{"type":"rich","version":"1.0","provider_name":"Transistor","provider_url":"https://transistor.fm","author_name":"Men Talking Mindfulness: Mental, Physical, & Emotional Fitness to Elevate Performance and Resilience for Leaders and Teams Under Pressure!","title":"Why Men Break When the Intimacy Stops: Dr. Celeste Holbrook on the Desire Gap, Purity Culture, and How to Fix It","html":"","width":"100%","height":180,"duration":3715,"description":"What if the reason intimacy carries so much weight for men is that it’s the only place we’ve been given permission to be fully human?\nDr. Celeste Holbrook is a sexologist with a PhD in health education and thirteen years of practice working with couples. Her book, Missionary Position: A Slightly Irreverent Guide to Sex After Purity Culture, helps people rebuild their relationship with their own bodies after being taught to fear them. In this episode, she joins Jon and Will for one of the most direct conversations we’ve had about why men struggle to talk about intimacy, what purity culture actually did to boys, why rejection lands as a rejection of self, and what changes when men have more than one place to experience their own emotions.\nIN THIS EPISODE:\n1.  How purity culture shaped men differently than women — and what it taught boys about their own bodies\n2.  Why intimacy becomes the only sanctioned outlet for male emotion — and the cost of that\n3.  The desire gap: why every couple has one, and how to negotiate it without resentment\n4.  Why a no can land as a rejection of self, and the work required on both sides\n5.  Focus on what you want to feel, not what you want to do — the reframe that changes everything\nMore about Dr. Celeste Holbrook:\n1.  Website: https://www.drcelesteholbrook.com\n2.  Book: Missionary Position: A Slightly Irreverent Guide to Sex after Purity Culture - available on Amazon and her website. Don't forget to check out her book club! ","thumbnail_url":"https://img.transistorcdn.com/8dlNQ3XAGyMZvzf_hsRKLoj7CY2F7MHWIEuiq4vDfzk/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:400/h:400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS9lODQ4/YTUzNGQ5NWEzNWU5/MTcxOWVkYmQwNTI3/MWMyMi5qcGVn.webp","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_height":300}