{"type":"rich","version":"1.0","provider_name":"Transistor","provider_url":"https://transistor.fm","author_name":"Estranged & Rearranged","title":"They Cut You Off... Then Told Everyone You Were the Problem","html":"","width":"100%","height":180,"duration":2521,"description":"What happens when your adult child goes no contact, but continues telling their version of the family story?\nFor many estranged parents, losing the relationship is only the beginning. Suddenly relatives, friends, grandchildren, and even strangers online may be hearing a version of events that you believe is exaggerated, incomplete, twisted, or simply untrue.\nAnd you're left with an impossible question:\nDo you defend yourself or stay silent?\nIn this episode of Estranged & Rearranged, Candi Morris gets deeply personal about reputation, smear campaigns, family narratives, social media, and the painful reality of being cast as the villain in a story you may not even be allowed to respond to.\nCandi explores:\n• What happens when one person controls the family narrative\n• Why no contact can leave estranged parents unable to tell their side\n• How labels like \"toxic,\" \"narcissistic,\" and \"abusive\" can reshape how an entire family views someone\n• What grandchildren may be told about an estranged grandparent\n• When defending yourself can actually make the situation worse\n• How social media can amplify accusations and outrage\n• The difference between accountability and accepting accusations you believe are false\n• When serious claims may require documentation or professional help\n• How to stop living as though your character is constantly on trial\nCandi also opens up about something happening in her own life: people publicly discussing her past and making claims about her character.\nShe shares the struggle between wanting to defend herself and recognizing that answering every accusation can give the people attacking you even more control over your time, attention, and peace.\nYou can own what you truly did wrong without accepting responsibility for things you did not do.\nSomeone else may control the story they tell about you.\nThey do not get to decide who you become.\nIf you're an estranged parent or grandparent struggling with judgment, rumors, accusations, or feeling like...","thumbnail_url":"https://img.transistorcdn.com/HIDPLIcJqNH__Dbkv9Jy2Un84QNkyTcZqx83-Fr4ZmY/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:400/h:400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS9mNWQ3/MzE1ZWFmZDc2ZWM1/NmQ3MGYyMDU4YmVh/ZTk3My5qcGc.webp","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_height":300}