{"type":"rich","version":"1.0","provider_name":"Transistor","provider_url":"https://transistor.fm","author_name":"Unashamed Unafraid","title":"EP 231: Live Unashamed - The \"Noble Lie\"","html":"","width":"100%","height":180,"duration":1298,"description":"In this episode of Unashamed Unafraid, Sam, Chris, Joshua, and Austin discuss sexual addiction recovery and why healing requires honesty, transparency, and coming unto Christ rather than hiding behind a so-called “noble lie” that hiding the truth somehow protects others. They praise Austin’s courage for disclosing a relapse after seven months and explore how lying creates unmanageable pain, escalates into a destructive web, and erodes trust in marriage by forcing a spouse to live in an untrue reality.  They emphasize that sobriety without transparency becomes “white knuckling,” recommend reaching out to brotherhood first after relapse to manage shame and take accountability without excuses, and note rare cases where disclosure may require professional guidance. They challenge listeners to identify where they don’t feel safe and take responsibility for creating safety rather than continuing to lie.\nMake a donation and become an Outsider!\nFollow us on social media! Instagram, Facebook & TikTok\nSubscribe to our YouTube\nCheck out our recommended resources\nWant to rep the message? Shop our MERCH!  \nFor more inspiration, read our blog\nDo you have a story you are willing to share? Send us an email! contact@unashamedunafraid.com\nTimestamps:\n00:43 Podcast Welcome and Banter\n01:21 Relapse Courage and Noble Lie\n02:08 VeggieTales and Pinocchio Lies\n04:39 Why Lying Feels Safe But Isn't\n05:50 Transparency Builds Recovery\n06:32 Spouse Reality and Betrayal\n10:31 Accountability and Brotherhood\n12:34 Disclosure Safety and Coaching\n14:22 Shame Versus Shaming Quote\n16:35 Create Safety and Challenge\n18:21 Call to Action and Wrap Up","thumbnail_url":"https://img.transistorcdn.com/xBq0be7ZF-X6TyZj47iS9o16I19puDtXlnLtw6sBN1s/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:400/h:400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS9zaG93/Lzk5NTgvMTcwNTEy/MjA3Ny1hcnR3b3Jr/LmpwZw.webp","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_height":300}