In this Q&A episode of Thriving Kids, Dr. Dave Anderson answers parents’ questions about the intense stress that can come with raising young children. Inspired by his recent conversation with pediatrician Dr. Lauren Hughes, this episode focuses on the early years of parenting: feeding decisions, sleepless nights, emotional overload, relationship strain, and the pressure many parents feel to do everything “right.”
Dr. Dave also explains how parents can recognize when stress is affecting their mood, relationships, or ability to function — and why asking for extra support is not a failure.
He covers:
• Supporting moms and birthing parents around breastfeeding, formula, and feeding pressure
• Creating emotional safety at home
• Navigating sleepless nights and early infant care
• Avoiding comparison around developmental milestones
• Knowing when to seek early intervention or professional guidance
• Staying connected as a family during the early years of parenting
• Practical self-care habits for overwhelmed parents
Key takeaways
• A parent’s mental health matters, especially during the early years when stress and sleep deprivation can be intense.
• Supporting a partner often starts with asking what would actually help, not making them carry the burden of explaining everything.
• Developmental milestones matter, but children grow at different rates, and variation is normal.
• Self-care does not have to be expensive or time-consuming; small changes in sleep, hydration, movement, relationships, or screen use can help parents feel more grounded.
Further reading
What is Thriving Kids?
Parenting can feel overwhelming when kids struggle with anxiety, behavior, school, or big emotions. Thriving Kids is a podcast for parents and caregivers who want clear, honest answers about child and adolescent mental health.
Hosted by Dr. Dave Anderson, a clinical psychologist at the Child Mind Institute, each episode focuses on a common parenting challenge — from tantrums to school struggles — with practical strategies grounded in science.
You’ll hear direct, expert guidance from clinicians who work with kids and families every day.
New episodes every week, with companion newsletters for easy reference.