{"type":"rich","version":"1.0","provider_name":"Transistor","provider_url":"https://transistor.fm","author_name":"The Heart of Entrepreneurship","title":"The Parts You Reject Are Blocking Your Potential","html":"","width":"100%","height":180,"duration":2898,"description":"Why You Resist Feeling Bad (And How It Holds You Back as a Founder)✅ Are you bootstrapping? You need this:https://bootstrappedgiants.com/subscribe✅ Master the Inner Game of Entrepreneurship here:https://www.davekashen.com/newsletter-sign-up00:00 – Intro + today's topic: “shadows” and the parts we deny 01:30 – Jesse’s shadow: the victim 03:00 – Why founders avoid “weak” emotions like sadness, shame, helplessness 05:00 – What’s the point of all this inner work? (Andrew challenges the premise) 06:30 – Peace vs. success: what are founders really after? 08:00 – Resistance is what drains you, not action 09:30 – Integration vs. high: wholeness as the goal 11:30 – “If you can’t be happy now, you won’t be happy then” 12:30 – The cost of repressing emotion: risk aversion, stuckness 15:00 – “Who would I be if I weren’t afraid to fail?” 17:00 – The loser shadow: Dave’s story 18:30 – How founders self-limit by avoiding identity threats 21:00 – What is a shadow? (The theory) 23:00 – Projection, judgment, and your hidden parts 25:00 – Accepting reality vs. resignation 27:00 – Reality distortion field vs. future vision 29:00 – Why fear of being a fraud stops growth 30:30 – How acceptance leads to effective action 33:00 – The power of admitting doubt 34:30 – Jesse’s pitch vs. Andrew’s pitch: truth builds trust 36:00 – Authenticity, vulnerability, and leadership 37:00 – Self-awareness is a prerequisite to shadow work 38:00 – Self-discovery vs. self-improvement 40:00 – How to find your shadow: what irritates you in others? 42:00 – Andrew’s trigger: negativity and complaining 44:00 – What to do with your shadow (practical exercises) 46:00 – Persona party, exaggeration, and expression 48:00 – Final thoughts and experiment: 5 daily complaintsWhat You’ll Learn:In this episode, Jesse, Dave, and Andrew dive deep into the uncomfortable but transformative topic of shadow work—the parts of ourselves we deny, repress, or judge.Through personal stories, coaching insights, and practical tools,...","thumbnail_url":"https://img.transistorcdn.com/D3q8uoAKBP9yDvAXKSX05IFBpfUTTR8eiffeZmJ_DWk/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:400/h:400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS9iNzcz/NGQxYmUwMmU2ZWQx/YjgxZTVmNGEwYTJi/NjMzOS5wbmc.webp","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_height":300}