{"type":"rich","version":"1.0","provider_name":"Transistor","provider_url":"https://transistor.fm","author_name":"Unstoppable You","title":"Stop Waiting to Be Chosen: Why High Achievers Still Question Their Worth","html":"","width":"100%","height":180,"duration":2203,"description":"Have you ever looked at someone else's life and quietly decided they must have something you don't?\nIn this episode of Unstoppable You, I sit down with Jennifer \"Jiff\" Chapman, Founder of Just Jiff LLC. With over 11,000 people following her on LinkedIn, I'll admit I did exactly what I'm about to warn you about. I compared myself to her. Then she told me that despite everything she's built, she still wrestles with the belief that she might not be chosen.\n9 months after the best year of her sales career at 34, the same age her mother was when she passed away, Jiff had a stroke which led to a life-defining change. We talked about the invisible backpack of grief she didn't know she was carrying, the job interview that ended the second she said the word \"stroke\" out loud, and the question her coach asked that has given her a new perspective on life.\nThis episode is for anyone who has ever stood outside someone else's life staring at their success while standing inside their own, staring at everything they haven't done yet.\n\nIn this episode, you'll learn:\nWhy turning achievement into proof of your worth quietly decides which risks you're willing to take\nHow grief can stay frozen in the body for a full year, even after you think you've already faced it\nWhy \"why not me\" can do more for you than \"why me\" ever will \nHighlights:\n(00:00) Introducing Jennifer \"Jiff\" Chapman and the belief that she might not be chosen\n(03:05) What having it all means to Jiff now versus in her 20s and 30s\n(05:12) Losing her mom at 11 and turning achievement into proof she was good enough\n(08:32) The best year of her sales career, and realizing she was the same age her mom was when she died\n(10:43) Jiff’s brain in \"protective mode\" after the stroke\n(14:24) The interview that ended the moment she said the word \"stroke\" out loud\n(17:01) Her coach's reframe that changed everything: \"Why not me?\"\n(21:31) \"Whatever's in your way is the way through\"\n(25:04) Why so many women wait to be chosen instead...","thumbnail_url":"https://img.transistorcdn.com/kOSK1Z4APj5njOw3LS3oD8QNDCu3VGrRX_urow2H_zI/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:400/h:400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS9mM2Vj/MzNiMDMzZDIxMTdk/ZTNjMTcwMGNmNDg4/MGFhOC5wbmc.webp","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_height":300}