1 01:00:00,000 --> 01:00:05,875 (upbeat music) 2 01:00:10,125 --> 01:00:11,083 It's all techy stuff, I 3 01:00:11,083 --> 01:00:11,916 tell you all about it. 4 01:00:12,625 --> 01:00:13,541 Because I'm having a cow. 5 01:00:13,791 --> 01:00:15,958 I'm gonna go eat the cow that I just had. 6 01:00:17,458 --> 01:00:18,500 It's a metaphorical cow. 7 01:00:18,708 --> 01:00:19,666 Oh, okay. 8 01:00:20,250 --> 01:00:22,416 So you're metaphorically having the cow, 9 01:00:22,416 --> 01:00:23,916 but you're actually going to eat the cow 10 01:00:23,916 --> 01:00:25,000 the metaphorically had. 11 01:00:25,416 --> 01:00:26,500 Thanks for joining us, guys. 12 01:00:26,916 --> 01:00:27,500 Have a good one. 13 01:00:27,500 --> 01:00:28,916 We told you we'd keep it short this time. 14 01:00:29,708 --> 01:00:30,791 People are like, "Oh, 15 01:00:30,791 --> 01:00:32,250 shoot, put the remote down." 16 01:00:33,000 --> 01:00:33,875 It's been intense. 17 01:00:34,875 --> 01:00:36,500 Emotional in dealing with, you know, 18 01:00:37,291 --> 01:00:38,166 formula novella kind of 19 01:00:38,166 --> 01:00:39,666 stuff all the time, like. 20 01:00:40,458 --> 01:00:41,416 Man up, it's allergies. 21 01:00:41,625 --> 01:00:41,833 Yeah. 22 01:00:42,500 --> 01:00:43,083 I don't know, I guess 23 01:00:43,083 --> 01:00:44,333 when she looked up my nose, 24 01:00:44,333 --> 01:00:45,208 I looked stuffy. 25 01:00:45,833 --> 01:00:46,750 Just come on and vent. 26 01:00:47,958 --> 01:00:48,750 That's gotta be a separate 27 01:00:48,750 --> 01:00:50,416 podcast, that would just be so. 28 01:00:51,375 --> 01:00:52,458 Oh, cathartic. 29 01:00:52,833 --> 01:00:53,458 It's like, really, I 30 01:00:53,458 --> 01:00:54,541 just didn't need that. 31 01:00:55,458 --> 01:00:55,625 Right. 32 01:00:56,500 --> 01:00:58,291 I'll grab a short pour of bourbon. 33 01:00:59,041 --> 01:00:59,791 There's mice in it. 34 01:01:00,000 --> 01:01:01,541 I'll go sit in the backyard for a moment. 35 01:01:01,916 --> 01:01:02,500 Just decom-- 36 01:01:03,041 --> 01:01:04,000 I try to be super 37 01:01:04,000 --> 01:01:05,166 positive, but every now and again, 38 01:01:05,166 --> 01:01:06,125 I just need a moment. 39 01:01:07,208 --> 01:01:09,041 You're probably the most positive person 40 01:01:09,291 --> 01:01:11,041 on a consistent basis that I've ever met. 41 01:01:11,291 --> 01:01:11,875 Really cute. 42 01:01:12,500 --> 01:01:12,833 You're welcome. 43 01:01:13,333 --> 01:01:14,000 All right. 44 01:01:14,208 --> 01:01:14,875 I mean, the only other 45 01:01:14,875 --> 01:01:15,750 people I can think of 46 01:01:15,750 --> 01:01:16,958 are Disney characters. 47 01:01:17,666 --> 01:01:18,750 I'm a teenager, and I told you, 48 01:01:18,750 --> 01:01:19,500 I got a really bad 49 01:01:19,500 --> 01:01:22,000 haircut, and it was bad, people. 50 01:01:22,458 --> 01:01:24,291 Not that hair in the 90s was good anyway. 51 01:01:24,875 --> 01:01:26,791 It would end the world to me. 52 01:01:26,791 --> 01:01:27,000 Yeah. 53 01:01:27,708 --> 01:01:28,500 Just something about 54 01:01:28,500 --> 01:01:29,875 laughter, you know what I mean? 55 01:01:29,875 --> 01:01:31,541 One of two people who can call me that, 56 01:01:31,541 --> 01:01:32,250 just for the record. 57 01:01:33,041 --> 01:01:34,375 Different kind of humor, for sure, 58 01:01:34,375 --> 01:01:35,458 but it's not for everybody. 59 01:01:37,916 --> 01:01:39,666 Taking a deep breath, and 60 01:01:39,666 --> 01:01:42,500 there it is, mystery solved. 61 01:01:42,791 --> 01:01:43,916 Mystery solved, this is why-- 62 01:01:44,166 --> 01:01:45,125 And they said, I think it was 63 01:01:45,125 --> 01:01:46,666 the second fastest all time. 64 01:01:47,458 --> 01:01:49,583 Yeah, just a seve, get some 65 01:01:49,583 --> 01:01:50,500 of the gang back together. 66 01:01:51,000 --> 01:01:52,125 Yeah, and that's where 67 01:01:52,125 --> 01:01:53,666 the positivity stops, folks. 68 01:01:53,875 --> 01:01:54,833 No, but he's going for 100 69 01:01:54,833 --> 01:01:57,041 hours, just to make sure. 70 01:01:57,541 --> 01:01:59,333 I come from an ice cream family, I mean. 71 01:02:00,291 --> 01:02:01,625 It's the classic, one 72 01:02:01,625 --> 01:02:02,958 wins it for the rest. 73 01:02:02,958 --> 01:02:03,250 Yes. 74 01:02:03,958 --> 01:02:05,000 There's one time I 75 01:02:05,000 --> 01:02:06,333 knew it, how about that? 76 01:02:07,250 --> 01:02:07,958 I love it. 77 01:02:08,000 --> 01:02:08,208 Yeah. 78 01:02:08,875 --> 01:02:10,541 She fell out of the back of the bus. 79 01:02:10,541 --> 01:02:11,750 You fell out of the back of the bus. 80 01:02:12,291 --> 01:02:13,291 Just go with us, people. 81 01:02:14,000 --> 01:02:15,875 What is going on in the bus? 82 01:02:16,041 --> 01:02:18,000 With two fists, boom, boom, boom. 83 01:02:18,875 --> 01:02:20,625 Diving on top of the 84 01:02:20,625 --> 01:02:22,750 goalkeeper, like swinging, 85 01:02:22,750 --> 01:02:23,083 we're like-- 86 01:02:23,750 --> 01:02:25,458 Clocks the goalie, and 87 01:02:25,458 --> 01:02:26,416 someone starts throwing 88 01:02:26,500 --> 01:02:28,458 a punch on the parents' side. 89 01:02:29,000 --> 01:02:30,125 We're professionals during the day, 90 01:02:30,125 --> 01:02:31,166 we don't see this happen. 91 01:02:31,166 --> 01:02:33,875 No, I've actually never seen a fight. 92 01:02:34,750 --> 01:02:35,291 Craziness. 93 01:02:36,208 --> 01:02:38,583 Cops got called, hiding. 94 01:02:39,000 --> 01:02:39,208 Yep. 95 01:02:39,916 --> 01:02:41,208 Cowardly, selfish. 96 01:02:42,041 --> 01:02:42,333 Yep. 97 01:02:42,375 --> 01:02:43,125 And it makes me mad. 98 01:02:43,750 --> 01:02:46,458 Yep, that's a trigger, well, 99 01:02:46,458 --> 01:02:47,500 that's a trigger for both of us. 100 01:02:47,916 --> 01:02:48,500 You know what, it feels 101 01:02:48,500 --> 01:02:50,125 really, really freaking good 102 01:02:50,125 --> 01:02:50,625 to get it out. 103 01:02:51,000 --> 01:02:52,041 It does, it peeps me. 104 01:02:52,291 --> 01:02:53,250 It peeps me. 105 01:02:53,791 --> 01:02:54,125 Ooh. 106 01:02:54,625 --> 01:02:54,916 Ah. 107 01:02:57,041 --> 01:02:57,708 Yeah, yeah. 108 01:02:58,125 --> 01:03:00,166 I'm just hangry is what it is for me. 109 01:03:00,500 --> 01:03:00,750 Probably. 110 01:03:01,083 --> 01:03:02,083 Well, let's end this on a positive note. 111 01:03:02,083 --> 01:03:03,250 We are positive people. 112 01:03:03,500 --> 01:03:04,875 We are positive people. 113 01:03:05,708 --> 01:03:07,375 Hibachi and screaming, I'll put-- 114 01:03:07,416 --> 01:03:08,625 Like I promise I'm not a predator. 115 01:03:10,250 --> 01:03:11,166 Bum, bum, bum. 116 01:03:12,875 --> 01:03:14,250 Shoes and April Fool's kind of a gal. 117 01:03:14,500 --> 01:03:14,791 Yeah. 118 01:03:15,291 --> 01:03:16,666 Girl, he's behind the front door. 119 01:03:18,416 --> 01:03:19,875 Yes, no more soccer drama. 120 01:03:20,666 --> 01:03:22,875 Biden in our $12 eggs. 121 01:03:24,083 --> 01:03:25,125 Don't get me started. 122 01:03:26,500 --> 01:03:28,125 I'm starting to, bird flu, okay? 123 01:03:28,291 --> 01:03:29,375 Biden's starting bird flu. 124 01:03:30,708 --> 01:03:31,750 All right, bye, Petal. 125 01:03:32,791 --> 01:03:33,333 Bye, single. 126 01:03:35,166 --> 01:03:35,916 What would you say? 127 01:03:37,125 --> 01:03:38,375 Well, odd, but we'll cut it off here. 128 01:03:39,625 --> 01:03:39,666 (Megan laughs) 129 01:03:39,958 --> 01:03:41,000 Welcome to the Mr. and 130 01:03:41,000 --> 01:03:42,000 Mrs. English podcast. 131 01:03:42,375 --> 01:03:42,750 I'm Megan. 132 01:03:43,166 --> 01:03:43,708 And I'm Sean. 133 01:03:44,000 --> 01:03:45,875 We're here to talk about the wild ride 134 01:03:45,875 --> 01:03:47,666 of raising kids and growing careers, 135 01:03:48,041 --> 01:03:49,125 keeping life together in 136 01:03:49,125 --> 01:03:50,208 the middle of all the chaos. 137 01:03:51,000 --> 01:03:51,833 So buckle up, 138 01:03:52,250 --> 01:03:53,000 because we're all in 139 01:03:53,000 --> 01:03:54,208 this crazy journey together. 140 01:03:56,125 --> 01:03:57,833 Bop, bop, bop. 141 01:03:59,208 --> 01:03:59,666 Bop. 142 01:04:01,375 --> 01:04:03,000 Bop. 143 01:04:03,000 --> 01:04:03,333 (Megan laughs) 144 01:04:03,750 --> 01:04:05,416 I kinda got, we got a 145 01:04:05,416 --> 01:04:07,333 slow bop on that one. 146 01:04:08,041 --> 01:04:08,291 Yeah. 147 01:04:09,791 --> 01:04:10,583 It's all right, it's late. 148 01:04:10,958 --> 01:04:12,000 It's all techy stuff, I 149 01:04:12,000 --> 01:04:12,833 tell you all about it. 150 01:04:13,625 --> 01:04:14,625 It's way over my head. 151 01:04:14,875 --> 01:04:16,750 It's way over your head, yeah. 152 01:04:17,833 --> 01:04:21,250 Sound board, engineering, it's a science. 153 01:04:21,250 --> 01:04:21,750 I mean, I've spent... 154 01:04:22,541 --> 01:04:24,500 You've become an expert pretty quickly. 155 01:04:25,083 --> 01:04:26,208 It is all over my head. 156 01:04:26,583 --> 01:04:27,166 Like, I don't know what I'm gonna be doing. 157 01:04:27,166 --> 01:04:28,041 I'm kidding, I'm 158 01:04:28,041 --> 01:04:29,500 obviously joking around here. 159 01:04:30,125 --> 01:04:31,291 Like I'm sitting way down 160 01:04:31,291 --> 01:04:33,000 here in this deep seat here. 161 01:04:33,416 --> 01:04:33,916 I know. 162 01:04:34,416 --> 01:04:34,875 Well, welcome. 163 01:04:35,708 --> 01:04:37,000 Welcome to another 164 01:04:37,000 --> 01:04:38,416 edition of Mr. and Mrs. 165 01:04:38,958 --> 01:04:40,333 Date night, yeah, that's right. 166 01:04:40,916 --> 01:04:41,375 I know. 167 01:04:42,416 --> 01:04:43,500 Add that on like our 168 01:04:43,500 --> 01:04:44,375 tagline or something. 169 01:04:44,708 --> 01:04:45,833 We could, we could. 170 01:04:47,458 --> 01:04:48,458 We actually delayed 171 01:04:48,458 --> 01:04:49,583 the filming of this one 172 01:04:49,833 --> 01:04:50,666 for several reasons. 173 01:04:51,708 --> 01:04:52,291 Several reasons. 174 01:04:52,958 --> 01:04:54,416 Yeah, and now we're kind 175 01:04:54,416 --> 01:04:55,791 of backed into a corner, 176 01:04:55,791 --> 01:04:56,541 we gotta get it done. 177 01:04:56,958 --> 01:04:59,666 And I would say emotions 178 01:04:59,666 --> 01:05:01,416 are just as high as they were 179 01:05:01,750 --> 01:05:02,875 this weekend when we... 180 01:05:03,291 --> 01:05:04,750 Yeah, I agree. 181 01:05:05,000 --> 01:05:07,333 Like we delayed the filming of this 182 01:05:07,333 --> 01:05:08,500 because it was a very 183 01:05:08,500 --> 01:05:10,958 emotional, really four days. 184 01:05:11,958 --> 01:05:13,041 Busy four days too. 185 01:05:13,416 --> 01:05:14,916 Like, so in addition 186 01:05:14,916 --> 01:05:17,375 to just being emotional 187 01:05:17,666 --> 01:05:19,000 and dealing with, you know, 188 01:05:19,500 --> 01:05:20,333 Taylor Novella kind 189 01:05:20,333 --> 01:05:21,708 of stuff all the time, 190 01:05:21,708 --> 01:05:23,000 like, it's just like, 191 01:05:23,458 --> 01:05:24,750 we're gonna wait until Monday 192 01:05:24,750 --> 01:05:26,416 when things, and the dust has settled. 193 01:05:27,750 --> 01:05:29,333 And no, it's still just as crazy. 194 01:05:29,875 --> 01:05:31,500 Yeah, still blowing dust. 195 01:05:32,041 --> 01:05:32,333 Yeah. 196 01:05:32,375 --> 01:05:35,291 Still settling, can't see the path. 197 01:05:35,666 --> 01:05:36,541 I know, kind of like that 198 01:05:36,541 --> 01:05:38,125 big dust storm from West Texas 199 01:05:38,125 --> 01:05:39,791 that blew, you know, 12 200 01:05:39,791 --> 01:05:40,875 inches of dirt into our pool. 201 01:05:41,916 --> 01:05:44,250 Yeah, not quite 12 inches, but we're 202 01:05:44,250 --> 01:05:45,041 still clearing it out. 203 01:05:45,375 --> 01:05:47,500 That was something last week. 204 01:05:48,250 --> 01:05:49,833 And it's pollen season, so. 205 01:05:49,875 --> 01:05:50,541 Yeah, it's pollen season. 206 01:05:50,541 --> 01:05:52,166 It's the great yellowing, 207 01:05:52,166 --> 01:05:53,958 as we refer to it here to some degree. 208 01:05:54,208 --> 01:05:56,333 Yeah, and you know, our 209 01:05:56,333 --> 01:05:58,041 oldest son looking like 210 01:05:58,041 --> 01:06:01,541 he's either been crying constantly or... 211 01:06:02,666 --> 01:06:04,166 Allergies are so bad. 212 01:06:05,333 --> 01:06:07,250 I always tell everybody, like, 213 01:06:07,250 --> 01:06:08,958 I never had allergies growing up. 214 01:06:09,666 --> 01:06:13,208 And ever since, I mean, I 215 01:06:13,208 --> 01:06:14,166 guess we moved to Chicago 216 01:06:15,250 --> 01:06:15,791 and I developed 217 01:06:15,791 --> 01:06:17,583 allergies there in my 30s. 218 01:06:18,291 --> 01:06:18,875 And they're terrible, 219 01:06:19,041 --> 01:06:20,041 like, when they hit you hard, 220 01:06:20,041 --> 01:06:20,583 like, you can't tell if 221 01:06:20,583 --> 01:06:22,208 you're dying, like, sick, 222 01:06:22,208 --> 01:06:23,250 or if it's just like, 223 01:06:23,250 --> 01:06:24,333 man up, it's allergies. 224 01:06:25,083 --> 01:06:26,041 But, you know, then I 225 01:06:26,041 --> 01:06:26,958 got a bunch of, like, 226 01:06:27,208 --> 01:06:28,208 head colds, they turn 227 01:06:28,208 --> 01:06:30,458 into sinus infections. 228 01:06:30,875 --> 01:06:31,708 Not much anymore, 229 01:06:31,708 --> 01:06:32,916 because I figured it out. 230 01:06:33,208 --> 01:06:34,333 You know, as in life, you 231 01:06:34,333 --> 01:06:35,375 kind of figure stuff out, 232 01:06:35,541 --> 01:06:36,958 how to avoid good and 233 01:06:36,958 --> 01:06:38,208 bad, or the bad, I guess. 234 01:06:39,000 --> 01:06:40,291 But then when I would 235 01:06:40,291 --> 01:06:41,208 go back to Colorado, 236 01:06:41,541 --> 01:06:43,000 I'd have allergies there then too, 237 01:06:43,291 --> 01:06:44,916 which I never had them growing up. 238 01:06:45,583 --> 01:06:46,166 Remember when we moved 239 01:06:46,166 --> 01:06:47,208 back there, I got them. 240 01:06:47,791 --> 01:06:48,541 So I don't know if it's 241 01:06:48,541 --> 01:06:50,458 this pollen or what it is, 242 01:06:50,458 --> 01:06:52,000 but once it gets you, 243 01:06:52,000 --> 01:06:53,000 it gets you, the bug. 244 01:06:53,541 --> 01:06:54,250 It really does. 245 01:06:55,000 --> 01:06:57,125 And I've heard that, 246 01:06:57,125 --> 01:06:58,666 I've heard that in 247 01:06:58,666 --> 01:06:59,750 Texas they're really bad. 248 01:06:59,750 --> 01:07:00,916 Like, almost everyone in Texas 249 01:07:00,916 --> 01:07:02,750 is on some type of allergy pill. 250 01:07:02,916 --> 01:07:03,750 Did you have it? 251 01:07:03,750 --> 01:07:04,000 I mean... 252 01:07:05,125 --> 01:07:06,250 No, not really. 253 01:07:06,291 --> 01:07:07,041 Growing up, no. 254 01:07:07,583 --> 01:07:09,416 I didn't really start getting allergies 255 01:07:09,625 --> 01:07:10,333 until I was pregnant. 256 01:07:10,875 --> 01:07:12,833 And there is such a thing as 257 01:07:12,833 --> 01:07:14,208 pregnancy induced allergies. 258 01:07:14,500 --> 01:07:17,541 So it wasn't until then that I had them, 259 01:07:17,541 --> 01:07:18,833 and ever since then I've had them. 260 01:07:19,125 --> 01:07:21,333 Mine aren't usually horrible though. 261 01:07:22,000 --> 01:07:23,625 Unlike our oldest who, 262 01:07:24,083 --> 01:07:25,791 I truly asked him if he had been crying. 263 01:07:26,541 --> 01:07:28,000 Yeah, no, he did look bad. 264 01:07:28,000 --> 01:07:28,708 Are you okay? 265 01:07:28,708 --> 01:07:29,333 He did look bad. 266 01:07:30,041 --> 01:07:31,166 Allergy season, where 267 01:07:31,166 --> 01:07:32,708 everybody's at, taking allergies. 268 01:07:33,208 --> 01:07:34,041 I keep talking about, 269 01:07:34,041 --> 01:07:34,750 I don't know if I should be 270 01:07:34,750 --> 01:07:35,916 taking those allergy pills. 271 01:07:35,916 --> 01:07:36,875 I take them year round 272 01:07:36,875 --> 01:07:38,458 for like 10 years now. 273 01:07:39,291 --> 01:07:40,875 My doctor actually told me that I should. 274 01:07:41,125 --> 01:07:42,291 Oh, so that you can do that? 275 01:07:42,958 --> 01:07:45,291 She wants me doing that because it, 276 01:07:45,625 --> 01:07:47,458 in theory would help with my migraines. 277 01:07:47,458 --> 01:07:49,083 Cause she's like, you're really stuffy. 278 01:07:49,083 --> 01:07:50,708 And I was like, I don't feel stuffy. 279 01:07:51,333 --> 01:07:52,750 But I don't know. 280 01:07:52,750 --> 01:07:53,750 I guess when she looked up 281 01:07:53,750 --> 01:07:55,208 my nose, I looked stuffy. 282 01:07:56,375 --> 01:07:57,375 Wonder what your voice sounds like 283 01:07:57,875 --> 01:07:59,708 without all your stuffiness then. 284 01:07:59,791 --> 01:08:00,625 I don't know. 285 01:08:01,833 --> 01:08:02,375 I don't know. 286 01:08:02,375 --> 01:08:03,833 I wouldn't know the difference because... 287 01:08:03,833 --> 01:08:04,333 Either would I. 288 01:08:05,000 --> 01:08:06,583 You don't sound stuffy to me, but... 289 01:08:07,166 --> 01:08:07,458 Although do you 290 01:08:07,458 --> 01:08:09,500 remember when we first met 291 01:08:10,041 --> 01:08:11,208 and we got off the cruise 292 01:08:11,916 --> 01:08:13,291 and you and I had just started talking, 293 01:08:13,291 --> 01:08:14,791 do you remember for 294 01:08:14,791 --> 01:08:15,791 that first like two weeks, 295 01:08:15,791 --> 01:08:17,583 I was sick as a dog and 296 01:08:17,583 --> 01:08:19,000 I basically had no voice. 297 01:08:19,000 --> 01:08:20,375 I was super, super stuffy. 298 01:08:20,750 --> 01:08:21,583 Do you remember that? 299 01:08:21,583 --> 01:08:22,458 Yeah, I do. 300 01:08:22,458 --> 01:08:23,500 You got sick afterwards. 301 01:08:23,500 --> 01:08:24,541 I do remember that. 302 01:08:24,833 --> 01:08:25,666 So like for the first two 303 01:08:25,666 --> 01:08:27,291 weeks of our entire relationship 304 01:08:27,291 --> 01:08:28,458 as we're getting to know each other, 305 01:08:28,458 --> 01:08:29,250 you didn't even know what 306 01:08:29,250 --> 01:08:31,083 my normal voice sounds like. 307 01:08:31,125 --> 01:08:31,916 Talked a lot on the phone. 308 01:08:32,416 --> 01:08:33,458 A lot on the phone, yeah. 309 01:08:34,000 --> 01:08:34,291 Yeah. 310 01:08:34,916 --> 01:08:35,416 So anyway. 311 01:08:37,000 --> 01:08:37,708 I always think about that. 312 01:08:38,208 --> 01:08:39,250 It's like, I was really sick. 313 01:08:40,083 --> 01:08:40,666 Well, we can at least 314 01:08:40,666 --> 01:08:41,583 talk about the good things 315 01:08:41,583 --> 01:08:42,291 that happened this week. 316 01:08:42,291 --> 01:08:43,083 At least start there. 317 01:08:43,083 --> 01:08:44,041 Because I'm sure we'll get into, 318 01:08:44,375 --> 01:08:45,375 I keep talking about we 319 01:08:45,375 --> 01:08:46,583 need to have a segment on here 320 01:08:46,625 --> 01:08:48,500 that's, you know... 321 01:08:49,875 --> 01:08:50,541 A complaining corner. 322 01:08:50,583 --> 01:08:51,500 A complaining quarter 323 01:08:51,500 --> 01:08:53,708 or, you know, I'm peeved. 324 01:08:54,458 --> 01:08:55,125 I'm peeved. 325 01:08:55,541 --> 01:08:56,166 That's a good one. 326 01:08:56,541 --> 01:08:58,375 Something like that, just to complain. 327 01:08:59,000 --> 01:09:00,375 But then it'll just be, 328 01:09:00,666 --> 01:09:01,500 we're trying to shorten. 329 01:09:02,125 --> 01:09:02,791 Yeah, well we've been 330 01:09:02,791 --> 01:09:03,541 trying to shorten it. 331 01:09:03,583 --> 01:09:04,083 The show. 332 01:09:04,500 --> 01:09:05,500 If we had that, I mean, 333 01:09:05,500 --> 01:09:06,708 it could get really long. 334 01:09:07,250 --> 01:09:08,041 Yes, and do people 335 01:09:08,041 --> 01:09:09,208 really just want to hear us 336 01:09:09,208 --> 01:09:10,416 complain and moan for, 337 01:09:10,416 --> 01:09:11,708 you know, 30 minutes? 338 01:09:11,708 --> 01:09:13,166 That's gotta be a separate podcast. 339 01:09:13,166 --> 01:09:14,333 That would just be so... 340 01:09:15,166 --> 01:09:16,333 Oh, cathartic. 341 01:09:16,541 --> 01:09:18,166 Oh, that would feel really good. 342 01:09:18,500 --> 01:09:19,833 Not uplifting, but... 343 01:09:20,000 --> 01:09:20,250 No. 344 01:09:20,875 --> 01:09:21,083 Yeah. 345 01:09:21,500 --> 01:09:23,625 That's what, we could just start one. 346 01:09:23,625 --> 01:09:24,458 That's one that guests 347 01:09:24,458 --> 01:09:25,583 would love to come on, right? 348 01:09:25,750 --> 01:09:26,958 Like, hey, just come on and vent. 349 01:09:27,333 --> 01:09:27,583 Just... 350 01:09:28,416 --> 01:09:29,500 Get all the poison out. 351 01:09:29,916 --> 01:09:31,041 All your grievances, yeah. 352 01:09:31,416 --> 01:09:32,666 It's like those places you can go to 353 01:09:32,750 --> 01:09:33,666 that you can just throw 354 01:09:33,666 --> 01:09:35,416 plates against the wall. 355 01:09:35,416 --> 01:09:36,583 You can break plates because you're mad. 356 01:09:37,333 --> 01:09:39,000 Scream, yell, and break plates. 357 01:09:41,416 --> 01:09:41,958 Just not sure that would 358 01:09:41,958 --> 01:09:43,250 put that much positivity out. 359 01:09:43,333 --> 01:09:44,291 Right, I don't know. 360 01:09:44,291 --> 01:09:44,791 I think that just 361 01:09:44,791 --> 01:09:46,583 might feed the negativity 362 01:09:46,708 --> 01:09:47,541 that's already 363 01:09:47,541 --> 01:09:49,666 everywhere right now, I feel like. 364 01:09:49,666 --> 01:09:49,958 Yeah. 365 01:09:50,708 --> 01:09:51,416 We were just talking 366 01:09:51,416 --> 01:09:52,208 about that, weren't we? 367 01:09:52,500 --> 01:09:54,666 I just feel like I'm on a downhill roll 368 01:09:54,666 --> 01:09:55,958 of negativity right now. 369 01:09:56,000 --> 01:09:57,041 Yes, and how 370 01:09:57,041 --> 01:09:58,583 sometimes it's just like that. 371 01:09:59,291 --> 01:10:01,250 And I don't know why. 372 01:10:01,500 --> 01:10:03,041 It feels like it gets in 373 01:10:03,041 --> 01:10:05,000 spur, it comes in spurts. 374 01:10:05,041 --> 01:10:05,291 Yep. 375 01:10:05,833 --> 01:10:07,000 Just like I think good things, 376 01:10:07,000 --> 01:10:08,166 even when you're on a high, you're like, 377 01:10:08,166 --> 01:10:09,166 "Oh, this is great, it 378 01:10:09,166 --> 01:10:10,166 can last a little while." 379 01:10:10,958 --> 01:10:13,458 And then, yeah, that valley comes. 380 01:10:13,458 --> 01:10:14,291 It's just like... 381 01:10:14,541 --> 01:10:15,500 It's like deaths, right? 382 01:10:15,500 --> 01:10:16,958 I would say deaths come in threes or 383 01:10:16,958 --> 01:10:17,625 something like that. 384 01:10:17,625 --> 01:10:19,166 And it's like tough 385 01:10:19,166 --> 01:10:20,708 times or stressful times 386 01:10:20,708 --> 01:10:23,208 or these emotionally distressing times. 387 01:10:23,208 --> 01:10:23,500 Yeah. 388 01:10:24,166 --> 01:10:25,333 They come, sometimes 389 01:10:25,333 --> 01:10:26,875 they come in multiples. 390 01:10:27,250 --> 01:10:29,750 I feel like it's like palinons sometimes. 391 01:10:30,041 --> 01:10:31,083 Yeah, yeah. 392 01:10:31,208 --> 01:10:31,666 It's like, really, I 393 01:10:31,666 --> 01:10:32,833 just didn't need that. 394 01:10:33,750 --> 01:10:33,916 Right. 395 01:10:34,583 --> 01:10:37,125 You're like, I was dealing with whatever, 396 01:10:37,708 --> 01:10:40,250 the initial few things that hit you, 397 01:10:40,250 --> 01:10:41,041 and you're like, I was 398 01:10:41,041 --> 01:10:43,375 really trying to stay positive 399 01:10:43,375 --> 01:10:47,000 and upbeat and really then 400 01:10:47,000 --> 01:10:48,458 this last thing happened. 401 01:10:49,500 --> 01:10:50,791 Like, I just didn't need it. 402 01:10:50,916 --> 01:10:51,166 Yeah. 403 01:10:52,000 --> 01:10:53,416 I think we try, we do 404 01:10:53,416 --> 01:10:54,375 try to stay positive 405 01:10:54,625 --> 01:10:55,625 as much as we possibly 406 01:10:55,625 --> 01:10:57,000 can, especially publicly. 407 01:10:58,333 --> 01:10:59,541 I don't know what that percentage is. 408 01:10:59,583 --> 01:11:02,250 5% of the time, behind our closed doors, 409 01:11:02,250 --> 01:11:04,458 we can air out and just be mad, 410 01:11:04,541 --> 01:11:06,208 whatever we're mad at to some degree. 411 01:11:07,416 --> 01:11:10,541 But man, sometimes it's 412 01:11:10,541 --> 01:11:11,458 just like, you know what? 413 01:11:11,458 --> 01:11:13,500 I don't wanna be in a good mood anymore. 414 01:11:14,041 --> 01:11:15,625 I'm mad about how this is happening. 415 01:11:15,625 --> 01:11:16,750 I'm mad about this or that. 416 01:11:17,041 --> 01:11:17,250 Right. 417 01:11:17,625 --> 01:11:19,000 And it's the things that you have no 418 01:11:19,000 --> 01:11:20,250 control over, right? 419 01:11:20,250 --> 01:11:22,000 And it's easier to get 420 01:11:22,000 --> 01:11:23,041 mad at those kind of things. 421 01:11:23,041 --> 01:11:23,375 Yeah. 422 01:11:23,375 --> 01:11:24,875 And I'm like, I can't fix it. 423 01:11:24,875 --> 01:11:26,083 I can't do anything about it. 424 01:11:26,083 --> 01:11:27,708 So just give me a minute to like stew 425 01:11:27,875 --> 01:11:30,166 and be super peeved. 426 01:11:30,208 --> 01:11:30,500 Yeah. 427 01:11:30,875 --> 01:11:31,708 Like, I don't know. 428 01:11:32,250 --> 01:11:33,125 Sometimes you need that. 429 01:11:33,666 --> 01:11:34,666 Yeah, I do that sometimes. 430 01:11:34,666 --> 01:11:35,750 I'm like, just, I need time. 431 01:11:35,750 --> 01:11:36,333 Give me a moment. 432 01:11:36,333 --> 01:11:37,125 I'll get through it, but 433 01:11:37,125 --> 01:11:38,333 I'm working through something 434 01:11:38,583 --> 01:11:39,166 right now. 435 01:11:39,375 --> 01:11:39,416 Yeah. 436 01:11:39,583 --> 01:11:40,041 You know, I'm gonna go 437 01:11:40,041 --> 01:11:40,833 sit in the back and-- 438 01:11:41,791 --> 01:11:43,000 Just gonna sit. 439 01:11:43,500 --> 01:11:44,250 Just gonna sit. 440 01:11:44,666 --> 01:11:48,083 Watch a show, you can, I don't know. 441 01:11:48,125 --> 01:11:49,250 I don't have that long to do it. 442 01:11:49,291 --> 01:11:49,791 Yeah, you usually don't. 443 01:11:49,833 --> 01:11:50,416 I wish I did. 444 01:11:50,625 --> 01:11:52,958 I'm gonna go watch Netflix for 10 hours. 445 01:11:53,666 --> 01:11:54,000 (laughing) 446 01:11:54,416 --> 01:11:55,666 It's never been 10 hours. 447 01:11:55,916 --> 01:11:57,000 You might get one show. 448 01:11:57,416 --> 01:11:59,083 For me, it's usually, you know, 449 01:11:59,500 --> 01:12:01,000 I'll grab a short pour of 450 01:12:01,000 --> 01:12:02,875 bourbon, some ice in it. 451 01:12:02,875 --> 01:12:04,458 I'll go sit in the backyard for a moment. 452 01:12:04,833 --> 01:12:06,500 Just decompress a little bit. 453 01:12:06,541 --> 01:12:07,250 Here's some birds. 454 01:12:07,625 --> 01:12:09,416 Yeah, that really does help. 455 01:12:09,750 --> 01:12:10,291 It does. 456 01:12:10,291 --> 01:12:11,208 Look at the spring is here. 457 01:12:11,458 --> 01:12:13,250 Like that, there's something about, 458 01:12:14,083 --> 01:12:15,416 regardless of how tired I am, 459 01:12:15,416 --> 01:12:16,208 like walking out first 460 01:12:16,208 --> 01:12:17,875 thing to take the dog out 461 01:12:17,875 --> 01:12:18,708 and you hear the birds, 462 01:12:18,708 --> 01:12:20,250 it really does kind of 463 01:12:20,250 --> 01:12:21,500 set that mood for the day. 464 01:12:21,500 --> 01:12:23,375 But man, I know what you mean though. 465 01:12:23,416 --> 01:12:24,541 Cause sometimes you're 466 01:12:24,541 --> 01:12:26,958 like, just let me be pissed. 467 01:12:27,541 --> 01:12:29,000 Yeah, that's right. 468 01:12:29,041 --> 01:12:30,416 I know that sounds bad, but like, 469 01:12:31,583 --> 01:12:32,916 I try to be super positive, 470 01:12:32,916 --> 01:12:33,500 but every now and 471 01:12:33,500 --> 01:12:34,708 again, I just need a moment. 472 01:12:35,750 --> 01:12:37,583 You're probably the most positive person 473 01:12:37,791 --> 01:12:39,583 on a consistent basis that I've ever met. 474 01:12:39,916 --> 01:12:40,166 Really? 475 01:12:40,750 --> 01:12:41,916 Well, thank you. 476 01:12:42,166 --> 01:12:43,458 That actually, thank you. 477 01:12:44,000 --> 01:12:44,416 You're welcome. 478 01:12:45,291 --> 01:12:46,416 I mean, the only other 479 01:12:46,416 --> 01:12:47,291 people I can think of 480 01:12:47,291 --> 01:12:48,500 are Disney characters. 481 01:12:49,666 --> 01:12:50,500 Probably so. 482 01:12:51,458 --> 01:12:53,083 I mean, you just have 483 01:12:53,083 --> 01:12:54,458 a really light outlook. 484 01:12:54,708 --> 01:12:56,166 One of the things I say, 485 01:12:56,166 --> 01:12:57,333 and I think you've 486 01:12:57,333 --> 01:12:58,125 heard me say it to you, 487 01:12:58,125 --> 01:12:59,000 you take it as a compliment, 488 01:12:59,208 --> 01:13:01,333 but you laugh easily. 489 01:13:01,750 --> 01:13:02,625 You're lighthearted. 490 01:13:02,833 --> 01:13:03,125 Yeah. 491 01:13:03,875 --> 01:13:06,916 You know, which as intelligent as you are 492 01:13:06,916 --> 01:13:09,000 and as sometimes as hard as your job is 493 01:13:09,000 --> 01:13:09,583 and the stuff that 494 01:13:09,583 --> 01:13:11,083 you're dealing with there 495 01:13:11,208 --> 01:13:12,416 and pushing through there, 496 01:13:13,083 --> 01:13:15,000 you so easily can turn from that 497 01:13:15,083 --> 01:13:16,291 and be lighthearted 498 01:13:16,291 --> 01:13:17,625 and laugh at something. 499 01:13:17,625 --> 01:13:19,041 And I think that's special. 500 01:13:19,666 --> 01:13:20,458 Well, thank you. 501 01:13:20,666 --> 01:13:21,500 That means a lot. 502 01:13:21,875 --> 01:13:22,083 Yeah. 503 01:13:24,458 --> 01:13:25,833 I think I've told you this story. 504 01:13:26,791 --> 01:13:27,875 I saw my grandparents 505 01:13:27,875 --> 01:13:29,541 live to be very old. 506 01:13:29,541 --> 01:13:30,083 I know I've talked 507 01:13:30,083 --> 01:13:31,000 about it on the podcast. 508 01:13:32,416 --> 01:13:35,000 And I know that my 509 01:13:35,000 --> 01:13:37,291 grandmothers in particular, 510 01:13:38,458 --> 01:13:39,416 they laughed all the time. 511 01:13:39,416 --> 01:13:41,375 And I remember being a sullen teenager 512 01:13:41,375 --> 01:13:42,083 and I told you, I got 513 01:13:42,083 --> 01:13:43,166 a really bad haircut. 514 01:13:43,166 --> 01:13:45,208 And it was bad, people. 515 01:13:45,666 --> 01:13:47,458 Not that hair in the 90s was good anyway, 516 01:13:47,958 --> 01:13:48,958 but this was bad. 517 01:13:49,250 --> 01:13:51,541 And I was, you know, 15, 16 years old. 518 01:13:51,541 --> 01:13:54,083 So this was the end of the world to me. 519 01:13:54,125 --> 01:13:54,375 Yeah. 520 01:13:55,208 --> 01:13:58,250 And my grandmother laughed. 521 01:13:58,583 --> 01:14:00,000 She's like, "Meggy," 522 01:14:00,833 --> 01:14:02,416 one of two people who can call me that 523 01:14:02,416 --> 01:14:03,125 just for the record, 524 01:14:04,666 --> 01:14:05,666 "Meggy, it's okay. 525 01:14:05,666 --> 01:14:06,458 It'll grow out. 526 01:14:06,458 --> 01:14:06,958 It's fine. 527 01:14:06,958 --> 01:14:07,666 It's just a haircut. 528 01:14:08,666 --> 01:14:09,166 That's fine." 529 01:14:10,166 --> 01:14:12,458 And I remember being so mad at the time, 530 01:14:12,750 --> 01:14:13,791 but looking back on 531 01:14:13,791 --> 01:14:15,000 that moment and being like, 532 01:14:15,000 --> 01:14:17,083 "Wow, she had perspective." 533 01:14:18,541 --> 01:14:20,416 To be like, "Your hair is gonna grow out. 534 01:14:20,416 --> 01:14:21,208 It doesn't look as bad 535 01:14:21,208 --> 01:14:22,125 as you think it does." 536 01:14:23,625 --> 01:14:24,708 And ever since then, I'm like, 537 01:14:24,833 --> 01:14:26,333 "Be that person to 538 01:14:26,333 --> 01:14:28,583 laugh at the right times." 539 01:14:29,166 --> 01:14:29,583 You know? 540 01:14:29,583 --> 01:14:29,875 Yeah. 541 01:14:30,666 --> 01:14:31,250 Just try. 542 01:14:31,500 --> 01:14:34,375 Because I know that my 543 01:14:34,375 --> 01:14:35,250 grandparents were people 544 01:14:35,250 --> 01:14:36,625 that everyone wanted to be around. 545 01:14:36,916 --> 01:14:38,333 Yeah, they were great. 546 01:14:38,333 --> 01:14:39,750 They made an impact in this world. 547 01:14:41,125 --> 01:14:42,375 You know, and people's a 548 01:14:42,375 --> 01:14:43,791 positive impact in this world. 549 01:14:44,333 --> 01:14:45,500 We still talk about them. 550 01:14:45,583 --> 01:14:45,916 Yeah. 551 01:14:45,958 --> 01:14:46,333 You know? 552 01:14:47,250 --> 01:14:48,083 I've been here for a couple of years. 553 01:14:48,833 --> 01:14:49,208 They're special. 554 01:14:50,458 --> 01:14:50,625 Yeah. 555 01:14:51,416 --> 01:14:53,500 But I try, but there are 556 01:14:53,500 --> 01:14:54,625 times, and you know this, 557 01:14:54,625 --> 01:14:56,291 I can go down that hole pretty quickly. 558 01:14:57,708 --> 01:14:59,708 You've also seen me unravel quickly, so. 559 01:14:59,833 --> 01:15:01,041 It's just something about laughter. 560 01:15:01,458 --> 01:15:01,916 You know what I mean? 561 01:15:01,916 --> 01:15:03,208 I mean, you talk about family. 562 01:15:03,625 --> 01:15:05,291 I know, you know, we 563 01:15:05,291 --> 01:15:06,666 spent more time in my family 564 01:15:06,666 --> 01:15:07,625 around probably my 565 01:15:07,625 --> 01:15:08,625 mother's side of the family 566 01:15:08,625 --> 01:15:09,625 because we lived in the same 567 01:15:09,625 --> 01:15:12,208 city as most of them growing up. 568 01:15:13,166 --> 01:15:15,541 And, man, going to their 569 01:15:15,541 --> 01:15:17,166 house and playing games, 570 01:15:17,250 --> 01:15:19,333 to late at night, that 571 01:15:19,333 --> 01:15:20,541 place was filled with laughter 572 01:15:20,708 --> 01:15:21,291 all the time. 573 01:15:21,291 --> 01:15:22,708 My uncles, my grandfather, 574 01:15:23,500 --> 01:15:25,000 you know, I mean, the aunts, 575 01:15:25,000 --> 01:15:26,250 I mean, my uncles in 576 01:15:26,250 --> 01:15:29,375 particular, I mean, they just laughed. 577 01:15:29,833 --> 01:15:30,291 You know, and I can hear 578 01:15:30,291 --> 01:15:31,958 my aunts now too, you know, 579 01:15:31,958 --> 01:15:33,750 now that I say that, but I mean, it was 580 01:15:33,750 --> 01:15:34,416 filled with laughter. 581 01:15:34,416 --> 01:15:36,416 That's just something special to that. 582 01:15:36,666 --> 01:15:39,208 And these times that we live in, 583 01:15:39,500 --> 01:15:40,416 and even just specific 584 01:15:40,416 --> 01:15:41,625 to this weekend, you know, 585 01:15:43,250 --> 01:15:46,541 taking a deep breath, and you know, 586 01:15:48,041 --> 01:15:48,583 I don't know, I don't 587 01:15:48,583 --> 01:15:49,958 know how to find levity 588 01:15:50,416 --> 01:15:51,625 in these tough situations, 589 01:15:51,958 --> 01:15:53,625 but being able to at some point 590 01:15:53,791 --> 01:15:57,083 find a lighter, a lightness in life. 591 01:15:57,291 --> 01:15:58,625 Yep, yep. 592 01:15:58,791 --> 01:15:59,500 Because you can't laugh through 593 01:15:59,500 --> 01:16:00,666 what we're going through right now. 594 01:16:00,958 --> 01:16:02,666 No, no, I mean, you can 595 01:16:02,666 --> 01:16:04,041 find little pockets of like, 596 01:16:04,041 --> 01:16:04,958 okay, whatever just 597 01:16:04,958 --> 01:16:05,958 happened was really funny. 598 01:16:05,958 --> 01:16:07,000 I can't remember now, whatever. 599 01:16:07,666 --> 01:16:09,250 I missed it too, on that text. 600 01:16:09,625 --> 01:16:10,291 There's a text chain 601 01:16:10,291 --> 01:16:11,125 going on and I was like, 602 01:16:11,125 --> 01:16:11,958 oh, should I say this? 603 01:16:11,958 --> 01:16:13,000 I had texted it out. 604 01:16:13,000 --> 01:16:13,916 I'm like, it's probably 605 01:16:13,916 --> 01:16:15,291 too early for this joke. 606 01:16:15,875 --> 01:16:17,041 Because then someone else took the joke. 607 01:16:17,791 --> 01:16:19,083 And everybody's like, that was hilarious. 608 01:16:19,375 --> 01:16:20,333 And I was like, mm. 609 01:16:21,208 --> 01:16:21,500 Blast. 610 01:16:22,000 --> 01:16:22,208 Yeah. 611 01:16:22,625 --> 01:16:23,541 You should've taken the joke. 612 01:16:24,375 --> 01:16:24,583 No. 613 01:16:25,083 --> 01:16:26,583 Because you're so funny. 614 01:16:27,291 --> 01:16:28,500 You're so good at 615 01:16:28,500 --> 01:16:29,625 lightening that situation 616 01:16:30,125 --> 01:16:32,083 with the right sense of humor 617 01:16:32,416 --> 01:16:34,041 and bringing a little levity that way. 618 01:16:34,583 --> 01:16:35,333 Yeah, I don't know. 619 01:16:35,625 --> 01:16:36,125 I don't know. 620 01:16:36,125 --> 01:16:36,708 You can't do that well. 621 01:16:37,166 --> 01:16:38,500 Different kind of humor for sure, 622 01:16:38,500 --> 01:16:39,541 but it's not for everybody. 623 01:16:41,208 --> 01:16:42,166 I think it's hilarious. 624 01:16:42,750 --> 01:16:44,041 I think it's primarily for you. 625 01:16:44,541 --> 01:16:46,041 And we just said you laugh so easily. 626 01:16:46,458 --> 01:16:48,916 So there it is, mystery solved. 627 01:16:49,375 --> 01:16:49,791 Mystery solved. 628 01:16:49,791 --> 01:16:51,041 This is why we are a 629 01:16:51,041 --> 01:16:52,375 good couple together, right? 630 01:16:52,833 --> 01:16:55,041 Because we complete each other's. 631 01:16:55,250 --> 01:16:57,458 Oh, sentences? 632 01:16:58,000 --> 01:16:58,500 Here we go. 633 01:16:58,708 --> 01:16:59,250 Yeah, we'll go with it. 634 01:16:59,250 --> 01:16:59,833 I don't know when that one. 635 01:17:00,083 --> 01:17:01,000 Thanks for joining us guys. 636 01:17:01,458 --> 01:17:02,000 Have a good one. 637 01:17:02,000 --> 01:17:03,416 We told you we'd keep it short this time. 638 01:17:05,125 --> 01:17:05,375 (laughing) 639 01:17:05,375 --> 01:17:05,750 13 minutes. 640 01:17:05,750 --> 01:17:06,333 Okay, we'll keep going 641 01:17:06,333 --> 01:17:07,125 for a little bit longer. 642 01:17:07,166 --> 01:17:07,750 A little longer. 643 01:17:07,791 --> 01:17:08,666 People are like, oh 644 01:17:08,666 --> 01:17:10,416 shoot, put the remote down. 645 01:17:11,166 --> 01:17:11,541 Get a hold. 646 01:17:11,875 --> 01:17:13,083 So we are trying to keep it shorter. 647 01:17:13,125 --> 01:17:14,000 Every time we do it, we 648 01:17:14,000 --> 01:17:15,041 almost go longer though. 649 01:17:15,458 --> 01:17:15,875 I know. 650 01:17:16,250 --> 01:17:16,833 Well, and we-- 651 01:17:16,875 --> 01:17:17,916 We're targeting 30 minutes. 652 01:17:18,166 --> 01:17:19,291 We're targeting 30 minutes. 653 01:17:19,291 --> 01:17:20,291 13 minutes into it. 654 01:17:20,291 --> 01:17:20,916 And we haven't even talked 655 01:17:20,916 --> 01:17:22,166 about what we're so pissed off 656 01:17:22,208 --> 01:17:22,625 about. 657 01:17:22,625 --> 01:17:23,250 I know. 658 01:17:24,958 --> 01:17:26,375 We're just like dangling it out there. 659 01:17:27,000 --> 01:17:27,458 It's funny. 660 01:17:27,708 --> 01:17:29,166 We can't get in too many details on it. 661 01:17:29,166 --> 01:17:30,208 It's part of the problem right now. 662 01:17:30,958 --> 01:17:32,583 No, I know. 663 01:17:33,041 --> 01:17:35,125 And it's just, it's one of those things. 664 01:17:35,833 --> 01:17:37,000 What we did when we 665 01:17:37,000 --> 01:17:38,500 were prepping, you know, 666 01:17:38,500 --> 01:17:39,416 we always write out just a 667 01:17:39,416 --> 01:17:40,750 couple topics for us to cover. 668 01:17:40,791 --> 01:17:43,166 Clearly we kind of meander 669 01:17:43,166 --> 01:17:44,583 through these conversations, 670 01:17:44,583 --> 01:17:45,541 as you all could tell 671 01:17:45,541 --> 01:17:46,458 if you've been listening. 672 01:17:47,625 --> 01:17:48,958 And you're like, so 673 01:17:48,958 --> 01:17:50,208 what should we talk about? 674 01:17:50,541 --> 01:17:51,041 Obviously, you know, 675 01:17:51,875 --> 01:17:53,125 some of the bigger things. 676 01:17:53,125 --> 01:17:53,750 I was like, but we're 677 01:17:53,750 --> 01:17:55,208 gonna need structure tonight 678 01:17:55,458 --> 01:17:57,750 because we will just go off on a tangent. 679 01:17:58,875 --> 01:18:00,500 Yeah, we could have a lot 680 01:18:00,500 --> 01:18:01,708 to say about what's happened. 681 01:18:02,333 --> 01:18:03,000 And we'll get into it a 682 01:18:03,000 --> 01:18:04,375 little bit here, but again, 683 01:18:04,375 --> 01:18:05,625 let's talk about the good things. 684 01:18:05,875 --> 01:18:08,958 We'll backtrack to last Wednesday. 685 01:18:09,291 --> 01:18:10,583 It was city track meet 686 01:18:10,583 --> 01:18:12,000 finals, actually district. 687 01:18:12,333 --> 01:18:13,916 So it was bigger than just the city. 688 01:18:14,458 --> 01:18:14,833 Yup, yup. 689 01:18:15,541 --> 01:18:18,958 So our daughter, she competed hard. 690 01:18:20,166 --> 01:18:21,000 Yeah, so everybody's, 691 01:18:21,000 --> 01:18:21,541 hopefully you've seen 692 01:18:21,541 --> 01:18:23,333 the Instagrams of her. 693 01:18:24,000 --> 01:18:26,250 She's blessed athletically 694 01:18:26,250 --> 01:18:29,083 and she was in the finals 695 01:18:29,375 --> 01:18:30,333 of the 100 meter dash, the 696 01:18:30,333 --> 01:18:31,125 finals of the four by one 697 01:18:31,125 --> 01:18:32,166 and the finals of the four by two. 698 01:18:32,875 --> 01:18:35,541 And it was interesting because we were 699 01:18:35,541 --> 01:18:36,500 nervous for it, right? 700 01:18:36,500 --> 01:18:37,791 It's her first time doing it. 701 01:18:37,875 --> 01:18:39,500 They only had two track meets before this 702 01:18:39,500 --> 01:18:40,666 because a couple were canceled. 703 01:18:41,083 --> 01:18:42,500 So they never really 704 01:18:42,500 --> 01:18:44,291 even got into true form. 705 01:18:44,791 --> 01:18:47,000 Her club hasn't had a track meet yet. 706 01:18:47,000 --> 01:18:48,416 Hopefully that's coming up soon here. 707 01:18:49,500 --> 01:18:54,208 But she, it was interesting. 708 01:18:54,458 --> 01:18:55,500 She met her first kind 709 01:18:55,500 --> 01:18:57,791 of trial and tribulations, 710 01:18:58,250 --> 01:18:58,625 immediately. 711 01:19:00,041 --> 01:19:01,583 So in the four by one, I mean, 712 01:19:01,583 --> 01:19:03,000 I don't wanna talk too much here, 713 01:19:03,000 --> 01:19:05,833 but there's another team, another school 714 01:19:06,208 --> 01:19:06,875 that they've been back 715 01:19:06,875 --> 01:19:08,833 and forth on fastest times 716 01:19:09,291 --> 01:19:10,416 for the year. 717 01:19:11,708 --> 01:19:12,833 Long story short, four by one, 718 01:19:13,083 --> 01:19:14,416 our daughter runs the 719 01:19:14,416 --> 01:19:15,750 second leg on that one. 720 01:19:18,166 --> 01:19:18,958 Unfortunately the poor 721 01:19:18,958 --> 01:19:20,291 girl who runs very fast 722 01:19:20,416 --> 01:19:23,458 in the initial leg, the first person off, 723 01:19:24,083 --> 01:19:25,583 she dropped the baton 724 01:19:25,583 --> 01:19:27,833 like halfway down the track. 725 01:19:28,541 --> 01:19:30,083 It hit her leg or something like that. 726 01:19:30,083 --> 01:19:30,791 So she had to go back. 727 01:19:31,375 --> 01:19:32,666 I'm filming and I'm like 728 01:19:32,666 --> 01:19:34,083 expecting them to come out 729 01:19:34,291 --> 01:19:34,750 because it was kind of 730 01:19:34,750 --> 01:19:36,500 behind a building of some sort 731 01:19:36,500 --> 01:19:37,291 or a sign. 732 01:19:37,750 --> 01:19:39,333 She came out at fast start too. 733 01:19:39,583 --> 01:19:41,666 And I was like, where's our daughter at? 734 01:19:41,666 --> 01:19:42,375 Where are they at? 735 01:19:42,375 --> 01:19:43,250 Where's our team at? 736 01:19:43,250 --> 01:19:44,291 Yeah, yeah. 737 01:19:45,083 --> 01:19:45,541 And they weren't there. 738 01:19:45,750 --> 01:19:48,666 They came out basically last and then. 739 01:19:48,666 --> 01:19:49,250 They ended up getting 740 01:19:49,250 --> 01:19:50,500 second to last, I think. 741 01:19:50,583 --> 01:19:51,041 Second to last 742 01:19:51,041 --> 01:19:51,833 because I think someone else 743 01:19:51,833 --> 01:19:52,958 dropped the baton, but 744 01:19:52,958 --> 01:19:55,375 I mean, I just felt so. 745 01:19:55,375 --> 01:19:55,708 Just kidding. 746 01:19:57,916 --> 01:19:58,541 How did they do that? 747 01:19:59,000 --> 01:20:00,333 Anyway, so she comes out of that. 748 01:20:01,291 --> 01:20:02,875 Sad, mad, everybody's frustrated 749 01:20:03,125 --> 01:20:04,000 because they were supposed to win. 750 01:20:04,333 --> 01:20:06,041 So anyways, they're upset on that. 751 01:20:06,791 --> 01:20:08,250 I think she's super nervous 752 01:20:08,250 --> 01:20:09,041 because it's really her 753 01:20:09,041 --> 01:20:10,166 first time in any finals 754 01:20:10,166 --> 01:20:10,958 and stuff like that. 755 01:20:10,958 --> 01:20:11,750 Her stomach's hurting. 756 01:20:12,000 --> 01:20:13,541 Yeah, I think she was a little nervous 757 01:20:13,875 --> 01:20:15,791 which caused some stomach issues. 758 01:20:16,666 --> 01:20:18,083 Yeah, and she's mad about the other one. 759 01:20:18,083 --> 01:20:19,000 So she's going down to do 760 01:20:19,000 --> 01:20:20,208 her one individual event, 761 01:20:20,208 --> 01:20:22,208 the 100, which is everybody 762 01:20:22,208 --> 01:20:23,625 who's watched the Olympics. 763 01:20:23,833 --> 01:20:24,416 I mean, that's kind 764 01:20:24,416 --> 01:20:25,708 of one of the big ones 765 01:20:25,708 --> 01:20:27,000 because it's the fast people 766 01:20:28,083 --> 01:20:29,750 and everybody enjoys watching that one. 767 01:20:29,958 --> 01:20:31,916 So she's in there right next to the girl 768 01:20:32,000 --> 01:20:34,083 who she's never ran head to head. 769 01:20:36,416 --> 01:20:37,083 Their times have been 770 01:20:37,083 --> 01:20:38,250 neck and neck all year. 771 01:20:38,666 --> 01:20:39,333 In fact, somebody goes 772 01:20:39,333 --> 01:20:41,458 to school with that girl, 773 01:20:41,458 --> 01:20:42,208 with that other girl, 774 01:20:42,666 --> 01:20:43,250 but the other girl was 775 01:20:43,250 --> 01:20:45,208 nervous to race our daughter 776 01:20:45,416 --> 01:20:48,791 because the times were so close. 777 01:20:49,041 --> 01:20:50,500 So I'm sure neither one of these girls 778 01:20:51,333 --> 01:20:52,958 had really lost all year. 779 01:20:53,041 --> 01:20:53,791 Correct, because they 780 01:20:53,791 --> 01:20:55,166 never raced against each other. 781 01:20:55,416 --> 01:20:56,500 But Ayla did get second to her 782 01:20:56,500 --> 01:20:57,625 in the very first track meet 783 01:20:58,041 --> 01:20:59,083 because they only did heats. 784 01:20:59,333 --> 01:21:00,666 They didn't have a final. 785 01:21:01,000 --> 01:21:01,916 They never raced against 786 01:21:01,916 --> 01:21:04,500 each other in the same heat. 787 01:21:04,541 --> 01:21:05,541 Right, so there was no final. 788 01:21:05,541 --> 01:21:06,791 They just took the top times 789 01:21:06,791 --> 01:21:08,458 and that was who won that one. 790 01:21:08,916 --> 01:21:10,125 And that girl beat our daughter 791 01:21:11,041 --> 01:21:12,083 by a few hundredths of a second. 792 01:21:12,541 --> 01:21:14,416 But that girl has seen since then, 793 01:21:15,083 --> 01:21:17,000 our daughters bested those times. 794 01:21:17,000 --> 01:21:17,666 Yup, yup. 795 01:21:18,000 --> 01:21:18,708 And so she was nervous 796 01:21:18,708 --> 01:21:20,708 to race our daughter. 797 01:21:20,708 --> 01:21:21,791 Our daughter was nervous to race her. 798 01:21:22,250 --> 01:21:23,083 Yup, yup. 799 01:21:24,291 --> 01:21:25,291 Needless to say. 800 01:21:25,708 --> 01:21:27,458 Yeah, needless to say, go ahead. 801 01:21:27,458 --> 01:21:29,666 Our daughter, she did stumble, 802 01:21:30,541 --> 01:21:33,291 quickly out of the starting blocks. 803 01:21:34,166 --> 01:21:35,458 She made up a ton, she made 804 01:21:35,458 --> 01:21:37,416 up and came in neck and neck. 805 01:21:37,416 --> 01:21:38,625 She did take second, which, 806 01:21:38,625 --> 01:21:39,458 but she got her personal 807 01:21:39,458 --> 01:21:41,000 best, which was awesome. 808 01:21:41,000 --> 01:21:42,000 She set her up on PR. 809 01:21:42,958 --> 01:21:44,166 And that's so much about, I 810 01:21:44,166 --> 01:21:45,541 think track in general is, 811 01:21:46,791 --> 01:21:48,708 measure your individual performance. 812 01:21:49,291 --> 01:21:51,000 Metals and ribbons are awesome. 813 01:21:51,958 --> 01:21:53,625 We do, everybody likes those. 814 01:21:54,750 --> 01:21:55,916 But she had a personal record 815 01:21:55,916 --> 01:21:58,833 and I truly think that 816 01:21:58,833 --> 01:21:59,625 had she not stumbled, 817 01:22:00,541 --> 01:22:01,208 she would have won. 818 01:22:01,833 --> 01:22:02,583 Yeah, well maybe, yeah, 819 01:22:02,583 --> 01:22:03,666 I was so happy for her. 820 01:22:03,666 --> 01:22:04,458 And she stumbled, I 821 01:22:04,458 --> 01:22:05,750 put it up on Instagram 822 01:22:05,750 --> 01:22:06,750 and you can kind of see 823 01:22:06,750 --> 01:22:07,666 it, you can't see it as well, 824 01:22:07,666 --> 01:22:09,458 but you can kind of see her dip. 825 01:22:09,458 --> 01:22:10,500 But she's like, I stumbled twice. 826 01:22:12,708 --> 01:22:13,833 Not trying to throw excuses at her. 827 01:22:13,833 --> 01:22:15,000 The other girl won. 828 01:22:15,250 --> 01:22:15,666 She did. 829 01:22:16,041 --> 01:22:16,833 Our daughter had a 830 01:22:16,833 --> 01:22:18,208 great chance to come back, 831 01:22:18,208 --> 01:22:20,375 but she really showed a 832 01:22:20,375 --> 01:22:21,541 lot of heart coming back 833 01:22:21,541 --> 01:22:22,208 because she came back 834 01:22:22,208 --> 01:22:23,375 from like sixth place. 835 01:22:23,416 --> 01:22:24,166 Yeah, yeah. 836 01:22:24,500 --> 01:22:25,333 To finish in second, 837 01:22:25,333 --> 01:22:26,166 against the girl with the 838 01:22:26,166 --> 01:22:27,375 third fastest time of the year. 839 01:22:27,458 --> 01:22:27,916 Exactly. 840 01:22:27,916 --> 01:22:28,750 She tracked her down. 841 01:22:29,083 --> 01:22:29,708 She tracked her down in 842 01:22:29,708 --> 01:22:31,125 100 meters, it's not-- 843 01:22:31,500 --> 01:22:33,250 No, 20 more feet, our daughter I think 844 01:22:33,250 --> 01:22:34,791 would have tracked down 845 01:22:34,791 --> 01:22:35,875 the girl in first place too. 846 01:22:36,583 --> 01:22:38,083 Anyways, and then they came back 847 01:22:38,125 --> 01:22:40,750 and smashed in the four by two. 848 01:22:40,750 --> 01:22:41,166 Four by two. 849 01:22:41,500 --> 01:22:43,041 Same team, same four girls 850 01:22:43,041 --> 01:22:44,000 that were in the four by one 851 01:22:44,000 --> 01:22:44,625 and the other team. 852 01:22:44,666 --> 01:22:44,916 Yeah. 853 01:22:45,375 --> 01:22:46,625 Same four girls on our team 854 01:22:47,166 --> 01:22:48,833 and they beat them by like 20 seconds. 855 01:22:49,666 --> 01:22:52,500 Yeah, it was good to end on a high note. 856 01:22:52,500 --> 01:22:53,333 And they said, I think it 857 01:22:53,333 --> 01:22:55,000 was the second fastest all time 858 01:22:55,791 --> 01:22:56,708 in that they'd missed the record 859 01:22:56,833 --> 01:22:57,291 or it was the second 860 01:22:57,291 --> 01:22:59,541 fastest time of all time, I think. 861 01:23:00,291 --> 01:23:01,416 At the district. At the district, yeah. 862 01:23:01,416 --> 01:23:02,041 With the district's-- 863 01:23:02,041 --> 01:23:03,208 District level for them, so. 864 01:23:03,208 --> 01:23:03,625 So cool. 865 01:23:03,875 --> 01:23:04,958 Yeah, so really cool. 866 01:23:05,166 --> 01:23:06,416 Yeah, and they showed, I mean, 867 01:23:06,708 --> 01:23:07,458 it just showed a lot of 868 01:23:07,458 --> 01:23:10,000 heart and it's not easy. 869 01:23:10,250 --> 01:23:11,375 And I think one of the 870 01:23:11,375 --> 01:23:12,041 things that's challenging 871 01:23:12,166 --> 01:23:13,250 is our daughter's 872 01:23:13,250 --> 01:23:14,041 events are all pretty much 873 01:23:14,041 --> 01:23:15,000 back to back to back to back. 874 01:23:16,000 --> 01:23:18,458 And, you know, she got up. 875 01:23:19,000 --> 01:23:21,041 I think she was bummed that, you know, 876 01:23:21,541 --> 01:23:22,416 that second place I 877 01:23:22,416 --> 01:23:23,333 think really stung her, 878 01:23:24,208 --> 01:23:26,958 but I'm excited to see 879 01:23:26,958 --> 01:23:28,708 these two girls race each other 880 01:23:29,291 --> 01:23:30,500 over the next, I mean, they're gonna race 881 01:23:30,791 --> 01:23:31,250 against each other 882 01:23:31,250 --> 01:23:32,250 for the next six years. 883 01:23:32,250 --> 01:23:32,541 Yep. 884 01:23:32,958 --> 01:23:34,916 And it'll be fun to watch them. 885 01:23:35,125 --> 01:23:35,375 Yeah. 886 01:23:35,375 --> 01:23:36,333 They'll push each other. 887 01:23:36,333 --> 01:23:36,666 Yeah. 888 01:23:37,083 --> 01:23:37,375 So. 889 01:23:37,708 --> 01:23:39,041 I think it's fun, 890 01:23:39,375 --> 01:23:40,333 because since our daughter 891 01:23:40,333 --> 01:23:41,500 doesn't play soccer this year, 892 01:23:41,500 --> 01:23:42,333 this is the only time we get 893 01:23:42,333 --> 01:23:43,833 to see her compete kind of. 894 01:23:43,916 --> 01:23:44,333 Yeah. 895 01:23:44,458 --> 01:23:45,541 Thus far in a whole year. 896 01:23:45,750 --> 01:23:48,041 So it's been intense to 897 01:23:48,041 --> 01:23:49,583 watch her do this, you know, 898 01:23:49,791 --> 01:23:51,000 and track being mostly 899 01:23:51,000 --> 01:23:52,375 individual on some of those events. 900 01:23:53,875 --> 01:23:54,333 There's just more at 901 01:23:54,333 --> 01:23:55,666 stake than the boys, you know, 902 01:23:55,666 --> 01:23:57,583 playing team sports and individually 903 01:23:57,583 --> 01:23:58,625 trying to, you know, 904 01:23:58,833 --> 01:24:00,416 play well within their team structure. 905 01:24:01,083 --> 01:24:01,291 Yeah. 906 01:24:01,916 --> 01:24:01,958 So. 907 01:24:02,708 --> 01:24:03,458 Although we did, she 908 01:24:03,458 --> 01:24:05,208 will be playing soccer here 909 01:24:05,333 --> 01:24:06,291 for the school, cause 910 01:24:06,291 --> 01:24:07,458 we found out tonight. 911 01:24:07,625 --> 01:24:07,791 Yeah. 912 01:24:08,458 --> 01:24:09,791 She made the soccer 913 01:24:09,791 --> 01:24:10,750 team, which was great. 914 01:24:11,208 --> 01:24:13,000 Yeah, it's only one 915 01:24:13,000 --> 01:24:13,750 team for the whole school. 916 01:24:14,000 --> 01:24:14,625 Eighth graders and 917 01:24:14,625 --> 01:24:15,708 seventh graders, she's a Seve. 918 01:24:16,750 --> 01:24:17,500 Yeah, yeah. 919 01:24:17,500 --> 01:24:19,458 As they're so kindly referred to. 920 01:24:19,750 --> 01:24:21,291 She's a Seve, yeah. 921 01:24:21,916 --> 01:24:23,375 So good for her, very proud. 922 01:24:23,458 --> 01:24:23,708 Yeah. 923 01:24:23,750 --> 01:24:24,791 As we are, I know we probably 924 01:24:24,791 --> 01:24:26,000 talk too much about our kids 925 01:24:26,208 --> 01:24:27,583 and don't want to come 926 01:24:27,583 --> 01:24:30,416 across too braggy on this, 927 01:24:30,708 --> 01:24:32,208 but everybody's proud of their kids. 928 01:24:32,708 --> 01:24:33,625 Yeah, and it's cool. 929 01:24:33,875 --> 01:24:36,125 I'm excited because 930 01:24:36,125 --> 01:24:37,708 she'll be with a lot of, 931 01:24:37,916 --> 01:24:40,083 or not a whole lot, but a 932 01:24:40,083 --> 01:24:43,166 few of her actual teammates 933 01:24:43,166 --> 01:24:44,125 that used to be on her 934 01:24:44,125 --> 01:24:45,333 team when she played, 935 01:24:45,875 --> 01:24:47,333 or when she was playing club soccer. 936 01:24:47,333 --> 01:24:49,791 So it'll be fun to get some 937 01:24:49,791 --> 01:24:50,750 of the gang back together. 938 01:24:51,416 --> 01:24:51,583 Yeah. 939 01:24:52,166 --> 01:24:54,625 Some of her besties, which is awesome. 940 01:24:54,958 --> 01:24:56,208 Yeah, yeah. 941 01:24:56,833 --> 01:24:57,666 It'll be fun, but. 942 01:24:58,916 --> 01:24:59,416 And that's where the 943 01:24:59,416 --> 01:25:00,750 positivity stops, folks. 944 01:25:01,750 --> 01:25:02,500 (laughs) I know. 945 01:25:03,208 --> 01:25:04,958 I'll mention I'm on a fast one more time. 946 01:25:05,208 --> 01:25:05,500 Yes. 947 01:25:06,500 --> 01:25:07,500 So not that anybody really 948 01:25:07,500 --> 01:25:08,583 cares, but go ahead, and. 949 01:25:09,166 --> 01:25:12,458 Well, and I feel a little bit guilty here 950 01:25:12,500 --> 01:25:14,583 because here I made dinner tonight 951 01:25:14,958 --> 01:25:16,083 and we're all eating 952 01:25:16,083 --> 01:25:17,208 directly in front of him. 953 01:25:17,208 --> 01:25:18,291 The last time you were on a fast, 954 01:25:18,291 --> 01:25:19,791 you weren't even home that night. 955 01:25:19,958 --> 01:25:20,250 Yeah. 956 01:25:20,791 --> 01:25:21,708 So you didn't have the 957 01:25:21,708 --> 01:25:23,458 temptation of the smell of food, 958 01:25:23,666 --> 01:25:25,583 people truly eating in front of you. 959 01:25:26,250 --> 01:25:27,041 Yeah, there's some 960 01:25:27,041 --> 01:25:28,375 self-discipline in this, 961 01:25:28,375 --> 01:25:29,625 and it's hard because I love eating, 962 01:25:30,000 --> 01:25:32,291 but one thing is, so 963 01:25:32,291 --> 01:25:33,333 I decided to do this, 964 01:25:33,333 --> 01:25:35,208 but then I told you on the last show, 965 01:25:35,208 --> 01:25:36,666 I think my cousin does this too. 966 01:25:36,666 --> 01:25:36,958 Yeah. 967 01:25:37,291 --> 01:25:38,541 So he actually started 968 01:25:38,541 --> 01:25:39,666 Sunday night as well. 969 01:25:40,083 --> 01:25:40,416 Okay. 970 01:25:40,458 --> 01:25:41,375 I started Sunday night maybe 971 01:25:41,375 --> 01:25:42,291 a little bit later than him, 972 01:25:42,291 --> 01:25:43,625 but he's going for 100 hours. 973 01:25:44,458 --> 01:25:45,416 He hasn't made it yet, but 974 01:25:45,416 --> 01:25:46,708 he's trying, which is crazy. 975 01:25:47,250 --> 01:25:47,833 That's incredible. 976 01:25:47,875 --> 01:25:48,333 But he's like, "I can 977 01:25:48,333 --> 01:25:49,750 do 48 without blinking." 978 01:25:50,000 --> 01:25:50,958 He's like, "48's easy." 979 01:25:51,166 --> 01:25:52,208 And I'm like, "48?" 980 01:25:52,875 --> 01:25:53,333 Well, I don't know, 981 01:25:53,333 --> 01:25:54,250 I've only done it once. 982 01:25:54,250 --> 01:25:54,500 Right. 983 01:25:54,541 --> 01:25:56,250 So anyways, we already talked about 984 01:25:56,250 --> 01:25:57,375 fasting on this show 985 01:25:57,833 --> 01:25:59,541 once before, so, but I think 986 01:25:59,541 --> 01:26:00,833 I might do it every Monday. 987 01:26:01,208 --> 01:26:02,500 If you could fast, I was told you, 988 01:26:02,500 --> 01:26:03,875 I did the quick math on it, you know? 989 01:26:03,875 --> 01:26:05,541 It's like 50,000 less calories a year. 990 01:26:06,125 --> 01:26:08,666 52 days a year you don't eat 991 01:26:09,791 --> 01:26:12,375 when I overeat the other 300 992 01:26:12,375 --> 01:26:15,583 and, you know, 12, you know? 993 01:26:16,041 --> 01:26:16,625 Whatever it is. 994 01:26:17,000 --> 01:26:19,750 The, you know, that would help probably. 995 01:26:19,750 --> 01:26:20,000 Yeah. 996 01:26:21,375 --> 01:26:22,416 I mean, the ice cream 997 01:26:22,416 --> 01:26:23,625 bowl I had last night 998 01:26:24,125 --> 01:26:24,750 was just stupid. 999 01:26:25,000 --> 01:26:26,083 That's partially why I did it. 1000 01:26:26,083 --> 01:26:26,750 I'm like, "Why did I 1001 01:26:26,750 --> 01:26:27,708 take that much ice cream?" 1002 01:26:28,458 --> 01:26:29,333 I didn't even realize 1003 01:26:29,333 --> 01:26:30,333 that you had a whole lot. 1004 01:26:30,333 --> 01:26:32,000 I guess I was watching our youngest 1005 01:26:32,750 --> 01:26:33,958 overfill the cup that he 1006 01:26:33,958 --> 01:26:37,208 was making a shake out of. 1007 01:26:37,250 --> 01:26:39,000 I had the rest of our daughters, 1008 01:26:39,458 --> 01:26:42,000 somebody's ice cream birthday cake. 1009 01:26:42,000 --> 01:26:42,916 Oh yeah, yeah, mm-hmm. 1010 01:26:43,625 --> 01:26:45,625 And then I threw like three more scoops 1011 01:26:45,791 --> 01:26:46,291 of cookies and cream 1012 01:26:46,291 --> 01:26:47,375 ice cream on top of it. 1013 01:26:48,041 --> 01:26:49,208 Okay, well. 1014 01:26:49,583 --> 01:26:50,291 Just to make sure. 1015 01:26:50,541 --> 01:26:51,208 I mean, I come from an 1016 01:26:51,208 --> 01:26:52,500 ice cream family, I mean. 1017 01:26:53,166 --> 01:26:54,000 You do. 1018 01:26:54,125 --> 01:26:56,166 And you're not, you love cake. 1019 01:26:56,708 --> 01:26:59,125 I'll do, yeah, I like ice 1020 01:26:59,125 --> 01:26:59,958 cream every now and again, 1021 01:26:59,958 --> 01:27:01,083 but it's not my go-to dessert. 1022 01:27:01,333 --> 01:27:02,250 Yeah. Yeah. 1023 01:27:02,625 --> 01:27:04,250 You love ice cream, chocolate, 1024 01:27:04,750 --> 01:27:06,500 see, I do know that, you know, 1025 01:27:06,500 --> 01:27:08,708 when you are on your deathbed, 1026 01:27:08,708 --> 01:27:09,916 just give you chocolate milkshakes. 1027 01:27:10,250 --> 01:27:11,125 Chocolate milkshakes and 1028 01:27:11,125 --> 01:27:13,041 Celine Dion and you and the kids. 1029 01:27:13,416 --> 01:27:13,875 That's all I need. 1030 01:27:14,416 --> 01:27:14,916 That's all you need. 1031 01:27:15,458 --> 01:27:17,041 It actually sounds pretty darn good. 1032 01:27:17,750 --> 01:27:18,875 Yeah, I'm not looking 1033 01:27:18,875 --> 01:27:20,583 forward to it, I don't wanna say. 1034 01:27:21,208 --> 01:27:22,333 No, no, no, don't wish 1035 01:27:22,333 --> 01:27:23,833 time away, but in that moment. 1036 01:27:24,166 --> 01:27:25,750 But 50 years from, or 1037 01:27:25,750 --> 01:27:27,625 55 years from now or so, 1038 01:27:27,875 --> 01:27:28,666 that'll be about right. 1039 01:27:30,708 --> 01:27:31,375 Yeah, 55. 1040 01:27:31,916 --> 01:27:32,333 I don't know. 1041 01:27:32,791 --> 01:27:33,625 We've got long jeans, I 1042 01:27:33,625 --> 01:27:34,125 don't know if I've got 1043 01:27:34,125 --> 01:27:34,958 that long of jeans, 1044 01:27:34,958 --> 01:27:35,791 but we'll give it a go. 1045 01:27:36,041 --> 01:27:36,250 Yeah. 1046 01:27:38,333 --> 01:27:40,000 Well, especially if, you know, 1047 01:27:40,000 --> 01:27:41,458 the stress of the last 1048 01:27:41,458 --> 01:27:43,166 five days or whatever. 1049 01:27:44,458 --> 01:27:45,375 I'll let you get into it, 1050 01:27:45,375 --> 01:27:46,333 because I don't know how to get into it 1051 01:27:46,333 --> 01:27:47,625 without being so many emotional. 1052 01:27:48,208 --> 01:27:49,291 It's not the end of the world, 1053 01:27:49,291 --> 01:27:51,166 but it's super frustrating, 1054 01:27:52,083 --> 01:27:54,041 and just other people being selfish 1055 01:27:55,041 --> 01:27:56,791 in making decisions for our family 1056 01:27:56,791 --> 01:27:58,875 that are our family's decisions to make. 1057 01:27:59,166 --> 01:27:59,458 Yeah. 1058 01:27:59,791 --> 01:28:00,333 Horcing the hand. 1059 01:28:00,708 --> 01:28:03,208 Yeah, and then it, and 1060 01:28:03,208 --> 01:28:05,041 part of it is, you know, 1061 01:28:06,083 --> 01:28:06,958 with this type of drama, 1062 01:28:07,541 --> 01:28:09,416 I try, you and I both try, 1063 01:28:09,416 --> 01:28:10,916 are really trying to have perspective, 1064 01:28:11,250 --> 01:28:13,500 because there are people in this world, 1065 01:28:13,541 --> 01:28:14,875 and even problems in our own lives, 1066 01:28:14,875 --> 01:28:15,750 that are actually much bigger 1067 01:28:15,750 --> 01:28:19,000 than some of the soccer drama 1068 01:28:19,000 --> 01:28:19,916 that's happened. 1069 01:28:19,916 --> 01:28:20,416 That's a good point. 1070 01:28:20,750 --> 01:28:22,000 You know, and we try to 1071 01:28:22,000 --> 01:28:22,833 keep it in perspective. 1072 01:28:24,458 --> 01:28:25,333 But what's frustrating 1073 01:28:25,333 --> 01:28:27,500 is we spend so much time, 1074 01:28:28,000 --> 01:28:29,500 and you know, our life 1075 01:28:29,500 --> 01:28:30,958 revolves around the sports 1076 01:28:30,958 --> 01:28:32,875 that our kids play a lot, 1077 01:28:33,083 --> 01:28:35,458 and really, kids, period. 1078 01:28:36,583 --> 01:28:38,125 And when something disrupts that, 1079 01:28:38,958 --> 01:28:39,625 that, you know, 1080 01:28:39,625 --> 01:28:40,833 wasn't within our control, 1081 01:28:42,083 --> 01:28:42,833 that I think is-- 1082 01:28:43,333 --> 01:28:44,375 Or expected or planned for. 1083 01:28:44,375 --> 01:28:46,666 Or expected or planned for, you know, 1084 01:28:46,666 --> 01:28:49,541 and then it negatively affects your kid, 1085 01:28:49,791 --> 01:28:51,250 and you're just, you 1086 01:28:51,250 --> 01:28:52,583 kind of, in our case, 1087 01:28:52,583 --> 01:28:53,041 it's like, we're 1088 01:28:53,041 --> 01:28:54,291 counting on an 11 year old 1089 01:28:54,291 --> 01:28:56,000 to be more adult than a whole 1090 01:28:56,000 --> 01:28:57,125 bunch of adults in the room. 1091 01:28:57,291 --> 01:28:57,458 Yeah. 1092 01:28:57,750 --> 01:28:59,250 And for the record, he's 1093 01:28:59,250 --> 01:29:00,541 doing an awesome job doing that. 1094 01:29:00,583 --> 01:29:02,041 He is doing a really good job doing that. 1095 01:29:02,750 --> 01:29:06,166 But, no 11 year old should 1096 01:29:06,166 --> 01:29:07,833 have to be in that position, 1097 01:29:07,833 --> 01:29:09,166 where they're like, oh, 1098 01:29:09,166 --> 01:29:10,166 I'm the one who's gonna, 1099 01:29:10,166 --> 01:29:11,625 this happened to me. 1100 01:29:12,958 --> 01:29:15,083 And I didn't have a say, 1101 01:29:15,083 --> 01:29:17,375 and now I just have to be okay with it. 1102 01:29:18,125 --> 01:29:18,333 And-- 1103 01:29:18,708 --> 01:29:20,083 And it's gonna present you with a choice 1104 01:29:20,291 --> 01:29:21,375 that you never wanted to 1105 01:29:21,375 --> 01:29:22,250 make in the first place. 1106 01:29:22,500 --> 01:29:23,291 Yeah, yeah. 1107 01:29:24,625 --> 01:29:26,875 So, it's a little 1108 01:29:26,875 --> 01:29:29,166 frustrating, to say the least. 1109 01:29:29,458 --> 01:29:30,041 And so, it's really 1110 01:29:30,041 --> 01:29:33,458 consumed so much of our time, 1111 01:29:34,250 --> 01:29:35,916 which irritates me, because I don't, 1112 01:29:37,666 --> 01:29:40,208 I love to vent to you, but 1113 01:29:40,208 --> 01:29:41,375 I like the venting to you, 1114 01:29:41,375 --> 01:29:43,000 where I can just say it and get it out, 1115 01:29:43,000 --> 01:29:44,583 and then we go about, 1116 01:29:44,583 --> 01:29:45,416 and we can talk about 1117 01:29:45,583 --> 01:29:46,500 all the great things in 1118 01:29:46,500 --> 01:29:48,750 life, and talk about fun stuff. 1119 01:29:50,000 --> 01:29:51,333 And I feel like for five days, 1120 01:29:51,333 --> 01:29:52,416 all we've done is just 1121 01:29:52,416 --> 01:29:56,208 unpack the soccer drama. 1122 01:29:56,791 --> 01:29:58,375 Yeah, yeah. 1123 01:29:58,375 --> 01:29:58,750 You know? 1124 01:29:59,333 --> 01:29:59,500 Yeah. 1125 01:29:59,958 --> 01:30:02,291 And I don't know how else to say that, 1126 01:30:02,291 --> 01:30:04,083 but it's been a lot. 1127 01:30:04,750 --> 01:30:05,416 It has, I mean, 1128 01:30:05,833 --> 01:30:07,750 constant texts and emails, 1129 01:30:08,250 --> 01:30:09,750 during the day, during the work day, 1130 01:30:09,916 --> 01:30:13,500 and this and that, and yeah. 1131 01:30:14,375 --> 01:30:15,208 I know it's tough for 1132 01:30:15,208 --> 01:30:15,875 us to talk about it, 1133 01:30:15,875 --> 01:30:17,750 because we can't say too much, 1134 01:30:17,750 --> 01:30:19,750 because it's still happening. 1135 01:30:20,166 --> 01:30:21,958 Things are still fluid right now, 1136 01:30:22,125 --> 01:30:23,166 even when this comes out. 1137 01:30:23,541 --> 01:30:24,125 And I know there's people 1138 01:30:24,125 --> 01:30:25,833 on our team that watch this. 1139 01:30:27,041 --> 01:30:31,208 And we have to be careful of what we say, 1140 01:30:31,208 --> 01:30:32,458 and what we do, and 1141 01:30:32,458 --> 01:30:33,750 what knowledge we have, 1142 01:30:33,750 --> 01:30:36,000 and don't have, and things that we think. 1143 01:30:36,708 --> 01:30:38,708 Right, well, and because the last thing 1144 01:30:39,208 --> 01:30:41,791 that we would ever want to do, 1145 01:30:42,458 --> 01:30:46,291 is impact someone else's child, 1146 01:30:46,625 --> 01:30:48,625 or someone else's family by our words, 1147 01:30:48,625 --> 01:30:51,041 which is exactly what happened to us. 1148 01:30:51,041 --> 01:30:52,708 Which is exactly, exactly. 1149 01:30:52,708 --> 01:30:53,125 That's what we're 1150 01:30:53,125 --> 01:30:54,208 trying to avoid right now. 1151 01:30:54,416 --> 01:30:54,625 Right. 1152 01:30:55,166 --> 01:30:56,791 Is exactly what somebody else did to us, 1153 01:30:56,791 --> 01:30:57,916 and put all of us. 1154 01:30:58,958 --> 01:30:59,916 20 some other kids and 1155 01:30:59,916 --> 01:31:01,000 families in a position. 1156 01:31:01,500 --> 01:31:02,750 Because one person, 1157 01:31:04,416 --> 01:31:05,166 decided to take it upon 1158 01:31:05,166 --> 01:31:06,208 themselves to be selfish. 1159 01:31:07,041 --> 01:31:08,000 Drives me insane. 1160 01:31:08,458 --> 01:31:09,875 It's the classic, one 1161 01:31:09,875 --> 01:31:11,208 ruins it for the rest. 1162 01:31:11,250 --> 01:31:16,208 Yes, one bad apple ruins the whole bunch. 1163 01:31:16,500 --> 01:31:17,791 Is that how the saying goes? 1164 01:31:17,791 --> 01:31:18,041 Bushel. 1165 01:31:18,750 --> 01:31:19,833 Bushel, oh, see. 1166 01:31:20,125 --> 01:31:21,708 There's one time I knew it. 1167 01:31:22,000 --> 01:31:22,583 How about that? 1168 01:31:23,541 --> 01:31:24,166 I love it. 1169 01:31:24,208 --> 01:31:26,125 Yeah, that's good. 1170 01:31:26,166 --> 01:31:27,541 It's gotta feel good for you, right? 1171 01:31:27,541 --> 01:31:28,291 I see you didn't know. 1172 01:31:28,291 --> 01:31:31,000 I finished your sentence in that case. 1173 01:31:31,000 --> 01:31:32,166 Yeah, yeah, twice. 1174 01:31:36,333 --> 01:31:37,208 Metaphor even. 1175 01:31:37,208 --> 01:31:37,666 You could've gone with 1176 01:31:37,666 --> 01:31:38,583 all kinds of things there. 1177 01:31:38,916 --> 01:31:41,625 I could have, but sentence actually 1178 01:31:41,625 --> 01:31:42,833 was the most appropriate. 1179 01:31:43,833 --> 01:31:44,625 I cannot believe we're 1180 01:31:44,625 --> 01:31:45,708 already at 30 minutes here. 1181 01:31:46,083 --> 01:31:46,833 That's insane. 1182 01:31:46,833 --> 01:31:47,541 So what do you wanna do? 1183 01:31:49,083 --> 01:31:49,583 I don't know. 1184 01:31:50,166 --> 01:31:51,791 Do we wanna talk just really 1185 01:31:51,791 --> 01:31:53,208 quickly about the insanity? 1186 01:31:53,500 --> 01:31:55,458 So what ensued after the track meet? 1187 01:31:55,750 --> 01:31:56,541 For 20 more minutes? 1188 01:31:57,000 --> 01:32:00,791 Oh yeah, so we leave, gosh, yeah. 1189 01:32:00,958 --> 01:32:02,208 All right, buckle up, I 1190 01:32:02,208 --> 01:32:03,041 forgot about that part. 1191 01:32:03,041 --> 01:32:04,416 Yeah, yeah, so. 1192 01:32:04,416 --> 01:32:05,666 This is what started off the soccer. 1193 01:32:05,958 --> 01:32:07,791 What started off, so 1194 01:32:07,791 --> 01:32:08,875 after the track meet, 1195 01:32:09,208 --> 01:32:10,083 oh, by the way, the track 1196 01:32:10,083 --> 01:32:11,291 meet starts with our daughter 1197 01:32:11,458 --> 01:32:12,541 jumping off the bus 1198 01:32:12,541 --> 01:32:13,708 and landing on her knees, 1199 01:32:13,708 --> 01:32:14,666 so that was the other thing 1200 01:32:14,666 --> 01:32:15,625 that she was dealing with. 1201 01:32:15,625 --> 01:32:17,541 She has like a bruised and scraped knee 1202 01:32:17,583 --> 01:32:18,666 because she fell 1203 01:32:18,666 --> 01:32:20,416 climbing off the bus, which. 1204 01:32:21,041 --> 01:32:22,583 She fell out of the back of the bus. 1205 01:32:22,625 --> 01:32:23,750 She fell out of the back of the bus. 1206 01:32:24,083 --> 01:32:24,958 Yes, she's 13. 1207 01:32:25,666 --> 01:32:26,541 Yes, we've been touting 1208 01:32:26,541 --> 01:32:27,583 her as super athletic, 1209 01:32:27,583 --> 01:32:28,416 but yes, she also fell 1210 01:32:28,416 --> 01:32:29,250 out of the back of the bus. 1211 01:32:30,833 --> 01:32:31,666 Just go with us people. 1212 01:32:32,458 --> 01:32:36,416 Anyway, so then, you know, she's mad. 1213 01:32:36,416 --> 01:32:37,500 We then have to drive to the 1214 01:32:37,500 --> 01:32:38,916 other side of the Metroplex 1215 01:32:39,166 --> 01:32:44,583 to get to a soccer game, and not joking, 1216 01:32:46,416 --> 01:32:48,291 a fight breaks out at that game. 1217 01:32:49,041 --> 01:32:50,333 Well, I mean, back up just slightly. 1218 01:32:50,625 --> 01:32:52,916 This is a contentious, I 1219 01:32:52,916 --> 01:32:54,625 mean, how do you say this? 1220 01:32:54,625 --> 01:32:56,041 I mean, like, these top 1221 01:32:56,041 --> 01:32:58,125 five teams in the Metroplex, 1222 01:32:58,625 --> 01:33:00,125 we've talked about it before, right? 1223 01:33:00,125 --> 01:33:01,500 There's just a lot of 1224 01:33:01,500 --> 01:33:03,250 ego, a lot of pride, 1225 01:33:03,500 --> 01:33:05,916 a lot of talent, a lot of 1226 01:33:05,916 --> 01:33:07,541 all that mixed into this, 1227 01:33:07,541 --> 01:33:11,750 just this constant emotional, you know, 1228 01:33:12,666 --> 01:33:13,708 head-to-head meetings, 1229 01:33:13,708 --> 01:33:14,458 because we play them 1230 01:33:14,458 --> 01:33:15,833 constantly in these leagues, 1231 01:33:15,833 --> 01:33:17,333 because certain leagues and 1232 01:33:17,333 --> 01:33:20,375 certain, it's leagues, yeah, 1233 01:33:20,875 --> 01:33:21,875 these top teams play, 1234 01:33:21,875 --> 01:33:22,541 and so we'll play them 1235 01:33:22,541 --> 01:33:23,708 two or three times, and 1236 01:33:23,708 --> 01:33:25,250 we play each one of them, 1237 01:33:25,250 --> 01:33:26,250 you know, next night, and 1238 01:33:26,250 --> 01:33:27,416 then the next one the next night. 1239 01:33:28,875 --> 01:33:31,125 And, you know, we know we're familiar 1240 01:33:31,125 --> 01:33:32,458 with some of the players and the coaches 1241 01:33:32,458 --> 01:33:34,333 and the other teams' parents. 1242 01:33:34,333 --> 01:33:34,625 I mean, like-- Oh, yeah, 1243 01:33:34,625 --> 01:33:35,583 it's a very small community. 1244 01:33:35,875 --> 01:33:36,666 Small community, so 1245 01:33:36,666 --> 01:33:39,916 you know the bad apples 1246 01:33:39,916 --> 01:33:40,583 and all that kind of 1247 01:33:40,583 --> 01:33:40,875 stuff. You know the bad apples, 1248 01:33:40,875 --> 01:33:41,500 yeah, you don't actually 1249 01:33:41,500 --> 01:33:42,000 know all the good ones. 1250 01:33:42,041 --> 01:33:42,583 Anyways, this was 1251 01:33:42,583 --> 01:33:44,041 another one of those teams, 1252 01:33:44,333 --> 01:33:46,458 and we got down early, 1253 01:33:46,666 --> 01:33:47,791 and the refs, by the way, 1254 01:33:47,791 --> 01:33:50,000 are terrible, and I hate, do I hate, 1255 01:33:51,000 --> 01:33:52,125 but refs and parents 1256 01:33:52,125 --> 01:33:53,333 ruin everything, they do. 1257 01:33:53,708 --> 01:33:55,458 They do? We just wanna watch kids play. 1258 01:33:55,500 --> 01:33:57,083 I just wanna watch the kids play. 1259 01:33:57,125 --> 01:33:57,916 And refs, anyways. 1260 01:33:59,125 --> 01:33:59,958 And the parents ruin it. 1261 01:34:00,208 --> 01:34:01,833 So we're down, it's 1262 01:34:01,833 --> 01:34:03,500 contentious, people are yelling. 1263 01:34:04,500 --> 01:34:08,500 Well, our youngest is going after a ball, 1264 01:34:08,916 --> 01:34:10,500 and he beats the keeper 1265 01:34:10,500 --> 01:34:12,625 and two other players to it, 1266 01:34:13,250 --> 01:34:14,666 grabs it, goes down, 1267 01:34:14,916 --> 01:34:17,041 scores, empty net, basically, 1268 01:34:17,500 --> 01:34:18,875 because he was able to, 1269 01:34:18,875 --> 01:34:20,833 so he got the tying goal, 1270 01:34:21,666 --> 01:34:23,333 and everybody's like, yeah, he's running, 1271 01:34:23,333 --> 01:34:24,541 grabbing it out of the goal, 1272 01:34:24,875 --> 01:34:26,250 as you do in these situations, 1273 01:34:26,250 --> 01:34:27,458 we wanna get back and score again. 1274 01:34:28,000 --> 01:34:29,125 We should be beating this team. 1275 01:34:30,500 --> 01:34:33,208 Well, as we look back 1276 01:34:33,208 --> 01:34:34,458 to what else is going on, 1277 01:34:34,458 --> 01:34:35,458 whistles start blowing. 1278 01:34:38,000 --> 01:34:40,083 Like, and we've missed, at this point, 1279 01:34:40,083 --> 01:34:41,583 we've missed what all started. 1280 01:34:42,041 --> 01:34:43,916 The first thing I see is one of our kids 1281 01:34:44,083 --> 01:34:46,708 like diving on top of the 1282 01:34:46,708 --> 01:34:49,166 goalkeeper and like swinging, 1283 01:34:49,166 --> 01:34:52,000 we're like, what is going on? 1284 01:34:52,000 --> 01:34:52,708 Yeah, fully pounding 1285 01:34:52,708 --> 01:34:55,541 the keeper with two fists, 1286 01:34:55,916 --> 01:34:56,375 boom, boom, boom. 1287 01:34:57,291 --> 01:34:58,583 So, I mean, the long 1288 01:34:58,583 --> 01:34:59,541 and the short of it was, 1289 01:34:59,625 --> 01:35:01,166 after our youngest took 1290 01:35:01,166 --> 01:35:02,000 the ball from that keeper, 1291 01:35:02,500 --> 01:35:04,541 he fell on the ground, it 1292 01:35:04,541 --> 01:35:05,416 was kind of like a collision 1293 01:35:05,583 --> 01:35:06,541 between our son, the 1294 01:35:06,541 --> 01:35:07,958 keeper, and two other defenders, 1295 01:35:08,416 --> 01:35:09,750 but our son came out with the ball, 1296 01:35:10,041 --> 01:35:11,333 and the other ones kind of fell. 1297 01:35:12,458 --> 01:35:13,958 So one of our players goes up to the 1298 01:35:13,958 --> 01:35:14,958 goalie, who knows him? 1299 01:35:14,958 --> 01:35:16,625 He spent the night at this guy's house. 1300 01:35:16,916 --> 01:35:18,083 They're apparently friends. 1301 01:35:18,875 --> 01:35:19,541 To make sure he's 1302 01:35:19,541 --> 01:35:20,750 okay, kind of picks him up, 1303 01:35:20,750 --> 01:35:21,458 it's like, are you all right? 1304 01:35:21,791 --> 01:35:23,166 As he starts to turn away, 1305 01:35:23,916 --> 01:35:25,625 the goalie grabs him in 1306 01:35:25,625 --> 01:35:27,041 a headlock from behind 1307 01:35:27,333 --> 01:35:28,500 as he's walking away, 1308 01:35:29,750 --> 01:35:30,875 slams him into the ground, 1309 01:35:30,875 --> 01:35:31,666 and proceeds to start 1310 01:35:31,666 --> 01:35:33,208 slamming his head into the ground. 1311 01:35:34,125 --> 01:35:34,875 Our team's player. 1312 01:35:35,166 --> 01:35:36,333 Yes, yes, the goalie 1313 01:35:36,333 --> 01:35:37,250 is doing this to our-- 1314 01:35:37,250 --> 01:35:38,625 The other team's goalie is 1315 01:35:38,625 --> 01:35:39,583 doing this to our team's player. 1316 01:35:40,833 --> 01:35:42,750 So we got another player from our team, 1317 01:35:43,500 --> 01:35:44,958 running across the field, 1318 01:35:44,958 --> 01:35:45,708 who now we all have 1319 01:35:45,708 --> 01:35:46,833 seen the video of this, 1320 01:35:47,416 --> 01:35:47,958 because the video's 1321 01:35:47,958 --> 01:35:49,500 been made its way out. 1322 01:35:49,500 --> 01:35:50,291 I actually have not 1323 01:35:50,291 --> 01:35:51,541 seen this video, but-- 1324 01:35:51,583 --> 01:35:52,625 Some of us have seen it then. 1325 01:35:53,666 --> 01:35:54,416 His other player on our 1326 01:35:54,416 --> 01:35:56,000 team comes, clocks the goalie, 1327 01:35:56,708 --> 01:35:58,250 to stop him beating our 1328 01:35:58,250 --> 01:35:59,666 other, giving him a concussion, 1329 01:36:00,083 --> 01:36:01,083 banging his head into the ground. 1330 01:36:02,000 --> 01:36:03,833 And we're playing on turf, 1331 01:36:03,833 --> 01:36:05,125 so it's not like soft ground. 1332 01:36:05,666 --> 01:36:06,458 Yeah, no, this is like 1333 01:36:06,458 --> 01:36:08,416 cement with turf over the top. 1334 01:36:08,416 --> 01:36:09,666 Right, and then that's 1335 01:36:09,666 --> 01:36:10,583 when the other player 1336 01:36:11,000 --> 01:36:12,375 came over and jumped on the goalie 1337 01:36:12,375 --> 01:36:13,708 and started defending our kids. 1338 01:36:14,875 --> 01:36:15,875 Defending both of our players were 1339 01:36:15,875 --> 01:36:17,416 defending our player, 1340 01:36:17,416 --> 01:36:20,333 who was completely getting accosted. 1341 01:36:20,583 --> 01:36:21,500 Right, right. 1342 01:36:21,708 --> 01:36:23,458 So then, you know, the 1343 01:36:23,458 --> 01:36:24,666 refs don't handle it well, 1344 01:36:24,666 --> 01:36:25,583 they don't break it up well, 1345 01:36:25,583 --> 01:36:26,416 they're trying to give out 1346 01:36:26,416 --> 01:36:28,041 red cards to the wrong people. 1347 01:36:28,708 --> 01:36:29,250 And because they're 1348 01:36:29,250 --> 01:36:30,041 doing the wrong people 1349 01:36:30,041 --> 01:36:31,333 and talking to the wrong kids, 1350 01:36:31,333 --> 01:36:32,916 the parents are now yelling at it, 1351 01:36:32,916 --> 01:36:34,791 like, "It was that kid, it was that kid," 1352 01:36:35,916 --> 01:36:37,375 at the refs. 1353 01:36:37,541 --> 01:36:37,708 Yeah. 1354 01:36:39,500 --> 01:36:41,166 And then this is when, I mean, 1355 01:36:41,500 --> 01:36:43,250 luckily this doesn't happen that often. 1356 01:36:43,250 --> 01:36:44,750 This is the first I've seen this. 1357 01:36:45,250 --> 01:36:48,416 Yeah, but the parents sometimes 1358 01:36:48,416 --> 01:36:49,416 are just so out of control. 1359 01:36:49,791 --> 01:36:51,625 And I don't wanna always say it's the 1360 01:36:51,625 --> 01:36:52,375 other team's parents, 1361 01:36:52,375 --> 01:36:53,083 because we have parents 1362 01:36:53,083 --> 01:36:55,125 that can get rambunctious too, 1363 01:36:55,541 --> 01:36:56,625 but never to this level. 1364 01:36:57,541 --> 01:36:58,583 So the parents got together 1365 01:36:58,583 --> 01:37:00,458 at midfield on the sideline 1366 01:37:01,125 --> 01:37:03,166 and yelling at each 1367 01:37:03,166 --> 01:37:04,500 other and this and that, 1368 01:37:04,500 --> 01:37:06,416 and then someone starts throwing a punch 1369 01:37:06,583 --> 01:37:07,958 on the parents' side. 1370 01:37:08,833 --> 01:37:10,625 And like, you know, we all are 1371 01:37:10,625 --> 01:37:12,625 professionals during the day, 1372 01:37:12,625 --> 01:37:13,583 we don't see this happen. 1373 01:37:14,125 --> 01:37:16,333 This isn't real life, generally speaking. 1374 01:37:16,750 --> 01:37:19,000 I've actually never seen a fight. 1375 01:37:19,041 --> 01:37:20,291 It's like YouTube type stuff, right? 1376 01:37:20,750 --> 01:37:21,166 Yeah, yeah. 1377 01:37:22,291 --> 01:37:25,625 It was craziness. 1378 01:37:26,541 --> 01:37:28,708 Cops got called, cops showed 1379 01:37:28,708 --> 01:37:30,291 up, they canceled the game. 1380 01:37:32,250 --> 01:37:33,125 I mean, it was just 1381 01:37:33,125 --> 01:37:34,916 insane, it was insanity. 1382 01:37:36,000 --> 01:37:37,708 And then the next day is 1383 01:37:37,708 --> 01:37:38,750 when all this other stuff 1384 01:37:38,750 --> 01:37:41,500 that was unrelated to that happened. 1385 01:37:41,916 --> 01:37:42,916 So I mean, literally, 1386 01:37:43,500 --> 01:37:45,875 since our daughter fell out 1387 01:37:45,875 --> 01:37:46,833 of the back of the bus, 1388 01:37:46,833 --> 01:37:47,791 our emotions have been high. 1389 01:37:48,125 --> 01:37:49,500 Yes, yes. 1390 01:37:49,708 --> 01:37:52,000 And so we've been in this valley of like, 1391 01:37:52,458 --> 01:37:53,666 oh my gosh, the stress. 1392 01:37:54,250 --> 01:37:56,333 Because I think we said 1393 01:37:56,333 --> 01:37:58,000 it, our pastor says this, 1394 01:37:58,000 --> 01:37:59,833 like there's no pain like kid pain. 1395 01:37:59,833 --> 01:38:00,958 He said it last week, totally true. 1396 01:38:01,000 --> 01:38:01,958 It's so true. 1397 01:38:01,958 --> 01:38:03,208 And like when something is 1398 01:38:03,208 --> 01:38:06,708 negatively impacting our kid, 1399 01:38:07,583 --> 01:38:10,083 just feel it in such a way 1400 01:38:10,083 --> 01:38:13,000 that you never thought you could. 1401 01:38:13,041 --> 01:38:14,916 And then the adults on the side, 1402 01:38:15,250 --> 01:38:17,500 like after the fight, different issue, 1403 01:38:17,541 --> 01:38:19,833 the adults that are 1404 01:38:19,833 --> 01:38:22,875 supposedly handling this are like, 1405 01:38:22,875 --> 01:38:23,500 oh, this isn't the 1406 01:38:23,500 --> 01:38:24,875 best interest of the kids. 1407 01:38:25,375 --> 01:38:29,666 And it's not, it just simply isn't. 1408 01:38:29,666 --> 01:38:30,708 And we've had parent 1409 01:38:30,708 --> 01:38:31,916 meetings and all this kind of stuff. 1410 01:38:31,916 --> 01:38:34,208 And I point blank asked, 1411 01:38:35,375 --> 01:38:37,500 can you walk me through 1412 01:38:37,666 --> 01:38:39,333 how this is better for the kids? 1413 01:38:40,125 --> 01:38:40,875 Because nothing you're 1414 01:38:40,875 --> 01:38:43,333 saying indicates that. 1415 01:38:44,041 --> 01:38:44,500 And that's what your 1416 01:38:44,500 --> 01:38:46,166 whole argument is based on, 1417 01:38:46,208 --> 01:38:47,500 this is what's best for the kids. 1418 01:38:47,875 --> 01:38:48,791 But you're not telling us 1419 01:38:48,791 --> 01:38:51,083 any things about the kids. 1420 01:38:51,500 --> 01:38:52,875 It's all about your ego. 1421 01:38:53,750 --> 01:38:55,125 And this one other parent, 1422 01:38:55,125 --> 01:38:56,041 maybe there's two or three, 1423 01:38:56,041 --> 01:38:56,875 I don't know, but we all 1424 01:38:56,875 --> 01:38:58,500 know it's one other parent 1425 01:38:58,500 --> 01:38:59,208 who decided to be 1426 01:38:59,208 --> 01:39:01,500 selfless, misrepresent something 1427 01:39:02,208 --> 01:39:05,583 and caused an avalanche of issues. 1428 01:39:07,541 --> 01:39:08,708 And decisions now. 1429 01:39:09,416 --> 01:39:11,833 And just blew this team up. 1430 01:39:12,500 --> 01:39:15,083 That's the second best team in Texas. 1431 01:39:16,208 --> 01:39:18,375 Probably in any given 1432 01:39:18,375 --> 01:39:19,541 day, the best team in Texas. 1433 01:39:19,583 --> 01:39:20,416 Yep, yep. 1434 01:39:21,291 --> 01:39:22,375 And then we got wiped out 1435 01:39:22,375 --> 01:39:23,708 this weekend in our games 1436 01:39:23,875 --> 01:39:25,375 because the kids are emotional wrecks. 1437 01:39:25,708 --> 01:39:26,291 They don't have their 1438 01:39:26,291 --> 01:39:27,250 regular coach anymore. 1439 01:39:28,583 --> 01:39:31,250 And like I said, when I walked off, 1440 01:39:31,500 --> 01:39:32,208 same thing that he 1441 01:39:32,208 --> 01:39:33,291 said when he walked off, 1442 01:39:33,291 --> 01:39:34,083 like this is what we 1443 01:39:34,083 --> 01:39:35,416 think is better for our kids. 1444 01:39:35,416 --> 01:39:38,291 Yeah, it's been tough. 1445 01:39:38,625 --> 01:39:40,083 It's adults not being adults. 1446 01:39:40,083 --> 01:39:41,791 And that frustrates me beyond belief 1447 01:39:41,791 --> 01:39:43,583 because I'm a rule follower at heart. 1448 01:39:44,000 --> 01:39:45,833 You absolutely are. 1449 01:39:46,375 --> 01:39:47,208 And I am too. 1450 01:39:47,250 --> 01:39:48,000 You are for sure. 1451 01:39:48,750 --> 01:39:50,000 I think we've established that, right? 1452 01:39:50,458 --> 01:39:52,500 But you absolutely are. 1453 01:39:52,500 --> 01:39:54,750 And when people don't play by the rules, 1454 01:39:56,125 --> 01:39:59,041 that's a trigger for both of us. 1455 01:39:59,416 --> 01:40:00,250 People don't play by 1456 01:40:00,250 --> 01:40:01,125 the rules and then it-- 1457 01:40:01,416 --> 01:40:03,250 And they're cowards by not 1458 01:40:03,250 --> 01:40:04,416 coming out and saying like, 1459 01:40:04,416 --> 01:40:06,458 hey, it was me, this is the way I feel. 1460 01:40:06,958 --> 01:40:07,750 I did this. 1461 01:40:08,583 --> 01:40:09,333 They're cowardly 1462 01:40:09,333 --> 01:40:11,208 hiding behind this decision 1463 01:40:11,208 --> 01:40:12,625 that they made for all of us. 1464 01:40:12,750 --> 01:40:12,958 Yeah. 1465 01:40:14,708 --> 01:40:15,000 Hiding. 1466 01:40:15,333 --> 01:40:15,500 Yep. 1467 01:40:16,250 --> 01:40:16,750 Cowardly. 1468 01:40:16,750 --> 01:40:17,000 Mm-hmm. 1469 01:40:17,375 --> 01:40:17,666 Selfish. 1470 01:40:18,291 --> 01:40:18,666 Yep. 1471 01:40:18,708 --> 01:40:19,458 And it makes me mad. 1472 01:40:20,041 --> 01:40:20,250 Yep. 1473 01:40:21,166 --> 01:40:21,500 It does. 1474 01:40:21,916 --> 01:40:23,250 And I know I'll have to cut 1475 01:40:23,250 --> 01:40:24,208 probably some of this, but-- 1476 01:40:24,333 --> 01:40:25,208 Probably, but you know what? 1477 01:40:25,208 --> 01:40:26,583 It feels really, really 1478 01:40:26,583 --> 01:40:27,708 freaking good to get it out. 1479 01:40:27,750 --> 01:40:28,125 It does. 1480 01:40:28,333 --> 01:40:29,166 It peeves me. 1481 01:40:29,208 --> 01:40:30,166 It peeves me. 1482 01:40:31,125 --> 01:40:32,166 (laughing) I don't even know 1483 01:40:32,166 --> 01:40:33,625 where's that word come from? 1484 01:40:34,500 --> 01:40:34,791 Peeve? 1485 01:40:35,083 --> 01:40:36,125 I think peoed. 1486 01:40:36,458 --> 01:40:38,166 You said it earlier, peoed. 1487 01:40:38,208 --> 01:40:38,416 Yeah. 1488 01:40:39,000 --> 01:40:41,250 He is peeved is short for peed. 1489 01:40:41,583 --> 01:40:41,916 I know. 1490 01:40:42,833 --> 01:40:43,208 Anyways. 1491 01:40:43,666 --> 01:40:43,791 Yeah. 1492 01:40:43,833 --> 01:40:44,416 That's kind of where 1493 01:40:44,416 --> 01:40:45,541 we're at a little bit on that, 1494 01:40:45,541 --> 01:40:47,125 but hopefully next week we'll have some, 1495 01:40:47,708 --> 01:40:49,041 maybe more closure to it, 1496 01:40:49,041 --> 01:40:50,041 but things have been changing. 1497 01:40:50,041 --> 01:40:51,000 I mean, even just tonight, 1498 01:40:51,000 --> 01:40:52,000 like, you know, we got 1499 01:40:52,000 --> 01:40:53,750 accepted into this large tournament. 1500 01:40:54,000 --> 01:40:55,250 That's by invitation only. 1501 01:40:55,250 --> 01:40:56,458 It's very well respected. 1502 01:40:57,000 --> 01:40:57,208 Yep. 1503 01:40:57,958 --> 01:40:59,500 And the roster for that changed tonight. 1504 01:40:59,541 --> 01:41:00,875 Again, affecting other children. 1505 01:41:01,125 --> 01:41:01,416 Mm-hmm. 1506 01:41:02,000 --> 01:41:02,416 Mm-hmm. 1507 01:41:02,416 --> 01:41:04,375 That had their, these kids are 11. 1508 01:41:05,500 --> 01:41:06,000 They're 11. 1509 01:41:06,375 --> 01:41:06,625 And-- 1510 01:41:07,541 --> 01:41:08,791 And their hearts are set. 1511 01:41:08,791 --> 01:41:09,541 When they get into a 1512 01:41:09,541 --> 01:41:10,500 big tournament like this, 1513 01:41:10,500 --> 01:41:11,791 I mean, they've worked so hard for this. 1514 01:41:11,833 --> 01:41:13,708 This is a hallmark 1515 01:41:13,708 --> 01:41:16,250 moment in these kids' lives. 1516 01:41:17,250 --> 01:41:17,875 They'll remember-- 1517 01:41:18,625 --> 01:41:19,291 And some kids aren't, 1518 01:41:19,666 --> 01:41:21,458 they got yanked out of it. 1519 01:41:22,000 --> 01:41:22,875 They're not gonna be in 1520 01:41:22,875 --> 01:41:24,083 the tournament anymore. 1521 01:41:24,083 --> 01:41:24,333 Yeah. 1522 01:41:25,500 --> 01:41:26,375 And that's sad, 1523 01:41:26,375 --> 01:41:27,208 because it's not their fault. 1524 01:41:27,541 --> 01:41:28,750 And it's this other parent. 1525 01:41:29,291 --> 01:41:29,500 Yep. 1526 01:41:29,833 --> 01:41:31,458 Whoever they may be. 1527 01:41:31,625 --> 01:41:31,791 Yep. 1528 01:41:32,583 --> 01:41:33,458 It's really-- 1529 01:41:33,791 --> 01:41:34,458 Let's done this. 1530 01:41:35,416 --> 01:41:35,833 It's sad. 1531 01:41:36,291 --> 01:41:37,333 Like, you said it. 1532 01:41:37,333 --> 01:41:37,833 They're 11. 1533 01:41:39,208 --> 01:41:40,000 11 years old. 1534 01:41:40,500 --> 01:41:41,750 Like, they're just kids. 1535 01:41:42,083 --> 01:41:43,625 And it's parents' egos. 1536 01:41:45,458 --> 01:41:47,416 That's what frustrates me, is that 1537 01:41:49,166 --> 01:41:50,416 when I say play by the rules, 1538 01:41:51,416 --> 01:41:54,041 I play by the rules, I play by the rules 1539 01:41:54,708 --> 01:41:58,333 such that most decisions I make 1540 01:41:59,708 --> 01:42:01,375 are for the betterment of society. 1541 01:42:01,583 --> 01:42:01,750 Yes. 1542 01:42:02,500 --> 01:42:02,708 Right? 1543 01:42:03,208 --> 01:42:03,458 Mm-hmm. 1544 01:42:04,333 --> 01:42:05,375 That's when you've 1545 01:42:05,375 --> 01:42:06,541 reached a level of maturity 1546 01:42:07,250 --> 01:42:09,708 that you know you can't do selfish things 1547 01:42:09,875 --> 01:42:11,000 that affect other people, 1548 01:42:11,458 --> 01:42:14,041 because it's not right to do. 1549 01:42:14,041 --> 01:42:15,541 It's not the right thing to do. 1550 01:42:15,583 --> 01:42:15,833 Yep. 1551 01:42:16,958 --> 01:42:17,541 If you had that 1552 01:42:17,541 --> 01:42:18,500 problem, the right thing to do 1553 01:42:18,500 --> 01:42:19,583 is just quit the team. 1554 01:42:19,625 --> 01:42:20,041 Yep. 1555 01:42:20,041 --> 01:42:21,375 Not do what this person did. 1556 01:42:21,375 --> 01:42:21,583 Yep. 1557 01:42:22,583 --> 01:42:23,500 You know, it just, 1558 01:42:24,500 --> 01:42:25,291 it's a level of 1559 01:42:25,291 --> 01:42:26,666 immaturity and selfishness. 1560 01:42:27,125 --> 01:42:29,000 That I simply can't understand. 1561 01:42:29,083 --> 01:42:30,208 That unfortunately is, I think, 1562 01:42:30,208 --> 01:42:31,666 prevalent in our society. 1563 01:42:32,208 --> 01:42:34,166 And when it hits close like this, 1564 01:42:34,166 --> 01:42:35,250 and again, to your point, 1565 01:42:35,250 --> 01:42:36,500 this is not the end of the world. 1566 01:42:36,500 --> 01:42:37,333 There's much bigger 1567 01:42:37,333 --> 01:42:38,250 problems in this world. 1568 01:42:38,791 --> 01:42:39,000 Yeah. 1569 01:42:39,833 --> 01:42:42,583 At heart, this type of action 1570 01:42:43,416 --> 01:42:44,500 is the seed for a lot of 1571 01:42:44,500 --> 01:42:45,333 the issues in our world. 1572 01:42:45,583 --> 01:42:46,416 Yeah, yeah. 1573 01:42:47,000 --> 01:42:48,291 And quite frankly, it's our kids' world. 1574 01:42:49,000 --> 01:42:50,375 That we're handing off to them, yeah. 1575 01:42:50,708 --> 01:42:53,291 And these 11-year-olds are 1576 01:42:53,291 --> 01:42:55,791 crying for five days straight 1577 01:42:56,291 --> 01:42:59,166 because of an adult 1578 01:42:59,166 --> 01:43:00,833 who can't be an adult. 1579 01:43:01,958 --> 01:43:02,041 Yep. 1580 01:43:02,500 --> 01:43:05,500 And then hides behind anonymity. 1581 01:43:07,625 --> 01:43:07,708 Yep. 1582 01:43:08,500 --> 01:43:08,791 Anyways. 1583 01:43:10,500 --> 01:43:10,916 Ooh. 1584 01:43:11,375 --> 01:43:11,458 Ah. 1585 01:43:12,750 --> 01:43:13,208 Bed session. 1586 01:43:13,708 --> 01:43:14,541 Yeah, yeah. 1587 01:43:14,916 --> 01:43:17,125 I'm just hangry is what it is for me. 1588 01:43:17,166 --> 01:43:18,166 You probably are. 1589 01:43:18,166 --> 01:43:19,375 I would be if I were you. 1590 01:43:19,375 --> 01:43:20,166 I don't know how. 1591 01:43:22,166 --> 01:43:24,458 I don't really stress eat, but I mean, 1592 01:43:25,000 --> 01:43:25,791 it does make me 1593 01:43:25,791 --> 01:43:27,375 irritated when I don't eat, so. 1594 01:43:27,666 --> 01:43:28,666 I did say today, it's a 1595 01:43:28,666 --> 01:43:29,583 good thing I'm fasting 1596 01:43:29,583 --> 01:43:30,708 because I would be 1597 01:43:30,708 --> 01:43:31,958 emotionally eating right now. 1598 01:43:32,000 --> 01:43:32,166 Yeah. 1599 01:43:33,875 --> 01:43:34,375 I'm starving. 1600 01:43:34,958 --> 01:43:35,791 I'm not starving. 1601 01:43:35,791 --> 01:43:36,958 I'm actually not starving yet. 1602 01:43:37,000 --> 01:43:37,791 If I can just get to bed 1603 01:43:37,791 --> 01:43:38,500 tonight, I'll be all right. 1604 01:43:38,500 --> 01:43:39,125 Yeah, you'll be good. 1605 01:43:39,375 --> 01:43:39,583 Yeah. 1606 01:43:40,000 --> 01:43:41,041 Well, let's end this on a positive note. 1607 01:43:41,041 --> 01:43:42,208 We are positive people. 1608 01:43:42,500 --> 01:43:43,875 We are positive people. 1609 01:43:44,666 --> 01:43:45,500 And it is getting close 1610 01:43:45,500 --> 01:43:47,166 to bedtime, so I mean, hey. 1611 01:43:47,500 --> 01:43:48,375 It is, yeah. 1612 01:43:48,375 --> 01:43:49,541 We gotta squeeze this one in. 1613 01:43:50,125 --> 01:43:51,125 Because we got soccer 1614 01:43:51,125 --> 01:43:52,583 practices, track practices, 1615 01:43:52,583 --> 01:43:53,208 there's no time. 1616 01:43:53,541 --> 01:43:54,750 Yeah, the rest of the 1617 01:43:54,750 --> 01:43:55,875 week will be a little busy, 1618 01:43:55,875 --> 01:43:58,583 but I mean, we don't really have. 1619 01:43:58,583 --> 01:43:59,583 I mean, this week is a very 1620 01:43:59,583 --> 01:44:01,333 normal week, I think, coming up. 1621 01:44:01,708 --> 01:44:01,958 Yeah. 1622 01:44:03,333 --> 01:44:05,000 Maybe we can unpack the 1623 01:44:05,000 --> 01:44:06,416 13-year-old birthday party 1624 01:44:06,500 --> 01:44:07,458 that we had at our house. 1625 01:44:07,458 --> 01:44:07,958 That was fun. 1626 01:44:07,958 --> 01:44:08,833 Oh, next week, yeah. 1627 01:44:09,083 --> 01:44:09,166 Yeah. 1628 01:44:09,958 --> 01:44:10,125 Yeah. 1629 01:44:10,125 --> 01:44:11,083 We'll do that next week. 1630 01:44:11,125 --> 01:44:11,791 We will. 1631 01:44:11,791 --> 01:44:12,041 Yeah. 1632 01:44:13,125 --> 01:44:13,791 Too long now. 1633 01:44:14,333 --> 01:44:14,583 Yeah. 1634 01:44:14,791 --> 01:44:15,750 Especially since, you know, I don't know 1635 01:44:15,750 --> 01:44:16,916 that we have a whole lot going on. 1636 01:44:17,041 --> 01:44:18,041 Hibachi and screaming. 1637 01:44:18,458 --> 01:44:19,916 I'll put an Instagram post up for it, 1638 01:44:19,916 --> 01:44:20,875 but I haven't done it yet. 1639 01:44:21,375 --> 01:44:22,583 Because we took way too 1640 01:44:22,583 --> 01:44:23,458 many pictures, honestly. 1641 01:44:23,458 --> 01:44:24,250 I'm a little overwhelmed 1642 01:44:24,250 --> 01:44:25,416 with having to edit it. 1643 01:44:26,500 --> 01:44:27,750 (laughing) Like, I enjoy doing those things, 1644 01:44:27,750 --> 01:44:28,416 but I don't want to 1645 01:44:28,416 --> 01:44:29,500 take three hours doing it. 1646 01:44:29,750 --> 01:44:30,250 That's my fault. 1647 01:44:30,583 --> 01:44:31,916 No, you did a great job because-- 1648 01:44:32,541 --> 01:44:33,291 I never take pictures. 1649 01:44:33,375 --> 01:44:34,000 You never take pictures. 1650 01:44:34,000 --> 01:44:35,333 And I asked you to do it that night 1651 01:44:35,416 --> 01:44:37,041 because I just, girls and 1652 01:44:37,041 --> 01:44:38,208 girls and all that kind of stuff. 1653 01:44:38,208 --> 01:44:38,541 It was just-- 1654 01:44:38,541 --> 01:44:39,250 I agree. 1655 01:44:39,250 --> 01:44:41,000 It felt more natural. 1656 01:44:42,041 --> 01:44:42,625 Like, I'm in there like-- 1657 01:44:42,625 --> 01:44:43,083 I totally agree. 1658 01:44:43,708 --> 01:44:44,541 Like, hey girls. 1659 01:44:44,541 --> 01:44:45,583 Let's take pictures, girls. 1660 01:44:45,875 --> 01:44:46,083 Smile. 1661 01:44:46,500 --> 01:44:46,958 You're like, I 1662 01:44:46,958 --> 01:44:47,916 promise I'm not a predator. 1663 01:44:48,500 --> 01:44:49,000 Like, it just-- 1664 01:44:49,583 --> 01:44:51,041 Well, I wasn't thinking that. 1665 01:44:51,500 --> 01:44:51,916 Well, but-- 1666 01:44:52,250 --> 01:44:53,208 I mean, that is true, 1667 01:44:53,208 --> 01:44:53,916 but I mean, that's-- 1668 01:44:54,500 --> 01:44:54,958 It's true. 1669 01:44:55,250 --> 01:44:56,375 Maybe that's the way, yeah. 1670 01:44:56,750 --> 01:44:58,541 But you're right. 1671 01:44:58,541 --> 01:44:59,500 It's more natural for a 1672 01:44:59,500 --> 01:45:00,583 mom to take those pictures 1673 01:45:00,583 --> 01:45:01,625 of 13-year-old girls. 1674 01:45:01,916 --> 01:45:02,333 I think so. 1675 01:45:02,375 --> 01:45:03,500 It's just way more natural. 1676 01:45:03,500 --> 01:45:04,000 I think so. 1677 01:45:04,708 --> 01:45:05,333 In the back, everybody's 1678 01:45:05,333 --> 01:45:07,583 doing fun posing pictures 1679 01:45:07,583 --> 01:45:08,458 and stuff like that. 1680 01:45:08,833 --> 01:45:09,083 Yes. 1681 01:45:09,500 --> 01:45:09,750 Yeah. 1682 01:45:10,750 --> 01:45:11,291 It was fun. 1683 01:45:11,625 --> 01:45:11,875 Yeah. 1684 01:45:12,291 --> 01:45:12,541 Anyway. 1685 01:45:13,041 --> 01:45:13,791 I'm not that kind of a 1686 01:45:13,791 --> 01:45:14,958 girl, dad, I guess, but. 1687 01:45:16,000 --> 01:45:18,000 All right, well, we are gonna let you go 1688 01:45:18,000 --> 01:45:18,791 eight minutes earlier 1689 01:45:18,791 --> 01:45:19,791 this time, which is good. 1690 01:45:19,791 --> 01:45:21,500 We're making positive trends 1691 01:45:21,500 --> 01:45:22,833 here on a little bit shorter. 1692 01:45:23,291 --> 01:45:24,125 More bite size. 1693 01:45:24,625 --> 01:45:27,458 See, we are moving things 1694 01:45:27,458 --> 01:45:28,458 in a positive direction. 1695 01:45:29,166 --> 01:45:30,875 Is that the positivity we're 1696 01:45:30,875 --> 01:45:31,875 leaving the world with today? 1697 01:45:33,041 --> 01:45:34,083 I don't know, there's gotta 1698 01:45:34,083 --> 01:45:35,916 be a lot of positivity, right? 1699 01:45:35,916 --> 01:45:37,375 There is, there is. 1700 01:45:37,375 --> 01:45:38,166 There's so many good things. 1701 01:45:38,500 --> 01:45:40,333 I mean, tomorrow starts April? 1702 01:45:42,208 --> 01:45:43,291 April Fool's Day, though. 1703 01:45:43,750 --> 01:45:44,458 So maybe there's not 1704 01:45:44,458 --> 01:45:45,750 anything positive after all. 1705 01:45:47,833 --> 01:45:49,833 We should've unpacked April Fool's jokes. 1706 01:45:49,833 --> 01:45:51,666 I've never really done a good one. 1707 01:45:51,791 --> 01:45:52,625 We'll talk about that next week. 1708 01:45:52,625 --> 01:45:53,166 Maybe there'll be a good 1709 01:45:53,166 --> 01:45:54,000 one played on you tomorrow. 1710 01:45:56,750 --> 01:45:57,875 Bum, bum, bum. 1711 01:45:58,750 --> 01:45:59,000 (laughing) 1712 01:46:01,083 --> 01:46:02,291 I was just letting it sit there. 1713 01:46:03,208 --> 01:46:04,666 You know who will be good at that? 1714 01:46:04,666 --> 01:46:05,125 It's our daughter. 1715 01:46:05,750 --> 01:46:07,041 Yeah, oh, she will be. 1716 01:46:07,125 --> 01:46:08,500 She's an April Fool's kind of a gal. 1717 01:46:08,791 --> 01:46:10,125 Yeah, yeah. 1718 01:46:10,791 --> 01:46:11,875 And she'll just make her brothers mad. 1719 01:46:13,708 --> 01:46:15,208 Girl, he's behind the front door. 1720 01:46:17,541 --> 01:46:18,500 (laughing) 1721 01:46:20,583 --> 01:46:21,500 Oh, that's funny. 1722 01:46:22,500 --> 01:46:22,916 All right. 1723 01:46:22,916 --> 01:46:23,708 All right. 1724 01:46:24,208 --> 01:46:25,041 What's our new ending? 1725 01:46:25,041 --> 01:46:25,875 We haven't thought of a new ending 1726 01:46:25,875 --> 01:46:27,416 because we were tasked 1727 01:46:27,416 --> 01:46:29,833 with that and we didn't do it. 1728 01:46:30,666 --> 01:46:31,250 I don't know. 1729 01:46:31,500 --> 01:46:33,291 I do like our regular one. 1730 01:46:34,375 --> 01:46:34,541 No. 1731 01:46:35,500 --> 01:46:36,750 We've gotten really good 1732 01:46:36,750 --> 01:46:38,583 at finishing each other's. 1733 01:46:38,583 --> 01:46:39,125 Sand gases. 1734 01:46:41,791 --> 01:46:42,500 What more can you say? 1735 01:46:43,500 --> 01:46:45,250 A lot, but we'll cut it off here. 1736 01:46:46,458 --> 01:46:46,500 (laughing) 1737 01:46:47,666 --> 01:46:48,958 For everybody's wellbeing. 1738 01:46:49,916 --> 01:46:51,375 Yes, no more soccer drama. 1739 01:46:51,708 --> 01:46:51,958 Yeah. 1740 01:46:52,625 --> 01:46:53,916 All right, I'm gonna go eat a cow. 1741 01:46:55,125 --> 01:46:55,750 Thank you guys. 1742 01:46:56,333 --> 01:46:56,625 See ya. 1743 01:46:57,083 --> 01:46:58,416 (laughing) 1744 01:46:59,041 --> 01:47:00,250 You're gonna eat a cow? 1745 01:47:00,833 --> 01:47:01,250 I don't know. 1746 01:47:01,250 --> 01:47:02,291 I thought of something better. 1747 01:47:02,291 --> 01:47:02,958 What's something else I 1748 01:47:02,958 --> 01:47:03,833 could eat that would be better? 1749 01:47:04,500 --> 01:47:06,000 You're gonna eat a cow? 1750 01:47:06,000 --> 01:47:06,875 Well, I'm starving. 1751 01:47:06,875 --> 01:47:07,583 That was with the fasting. 1752 01:47:07,791 --> 01:47:08,458 I'm starving. 1753 01:47:08,458 --> 01:47:09,208 I'm gonna go eat a cow. 1754 01:47:10,416 --> 01:47:10,875 (laughing) 1755 01:47:11,333 --> 01:47:12,166 Because I'm having a cow. 1756 01:47:12,500 --> 01:47:14,666 I'm gonna go eat the cow that I just had. 1757 01:47:15,666 --> 01:47:16,833 Well, now you're just a cannibal. 1758 01:47:18,958 --> 01:47:19,875 Not really, it's a cow. 1759 01:47:23,166 --> 01:47:24,333 It's a metaphorical cow. 1760 01:47:24,458 --> 01:47:25,208 Oh, okay. 1761 01:47:25,583 --> 01:47:26,458 But I'm going to-- 1762 01:47:26,583 --> 01:47:27,250 Is this like metaphorical 1763 01:47:27,250 --> 01:47:28,166 food that you're gonna eat? 1764 01:47:29,083 --> 01:47:30,083 (laughing) 1765 01:47:31,083 --> 01:47:32,041 No, no, no. 1766 01:47:32,041 --> 01:47:33,291 I'm not gonna metaphorically eat it. 1767 01:47:33,291 --> 01:47:35,166 I'm going to actually eat it. 1768 01:47:35,375 --> 01:47:36,666 Oh, so you're 1769 01:47:36,666 --> 01:47:38,208 metaphorically having the cow, 1770 01:47:38,208 --> 01:47:39,750 but you're actually going to eat the cow 1771 01:47:39,750 --> 01:47:40,833 that you metaphorically had. 1772 01:47:41,833 --> 01:47:42,291 Yeah, but there's a 1773 01:47:42,291 --> 01:47:43,458 better word for actually. 1774 01:47:43,458 --> 01:47:43,916 What's the word? 1775 01:47:45,291 --> 01:47:45,500 Truly? 1776 01:47:45,791 --> 01:47:46,083 Physically. 1777 01:47:46,375 --> 01:47:46,708 Physically? 1778 01:47:47,125 --> 01:47:48,458 No, I don't know. 1779 01:47:49,458 --> 01:47:50,583 Oh, we could-- 1780 01:47:51,208 --> 01:47:52,250 Well, we got a lot of 1781 01:47:52,250 --> 01:47:52,958 cow in the refrigerator. 1782 01:47:53,166 --> 01:47:54,625 So I'm saying we got some steak in there. 1783 01:47:54,666 --> 01:47:56,375 We got some ground beef in there. 1784 01:47:56,500 --> 01:47:56,708 Dude. 1785 01:47:57,750 --> 01:47:58,291 Yeah, that's kind of 1786 01:47:58,291 --> 01:47:59,250 just what I'm talking about. 1787 01:47:59,541 --> 01:48:00,666 Better boil it down to it. 1788 01:48:02,083 --> 01:48:02,416 That's something we can 1789 01:48:02,416 --> 01:48:03,541 talk about, grocery prices. 1790 01:48:05,500 --> 01:48:06,125 It's crazy. 1791 01:48:06,625 --> 01:48:06,916 Crazy? 1792 01:48:07,416 --> 01:48:07,583 Yeah. 1793 01:48:08,541 --> 01:48:10,500 Biden and our $12 eggs. 1794 01:48:11,916 --> 01:48:12,750 Don't get me started. 1795 01:48:13,375 --> 01:48:14,416 Don't get me started? 1796 01:48:14,750 --> 01:48:15,750 Bird flu, man. 1797 01:48:15,791 --> 01:48:16,958 Biden started bird flu. 1798 01:48:18,666 --> 01:48:19,000 That's why it starts 1799 01:48:19,000 --> 01:48:20,166 with a B, you know that. 1800 01:48:21,083 --> 01:48:21,958 Yeah, it's his, yeah. 1801 01:48:22,333 --> 01:48:22,958 (laughing) 1802 01:48:23,333 --> 01:48:23,958 All right, we gotta go. 1803 01:48:24,166 --> 01:48:25,041 I like bluebonic plague. 1804 01:48:25,625 --> 01:48:26,083 Well, you should just 1805 01:48:26,083 --> 01:48:27,125 say kind of like bluebonic 1806 01:48:27,125 --> 01:48:27,791 and then I would've said. 1807 01:48:29,458 --> 01:48:30,958 Like bluebonic? 1808 01:48:31,375 --> 01:48:32,416 Plague, and then we 1809 01:48:32,416 --> 01:48:33,416 could've ended it like that. 1810 01:48:34,083 --> 01:48:34,125 (laughing) 1811 01:48:34,125 --> 01:48:34,791 It would've been like a 1812 01:48:34,791 --> 01:48:36,166 real finish of the sentence. 1813 01:48:37,541 --> 01:48:38,458 That's what would make 1814 01:48:38,458 --> 01:48:39,666 it better, like naturally. 1815 01:48:41,000 --> 01:48:42,333 Yeah, it could. 1816 01:48:42,875 --> 01:48:43,583 But that would be tough 1817 01:48:43,583 --> 01:48:44,583 to come up with every week. 1818 01:48:46,916 --> 01:48:47,875 All right, bipedal. 1819 01:48:48,500 --> 01:48:48,875 Bipenal.