{"type":"rich","version":"1.0","provider_name":"Transistor","provider_url":"https://transistor.fm","author_name":"The Thing We Never Talk About","title":"Mary Lattimore — Musician","html":"","width":"100%","height":180,"duration":2764,"description":"In this episode, Tim sits down with Mary Lattimore — classically trained harpist, solo recording artist, and film composer — for a candid conversation about building an unconventional life in music. Mary traces her path from growing up around the harp in Asheville, through years of juggling multiple part-time jobs in Philadelphia, to the Pew Fellowship that gave her the financial breathing room to focus on music full time. She talks openly about her complicated relationship with money: the anxiety that came with her first large sum, the difficulty of saving when income ebbs and flows, and the game-changing decision to hire a business manager who helped her get her finances under control. Mary also shares the story of co-purchasing an apartment in a tiny village in Tuscany, what it felt like to sign those papers, and why owning a little piece of the world somewhere beautiful felt like a dream she barely knew she was allowed to have.\nMary's question for Tim: What's your advice for someone whose money ebbs and flows and who is bad about saving?\nKey Takeaways:\nMary describes herself as both a freelance musician and a small business owner — that distinction matters, since thinking of her work as a business has shaped how she manages income, taxes, and team-building.\nThe Pew Fellowship she received in 2014 was the turning point that allowed her to stop working multiple part-time jobs and focus on music full time, though she recalls that seeing her bank account full for the first time actually triggered anxiety rather than relief.\nHer path out of classical music into her own solo work was gradual and social — friends in Philadelphia asking her to add harp to their records, followed by touring with Thurston Moore, whose mastery of free improvisation pushed her to trust her own musical instincts.\nMary co-purchased an apartment in a village of 200 people in Tuscany — splitting the cost and the schedule with a friend — and describes it as a dream she barely believed was...","thumbnail_url":"https://img.transistorcdn.com/ij30T8S22oW7oq3h35PBmjsaEjzv6wqJJXFR2goCl8k/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:400/h:400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS80MWUw/NTk1NDU5NDIxMTc4/N2RlZDJiNGFhZmUx/MDQ0OS5wbmc.webp","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_height":300}