{"type":"rich","version":"1.0","provider_name":"Transistor","provider_url":"https://transistor.fm","author_name":"We Think We Know","title":"The Dating Coach: You’re Probably Dating Wrong!","html":"","width":"100%","height":180,"duration":3472,"description":"Dating doesn't have to be this hard; we've just been doing it wrong, and it's costing us years. How to stop being single, date successfully, and find the person who's actually right for you. We cover dating rules, red flags, confidence, ghosting, and what the apps are doing to us.\n\nSera Bozza went from architect to dating columnist to evidence-based dating coach, and has spent hundreds of hours sitting with men and women stuck in the same loops. We get into why ghosting hurts more than it used to, why men and women swipe in opposite ways, the profile mistake that attracts exactly the wrong person, and why \"I'm just picky\" is usually something else entirely.\nPlus: her script for ending things without ghosting, the one word that makes people argue back, and why the dopamine you burn before a date decides how it goes.\n\nFollow Sera: @serabozza\nIn this episode, she explains:\n■ Why Dating Feels So Harsh Now: How having more platforms to follow someone across makes ghosting feel bigger, and why people treat matches differently from someone they’d meet in person.\n■ Men, Women and the Apps: How the two sexes tend to use dating apps differently, why that creates a mismatch, and what each side gets wrong about the other.\n■ Ballsy Like Bozza: Why confidence comes from getting “reps” in real life, her tips for approaching someone you like, and why the win is simply that you tried.\n■ Better Profiles and Better Dates: Why a highlight reel of once-in-a-lifetime photos doesn’t help, why curiosity beats scripted questions, and why activity dates beat the interview-style drink.\n■ Red Flags and Reality Checks: Her quick-fire verdicts, why picky “types” are often about avoidance, and how a kind, honest “no thanks” can turn a date into a friend.\n■ Get Out of the Echo Chamber: Why she asks clients to reset their feeds and dopamine before a date, and why many people absorb dating horror stories that never happened to them.\n00:00 Intro\n 01:36 From Architect to Dating Coach\n 02:30 Why...","thumbnail_url":"https://img.transistorcdn.com/fqgwq7RLVs9N5Y-RdApZsEWFGm9kndYxvGWCLGKGuqA/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:400/h:400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS82MmRl/ZjQ3MzAxZDcyMDc0/MWY3ZjFkN2I0ZWEy/NDY1My5wbmc.webp","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_height":300}