{"type":"rich","version":"1.0","provider_name":"Transistor","provider_url":"https://transistor.fm","author_name":"Startup Therapy","title":"Which Version of Me is Coming to Dinner Tonight","html":"","width":"100%","height":180,"duration":2630,"description":"Ever wonder which “version of you” should show up to dinner, a board meeting, or a team update? This episode breaks down why founders feel like they’re constantly auditioning different personas—optimistic forecaster, calm leader, guarded partner—because the honest answer (“I don’t know” or “we’re struggling”) can carry real consequences with investors, employees, customers, friends, and family. The conversation explores the difference between confidence about an uncertain future versus crossing into deception, the emotional burn rate founders pay to stay composed, and how compartmentalization becomes muscle memory—even through illness, grief, or shutdowns. They highlight how group dynamics push founders to match the room’s tone, and why having one place to take the mask off—like a trusted founder group—can be essential to staying sane and healthy.\n03:27 First Pitch Meeting Lesson\n04:33 Choosing What To Share\n07:26 Buckets Of Consequence\n15:54 Gray Area Of Belief\n19:07 Founder Pressure Cooker\n20:50 Founder Groups And Leaks\n27:55 Working Through Pain\n30:52 Joy Versus Consequence\n36:23 Honesty Sets The Tone\n42:06 You’re Not Alone\nResources:\nStartup Therapy Podcast\nhttps://www.startups.com/community/startup-therapy\nWebsite\nhttps://www.startups.com/begin\nLinkedIn\nhttps://www.linkedin.com/company/startups-co/\nJoin our Network of Top Founders\nWil Schroter\nhttps://www.linkedin.com/in/wilschroter/\nRyan Rutan\nhttps://www.linkedin.com/in/ryan-rutan/","thumbnail_url":"https://img.transistorcdn.com/9y9tyZ-ziui558cT6TMlYq3DaFTS8yyOuY7HekWBCbM/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:400/h:400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS9zaG93/LzYzOTYvMTU3NjI4/MDk2MS1hcnR3b3Jr/LmpwZw.webp","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_height":300}