{"type":"rich","version":"1.0","provider_name":"Transistor","provider_url":"https://transistor.fm","author_name":"Dad Starting Over","title":"Your Avoidant Wife Had an Affair (Here’s Why)","html":"","width":"100%","height":180,"duration":692,"description":"For an anxious guy, nothing is more confusing than discovering that your avoidant, seemingly asexual wife was having an affair.\nNo touching.\n No sex.\n Years of rejection.\nAnd yet… she was sleeping with someone else.\nI break down a real message from a man in a long-term dead bedroom who discovered his dismissive-avoidant wife had been cheating for years. We dig into anxious vs. avoidant attachment, why this dynamic is so common, and why the affair usually has nothing to do with you lacking masculinity, confidence, or sexual value.\nIf you’ve ever wondered:\n“How could she want sex with him but not me?”\n“What does an avoidant partner actually want?”\n“Why counseling never seems to work with avoidant spouses?”\n“Was I just too needy or anxious?”\n…this video will make things click.\nWe’ll also talk about:\nWhy “new” always beats “safe”\nWhy anxious partners are usually the only ones willing to do the work\nWhy avoidant people struggle in long-term monogamy\nAnd why this pattern tends to repeat itself again and again\nIf you’re dealing with a dead bedroom, infidelity, or the anxious–avoidant trap, you’re not alone.\n👉 Join the Brotherhood: https://helpformen.com/join\nPrivate forums, live Zoom calls, all my books, over 1,400 hours of member-only audio, and real conversations with men who’ve been there.","thumbnail_url":"https://img.transistorcdn.com/YiHzLsFwQs1l2EQbUXztvHyWFsPsmiGIGpfVw4pLN6o/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:400/h:400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS84ODQ0/ODVhZDc4YzQ3OGQ4/MmQ3ZWNmOTBjZWVi/ZDVmZC5wbmc.webp","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_height":300}