{"type":"rich","version":"1.0","provider_name":"Transistor","provider_url":"https://transistor.fm","author_name":"The Good Divorce® Show","title":"Finding Love After Divorce: How to Fix Your \"Picker\" and Date Smarter with Bela Gandhi","html":"","width":"100%","height":180,"duration":2450,"description":"Have you been wondering if love is still possible after divorce — and how to avoid repeating the same patterns? In this episode, Karen sits down with Bela Gandhi, renowned dating and relationship expert and founder of the Smart Dating Academy, to talk about how to approach dating after divorce with intention, self-awareness, and real strategy.Bela shares why most people's \"people pickers\" are broken — and why that's not your fault. She breaks down the three root causes (evolution, family of origin, and cultural messaging), explains why butterflies and grand gestures are actually red flags in disguise, and walks us through the proven system that has produced zero divorces among Smart Dating Academy clients in 15 years.In this episode you'll hear about:Why readiness to date is about the work you've done, not the time that's passedThe dating funnel, red flags, and why 15 dates before exclusivity is the ruleWhen and how to introduce a new partner to your childrenThe brain chemistry of falling in love — and why pacing protects youWhat to expect working with the Smart Dating AcademyConnect with Bella Gandhi:Podcast: Smart Dating Academy PodcastWebsite: smartdatingacademy.comInstagram: @SmartDatingAcademy 📚 If you're enjoying the podcast, be sure to grab Karen's new book: The Good Divorce: How to End Your Marriage Without Ending Your Family","thumbnail_url":"https://img.transistorcdn.com/qRMYx_ASvhL9O9Dr6sojIwz-KNAWQmuY9p0EaKLyfVk/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:400/h:400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS84MjQz/ZmYyYzM2NDk5NDk3/MWUzMGVlMzFmMTZj/M2ZiMS5qcGc.webp","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_height":300}