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Cold-plunge thoughts.

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In a discussion with my wife last night, I got a really good realization from

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her about how we can have more compassion on people.

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And what she helped me realize is that we all have different strengths and different

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weaknesses, different things that we're good and bad at.

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And by recognizing that

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we personally don't have all the answers we

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can see somebody else's perspective and

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see how they are actually helping us develop and helping us get better so what

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this look like well we were talking about organization and time management and

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things like that and one One of my struggles is time management and organization.

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And my wife is super good at that stuff.

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And she said that it used to annoy her that I wasn't good at that.

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And she now appreciates that I'm good at other things and isn't as concerned

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that I'm not good at that one particular thing, that she is really good.

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And this is key because we see something that is obvious to us.

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And we're like why doesn't everybody do it this way

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and we have to recognize that

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it may be obvious to us but it's amazing to other

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people that's from a a quote from

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Derek Sivers obvious to you amazing to others

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he's got a cool little video about that you should check it out but that idea

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of things are obvious to you but amazing to others is really the truth like

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there are so many things things that you do that you take for granted that are just incredible.

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And you need to share those things with other people because it blesses their

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lives and it can help them.

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And you don't know who you're going to be talking to one day or something you

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say really leaves an impact on their life.

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I've had situations where people have come to me 20 years after an event and

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said, remember when you said that one thing to me that really impacted me?

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I don't remember it at all, but it impacted them. And that's the thing that matters.

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So lean into your strengths, share the things that are obvious to you,

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and don't be afraid of it.