The Purple Pawedcast

In today's fascinating episode, Max Carey discusses the world of kink.  Max is a producer and director who created the documentary "tOuch Kink," about the BDSM community and the value it brings to humanity.  Max and I talk about topics as diverse as the philosophy of pain, the wave theory of kink, and how it's always the quiet ones...

REFERENCES:
Official tOuch Kink website:  https://touchkink.com
View tOuch Kink on Kinema:  https://kinema.com/films/touch-kink-vwykek 
Follow Max on LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/toddmaxcarey/
Follow Max on Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/seven_journeys/

  • (00:00) - Opening credits
  • (00:37) - Show opening
  • (01:33) - Introducing Max Carey
  • (03:53) - Thou shalt not be weird
  • (07:16) - The hypocrisy of kink haters
  • (11:23) - Kinky people are more empathic
  • (15:16) - It's not the action, it's how it's done
  • (20:16) - Wave theory of kink
  • (24:47) - Sometimes empathy doesn't serve well
  • (27:51) - The most important word in kink is "no"
  • (31:50) - The best dominatrixes
  • (35:16) - It's not the pain, it's what it makes you feel
  • (41:01) - Submission and masochism
  • (44:41) - Ditching labels - define yourself!
  • (49:31) - Good old-fashioned ignorance
  • (54:46) - Kink is the future
  • (57:36) - The Hero's Journey in "tOuch Kink"
  • (01:03:35) - Finding Max Carey on the internet
  • (01:06:01) - Show closing
  • (01:07:34) - Closing credits
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Creators and Guests

Host
Amethysta Herrick, Ph.D.
Scientist, storyteller, and professional overthinker of all things identity. Also, I happen to be a transgender woman.

What is The Purple Pawedcast?

Welcome to The Purple Pawedcast, where we unpack the complexities of gender, identity, and what it truly means to be human—without the academic jargon (okay, maybe just a little, but only the fun kind).

Curated by Amethysta Herrick. Ph.D., this pod is where science, philosophy, and lived experience collide to challenge assumptions and spark new perspectives. Whether you’re here to explore your own identity, stay informed on the latest research, or just enjoy a deep dive into the human experience, we deliver thoughtful, engaging, and refreshingly honest discussions. No fluff. No gatekeeping. Just real conversations about who we are and how we navigate the world. Dive in, stay curious, and let’s rethink identity together.