{"type":"rich","version":"1.0","provider_name":"Transistor","provider_url":"https://transistor.fm","author_name":"Brad Carr Podcast","title":"How to Identify a Social Predator (The 4 Phases) - Dr Peter Salerno","html":"<iframe width=\"100%\" height=\"180\" frameborder=\"no\" scrolling=\"no\" seamless src=\"https://share.transistor.fm/e/f868eaec\"></iframe>","width":"100%","height":180,"duration":4806,"description":"Psychological insights and actionable strategies direct to your inbox: https://bradcarr.transistor.fm/newsletter\n00:00 In This Episode\n00:32 Introducing Dr. Peter Salerno\n00:44 Predatory Relationships: The Most Common Patterns\n02:40 Why You Are Targeted by a Predator\n04:59 Who Is Vulnerable to a Social Predator?\n08:11 The Tactics of a Social Predator\n10:07 The Psychological Structure of Predatory Behavior\n13:29 Learn to Use Patterns Not Diagnoses\n16:14 The Lingering Upset Effect\n18:38 Gut Feelings and Predators\n20:40 Questions to Ask Yourself In Relationships\n22:27 Finding Useful Information on Personality Disorders\n-Peter Salerno on Narcissism and Genetics: https://youtu.be/yx-0px-ymtM\n25:40 When to Stop Studying Predators\n26:58 Group Therapy and Recovery\n28:47 Phase 1: Idealization (Trust)\n36:19 How Idealization Ends\n37:45 Phase 2: Devaluation (Control)\n40:04 Intermittent Reinforcement and Gaslighting\n42:18 Identifying Intentional Harm\n46:49 Maintaining Control Over a Target\n48:02 Why We Can't Recognize Devaluation\n49:22 Social Isolation and Immersion Tactics\n51:40 How Devaluation Ends\n52:30 Phase 3: Abandonment (Avoiding Accountability)\n53:13 Shocking the Target\n54:58 Publicly Replacing the Target\n57:28 Tactics of the Abandonment Phase\n58:40 Recycling Tactics of Idealization\n1:01:41 How Abandonment Ends\n1:02:18 How to Disengage\n1:03:04 Phase 4: Post-Relationship Abuse\n1:04:16 Tactics of Post-Relationship Abuse\n1:05:38 Smear Campaigns and Reputational Destruction\n1:08:02 Preparation for Post-Relationship Abuse\n1:10:37 Are Predators In Denial?\n1:12:37 The Most Important Thing to Understand\n1:13:43 Trance and False Intimacy\n1:14:48 Callousness: The Most Important Trait\n1:17:32 find Dr. Peter Salerno online\n1:18:04 Upcoming Project with Dr. Debra Lieberman\n-Previous interview with Peter and Deb: https://youtu.be/fllr7gLgDgE\n1:19:50 Further Recommendations\n-Previous interview with Peter Salerno: https://youtu.be/lt8AC7x34S8\nRESOURCES\nPrevious interview with Peter...","thumbnail_url":"https://img.transistorcdn.com/LwS-rxgRJgsV_zmNrspVoEiUnK0DFgimWiDVS6K0GGE/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:400/h:400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS9iYjZm/MmQ1NzVjMzQ0MGVl/YmFiNjczYWNhYzIw/MDUxYi5qcGc.webp","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_height":300}