{"type":"rich","version":"1.0","provider_name":"Transistor","provider_url":"https://transistor.fm","author_name":"Man On FIRE Podcast with David Mehler","title":"The Great Forgetting","html":"","width":"100%","height":180,"duration":1108,"description":"\"This isn't about fixing you. It's about remembering who you are and rising as a man that you were born to be.\" ~ David Mehler, Host and Man On FIRE Founder  00:00:37 – Why Men Feel Lost or Like Imposters\"How many men actually feel like a fraud, an imposter or a liar… feeling like they didn't access their potential, feeling like they've let other people down looking at a man in the mirror and… not liking who they're seeing.\" It doesn’t have to be this way anymore!00:01:36 – The Broken Model Handed to Men\"We were told, go to school… get the good grades… get the good job… And what a lie. What a farce. What B.S.\"00:02:34 – The Inner Critical Voice In the Man On FIRE world, the voice that comes from the over-critical mind, we call it the pirates… “That voice has one agenda and one job only. And it is to bring you down.\"00:04:17 – Parental Influence & Early Programming\"For many of us, sadly, it came from our parents… rather than building you up, was tearing you down.\"00:06:35 – Power of Programming & The Forgetting\"That programming is so hard to get to the other side of … [it] keeps reminding you that you're not good enough.\"\"So what happens to all of us is that we end up feeling lost. We end up feeling like the fraud… like imposters. And we go into what I call the Forgetting….\"00:07:38 – How We Get Stuck Despite Efforts to Change\"And no matter how many cool books you read or you go to seminar here, and it temporarily cracks you open and boom. You go back to [your old] programming. You go back into the Forgetting.\"00:08:55 – The Call to Remember Who You Are\"We forgot to dream big. We forgot to have a grand vision for our life. We forgot that we were built for more… We go into the Forgetting, and it's time to remember. It's time to wake up. It's time to rise.\"00:09:20 – David’s Personal Story: School, Programming, and Self-WorthDavid shares some of the deep programming that was running him, having him believe he wasn’t good enough or smart enough… until he was able to...","thumbnail_url":"https://img.transistorcdn.com/-axHAVFvTNaCnsDlPntj04gU7moGGdBfk139FJPe3UI/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:400/h:400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS9mNjAx/MWQxYmFiNDdiYzhh/ZTFjZTg3ZDY4MDI2/NjE0Ni5wbmc.webp","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_height":300}