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In the chair backs in front of you.

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There are these cards on these chairs
that they're sitting there.

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Please take one of these out.

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Everybody get one of these.

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Should be on the tables as well.

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This is to help us understand

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the process
of what we call spiritual formation.

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Spiritual formation is the the
the discipline,

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the opportunity to be formed spiritually,
to be able to fulfill.

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What a life that Jesus said, hey,
follow me this way.

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And so we've come up
with this spiritual formation pathway

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to help us understand
the steps we take to do that.

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We use four words here called belong,

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become, give and go to help us
walk this pathway of discipleship

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and forming ourselves
biblically in the image of Christ.

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And so you're going to see this little
infographic everywhere.

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You're going to see it everywhere,
because I want you to know

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what your next step is.
We say it all the time.

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Take your next step.

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What's my next step?

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Well, this is will help you understand
that so you can grow and form yourself

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spiritually through these four steps
of belonging, becoming, giving and going

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and then just living in this process
of being formed spiritually.

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And so if you'll just look at this,
we start here in the life of this church

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by belonging to the local,
to the Body of Christ

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through the expression
of the local church flipside.

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And that happens a couple of different
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One, take the one on one class, and David

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White is going to lead
all of this whole process.

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So in a couple of weeks
is going to teach the one on one class.

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It'll help you understand
the basics of our church, our faith,

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our doctrine, our purpose, our mission,
our vision, all of that.

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And it will introduce you
to the foundations

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of doctrine that we think are really,
really biblically important.

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And then part of
that is just showing up weekly.

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And if getting baptized,

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haven't been baptized by immersion,
getting baptized by immersion,

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and then the become part as you grow
and the way you

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you become the image of
Christ is one of the ways that will help.

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That is, go to the 201 class,
where you'll learn about

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the spiritual disciplines necessarily
necessary to form yourself spiritually.

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Learn how to flip journal,
how to read the Bible,

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and then get involved with some type
of smaller community group, either

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what we call a rooted class or a huddle

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in context of community to form us.

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And then we take this next step
of our formation

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and giving back to God
what he has given us.

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And part of that process for us
is the 301 class

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that will walk us
through your spiritual gifts.

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If you if you have a relationship with
Jesus, you've been given at least

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one spiritual gift by God Himself,
and they'll help you discover that

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so you can give that energy back
to God in ministry

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and serving,
people will be invited to serve on a team

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and for some,
the Financial Peace University,

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so that you can understand
how do I get my financial life in order

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and live a life of generosity
and giving back to God what he's given me?

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And then the go part of

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that is the 401 class, which is the class
to teach you how to share your faith.

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There are six ways,
biblically that we can share our faith.

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One of them fit you perfectly.

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We want to teach you what that is
so you can share your faith

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as a follower of Jesus, and then join us
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but ministry ownership
and really leading in that and the work

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that we do in missions
work at locally and abroad.

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So this is the four main
spiritual formation pathway.

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You should know
by looking at this what your next step is.

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Follow that.

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Now there are
some people have been here for 21 years,

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and they've never taken the second step

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to becoming really

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in, in, in the image of Christ.

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They show up a lot, which is great.

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But there's some other things
we need to do to form a spiritually.

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And so this this will help
you know what your next step is.

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So when we say take a next step here, this
if you have any questions

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about any of this, how to get involved,
how to get in the pipeline of this,

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see Dave, Pastor David,
this is his job to oversee all of this.

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Okay. You got it.

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You're going to see that everywhere.
We're going to talk about that a lot.

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So just get used to hearing those words
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Hey we're in chapter 18 of Matthew.

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Jeff did a great job last week
introducing us in the first six verses.

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We're going to go through verses
seven through 20 today.

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Okay.

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So there's a lot
there's a lot to get through.

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And I'm going to do my best.

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I'm going to do my best
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I want us to understand something about

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about Matthew 18.

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The conversation started with
who's the greatest?

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And Jeff did a great job

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teaching about that last week
that I want to know who's the greatest.

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The reason they're asking
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One, because only three of them
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17 Peter, James and John.

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They got this special invitation
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was transfigured into all of his glory,
his heavenly glory, only three of them.

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So obviously
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We're the best.

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The other nine are down waiting for them
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And they have this opportunity
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And they failed.

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So, you know,
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Hey, how'd you guys do?

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We were with Jesus.

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You guys blew it.

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And so, you know,
there's this a right, like you

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get 12 fellows around,
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And so so the natural quest
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because we were up there.
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We got to see some pretty cool stuff.

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And Jesus response is, none of you are.

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None of you are the greatest.

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You can't do a thing without me.

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And so you need to humble yourself
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You didn't say childish. It's a childlike.

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But he knew that
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because you won't humble yourself,
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I'm self-absorbed.

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I'm going to walk you
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of how you deal with each other,
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let you down,
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when each other walk away from you
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And I'm going to show you, I'm
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And that's all.

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That's all the rest of Matthew 18.

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all of Jesus's

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teaching, the backbone of it all
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And here's what I mean.

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Jesus is going to talk about in Matthew 18
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And he says, when you're merciful,
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Be generous.

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It's going to talk about forgiveness.

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And he's going to say, when you forgive,
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with you, so don't you dare be stingy
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Be generous.

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Do you follow this generosity?

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Backbone runs through everything.

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Jesus taught everything and and actually,

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even when Jesus talked about resources
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he always talked about it with this
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I don't know if you knew this

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in the Gospels, Matthew,
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out of every ten talks about resources,
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Did you know that one
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Jesus talked more about resources
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with our finances
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He taught more about that than he talked
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Do you follow?

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So this idea of generosity

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in every area of our life is the kind of

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the backbone of Jesus teaching,
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And so this question, who's the greatest?

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None of you know, Jesus says,
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You're not great at all.

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Matter of fact,
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Who the greatest that James
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and John's mom is going to get involved
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She's going to come to you and say, hey,
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make sure that my two sons
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Like, this was so rampant in them.

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They want to be the greatest.
They want to be upfront.

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They want to be honored.

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And just like
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Humble yourself.

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So because you're going to blow it, I need

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I need to help
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And so here's the big idea for verses
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Jesus's kingdom is not casual about sin

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nor stingy with mercy,
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We're not

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casual
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And so he's
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And so right up front,
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Jesus says,

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woe to the world for temptations.

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Woe to the world for temptations to sin,
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but woe to the one
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And if your hand or your foot causes you
to sin, cut it off and throw it away.

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It's better for you to enter life,
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or two feet
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And if your eye causes you to sin,
tear it out and throw it away.

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It's better for you to enter
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to be thrown into the hell of fire.

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Those are some pretty strong words,
wouldn't you agree?

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Yes, pretty strong words.

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He says.

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Temptation is going to come. It's
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This world is broken, fallen,
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There's no that's no surprise to anybody.

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My kingdom is coming.
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So we live in a broken, fallen,
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And it's going to perpetuate

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broken, fallen us and sinful people
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He said that's a given.

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But don't you be the one through
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Don't you be the one through

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whom comes the propensity for materialism,

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for greed, for bitterness, for lust,

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for hatred, for anger.

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What are you saying is

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this sin is too dangerous to tolerate.

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And so he uses really strong language.

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Your eye, your hand,
your foot causes you to sin. Cut it out.

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Get rid of it. Can you imagine?

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Now he's not talking
about self-mutilation.

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What is that word?

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Mutilation. He's not talking about that.

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I want to be very clear about that.
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He's not talking about self-mutilation.

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Because self-mutilation doesn't go
far enough.

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It's not extreme enough.

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When you cut your hand off

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and still sin, right,
you poke your eye out and still sin.

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The problem is, it doesn't go far enough.

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The problem is it's a deeper issue.

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And when he says, you're right,
I your right hand or right foot?

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Back in those days, the right was
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So the right hand, the right hand was the
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So sorry lefties.

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Any of you left handed.

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Yeah.

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So my dad tells me that when my grandma
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up in school, she was left
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looked down upon they had to retrain her
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hand on our left hand,
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Lefties were bad,
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when teachers had a ruler
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So every time she used her left hand,
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That's pretty brutal.

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So, lefties, sorry you're out of luck.

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This was back in that culture.

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So what Jesus is saying is this listen,
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to be good and strong, if it leads
you away from me, get rid of it.

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Even that which you can sort of
be a blessing if a lead you away from me.

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Get rid of it.

238
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See if we can walk away from Jesus
not just in sin, but in the good stuff

239
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God's given us, just cause us
to neglect Him in His Kingdom.

240
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Neglect risky for him to be in generous.

241
00:12:35,521 --> 00:12:38,491
Get rid of it now.

242
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As as as tough as that language is.

243
00:12:42,061 --> 00:12:45,064
Let me put it in, in in our language.

244
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Let's not talk about our eye or hand
or our foot.

245
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Let's talk about this.

246
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If this in our life

247
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causes us to go further away from Christ

248
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rather than closer to him.

249
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Get rid of it.

250
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Anybody?

251
00:13:13,959 --> 00:13:16,962
Some of you are like, oh no,

252
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now you're just meddling.

253
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That hits.

254
00:13:21,534 --> 00:13:24,537
I'd rather poke my eye out than live
without my phone.

255
00:13:27,706 --> 00:13:30,442
It's what he's saying is this too is to.

256
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Sin is too dangerous to tolerate.

257
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Do whatever you got to do,
but separate yourself from it.

258
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Nothing is worth it.

259
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That's what he's saying.

260
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Sin is not a pet to coddle.

261
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It's a predator to kill.

262
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That's how we have to approach it.

263
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Some of us have grown
so because of mercy and grace.

264
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And I get
it is profound and it's beautiful.

265
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And it is there because of sin.

266
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Fantastic. But.

267
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Sin is deadly.

268
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And some of us have been so enamored
by mercy and grace, which we should be.

269
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We treat sin
as an optional thing, like it's okay.

270
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When we fall into sin.

271
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We rely on God's grace 100%.

272
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But please understand this, my friends,
that grace does not make sense.

273
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Safe.

274
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It makes repentance possible.

275
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It's grace that says your sin is deadly,

276
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but it doesn't have to destroy you.

277
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Repent of it and experience
the undeserved and unmerited favor

278
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and blessing of Almighty God.

279
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When you repent.

280
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There will always be things in this world
that will cause people to stumble.

281
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Jesus says, don't you dare be the one
through whom other people stumble.

282
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Cut away sin in your life.

283
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Jesus says, don't

284
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negotiate with that
which is destroying you.

285
00:15:07,539 --> 00:15:09,441
He's talking about radical discipleship.

286
00:15:09,441 --> 00:15:12,411
Radical discipleship requires
radical action.

287
00:15:14,680 --> 00:15:17,516
He's not talking about casual
Christianity.

288
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Radical discipleship cuts off what casual

289
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Christianity excuses.

290
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He's saying it's that serious.

291
00:15:27,760 --> 00:15:30,663
And he says, listen,
if we don't deal with this sin

292
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issue and it's not by being religious,
it's not by working ourselves up

293
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into doing everything
right, it's by confessing sin.

294
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It's by relying on God's
mercy and grace to forgive us our sin,

295
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cleanse us from all unrighteousness
by what Jesus did on the cross.

296
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If we don't do that, sin is so deadly.

297
00:15:48,781 --> 00:15:50,683
He says, why would you?

298
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Why would you live in sin and

299
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suffer the consequences of hellfire?

300
00:15:59,425 --> 00:16:01,660
Strong language.

301
00:16:01,660 --> 00:16:03,629
I want you to understand something.

302
00:16:03,629 --> 00:16:10,102
Hell, biblically is never spoken
of as allegory or folklore.

303
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Never.

304
00:16:13,172 --> 00:16:16,842
It's always spoken of as a real place,
just like heaven.

305
00:16:16,976 --> 00:16:21,313
Heaven is never spoken about in Scripture
as allegory or folklore.

306
00:16:21,714 --> 00:16:24,516
Heaven's always talks
about as a real place.

307
00:16:24,516 --> 00:16:25,517
So if we're going to talk about

308
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the reality of heaven,
we have to talk about the reality of hell.

309
00:16:30,055 --> 00:16:34,793
Now, I agree
that biblical imagery is fascinating

310
00:16:34,793 --> 00:16:39,698
and grandiose and uses
some powerful imagery to communicate

311
00:16:39,698 --> 00:16:43,702
the reality of heaven and hell,
but they're both real places.

312
00:16:46,038 --> 00:16:48,741
And the results of a lifestyle of sin

313
00:16:48,741 --> 00:16:52,344
without repentance is the reality of hell.

314
00:16:55,080 --> 00:16:56,782
That's how deadly.

315
00:16:56,782 --> 00:16:59,918
It's how deadly sin is
and how beautiful grace is.

316
00:17:03,255 --> 00:17:06,425
Charles Spurgeon said this
if I think lightly of hell,

317
00:17:06,425 --> 00:17:09,428
I will also think lightly of the cross.

318
00:17:10,429 --> 00:17:13,632
And so Jesus says, this is too deadly
and dangerous to flirt with man.

319
00:17:13,665 --> 00:17:14,867
Get rid of it.

320
00:17:16,535 --> 00:17:18,237
And then look at what he says.

321
00:17:18,237 --> 00:17:23,075
Verses ten through 14 see that you do not
despise one of these little ones.

322
00:17:23,075 --> 00:17:26,678
For I tell you that in heaven there
angels always see the face of my father

323
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who is in heaven.

324
00:17:27,379 --> 00:17:28,414
What do you think?

325
00:17:28,414 --> 00:17:31,917
If a man has 100 sheep
and one of them has gone astray.

326
00:17:31,950 --> 00:17:33,952
Does he not leave the 99 on the mountains

327
00:17:33,952 --> 00:17:35,621
and go in
search of the one that went astray?

328
00:17:35,621 --> 00:17:37,456
And if he finds it truly I say

329
00:17:37,456 --> 00:17:40,492
he Joyces over it
more than the 99 that never went astray.

330
00:17:40,659 --> 00:17:43,762
So it is not the will of my father
who is in

331
00:17:43,762 --> 00:17:46,899
heaven, that one of these little ones
should perish.

332
00:17:46,932 --> 00:17:49,935
He said, listen.

333
00:17:51,003 --> 00:17:53,672
He introduced his idea of angels here.

334
00:17:53,672 --> 00:17:58,477
He says, listen,
even for my kids who go astray,

335
00:17:58,510 --> 00:18:03,148
they still have representation before
the father, though, they're getting dumb.

336
00:18:03,949 --> 00:18:07,252
The angel is still representing the before
the father.

337
00:18:07,319 --> 00:18:10,722
Did you know that every Christ

338
00:18:10,722 --> 00:18:13,759
follower has representation in heaven,

339
00:18:13,759 --> 00:18:17,296
not just of Christ
to the father, but of angels?

340
00:18:18,597 --> 00:18:19,731
Now, I don't believe

341
00:18:19,731 --> 00:18:24,069
that every person has a guardian angel,
but I do believe

342
00:18:24,069 --> 00:18:28,474
that every Christ follower
has angels ministering to them.

343
00:18:28,474 --> 00:18:32,878
And the reason I believe that is because
the Bible says that Hebrews chapter one.

344
00:18:33,278 --> 00:18:36,014
Are not all angels ministering spirits

345
00:18:36,014 --> 00:18:39,218
sent to serve
those who will inherit salvation?

346
00:18:39,251 --> 00:18:41,353
Those have a relationship with Jesus.

347
00:18:41,353 --> 00:18:45,457
God employs angels to serve us.

348
00:18:45,657 --> 00:18:47,226
Realize that.

349
00:18:47,226 --> 00:18:49,495
Now, I don't believe
we all have a guardian angel

350
00:18:49,495 --> 00:18:52,531
because some of us have a lot of guardian
angels.

351
00:18:53,599 --> 00:18:56,602
He's just like,
oh no, we need a lot more than one.

352
00:18:56,735 --> 00:18:59,338
Please.

353
00:18:59,338 --> 00:19:03,342
And so he's saying,
listen, people will get dumb.

354
00:19:03,375 --> 00:19:05,711
They're going to walk.

355
00:19:05,711 --> 00:19:08,714
But they still have representation
before my father him.

356
00:19:08,714 --> 00:19:11,216
So be careful about
how you treat each other.

357
00:19:14,052 --> 00:19:15,387
This passage of the

358
00:19:15,387 --> 00:19:18,390
wandering sheep is different for you
Bible students.

359
00:19:18,390 --> 00:19:21,093
This is different than Luke 15.

360
00:19:21,093 --> 00:19:26,932
In Luke 15, Jesus tells us similar
parable says A shepherd has 100 sheep.

361
00:19:27,099 --> 00:19:29,201
One of them

362
00:19:29,201 --> 00:19:32,037
gets lost and he leaves and angles
find the one that's lost.

363
00:19:32,037 --> 00:19:34,039
That's different
than what he's saying here.

364
00:19:34,039 --> 00:19:35,440
Here's how it's different.

365
00:19:35,440 --> 00:19:38,143
The one in Luke 15 got lost.

366
00:19:38,143 --> 00:19:40,212
They just have ever been there.

367
00:19:40,212 --> 00:19:42,814
Like spiritually,
you just got turned around.

368
00:19:42,814 --> 00:19:45,217
I'm sorry, I just.

369
00:19:45,217 --> 00:19:47,052
That's different than it. Here.

370
00:19:47,052 --> 00:19:48,520
The sheep isn't lost. Here.

371
00:19:48,520 --> 00:19:50,656
What does the sheep do?

372
00:19:50,656 --> 00:19:53,258
Went astray.

373
00:19:53,258 --> 00:19:54,960
He knows this.

374
00:19:54,960 --> 00:19:58,664
He knows where the shepherd is
and this sheep chooses.

375
00:19:59,198 --> 00:20:01,233
This is Isaiah 53 six.

376
00:20:01,233 --> 00:20:04,069
All of us, like sheep, have gone astray.

377
00:20:04,069 --> 00:20:07,072
Each of us has turned our own way.

378
00:20:07,506 --> 00:20:10,309
This is the sheep that hasn't become.

379
00:20:10,309 --> 00:20:12,911
This is the sheep
that was once a part of gospel

380
00:20:12,911 --> 00:20:17,216
that has purposefully chosen to walk away.

381
00:20:22,354 --> 00:20:24,890
That's some of us in this place right now.

382
00:20:24,890 --> 00:20:27,993
And I love the fact
that even when we wander

383
00:20:28,026 --> 00:20:30,996
of our own volition, where's the shepherd?

384
00:20:30,996 --> 00:20:34,132
Do pursues.

385
00:20:35,067 --> 00:20:36,335
He pursues.

386
00:20:36,335 --> 00:20:39,338
I love the fact
that this is not a frustrated shepherd.

387
00:20:39,471 --> 00:20:43,141
Now, when my boys were little,
we had three beagles.

388
00:20:43,909 --> 00:20:46,211
And you ever had a beagle?

389
00:20:46,211 --> 00:20:47,679
Okay. Little beagle.

390
00:20:47,679 --> 00:20:52,384
They're great dogs,
but they are infuriating because they're.

391
00:20:52,451 --> 00:20:54,953
They're the Houdini's of the dog world.

392
00:20:54,953 --> 00:20:59,091
They will find a way to escape
whatever enclosure you put them

393
00:20:59,091 --> 00:21:03,829
in, and their nose takes over,
and they know where home is.

394
00:21:03,862 --> 00:21:05,497
They know where their food is.

395
00:21:05,497 --> 00:21:07,232
They know where their safety is.

396
00:21:07,232 --> 00:21:11,837
But the nose takes over
and they wander off into who knows where.

397
00:21:11,870 --> 00:21:15,974
And I cannot tell you
how many times are little beagles

398
00:21:15,974 --> 00:21:20,479
and little peanut would get out
and just be gone.

399
00:21:20,479 --> 00:21:26,418
And as the dad gets his responsibility,
it was to go find this

400
00:21:28,253 --> 00:21:30,856
Cupid dog.

401
00:21:30,856 --> 00:21:34,860
I would leave everything else at home
and get on my truck

402
00:21:34,860 --> 00:21:38,864
and drive all around the ranchos,
because who knows where this dog is?

403
00:21:38,864 --> 00:21:40,899
And I'm rolling my window down.

404
00:21:40,899 --> 00:21:43,902
Peanut.

405
00:21:44,403 --> 00:21:46,171
It's about as loud as, like a whistle.

406
00:21:46,171 --> 00:21:49,708
He's not going to hear me,
but I had to do something out.

407
00:21:49,975 --> 00:21:54,880
I would spend and there were times when
those dogs would be gone for days on end.

408
00:21:55,681 --> 00:21:57,215
My boys are upset.

409
00:21:57,215 --> 00:21:59,217
They're worried if peanuts
going to come home or not.

410
00:21:59,217 --> 00:22:00,185
I'm just frustrated.

411
00:22:00,185 --> 00:22:01,520
I'm like, stupid.

412
00:22:01,520 --> 00:22:03,955
Like,

413
00:22:03,955 --> 00:22:06,858
that's not the shepherd.

414
00:22:06,858 --> 00:22:09,995
We get Chase on all kinds of stuff,
sniffing everywhere,

415
00:22:11,229 --> 00:22:15,000
and this shepherd just pursues. Why?

416
00:22:16,101 --> 00:22:19,171
Because he knows the peril of hell.

417
00:22:19,171 --> 00:22:23,542
And by his mercy
and his grace wants to rescue us from it.

418
00:22:23,575 --> 00:22:27,112
Even when we get stupid and walk away.

419
00:22:28,580 --> 00:22:30,615
You understand?

420
00:22:30,615 --> 00:22:33,518
And if that's true for me, it's true
for you.

421
00:22:33,518 --> 00:22:36,521
And Jesus says, don't you dare despise

422
00:22:36,655 --> 00:22:39,658
one of those wayward beagles

423
00:22:39,825 --> 00:22:42,828
because they have representation
before the father.

424
00:22:43,495 --> 00:22:45,530
I care about them. Listen.

425
00:22:45,530 --> 00:22:48,533
Wandering beagles matter.

426
00:22:51,336 --> 00:22:54,339
And you may be a wandering beagle.

427
00:22:54,573 --> 00:22:57,576
And you matter.

428
00:22:57,709 --> 00:23:00,679
Didn't stand.

429
00:23:00,679 --> 00:23:03,682
So come home.

430
00:23:05,550 --> 00:23:09,254
If a wandering beagle gets offensive.

431
00:23:10,122 --> 00:23:13,091
Don't be offended.

432
00:23:15,060 --> 00:23:18,063
Sometimes wandering beagles

433
00:23:18,630 --> 00:23:21,633
cause a whole bunch of heartache and pain.

434
00:23:23,735 --> 00:23:26,738
Sometimes beagles wander

435
00:23:26,938 --> 00:23:29,941
because they're just immature.

436
00:23:30,375 --> 00:23:33,378
Sometimes if beagles wander

437
00:23:33,678 --> 00:23:36,681
because they have wounds
they're running away from.

438
00:23:37,382 --> 00:23:39,951
And we don't understand their wounds.

439
00:23:39,951 --> 00:23:42,320
Sometimes beagles wander

440
00:23:42,320 --> 00:23:45,290
just because they're selfish.

441
00:23:46,191 --> 00:23:47,559
Sometimes beagles wander

442
00:23:47,559 --> 00:23:50,562
just because they're narcissistic.

443
00:23:53,064 --> 00:23:56,067
No matter.

444
00:23:56,334 --> 00:23:58,136
We don't have to be offended by

445
00:23:58,136 --> 00:24:01,139
offensive beagles.

446
00:24:02,307 --> 00:24:04,242
See, I can take sin

447
00:24:04,242 --> 00:24:07,212
seriously
without taking every offense personally.

448
00:24:09,381 --> 00:24:12,117
Do you follow?

449
00:24:12,117 --> 00:24:13,351
Now, it doesn't mean I have to have

450
00:24:13,351 --> 00:24:16,354
a relationship with a wandering beagle.

451
00:24:16,421 --> 00:24:19,424
It doesn't mean
I have to try to be their best friend.

452
00:24:21,193 --> 00:24:22,227
But it doesn't mean

453
00:24:22,227 --> 00:24:25,230
I have to take their offense
personally all the time, either.

454
00:24:25,464 --> 00:24:26,932
And so here's what you're saying.

455
00:24:26,932 --> 00:24:29,000
Don't cause someone to stumble.

456
00:24:29,000 --> 00:24:31,970
Don't despise one who does stumble.

457
00:24:32,337 --> 00:24:34,639
Don't tolerate sin and destruction

458
00:24:34,639 --> 00:24:38,410
that's going to create in your life, nor
be the reason for in someone else's life.

459
00:24:38,410 --> 00:24:41,413
And go after the wandering beagles.

460
00:24:44,749 --> 00:24:47,185
Wandering beagles are important enough
for us to pursue,

461
00:24:47,185 --> 00:24:50,555
and every pursuit of a wandering
beagle is going to be costly.

462
00:24:50,956 --> 00:24:55,060
It's going to cost us
time, energy, emotions, finances.

463
00:24:55,494 --> 00:25:00,131
But every time we pursue a wandering
beagle is a radical act of discipleship

464
00:25:00,131 --> 00:25:01,900
by his church. You understand that?

465
00:25:05,270 --> 00:25:07,772
See, at the
end of the day, what Jesus is saying is

466
00:25:07,772 --> 00:25:11,943
that sin is too dangerous to tolerate
and people are too valuable to abandon.

467
00:25:12,944 --> 00:25:15,947
And so if you're a wandering beagle,

468
00:25:16,615 --> 00:25:19,618
you got a place here.

469
00:25:20,118 --> 00:25:22,187
I'm not going to be soft with what

470
00:25:22,187 --> 00:25:25,190
the Bible says about sin and repentance,

471
00:25:25,457 --> 00:25:28,460
but you're too valuable to be abandoned.

472
00:25:29,628 --> 00:25:32,430
You got a place here.

473
00:25:32,430 --> 00:25:35,433
But every time you're here
as a wandering beagle, I'm going to call.

474
00:25:37,235 --> 00:25:39,538
I'm going to call you back home.

475
00:25:39,538 --> 00:25:41,072
The Bible is going to call you back home.

476
00:25:41,072 --> 00:25:44,075
Do you follow?

477
00:25:45,143 --> 00:25:48,146
Verses 15 through 20?

478
00:25:49,681 --> 00:25:52,017
If your brother sins against you,

479
00:25:52,017 --> 00:25:54,152
go and tell him his fault
between you and him alone.

480
00:25:54,152 --> 00:25:56,221
If he listens to you and your brother.

481
00:25:56,221 --> 00:25:57,589
But if he does not listen.

482
00:25:57,589 --> 00:25:59,357
Take 1 or 2 others along with you,

483
00:25:59,357 --> 00:26:02,861
that every charge may be established
by the evidence of 2 or 3 witnesses.

484
00:26:02,861 --> 00:26:06,498
If it refuses to listen to them,
tell it to the church, and if it refuses

485
00:26:06,498 --> 00:26:10,268
to listen to the church, let them be to
you as a Gentile and a tax collector.

486
00:26:10,302 --> 00:26:13,638
Truly, I say to you, whatever you abide
on, or shall be bound in heaven,

487
00:26:13,638 --> 00:26:16,274
and whatever you loose
on, or shall be loosed in heaven.

488
00:26:16,274 --> 00:26:17,809
Again I say to you, if 2

489
00:26:17,809 --> 00:26:21,813
or 3 of you agree on earth about anything
you ask, it will be done for them.

490
00:26:21,813 --> 00:26:23,014
By my father in heaven.

491
00:26:23,014 --> 00:26:25,317
For 2 or 3 are gathered in my name.

492
00:26:25,317 --> 00:26:26,217
There I am among them.

493
00:26:26,217 --> 00:26:28,320
Let me just say this real quick
about verse 20.

494
00:26:28,320 --> 00:26:30,622
The size of the prayer
meeting doesn't matter.

495
00:26:31,990 --> 00:26:34,993
2 or 3 people together in prayer

496
00:26:35,827 --> 00:26:38,797
can move heaven and shake earth.

497
00:26:38,797 --> 00:26:40,632
Do you understand that?

498
00:26:40,632 --> 00:26:42,968
We do a First Tuesday prayer meeting here.

499
00:26:42,968 --> 00:26:44,636
The first Tuesday of every month.

500
00:26:44,636 --> 00:26:48,840
There's a few very faithful people
that are moving heaven and shaking earth.

501
00:26:49,841 --> 00:26:52,410
I'm thankful that God doesn't judge the

502
00:26:52,410 --> 00:26:55,981
the the validity of the ministry
based on the size of the prayers.

503
00:26:56,581 --> 00:26:59,584
But having said this,
let me say this also.

504
00:26:59,618 --> 00:27:02,621
Some of you need to show up
on the first Tuesdays and pray.

505
00:27:03,755 --> 00:27:06,625
Jesus says, listen.

506
00:27:06,625 --> 00:27:09,361
God offers immeasurable

507
00:27:09,361 --> 00:27:13,064
forgiveness and mercy, and his disciples
have to do the same thing.

508
00:27:14,099 --> 00:27:14,933
That's what he's saying here.

509
00:27:14,933 --> 00:27:17,936
It says
when your brother sins against you,

510
00:27:19,037 --> 00:27:22,040
let me help you understand this.

511
00:27:23,541 --> 00:27:26,177
This is not an instruction
of how to deal with

512
00:27:26,177 --> 00:27:30,248
everybody in your life
who offends you or sins against you.

513
00:27:30,281 --> 00:27:34,719
This is directed to your brother
sister in the church.

514
00:27:34,819 --> 00:27:38,256
So those in the church
that you have relationship with,

515
00:27:38,323 --> 00:27:41,793
that have a relationship with you,
a relationship with the body

516
00:27:41,793 --> 00:27:44,796
in the church when they're offensive
and they offend you.

517
00:27:44,796 --> 00:27:48,600
The instruction of, of of
Jesus here is go to them one on one.

518
00:27:48,633 --> 00:27:51,803
But but let me let me just unpack this
a little bit.

519
00:27:51,836 --> 00:27:55,940
This doesn't mean that you confront
every offense that's offered.

520
00:27:55,940 --> 00:27:58,443
It doesn't mean that you're friends
with everybody who offends you.

521
00:27:58,443 --> 00:28:00,311
There are some of them. You just.

522
00:28:00,311 --> 00:28:02,147
They're not part of my world.

523
00:28:02,147 --> 00:28:05,283
This is talking about those brothers
and sisters in the church.

524
00:28:05,283 --> 00:28:06,217
Do you follow?

525
00:28:08,920 --> 00:28:11,189
If you're if he says this.

526
00:28:11,189 --> 00:28:12,991
But let me tell you
an overarching principle

527
00:28:12,991 --> 00:28:15,960
before we get into the one on one,
one on two to church deal.

528
00:28:15,960 --> 00:28:20,799
The overarching principle of this
whole thing is Proverbs 1911.

529
00:28:20,799 --> 00:28:24,402
Good sense makes one slow to anger,
and it is his glory.

530
00:28:24,402 --> 00:28:25,837
To what?

531
00:28:25,837 --> 00:28:29,507
To overlook an offense,
that word to his glory.

532
00:28:29,507 --> 00:28:31,943
It means it's beautiful.

533
00:28:31,943 --> 00:28:32,977
It's beautiful.

534
00:28:32,977 --> 00:28:36,014
Just to. Oh, I know they offended.

535
00:28:36,014 --> 00:28:38,917
I know they sinned against

536
00:28:38,917 --> 00:28:40,785
overlook it.

537
00:28:40,785 --> 00:28:42,787
That's what he's saying.

538
00:28:42,787 --> 00:28:47,058
And again, this is to those who are in the
your brother, your sister,

539
00:28:47,092 --> 00:28:50,095
because we have a relationship
with each other,

540
00:28:50,095 --> 00:28:53,331
because we're close
to each other in the church,

541
00:28:54,532 --> 00:28:58,770
sometimes you just gotta overlook
how offensive we are to each other.

542
00:28:59,337 --> 00:29:01,072
Do you follow?

543
00:29:01,072 --> 00:29:03,308
This isn't
directed to the culture out there.

544
00:29:03,308 --> 00:29:05,410
There's too much offense
in the culture out there.

545
00:29:05,410 --> 00:29:08,313
There's too much offense by people
that were not friends with, let alone

546
00:29:08,313 --> 00:29:09,147
the ones we are.

547
00:29:10,215 --> 00:29:12,851
Let them be.

548
00:29:12,851 --> 00:29:15,720
And even with each other, just.

549
00:29:15,720 --> 00:29:19,657
But there are times when their
confrontation has to happen, certainly.

550
00:29:19,657 --> 00:29:23,561
And in this relationship, if we're going
to keep a relationship with each other.

551
00:29:23,595 --> 00:29:26,731
There are sometimes we got to go
one on one to each other.

552
00:29:27,398 --> 00:29:30,135
And the Bible says here, when it sins
against you, that's the Greek word

553
00:29:30,135 --> 00:29:33,138
harm to
you had missed the mark here, buddy.

554
00:29:33,271 --> 00:29:35,907
I thought we were.

555
00:29:35,907 --> 00:29:37,308
I need to just tell you.

556
00:29:37,308 --> 00:29:40,111
Look, that one stung.

557
00:29:40,111 --> 00:29:41,946
That hurt I was.

558
00:29:41,946 --> 00:29:44,749
And the Bible says
be listens to you. Great.

559
00:29:44,749 --> 00:29:45,617
You want your brother?

560
00:29:45,617 --> 00:29:48,153
The goal is restoration, not winning.

561
00:29:48,153 --> 00:29:51,156
Do you follow?

562
00:29:52,190 --> 00:29:54,759
And you know the quickest way
to restore your relationship.

563
00:29:54,759 --> 00:29:57,095
You know what it is.

564
00:29:57,095 --> 00:29:59,197
You just say sorry.

565
00:29:59,197 --> 00:30:00,465
Just say sorry.

566
00:30:01,900 --> 00:30:04,903
You don't
have to believe that you were wrong.

567
00:30:04,936 --> 00:30:06,437
You say, you know what?

568
00:30:06,437 --> 00:30:08,239
I'm sorry.

569
00:30:08,239 --> 00:30:09,040
Forgive me.

570
00:30:09,040 --> 00:30:11,910
And the moment you say I'm sorry.
Forgive me.

571
00:30:11,910 --> 00:30:15,547
By God's word, they have to forgive
you and be done with it.

572
00:30:16,181 --> 00:30:19,117
They have to.

573
00:30:19,117 --> 00:30:20,518
Then that's what I like.

574
00:30:20,518 --> 00:30:23,154
People like. Pastor. You were like.

575
00:30:23,154 --> 00:30:24,355
I'm sorry.

576
00:30:24,355 --> 00:30:26,858
Forgive me. My bad.

577
00:30:26,858 --> 00:30:28,693
And now I put it right back on them.

578
00:30:28,693 --> 00:30:31,563
All right,
now you've got to forget about it.

579
00:30:31,563 --> 00:30:33,264
You know what I'm saying? Like,
it's just. See?

580
00:30:33,264 --> 00:30:35,900
We're done. We're done.

581
00:30:35,900 --> 00:30:38,870
I want to be best friends anymore,
but we're just, you know, we're done.

582
00:30:38,870 --> 00:30:39,771
So good.

583
00:30:39,771 --> 00:30:41,606
But the Bible says
if he doesn't let you take 2

584
00:30:41,606 --> 00:30:45,310
or 3 witnesses and go show him
what you think his fault was.

585
00:30:45,343 --> 00:30:49,314
Now, listen, those 2 or 3 witnesses,
they're not 2 or 3 supporters.

586
00:30:50,281 --> 00:30:52,250
You don't get people to a three.

587
00:30:52,250 --> 00:30:53,184
That's already going to say

588
00:30:53,184 --> 00:30:56,721
what you want them to say to,
you know, level against this guy.

589
00:30:57,422 --> 00:31:00,191
You say you to judge between us

590
00:31:00,191 --> 00:31:03,494
and we will both abide by what you to say.

591
00:31:03,628 --> 00:31:07,098
So if you tell me
that I'm overly sensitive

592
00:31:07,098 --> 00:31:10,268
and I just need to forgive them
all, abide by that.

593
00:31:10,702 --> 00:31:14,639
If you tell that person
they're gaslighting

594
00:31:14,639 --> 00:31:17,342
and they're playing the victim card
they got, agree to that.

595
00:31:17,342 --> 00:31:20,345
But you to be the judge between us, that's
what it's saying.

596
00:31:21,312 --> 00:31:22,981
You got it.

597
00:31:22,981 --> 00:31:25,817
It's not getting people
to gang up on them.

598
00:31:25,817 --> 00:31:28,820
And if they still like, you know,

599
00:31:29,153 --> 00:31:30,722
take it to the church.

600
00:31:30,722 --> 00:31:34,025
It doesn't mean we have a church meeting
and everybody's dirty laundry.

601
00:31:34,058 --> 00:31:38,196
It means if they are in their in sin
and they're unrepentant,

602
00:31:38,296 --> 00:31:40,665
you take it to church leadership.

603
00:31:40,665 --> 00:31:42,800
And church leadership says, listen,

604
00:31:44,302 --> 00:31:46,971
this whole mercy and grace repentance
thing is profound.

605
00:31:46,971 --> 00:31:47,739
I get it.

606
00:31:47,739 --> 00:31:51,309
If, if, if you're a wandering beagle,
but if you admit you're wandering

607
00:31:51,309 --> 00:31:53,177
and you come back on repentance,
we're all good.

608
00:31:53,177 --> 00:31:55,880
You don't got to be perfect.
You just got to repent.

609
00:31:55,880 --> 00:31:58,716
If they say, I'm a wandering beagle
and I love being a wandering beagle

610
00:31:58,716 --> 00:31:59,918
and I never want to come back,

611
00:31:59,918 --> 00:32:02,921
then you say, listen, as a church,
we're going to ask you to go wander.

612
00:32:03,821 --> 00:32:04,789
But don't wander.

613
00:32:04,789 --> 00:32:07,692
In the context of this community.

614
00:32:07,692 --> 00:32:09,627
You're unrepentant.

615
00:32:09,627 --> 00:32:11,863
You want to wander, go wander.

616
00:32:11,863 --> 00:32:14,999
And Jesus says that
whatever you as a church

617
00:32:15,033 --> 00:32:16,868
bind on earth will be bound in heaven,

618
00:32:16,868 --> 00:32:18,303
where the loose on earth
will be loosed in heaven.

619
00:32:18,303 --> 00:32:21,306
In other words, what you saying is, heaven
will give the stamp of approval on

620
00:32:21,306 --> 00:32:25,777
whatever the church leadership has
decided, as long as it's done biblically.

621
00:32:28,146 --> 00:32:28,980
None of you

622
00:32:28,980 --> 00:32:32,350
know this, but we have done this
a few different times in this church

623
00:32:33,518 --> 00:32:36,254
because it's not something you publish.

624
00:32:36,254 --> 00:32:38,823
It's something you live.

625
00:32:38,823 --> 00:32:42,260
And most of those times
those wandering beagles

626
00:32:42,860 --> 00:32:45,797
have come back.

627
00:32:45,797 --> 00:32:48,800
You follow.

628
00:32:51,202 --> 00:32:52,203
Let me give you this.

629
00:32:52,203 --> 00:32:57,542
The context of this in job. Job.

630
00:32:59,143 --> 00:33:00,979
No fault of job,

631
00:33:00,979 --> 00:33:04,382
but his life was being torn apart

632
00:33:04,549 --> 00:33:08,019
by the work of the evil one,
completely torn apart.

633
00:33:08,019 --> 00:33:11,422
And they had these three friends
that came to him and they said, job,

634
00:33:11,422 --> 00:33:12,623
let me tell you what's wrong with you.

635
00:33:12,623 --> 00:33:14,592
This is what's wrong with you,
and this is where you're wrong,

636
00:33:14,592 --> 00:33:16,694
and this is when you're in error
and this is where you're sitting

637
00:33:16,694 --> 00:33:18,563
and bop bop bop bop bop.

638
00:33:18,563 --> 00:33:23,835
And they were so offensive
and so horrible to job horrible.

639
00:33:23,901 --> 00:33:26,671
And job never defended himself.

640
00:33:26,671 --> 00:33:29,907
And he never chastised them.

641
00:33:30,308 --> 00:33:32,977
He prayed and he said, God, I'm going

642
00:33:32,977 --> 00:33:35,980
to leave it to you
to correct those people.

643
00:33:36,381 --> 00:33:38,349
They were so offensive to me.

644
00:33:39,550 --> 00:33:42,787
And at the end of this account and my

645
00:33:42,820 --> 00:33:46,557
this is this is God talking,
and my servant job shall pray for you.

646
00:33:46,591 --> 00:33:50,161
Three wandering beagles who are offensive.

647
00:33:50,595 --> 00:33:56,267
For I will accept his prayer and not deal
with you according to your folly.

648
00:33:57,035 --> 00:33:58,736
For you have not spoken of me.

649
00:33:58,736 --> 00:34:02,507
What is right
as my servant job has so eliphaz

650
00:34:02,507 --> 00:34:07,879
the bill, dad, the Shiite,
and so far the name on sight

651
00:34:07,912 --> 00:34:13,217
went and did what the Lord had told them,
and the Lord accepted jobs.

652
00:34:13,217 --> 00:34:15,420
Prayer. He didn't get offended at them.

653
00:34:15,420 --> 00:34:17,321
He let them run their mouths.

654
00:34:17,321 --> 00:34:19,223
He said, God, you take care of them.

655
00:34:19,223 --> 00:34:22,293
I don't need to be close to them,
but I'm going to pray for them.

656
00:34:22,293 --> 00:34:25,029
God, you handle your business.

657
00:34:25,029 --> 00:34:29,267
And he prayed for
those who were so offensive

658
00:34:30,234 --> 00:34:33,237
and God honored his prayer.

659
00:34:34,472 --> 00:34:36,574
This is who God is.

660
00:34:36,574 --> 00:34:41,712
And God says if they're that offensive
and they just refuse to agree.

661
00:34:41,746 --> 00:34:42,580
What does he say?

662
00:34:42,580 --> 00:34:45,583
Treat them as what?

663
00:34:46,951 --> 00:34:50,421
Was what a gentile and tax collector.

664
00:34:50,621 --> 00:34:52,623
Let me close with this.

665
00:34:52,623 --> 00:34:55,626
Who's writing these words?

666
00:34:59,330 --> 00:35:01,833
Matthew Levite?

667
00:35:01,833 --> 00:35:04,836
What was his former job?

668
00:35:06,671 --> 00:35:09,307
Now you're starting to see it.

669
00:35:09,307 --> 00:35:10,942
Treat him as a tax collector.

670
00:35:10,942 --> 00:35:14,011
That doesn't mean go
wander somewhere else.

671
00:35:14,078 --> 00:35:14,579
Idiot.

672
00:35:14,579 --> 00:35:15,279
You know, welcome.

673
00:35:15,279 --> 00:35:20,017
Here it means, listen,
we realize you're walking away,

674
00:35:20,384 --> 00:35:24,388
but I'm going to pursue you in gentleness

675
00:35:24,388 --> 00:35:28,025
and in call
because God has a purpose for your life.

676
00:35:28,025 --> 00:35:31,028
And I want to call you back.

677
00:35:31,095 --> 00:35:33,865
Come on.

678
00:35:33,865 --> 00:35:36,868
Treat them like Jesus treated me.

679
00:35:38,236 --> 00:35:40,538
He didn't pitch a fit.

680
00:35:40,538 --> 00:35:42,373
He didn't hunt me down.

681
00:35:43,875 --> 00:35:45,543
He pursued me because his

682
00:35:45,543 --> 00:35:48,546
mercy and his grace are so beautiful.

683
00:35:49,580 --> 00:35:53,451
That's what we do with offensive beagles.

684
00:35:54,619 --> 00:35:56,354
You got it.

685
00:35:56,354 --> 00:35:59,023
Because that's exactly

686
00:35:59,023 --> 00:36:02,026
what God has done for us.

687
00:36:04,295 --> 00:36:07,298
Don't you pray with me.

688
00:36:09,233 --> 00:36:09,667
Father.

689
00:36:09,667 --> 00:36:12,436
Thank you

690
00:36:12,436 --> 00:36:14,939
that you pursued

691
00:36:14,939 --> 00:36:17,942
this wandering beagle.

692
00:36:19,377 --> 00:36:19,810
Thank you

693
00:36:19,810 --> 00:36:22,813
that you are slow to anger
and abounding in love,

694
00:36:23,948 --> 00:36:26,951
not willing that I should perish.

695
00:36:27,852 --> 00:36:31,622
And father,
I pray that you would help me respond

696
00:36:31,622 --> 00:36:34,859
to wandering beagles in my life
with the same mercy and grace.

697
00:36:36,794 --> 00:36:39,530
I pray to help our church

698
00:36:39,530 --> 00:36:43,935
be a church for and of wandering peoples.

699
00:36:46,504 --> 00:36:49,507
You're a good God.

700
00:36:49,941 --> 00:36:51,375
There's nothing better that we can do

701
00:36:51,375 --> 00:36:54,378
to give our lives to you.

702
00:36:55,313 --> 00:36:57,982
Save us for the torment of separation
from you.

703
00:36:57,982 --> 00:37:00,251
Save us from hell. Save us from our sin.

704
00:37:02,353 --> 00:37:04,388
They'll be ushered into eternal life. God.

705
00:37:04,388 --> 00:37:05,723
Thank you.

706
00:37:05,723 --> 00:37:07,458
Friends,
I want to invite you in this moment.

707
00:37:07,458 --> 00:37:10,895
If you've never given your life to Christ

708
00:37:12,196 --> 00:37:15,199
because of what Jesus did on the cross,
because he was raised from the grave,

709
00:37:15,199 --> 00:37:17,468
I want to invite you in this moment.
Say God, I admit it.

710
00:37:17,468 --> 00:37:21,672
I am a wandering beagle running away,

711
00:37:22,907 --> 00:37:25,910
living life on my own terms.

712
00:37:25,943 --> 00:37:28,946
Jesus, I believe that you died
and were raised from the grave.

713
00:37:29,347 --> 00:37:34,785
Save me and I commit to turn from my sin.

714
00:37:35,853 --> 00:37:38,055
And I dedicate my life

715
00:37:38,055 --> 00:37:41,058
and my allegiance to you and you alone.

716
00:37:41,859 --> 00:37:44,462
Did you just make that commitment
and then discover

717
00:37:44,462 --> 00:37:48,232
what it means to follow him and enter
that spiritual formation pathway?

718
00:37:52,036 --> 00:37:52,670
All of us.

719
00:37:52,670 --> 00:37:55,506
I wouldn't encourage us to say, look,
we cannot live this type

720
00:37:55,506 --> 00:37:58,776
of radical discipleship
apart from the power of God.

721
00:38:00,077 --> 00:38:01,078
And I would encourage

722
00:38:01,078 --> 00:38:04,415
all of us in this moment,
say God and empower me

723
00:38:04,949 --> 00:38:08,452
by the power of your spirit
to love you with my whole heart and soul

724
00:38:08,452 --> 00:38:11,856
and mind and strength, without delay
and without hesitation.

725
00:38:11,856 --> 00:38:14,792
Whatever I've got is sacrifice
and cut out of my life.

726
00:38:14,792 --> 00:38:17,795
God, give me the strength to do it

727
00:38:18,195 --> 00:38:20,665
and fill me with your spirit

728
00:38:20,665 --> 00:38:24,502
and the power of your spirit
to live a holy life

729
00:38:25,970 --> 00:38:28,973
because you're worthy of it.

730
00:38:29,440 --> 00:38:31,575
Jesus, we love you.

731
00:38:31,575 --> 00:38:32,610
Help us love you more.

732
00:38:32,610 --> 00:38:35,212
In your name I pray. Amen.

733
00:38:35,212 --> 00:38:37,515
Listen, I love you, church.

734
00:38:37,515 --> 00:38:40,584
You're doing a good job
going through the book of Matthew.

735
00:38:41,052 --> 00:38:44,455
We haven't even gotten the tough stuff
of Matthew 18 yet.

736
00:38:44,789 --> 00:38:47,058
Next week
we're going to wrap up Matthew 18.

737
00:38:47,058 --> 00:38:49,994
And Jesus is going to keep
putting the throttle down.

738
00:38:49,994 --> 00:38:55,032
So so here's my read, Matthew 18
over and over and over again this week.

739
00:38:55,066 --> 00:38:57,902
Let it live inside
and come to life within you.

740
00:38:57,902 --> 00:39:02,340
Read it over and over and let's meet
next week and really impact the

741
00:39:02,340 --> 00:39:07,144
the heart and the meat of this thing
in the last part of Matthew 18.

742
00:39:07,178 --> 00:39:08,679
The good.

743
00:39:08,679 --> 00:39:11,916
All right, stand up
church, let's sing one more song.