{"type":"rich","version":"1.0","provider_name":"Transistor","provider_url":"https://transistor.fm","author_name":"It’s All Your Fault: High Conflict People","title":"The High-Conflict Borderline Personality: The 5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life (Part 3)","html":"<iframe width=\"100%\" height=\"180\" frameborder=\"no\" scrolling=\"no\" seamless src=\"https://share.transistor.fm/e/c9d81ce2\"></iframe>","width":"100%","height":180,"duration":2147,"description":"The Love You Hate You Types - High Conflict Borderline Personalities\nIn this episode of \"It's All Your Fault,\" Bill Eddy and Megan Hunter explore the world of high conflict borderline personality types, also known as the \"Love You Hate You\" types. They provide insights and strategies for dealing with these challenging individuals who can quickly turn from charming to rage-filled.\nUnderstanding the High Conflict Borderline Personality\nBill and Megan discuss the defining characteristics of individuals with high conflict borderline personality, including their struggle with emotional regulation and tendency to see people in all-or-nothing terms. They note that while not all individuals with borderline personality disorder have a high conflict personality, more than half of them do, making it a significant concern in interpersonal relationships.\nNavigating Relationships and Key Takeaways\nThe hosts provide examples of how high conflict borderline personalities may behave in various settings and discuss the concept of \"splitting\" and the propensity for lying and seeking revenge. They offer key takeaways, such as setting boundaries and the possibility of treatment and recovery for those affected.\nQuestions we answer in this episode:\nWhat are the defining characteristics of high conflict borderline personalities?\nHow prevalent is borderline personality disorder, and what percentage also have a high conflict personality?\nWhy do high conflict borderline personalities often engage in lying and seeking revenge?\nKey Takeaways:\nHigh conflict borderline personalities often struggle with emotional regulation and see people in all-or-nothing terms.\nLying and seeking revenge are common behaviors stemming from a fear of abandonment.\nTreatment and recovery are possible for individuals with high conflict borderline personality disorder.\nThis episode provides valuable information and insights for anyone dealing with a high conflict borderline personality in their life, offering...","thumbnail_url":"https://img.transistorcdn.com/mMyRt1KE9ifhcy6s5OCZZIHSa3HFTTLMyzXMa0kp8z4/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:400/h:400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS9zaG93/LzMzMTkxLzE2NjA0/MTU5MjAtYXJ0d29y/ay5qcGc.webp","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_height":300}