{"type":"rich","version":"1.0","provider_name":"Transistor","provider_url":"https://transistor.fm","author_name":"Mylo and Friends: The Podcast","title":"Nobody Warns You About the Owner's Seat | Ep 53 with Kyle Draper","html":"<iframe width=\"100%\" height=\"180\" frameborder=\"no\" scrolling=\"no\" seamless src=\"https://share.transistor.fm/e/e19345bb\"></iframe>","width":"100%","height":180,"duration":2084,"description":"Honey, the couch has never been this dangerous.\n\nMylo sits down with Kyle Draper, the man behind the Rethink Everything book series, founder of Higher Culture, and the only person who could survive being told, on day one, that Mylo wanted to nestle in the crook of his Christian bosom. Ten years of friendship, one green pair of pants, zero filter.\n\nKyle admits he used to need a stage the way some people need coffee, and what happened when he stopped booking them. Mylo explains why he does not accept apologies, why the second \"I'm sorry\" is just a pattern with better manners, and what a little sip of notoriety water does to a person. There is a Kandi Burruss comparison that Kyle is absolutely taking home to his wife.\n\nAlso pictured: Two grown men on a couch, agreeing that most people cannot handle a single uncomfortable conversation without running back to their comfort zone.\n\nChapters: \n0:00 Cold open: \"Let me not cancel myself\"\n0:45 Ten years, one couch, zero secrets\n3:00 The introduction Kyle had to explain to his 11-year-old\n4:10 Green pants, saddle shoes and the bosom heard round Southlake\n5:30 \"My type of Christian\" vs. the other kind\n6:20 The bag from the fag and Deweaza's heterosexual hug\n8:00 Rethink Everything, 40 authors and the Kandi Burruss of it all\n11:20 Nobody actually knows what a podcast is supposed to be\n12:40 The year that broke the brokerage owner\n13:40 A little sip of notoriety water\n14:30 \"You finally don't care\": the approval seeking detox\n15:50 You're enough (unless you're talking to a judge or the IRS)\n17:10 Kyle needed the stage. Then he didn't.\n18:30 MortgageCon and the moment Mylo clocked the shift\n19:40 A nibble, not a bite: friendship and feedback\n20:50 Why Mylo does not accept apologies\n23:45 Emotional intelligence is the whole problem\n25:40 Maya Angelou was right the first time\n26:10 Five levels of friendship and the bullseye\n26:45 The people who stop rooting for you when you become the owner\n27:20 Why the brokerage is named...","thumbnail_url":"https://img.transistorcdn.com/t5WTmWndiqvZaSbvfigPxtl1lF1ysExUjWEM5IaDR8w/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:400/h:400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS82NzIy/NzJlOTFkNTQ1NmYx/OTJiZWUzMjA5ZmJl/NzcyMy5qcGc.webp","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_height":300}