{"type":"rich","version":"1.0","provider_name":"Transistor","provider_url":"https://transistor.fm","author_name":"Vision & Vows","title":"The One Conversation Every Couple Is Missing","html":"","width":"100%","height":180,"duration":3647,"description":"Marriage communication is a skill, not a personality trait. In this episode of Vision & Vows, Angel and Kayla talk about the one thing that almost took them out.\n\nThey left a steady job, went 100% into Airbnb and short-term rentals, and suddenly found themselves working together 24/7 as husband and wife, boss and employee, business partners and parents. Fourteen years of marriage and a long season of counseling taught them one thing: the walls we build in silence do more damage than any argument.\n\nThis conversation breaks down the two walls that divide almost every marriage, unforgiveness and miscommunication, and the tools that saved them years of headache. Whether you are in business with your spouse or just trying to get through a hard conversation without it going from zero to ten, this one is for you.\n\nWhat we cover\nWhy the enemy targets marriages first, and how division becomes his open door\nNehemiah 4:14 and what it means to fight for your family and your home\nThe wall of unforgiveness: offense, past hurts, and the bricks you stack in silence\nThe wall of miscommunication: assumptions, mind reading, and performing to be loved\nWhy you need a godly, neutral third party, a translator between husband and wife\nWhat you feed your spirit is what comes out of your mouth\nComparison, the highlight reel, and why you can't want someone else's marriage\nIntimacy as the mortar that holds your walls together\nMarriage isn't hard, it's work: the rose garden illustration that reframes everything\nFive tools that changed our marriage\n\"My heart hurts\" — name the pain without throwing it in their face\n\"Put a pin in it\" — stop mid-conversation before it escalates\nBuild a safe place — get curious about why you can't talk about it\nNobody is a mind reader — ask, and be specific about what you need\nIntimacy is the mortar — build the wall around your marriage, not between you\nTimestamps\n00:00 Welcome back to Vision & Vows\n00:31 Quitting the job and going 100% Airbnb\n01:15 Learning to...","thumbnail_url":"https://img.transistorcdn.com/PFHttTZI3r3tonkY-QO2Oy386SYwlRIJyrXRj7J99ic/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:400/h:400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS8xZWMz/ZDA0M2FmNjM2MDky/OGY4OGJmMDk3NmRl/OTA3Yy5wbmc.webp","thumbnail_width":300,"thumbnail_height":300}