This Full Moon in Aries, Gate 21 asks: where are you gripping for control when what you really need is to step into your authority?
In this episode, I'm joined by Sarah Belpedio—Storywork Studio team member and my new co-host for the Lunar Rites series—for a deep dive into Gate 21, the gate of control, and what it means to release our grip on outcomes while staying grounded in our power.
We explore:
- How Gate 21 shows up for entrepreneurs, visionaries, and anyone trying to control every detail of their work and life
- The difference between ease and easy—and why people pleasing is just another form of control
- Sarah's personal story of surrendering the need to "have her own business" and how that opened doors to effortless, aligned work
- How this eclipse season has been surgery, and this moon is inviting us to shake off what surfaced
- The practice of de-manifestation and working with the waning moon cycle
- Why releasing control doesn't mean abandoning your authority—it means accessing the finesse and precision of the hunter
This conversation weaves together human design, astrology, Daoist wisdom, and embodied practice to help you navigate this lunar portal with clarity and sovereignty.
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Connect with us:
- www.storywork.studio | @storywork.studio
- Daje Aloh [www.thestorydoula.co / @thestorydoula]
- Sarah Belpedio: [www.sarahbelpedio.com / @sarah.belpedio]
Creators and Guests
Host
Daje Aloh
Founder of Storywork Studio
Host
Host
Storywork Studio
An Institute of Visionary Praxis
What is Soft, Earthen Futures?
Soft, Earthen Futures is a podcast about imagining and crafting a more whole world. We explore what it means to stand at the threshold between what has been and what is trying to emerge, tending to that in-between space, listening for what the earth is dreaming through us, and giving those visions form. This show is for wild-hearted creatives, entrepreneurs, and visionaries. Hosted by founder, story doula, and eco-somatic depth guide, Daje Aloh.