODVhZDc4YzQ3OGQ4/MmQ3ZWNmOTBjZWVi/ZDVmZC5wbmc.webp","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_height":300}