Who The F*ck Do You Want to be When You Grow Up?

The person you choose will shape your entire life.
This episode is about dating with intention — protecting your vision, aligning with what you truly want, and having the patience to wait for something real.

In this episode:
  • Protect the Vision – Be intentional about who you talk to, who you take advice from, and who you surround yourself with. Not everyone gets access to your dreams.
  • Know & Own What You Need – Understand your love languages, stop shaming your desires, and get radically honest about what makes you feel safe and loved.
  • Craft Your List (Ego vs. Soul) – Define what you want in a partner from alignment, not validation. Are you proving something… or building something?
  • Don’t Rush the Process – Stop forcing square pegs into round holes. Growth happens in the in-between. The right relationship builds slowly, clearly, and with ease.
This season of being single isn’t a waiting room — it’s preparation.

Protect your standards. Stay aligned. Let it be easy.

Any day could be the beginning of your love story💛


 
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What is Who The F*ck Do You Want to be When You Grow Up??

The podcast that cuts through the fluff to get to the good stuff of all things self-improvement.

Where I share the tools I use, the experiences and realizations I've had from that work,
and have the honest real conversations to keep you accountable to being Who The F*ck You Want to be When You Grow Up