{"type":"rich","version":"1.0","provider_name":"Transistor","provider_url":"https://transistor.fm","author_name":"Lonely at the Top","title":"Dealing with Getting Doxed and the Price of Visibility with Tonya Kubo","html":"","width":"100%","height":180,"duration":3461,"description":"Tonya Kubo is an online community strategist and host of the Find Your Freaks podcast, with 19 years of experience building, managing, and repairing online communities. From newsroom management to leading digital communities, she has seen firsthand the invisible labor involved in bringing people together online, navigating public criticism, and protecting the people behind the screen. Her work has taught her that leadership and visibility come with real personal costs, even when you're good at what you do.\nThis episode of Lonely at the Top explores the emotional toll of managing online communities, and the complicated relationship between success, visibility, and personal boundaries. Tonya opens up about losing friendships as a woman in leadership, the burnout that comes from carrying other people's emotions during a crisis, and the lasting consequences of putting your family online before fully understanding how that visibility might affect them. \nEpisode Highlights\nWhy Tonya believes success isn't a limited pie, and how competition and difficult experiences with other women in leadership have affected her friendships and professional relationships\nThe emotional labor and burnout of online community management, including the pressure of navigating public criticism, organizational crises, and other people's feelings\nThe hidden costs of being visible online, from protecting your family's privacy in the age of AI to learning when to set boundaries, choose what you share, and let someone else take the lead\nConnect with Tonya Kubo\nWebsite: TonyaKubo.com\nPodcast: Find Your Freaks\nFacebook Group: The Secret to Thriving in Online Communities\nLinkedIn: Tonya Kubo\nInstagram: @tonyakubo\n\n⭐ Support this podcast ⭐\n\nHave thoughts on this episode or the overall show?\nEmail podcast@rachelalexandria.com\n(No AI guest pitches please)\n\nWant your own breakthrough?\nDiscounted Magic Breakthrough session for listeners: https://rachelalexandria.as.me/magicbreakthrough100","thumbnail_url":"https://img.transistorcdn.com/AWb6cTNX_EC5EtuSFgIW2n-AHJMBK7iGs2MbRUvK6EY/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:400/h:400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS9jMzA3/MjU5NGYxMTFjOGU0/NWE2NDU5MjRkOGJk/YmExYi5qcGc.webp","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_height":300}