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So what's
good is we're talking about music.

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Yeah, we're just talking about, like,
you know, songs and cover

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versions and who the original artists were
and all that.

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And it makes everyone feel good.

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Something like it brings people together.

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It's memories.

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When people hear an older song,
they think back to a time.

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Hopefully that was a happy time for them
and if it wasn't, they change the station

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or or go to another song
because you can get really sad. Can.

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I'm speaking about myself, right, right.

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Me and my husband is alive.

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And what we used to do,
sometimes I can embrace that.

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And sometimes I have to turn.

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And some people do embrace sad songs like
Elton John's had Sad Songs Say So Much,

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or Silly Love songs by Paul McCartney
and wings or whatever, though, and

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but hey, in case you're just tuning
in, by the way, I'm John, this is Joyce.

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It's what's good with John and Joyce here.

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It's available in all streaming
platforms, and.

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All right.

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And our

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and our mission statement really is

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just to get you away
from all the negativity out there.

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I mean, it's kind of,
you know, we're just hanging out here.

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It's like coffee talk or water talk,
watercooler talk.

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But good stuff, good stuff.

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So what we're talking about today
is it abundance.

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Abundance. It's always oh we can use that.

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I mean, I have a deck situation.

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You and I were talking
about a deck situation

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with someone to build a deck.

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But now from the scratch.

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I mean, I think the foundation is. Right.

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So I'm not sure
about the foundation of my deck, but

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it needs some work,

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right?

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Somebody know a good person,
a good carpenter?

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Get in touch with him

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or her?

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Know where to find.

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Right, right.

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Listening from another country.

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Right, right. It's amazing
how many people we.

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We do the inside talk here, but,
But our guy Dave and Robert,

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who have been helping us here
and Stephanie

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have been telling us
that people are tuning in from Europe,

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in Europe right now
and, in other continents as well.

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And it's like, wow, thank you.

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Thank you.

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Whatever you want to just share,
share with us,

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you know, share it with your friends.

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And, we appreciate you. Yes.

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So attracting abundance has been

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something
that has been near and dear to my heart.

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You and me both.

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Especially after looking
at some of the bills coming in lately and,

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you know,
we had tax day recently and, yeah.

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Yes. Yeah.

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I drove through Dunkin Donuts yesterday
that I had a little cup.

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Right. And the price of that

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okay.

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This is up like 100%
I think, since last year.

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Are there tariffs on Dunkin Donuts coffee?

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Or you go to Starbucks
and you get a $22 latte, right.

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Right. Yeah. Laugh at this stuff.

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So you know what?

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If you have to come back different place.

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And we we made it through the past.

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We're here today.

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We're going to make it through this
no matter what.

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It may be 100%.

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I remember
my father had a gas station in New Haven,

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Connecticut all my life.

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I think he started when he was 17. Wow.

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So I remember, gas shortages.

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I remember talking about a lot of things
didn't they had the odd even thing

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back in the day,
the late 70s on your plates.

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Like on an odd day you can get your gas
and an even day somebody else.

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Was that like late 70s?

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You and I weren't even born then,
but I read about it in history books.

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But my father.

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He was very

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rebellious in that
he didn't pay attention to those rules.

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In fact,
when some things came under taxation

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and his gas station, he absorbed the cost.

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He would not pass it on. Wow.

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So your dad was an amazing man.

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You can't think of too many people
doing that nowadays.

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He just felt like it was unfair.

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Right.

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And, And that's what he did.

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So we're talking about.

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I'm talking about abundance. Yeah.

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Why don't you show that book there?

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A book called well, Live Abundant it now.

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Right.

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I should I should be talking.

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I should have a,

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Should it be a picture of a
deck in your book

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and manifest it to Dunkin Donuts?

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Oh, geez. Wow.

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And that's. Yeah. You know what?

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That's a simple story

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of just show how the grateful

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and having, appreciation for your life

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can make just good things happen.

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So I am running late to a meeting.

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I'm stuck in line at a Dunkin Donuts.

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Once you're in line, you can't get out.

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Oh, you look in the back.

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It's like, can't even go around.

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All right.

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You get through.

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So I'm stuck.

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I realize I'm
not going to make it to this meeting, and

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I thought to myself,

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Joyce,

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practice what you preach.

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And by the way,
there was a big truck in front of me,

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so I couldn't see how long the line went,
but it was at a standstill.

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It's like something bad must have happened
at that.

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Right, right. And people weren't leaving.

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So I looked up.

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And I encourage anyone to do that,

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that if it feels like every day,

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just like look up to the heavens,
sometimes I look up and I just say,

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I love you to all the people
who have part of my life.

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Or I say,
what a beautiful day or whatever.

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So I looked up and it was this massive,

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A Flock of Seagulls.

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Hahahahaha! Right, right.

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What is there? That song.

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I ran and Space Age love song and wishing
I okay, three of them.

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Okay. Yeah, right.

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But the birds are making

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these beautiful, like like,

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figure eights.

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I mean, it was
the pattern was just amazing.

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So I was looking up and smiling at it,
thinking, wow,

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that we have this nature that I have.

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I just see this.

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Why am I complaining about that?

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And then I finally I got up to the window

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and the man says,

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no charge.

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And I thought, oh, I said,
because something really bad happened.

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And he said, no, the man in front of you
in the truck paid for you.

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And he was still there,
kind of like stopped getting out.

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And he looked in his rearview mirror
and I looked at him,

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you know, and I went like this.

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Anyway, you know,
and I knew I made his day.

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It wasn't that he just made my day.

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I just knew that he felt so good,
you know, about doing that.

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And the other thing I felt was,

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this may seem a

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little too metaphysical
for some people, but

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I felt that he felt my energy

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looking up and saw me smiling.

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And maybe he did the same thing,
and maybe that matching energy

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said, I'm going to uninvite this woman
whatever she's going to order.

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Yeah, I mean, I mean,
I buy that, no pun intended.

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But, you know,
the vibrations were all vibrations.

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And you notice that when you walk
into a room of people sometimes

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and you could feel that if, 
people have a negative mindset

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where there's tense, you feel,
you feel it.

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Right?
You've been to some meetings like that.

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You walk in and it's like, you know,
you could just cut,

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you know, the tension with a knife.

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And it takes one person to kind of break
that, like takes one person to

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to take it off, switch
and turn the light on.

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Right. Change everything.

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But we've all been there.

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But just one person who walks in with a
big smile can put everybody at ease. Yes.

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Or just cuts.

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Joke or says something funny.

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Reminded me of something.

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There's one person
that I have a meeting with,

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and he usually only has

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meetings with me
to tell me what he doesn't like.

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We all know that person.

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No way.

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That's not good.

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So now that I know that.

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I when I have a meeting with him

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and I promise you this works,

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I sit there
and while he's talking and complaining

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I look at him and think I just wonderful.

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You're just marvelous person.

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You're so smart.

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You're so good looking.

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I'm not saying any of this,

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but he begins to calm down
and it always ends up well.

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Since I started doing that
because I was practicing the right right

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to see if I could send it over

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to someone and, yeah.

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And he told me not too long ago
that there was a meeting

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that I was that with him and someone else,

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and if it weren't for me,
he would have walked out of that meeting.

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But he felt calm with me sitting there.

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So you can quietly do this.

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You don't even have to say,
why are you so angry?

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Or put a smile on your face.

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You don't have to say that you can
quietly send an energy out to someone.

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I totally agree, I think people pick up
on the energy when they're around.

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Just the body language.

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The icon, your facial.

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I mean, are you like
you smiling at that person, making them

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feel good or you're looking
kind of judgmental or standoffish?

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And a

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lot of times you can mirror the person's
body language by what they're doing.

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If they're kind of like, you know,

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you and I

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are kind of like this with each other, and
then we just might lean into each other

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or whatever.

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But subtle things,
they go, they mean a lot.

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Yeah.

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You know, people who are,

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I don't have this talk with someone.

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Just the other day,
and it was kind of a tough talk.

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Because like I said, halfway

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through, they are,

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empaths.

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So there's a difference between group
and empathetic. Yes.

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And then being an empath

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or you absorb everything. Yes.

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All the complaining and worries
and woes that she had

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was because she cared about the people.

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But it's like she became their pain.

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She was internalizing it all.

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She she became it.

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And then I let this go on for a while.

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And then I just said,
can I stop you for a moment?

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I said, because I want to help you
and I can see what you're doing.

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And she said, but everyone, you know,
I should care.

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And I said, yes,
but not to your detriment. Yes.

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You know, so you can listen.

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But at some point,

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and I think I got through a little bit
and then finally I said to

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her, hey, tell me something.

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Yeah, there you go.

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What's good with your life, I love it.

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She did this stutter step like, 
And I said

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something good.

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Yeah. Great about your life.
Probably something.

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It seems like they're in a trance.

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And you broke that trance that.

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That's that's what it was, a trance.

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And we get caught in that trance,
and it's so much easier for people

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to be negative, and they don't realize
they're on that train.

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Right.

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That trance that just right.

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Yeah.

252
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You abruptly like derail it a little bit.

253
00:12:11,931 --> 00:12:14,567
Kind of jolt them. Yes. Right.

254
00:12:14,567 --> 00:12:17,470
So so like that caffeine in the morning
you know so that

255
00:12:17,470 --> 00:12:20,473
but the conversation ended up

256
00:12:20,740 --> 00:12:23,008
where she said,

257
00:12:23,008 --> 00:12:28,047
I am so glad I spoke with you today
because you were just what I needed.

258
00:12:28,481 --> 00:12:30,750
It's like the angels. Yes,

259
00:12:31,817 --> 00:12:33,552
but I think the angels,

260
00:12:33,552 --> 00:12:37,389
God, the universe sends people
to us all the time

261
00:12:37,923 --> 00:12:40,926
and it's up to us to

262
00:12:41,127 --> 00:12:42,128
pay attention.

263
00:12:42,128 --> 00:12:45,598
I think that's a real key piece of advice
we need to be, and intent

264
00:12:45,598 --> 00:12:47,066
about what we do each and every day.

265
00:12:47,066 --> 00:12:50,069
Just keep our antenna up out there.

266
00:12:50,269 --> 00:12:53,506
We're walking around for the messages out
there because they're there all the time.

267
00:12:54,273 --> 00:12:57,977
Universe, God, you know, I call it
God's talking to us all the time.

268
00:12:58,677 --> 00:13:01,614
We just have to be listening in
and we let we were.

269
00:13:01,614 --> 00:13:04,517
So we're too busy being busy

270
00:13:04,517 --> 00:13:07,419
and we're not listening for guidance.

271
00:13:07,419 --> 00:13:09,021
Right.

272
00:13:09,021 --> 00:13:12,024
And you talked about,
you know, the energy that.

273
00:13:12,057 --> 00:13:15,060
Yes, for manifesting.

274
00:13:15,327 --> 00:13:18,130
So, you know, there's reasons why

275
00:13:18,130 --> 00:13:23,569
certain things exist,
like the rich get rich.

276
00:13:26,205 --> 00:13:29,241
Same old, same old, you know, how's
your day.

277
00:13:29,241 --> 00:13:31,977
And another day, another dollar for.

278
00:13:31,977 --> 00:13:32,878
All right.

279
00:13:32,878 --> 00:13:35,781
So one thing goes for all
of course it's more I live by.

280
00:13:35,781 --> 00:13:38,350
No, don't live by.

281
00:13:38,350 --> 00:13:40,953
I was talking
so as long as there's somebody before you.

282
00:13:40,953 --> 00:13:41,720
Right. Who's Murphy?

283
00:13:41,720 --> 00:13:43,422
Not Murphy Brown, right.

284
00:13:43,422 --> 00:13:45,624
But, I mean, who is Murphy and like this?

285
00:13:45,624 --> 00:13:49,061
Well, you know, all my it's been a tough
day already, and things happen in threes.

286
00:13:49,361 --> 00:13:52,097
I'm expecting
at least two more things said.

287
00:13:52,097 --> 00:13:55,067
You're planting
that seed of expecting things to go wrong.

288
00:13:55,067 --> 00:13:58,070
And they will because you're expecting it
right.

289
00:13:58,103 --> 00:13:59,238
Change that thought.

290
00:13:59,238 --> 00:14:02,074
How about three
good things that can happen today.

291
00:14:02,074 --> 00:14:03,142
Minimum.

292
00:14:03,142 --> 00:14:06,779
You know you're so right about that
because people have said

293
00:14:07,279 --> 00:14:08,981
oh well two people time.

294
00:14:08,981 --> 00:14:11,116
You know I'm waiting for the right.

295
00:14:11,116 --> 00:14:14,420
And even if they don't know the third one
and it's,

296
00:14:14,987 --> 00:14:18,390
a celebrity, they'll say,
oh, that's the third one.

297
00:14:18,424 --> 00:14:21,427
And then I think I said to
someone one day I said,

298
00:14:22,027 --> 00:14:24,063
but everyone dies every day, right?

299
00:14:24,063 --> 00:14:26,498
You can always find three people. Exactly.

300
00:14:27,800 --> 00:14:29,101
Right.

301
00:14:29,101 --> 00:14:30,669
Yeah, but people just

302
00:14:30,669 --> 00:14:34,573
feel it's a justification or something
to their their way of thinking.

303
00:14:35,140 --> 00:14:38,010
But I would rather on the side of,
you know, what good

304
00:14:38,010 --> 00:14:41,447
things can happen today rather than just
three good things happening.

305
00:14:41,447 --> 00:14:42,948
Why don't we say that?

306
00:14:42,948 --> 00:14:43,515
That's good.

307
00:14:43,515 --> 00:14:45,117
But next time have a conversation
with somebody.

308
00:14:45,117 --> 00:14:47,419
What three good things
happened to you today?

309
00:14:47,419 --> 00:14:49,955
Because things comes in three
they do. So yeah.

310
00:14:49,955 --> 00:14:52,258
So we're going to change
the whole paradigm.

311
00:14:52,258 --> 00:14:53,259
Nicely done.

312
00:14:53,259 --> 00:14:54,760
You should you should pattern that choice.

313
00:14:54,760 --> 00:14:56,495
You should pattern that.

314
00:14:56,495 --> 00:14:57,363
That's right. Your next book.

315
00:14:57,363 --> 00:14:59,565
That's right.

316
00:14:59,565 --> 00:15:02,001
But abundance really is a mindset.

317
00:15:02,001 --> 00:15:05,004
We're not just talking about financial
but abundance and health.

318
00:15:05,070 --> 00:15:07,106
Abundance in relationships.

319
00:15:07,106 --> 00:15:09,241
Yeah. Peace of mind.

320
00:15:09,241 --> 00:15:09,875
Abundance.

321
00:15:09,875 --> 00:15:12,044
You know, abundance in your fulfillment.

322
00:15:12,044 --> 00:15:17,483
At your job, in your relationship
with your kids, your spouse, your friends.

323
00:15:18,017 --> 00:15:20,619
Yeah. You know, just a joyful life.

324
00:15:20,619 --> 00:15:23,923
It is a joyful life
if you don't hold grudges.

325
00:15:24,456 --> 00:15:26,358
Grudges are dangerous

326
00:15:27,426 --> 00:15:28,627
to your abundance.

327
00:15:28,627 --> 00:15:30,062
It's like building up.

328
00:15:30,062 --> 00:15:33,399
And I think it's like putting up a shield,

329
00:15:33,666 --> 00:15:36,669
so to speak, from getting what you want
from the universe.

330
00:15:36,902 --> 00:15:39,071
When you put up that shield,
you're blocking it.

331
00:15:39,071 --> 00:15:42,675
There's only so much room
in your container, your human body.

332
00:15:42,808 --> 00:15:46,979
And to focus it with all that negativity,
you know, empty out that container

333
00:15:47,313 --> 00:15:50,916
and allow the positiveness
that come in, the vibes, the abundance

334
00:15:51,250 --> 00:15:54,086
that that we all really,

335
00:15:54,086 --> 00:15:57,890
I think, think deserve, quite frankly,
it reminded me of,

336
00:15:58,257 --> 00:16:01,193
Doctor Wayne Dyer that I love Doctor Dyer,

337
00:16:01,193 --> 00:16:05,130
his writings and,
and in a presentation once

338
00:16:05,564 --> 00:16:10,369
he had a he a globe sort of like a,
lighting that we have here.

339
00:16:10,369 --> 00:16:12,104
So like a round globe.

340
00:16:12,104 --> 00:16:14,940
And he said,
I want to use this as an example.

341
00:16:14,940 --> 00:16:17,843
He said, this globe
with this beautiful light,

342
00:16:17,843 --> 00:16:20,646
this represents the heavens.

343
00:16:20,646 --> 00:16:26,151
God, the universe, creator,
and nothing but good

344
00:16:26,485 --> 00:16:30,389
and love exist here, right?

345
00:16:31,390 --> 00:16:34,093
When you step out of this light

346
00:16:34,093 --> 00:16:36,462
symphony, unforgiveness,

347
00:16:36,462 --> 00:16:39,231
holding grudges, all of that,

348
00:16:39,231 --> 00:16:41,700
you can feel that

349
00:16:41,700 --> 00:16:45,671
because you just got you put yourself off
track, right?

350
00:16:45,871 --> 00:16:48,707
That light is always there for you.

351
00:16:48,707 --> 00:16:51,710
And that was really impactful on me.

352
00:16:51,844 --> 00:16:55,114
And it took me back to
when I was in grammar school

353
00:16:55,114 --> 00:16:58,117
and I was in, Catholic school.

354
00:16:58,550 --> 00:17:02,187
And I remember raising my hand
and a priest was giving a talk,

355
00:17:02,187 --> 00:17:05,190
and I was six years old.

356
00:17:05,724 --> 00:17:09,094
And I said to him and he said, yes.

357
00:17:09,628 --> 00:17:11,864
And I said,

358
00:17:11,864 --> 00:17:13,365
Who is God?

359
00:17:13,365 --> 00:17:15,434
What is he?

360
00:17:15,434 --> 00:17:18,303
And his answer was,

361
00:17:18,303 --> 00:17:21,306
God is love, right?

362
00:17:22,141 --> 00:17:24,309
And that stayed with me

363
00:17:24,309 --> 00:17:28,647
even through my rebellious, 
I just remember that

364
00:17:28,647 --> 00:17:34,453
when when Wayne Dyer was showing
that physical example, I thought, oh,

365
00:17:35,187 --> 00:17:39,792
he to feel that good
and to have that kind of.

366
00:17:40,225 --> 00:17:43,228
You talked about abundance. Yes. Right.

367
00:17:43,295 --> 00:17:45,798
You have to stand in that. Right.

368
00:17:45,798 --> 00:17:48,634
But you can't stand in that light
for a second

369
00:17:48,634 --> 00:17:51,403
and do a prayer
and step back out and go, yeah.

370
00:17:51,403 --> 00:17:52,738
But I hate that person.

371
00:17:52,738 --> 00:17:54,540
I hate my job. Right.

372
00:17:54,540 --> 00:17:57,543
Because now
you just put yourself out of it.

373
00:17:57,609 --> 00:18:00,712
But it doesn't mean
that you're still not loved and protected

374
00:18:00,712 --> 00:18:04,016
and everything
you need to go back into the light.

375
00:18:04,249 --> 00:18:06,752
Yeah,
we have to kind of look inward first.

376
00:18:06,752 --> 00:18:09,755
You know, so many times
things can change by the way we change.

377
00:18:09,922 --> 00:18:12,091
Too many times we say, I really wish

378
00:18:12,091 --> 00:18:15,094
my wife wouldn't do that
or I wish that person wouldn't do that.

379
00:18:15,294 --> 00:18:16,662
Well, what about us?

380
00:18:16,662 --> 00:18:19,998
Why don't we change the way
we look at things inside?

381
00:18:20,265 --> 00:18:24,002
And by doing that, we can change
the behavior of the other person.

382
00:18:24,670 --> 00:18:27,806
You know, if we don't think we're being
loved enough, will love that person more.

383
00:18:28,273 --> 00:18:30,476
Yeah. Take the high road.

384
00:18:30,476 --> 00:18:31,944
You know,
I think that's really important too.

385
00:18:31,944 --> 00:18:34,413
But looking inward,
too many times, people look outward.

386
00:18:34,413 --> 00:18:36,682
I wish I had more money,
I wish I had more of this and this and

387
00:18:36,682 --> 00:18:40,119
but how about
I wish I didn't hate so much?

388
00:18:41,286 --> 00:18:42,221
You know,

389
00:18:42,221 --> 00:18:45,791
I mean, I think that's really good, or
I wish I wasn't so judgmental.

390
00:18:46,125 --> 00:18:49,128
Yes, I want to have an abundance of love

391
00:18:49,228 --> 00:18:52,264
and care,
not an abundance of hate and judgment.

392
00:18:52,397 --> 00:18:55,100
And as human beings, we're judgmental,

393
00:18:55,100 --> 00:18:57,269
you know,
but I try to find myself catching.

394
00:18:57,269 --> 00:19:01,073
So if I do become judgmental about
somebody I may not like or a behavior

395
00:19:01,306 --> 00:19:04,543
I try to back off, say,
listen, I'm not perfect.

396
00:19:05,077 --> 00:19:06,712
I don't want people judging me.

397
00:19:06,712 --> 00:19:07,679
I make a lot of mistakes.

398
00:19:07,679 --> 00:19:10,482
So what's good about that person, right?

399
00:19:10,482 --> 00:19:13,018
Find something good
about that person you like?

400
00:19:13,018 --> 00:19:18,357
Sometimes I just need to stop and say,
okay, somebody loves them.

401
00:19:18,790 --> 00:19:20,893
They have parents.

402
00:19:20,893 --> 00:19:21,994
Things are right.

403
00:19:21,994 --> 00:19:24,429
Right, right right right. Yeah. There.

404
00:19:24,429 --> 00:19:28,600
I think I know is it almost human nature
like to critique all the time.

405
00:19:29,434 --> 00:19:32,905
You know because that's what you hear
right.

406
00:19:33,205 --> 00:19:35,440
That's more the norm.

407
00:19:35,440 --> 00:19:38,577
Almost like people connect with each other

408
00:19:39,077 --> 00:19:42,080
on the people they TV shows
they don't like.

409
00:19:42,648 --> 00:19:46,785
Or TV shows they do like you know,
but there's always kind of this

410
00:19:48,020 --> 00:19:49,154
critique going on.

411
00:19:49,154 --> 00:19:55,027
So I, I do I that's something I work on is
it's just not saying anything.

412
00:19:55,227 --> 00:19:56,295
Right.

413
00:19:56,295 --> 00:20:01,333
Like you said inward and thinking why
are we thinking this about this person?

414
00:20:01,433 --> 00:20:03,669
I'm being a lot more proactive
about that. Joyce too.

415
00:20:03,669 --> 00:20:04,603
The thing is, I want to be.

416
00:20:04,603 --> 00:20:06,905
That's something I know I need to work on.

417
00:20:06,905 --> 00:20:08,240
I think we all need as humans.

418
00:20:08,240 --> 00:20:09,975
I just don't want to be so judgmental.

419
00:20:09,975 --> 00:20:13,845
I find myself
feeling, almost, you know, dirty inside.

420
00:20:13,845 --> 00:20:16,148
If I'm feeling so negative
about somebody, I.

421
00:20:16,148 --> 00:20:21,186
Because you're so on track
that it's so good that you feel that.

422
00:20:21,253 --> 00:20:25,023
Because when you do,
that means it's showing you

423
00:20:25,490 --> 00:20:28,460
that that doesn't feel good, right?

424
00:20:28,460 --> 00:20:30,562
You get back on track
with a lot of people.

425
00:20:30,562 --> 00:20:32,531
They never feel that.

426
00:20:32,531 --> 00:20:36,301
And they only feel good
when they're commiserating

427
00:20:36,301 --> 00:20:39,571
with someone else about how bad things are

428
00:20:40,472 --> 00:20:42,941
and, you know, and being like I

429
00:20:42,941 --> 00:20:46,011
said, I think many times before myself

430
00:20:46,011 --> 00:20:49,982
and my grandson and a lot of things
at my doctor's offices, a lot.

431
00:20:51,216 --> 00:20:54,219
And I
know you hear a lot of negativity there.

432
00:20:54,519 --> 00:20:57,823
So just again, we can just by being there,
that could be a blessing.

433
00:20:57,823 --> 00:21:01,059
That could be abundance
right there of spreading the cheer.

434
00:21:01,460 --> 00:21:04,329
So when you can't

435
00:21:04,329 --> 00:21:06,698
just leave the room.

436
00:21:06,698 --> 00:21:08,934
Because I had to do that with my grandson.

437
00:21:08,934 --> 00:21:11,937
And a couple weeks ago
that room was packed.

438
00:21:12,471 --> 00:21:15,741
But again, because I'm going through
physical therapy with them

439
00:21:16,341 --> 00:21:18,844
people, they're in physical pain, right?

440
00:21:18,844 --> 00:21:22,147
So when it started to become too much,
I just said,

441
00:21:22,714 --> 00:21:25,217
why don't we stand out in the hallway?

442
00:21:25,217 --> 00:21:27,486
And we did that out in the hallway.

443
00:21:27,486 --> 00:21:33,025
And then we spoke,
it was good to calm down

444
00:21:33,258 --> 00:21:36,261
because I didn't want him absorbing that.

445
00:21:37,996 --> 00:21:39,765
I mean, the people are in pain,
you understand?

446
00:21:39,765 --> 00:21:41,667
They're going to look at things
in a more negative way.

447
00:21:41,667 --> 00:21:44,903
You notice how, like they always say,
when you're looking at a problem,

448
00:21:44,903 --> 00:21:47,906
wait till the next day when you refresh
after a good night's sleep,

449
00:21:48,073 --> 00:21:51,009
you ever come back and you've been like
had a challenging day,

450
00:21:51,009 --> 00:21:52,678
and then something happens

451
00:21:52,678 --> 00:21:56,548
and you look at it and it's like it seemed
like the worst possible scenario.

452
00:21:56,848 --> 00:22:00,919
And the best thing they say to do
is take a deep breath, put it aside.

453
00:22:00,919 --> 00:22:05,424
If you can get a good night's sleep
and look at it from a fresh set of eyes,

454
00:22:05,891 --> 00:22:07,059
the next morning.

455
00:22:07,059 --> 00:22:08,960
And I'm finding myself
getting better at that too,

456
00:22:08,960 --> 00:22:11,963
because that you don't find things
welling up inside.

457
00:22:12,097 --> 00:22:15,867
But you take a deep breath, respond,
and not react.

458
00:22:16,768 --> 00:22:20,739
You know, which is hard, which is hard.

459
00:22:20,739 --> 00:22:22,474
But am I getting better? Yeah.

460
00:22:22,474 --> 00:22:24,910
I mean, I'm not where I used to be,
but it's like a Tim McGraw song.

461
00:22:24,910 --> 00:22:27,913
I'm not where I used to am now,
but I'm better than I used to be.

462
00:22:28,113 --> 00:22:29,548
Yeah, each and every day.

463
00:22:29,548 --> 00:22:31,917
What are you better at?
Each and every day.

464
00:22:31,917 --> 00:22:33,185
What are you doing? Good.

465
00:22:33,185 --> 00:22:36,321
Instead of focusing on bad,
what improvement

466
00:22:36,321 --> 00:22:38,490
have you made over the past day?

467
00:22:38,490 --> 00:22:39,658
It's probably something.

468
00:22:39,658 --> 00:22:40,058
Yeah.

469
00:22:40,058 --> 00:22:42,928
Even if you felt like you ate too much.

470
00:22:42,928 --> 00:22:43,895
Okay.

471
00:22:43,895 --> 00:22:46,898
Don't
you know, like, attack yourself for that?

472
00:22:47,099 --> 00:22:49,301
Tomorrow's another day. Yeah.

473
00:22:49,301 --> 00:22:51,370
And a lot of people do that.
I've been guilty of that.

474
00:22:51,370 --> 00:22:54,106
Do you feel like you went off it?
Then you binge.

475
00:22:54,106 --> 00:22:55,507
I screwed it up.

476
00:22:55,507 --> 00:22:57,743
I went off to the nutrition plan,
the diet.

477
00:22:57,743 --> 00:22:59,111
I'm just going to eat like this.

478
00:22:59,111 --> 00:23:01,747
And then you feel like you feel terrible.

479
00:23:01,747 --> 00:23:03,815
So just give yourself some grace.

480
00:23:03,815 --> 00:23:05,050
Give yourself.

481
00:23:05,050 --> 00:23:07,753
Give yourself grace.
Don't beat yourself up.

482
00:23:07,753 --> 00:23:09,488
This is from a guy who's done that.

483
00:23:09,488 --> 00:23:11,790
I beat myself up with that. You know?

484
00:23:11,790 --> 00:23:14,993
And just, Tomorrow's
a brand new day to start again. Yes,

485
00:23:16,395 --> 00:23:17,229
that.

486
00:23:17,229 --> 00:23:19,231
Listen, for that abundant thinking.

487
00:23:19,231 --> 00:23:22,234
You know, that positive thinking
that, there's plenty of grace for you.

488
00:23:22,634 --> 00:23:24,770
There is, there is.

489
00:23:24,770 --> 00:23:26,638
And you can,

490
00:23:26,638 --> 00:23:28,874
you can do that in any time.

491
00:23:28,874 --> 00:23:30,542
Abundance.

492
00:23:30,542 --> 00:23:33,979
I really feel like
we're we're designed for abundance.

493
00:23:34,746 --> 00:23:38,583
And I think some people feel
we're designed to suffer.

494
00:23:38,950 --> 00:23:40,318
No, I can't understand that.

495
00:23:40,318 --> 00:23:43,889
You know, we have
a, I understand where people sometimes

496
00:23:43,889 --> 00:23:47,025
have their feelings about,
you know, God, the universe in that,

497
00:23:47,793 --> 00:23:50,796
but I just believe that your father,

498
00:23:50,929 --> 00:23:53,532
you know, your heavenly father,

499
00:23:53,532 --> 00:23:54,299
like your father.

500
00:23:54,299 --> 00:23:56,134
My father.
My dad didn't want me to suffer.

501
00:23:56,134 --> 00:23:57,836
He wanted to take care of me. He loved me.

502
00:23:57,836 --> 00:23:59,871
He wanted the best for me.

503
00:23:59,871 --> 00:24:03,041
And I think that's how he feels about us,
even though some people

504
00:24:03,041 --> 00:24:04,176
might differ with that.

505
00:24:04,176 --> 00:24:07,179
If he loved us so much, this wouldn't
happen to this wouldn't happen.

506
00:24:07,245 --> 00:24:10,282
And I understand that thought
that some people may have right now.

507
00:24:10,282 --> 00:24:12,651
They might be going some through
some pain.

508
00:24:12,651 --> 00:24:12,851
They.

509
00:24:12,851 --> 00:24:15,854
Why is a loving God
allowing this to happen per se?

510
00:24:16,455 --> 00:24:19,691
But my whole thing is,
I know we live in a broken world right now

511
00:24:19,691 --> 00:24:23,061
without getting too deep, but many times
if I don't understand the choice,

512
00:24:23,061 --> 00:24:26,064
I'll put it in the
I don't understand file in my brain

513
00:24:26,198 --> 00:24:28,767
that I'm not meant to understand that
right now,

514
00:24:28,767 --> 00:24:32,103
but I'm still going to have empathy
for someone who has doubts.

515
00:24:32,938 --> 00:24:35,207
And because I have doubts, I'm

516
00:24:35,207 --> 00:24:38,210
a believer and I have my doubts every day.

517
00:24:38,310 --> 00:24:41,513
Okay, thank the apostles.

518
00:24:42,013 --> 00:24:42,881
They had their doubts.

519
00:24:42,881 --> 00:24:45,517
The the the disciples walked with him.

520
00:24:45,517 --> 00:24:47,118
They saw the good works he did.

521
00:24:47,118 --> 00:24:49,287
And they still doubted.

522
00:24:49,287 --> 00:24:50,021
They still does.

523
00:24:50,021 --> 00:24:52,691
So cut yourself some slack
if you doubt. It's okay.

524
00:24:52,691 --> 00:24:53,425
You know something?

525
00:24:53,425 --> 00:24:56,461
We're going to have father and, love
Father Ed.

526
00:24:57,295 --> 00:24:59,998
Mr. TikTok. He is Mr..

527
00:24:59,998 --> 00:25:00,699
Today. Yeah

528
00:25:02,200 --> 00:25:03,435
I love that guy

529
00:25:03,435 --> 00:25:07,405
it early
90s and he's he's just a fabulous. Yes.

530
00:25:07,739 --> 00:25:11,810
But there were things I brought up of
thanks to him.

531
00:25:13,044 --> 00:25:15,113
And he'll answer any question

532
00:25:15,113 --> 00:25:18,116
with such honesty and

533
00:25:18,550 --> 00:25:22,587
the one thing I love about him
is that he loves God.

534
00:25:23,021 --> 00:25:25,891
He loves Jesus and Mary.

535
00:25:25,891 --> 00:25:29,761
And there's some, well,
we'll talk to about this, but I know

536
00:25:29,761 --> 00:25:33,765
there are some people who feel like, oh,
the Catholics worship Mary.

537
00:25:34,032 --> 00:25:38,336
And he's like, we don't want worship in
oh God, it's that.

538
00:25:38,336 --> 00:25:42,607
But when Jesus changed the wine
to the Lord for his mother,

539
00:25:42,641 --> 00:25:43,675
that was his first miracle.

540
00:25:43,675 --> 00:25:46,678
Mother who asked him to do it.

541
00:25:46,778 --> 00:25:47,579
That's right.

542
00:25:47,579 --> 00:25:49,648
And they used it as a petition.

543
00:25:49,648 --> 00:25:53,518
But but the one thing I do want to ask him
is about the suffering.

544
00:25:54,219 --> 00:25:57,222
But I think it means to turn

545
00:25:57,222 --> 00:26:00,358
your suffering into,
like, a sacrifice to God.

546
00:26:00,425 --> 00:26:02,994
Like if it's something
you can't get rid of,

547
00:26:02,994 --> 00:26:06,798
it's really like turning it over,
which is really what we call surrender.

548
00:26:07,332 --> 00:26:08,533
Submitting.

549
00:26:08,533 --> 00:26:10,235
I'm doing my best.
That's what I do each and every day.

550
00:26:10,235 --> 00:26:12,237
I try to submit more because I know that

551
00:26:12,237 --> 00:26:15,473
the more I try to do things
in my own power, the more I fail,

552
00:26:16,241 --> 00:26:18,510
the more I feel like when I submit and try

553
00:26:18,510 --> 00:26:21,513
to get out of my own way, things happen.

554
00:26:21,813 --> 00:26:23,815
Things happen.

555
00:26:23,815 --> 00:26:26,351
That's what's good, you know,
it happens in my life with that.

556
00:26:26,351 --> 00:26:30,488
But Mother Teresa,
she doubted at times when she saw it.

557
00:26:30,488 --> 00:26:33,491
I mean, she was in the lion's den,

558
00:26:33,491 --> 00:26:36,161
in the trenches, and she doubted at times

559
00:26:36,161 --> 00:26:39,731
if you read some of her journals
that even she doubted.

560
00:26:40,065 --> 00:26:40,599
Yeah.

561
00:26:40,599 --> 00:26:43,602
So, I mean, she was a woman of great
faith, so.

562
00:26:43,969 --> 00:26:46,137
Absolutely. Yeah.

563
00:26:46,137 --> 00:26:49,808
So before we before we close,
I want to talk about that

564
00:26:49,808 --> 00:26:52,444
five minutes again. Yes.

565
00:26:52,444 --> 00:26:56,681
Everyone need to do and I it's something
that I just love to do.

566
00:26:56,681 --> 00:27:00,919
So for just five minutes
before you fall asleep at night

567
00:27:01,419 --> 00:27:04,623
and in the morning
to forget about the money,

568
00:27:04,956 --> 00:27:08,460
your career, your fears, problems, pain.

569
00:27:09,027 --> 00:27:10,629
And during those five minutes,

570
00:27:11,696 --> 00:27:13,264
the feelings

571
00:27:13,264 --> 00:27:17,202
you most
want to feel for the rest of your life.

572
00:27:18,336 --> 00:27:20,472
It might seem awkward

573
00:27:20,472 --> 00:27:23,141
at first, and that's okay,

574
00:27:23,141 --> 00:27:27,879
but I could implore you to do anything
it would it be

575
00:27:27,879 --> 00:27:32,651
this little five minute exercise,
nothing else that you might do?

576
00:27:32,651 --> 00:27:34,686
Whatever.

577
00:27:34,686 --> 00:27:37,422
A profound effect

578
00:27:37,422 --> 00:27:40,859
on your fortunes,
your friendships, your happiness.

579
00:27:41,493 --> 00:27:44,295
It's when you do this because when

580
00:27:44,295 --> 00:27:46,231
your mind is feeling that

581
00:27:46,231 --> 00:27:49,234
you have already manifested it,

582
00:27:49,868 --> 00:27:52,871
what you desire

583
00:27:53,171 --> 00:27:56,174
or that dread starts to go away.

584
00:27:56,875 --> 00:28:01,613
And when you do this for five minutes
and you start out your day and your day

585
00:28:01,613 --> 00:28:05,717
with that, you're going to see that thing
start showing up in your life.

586
00:28:06,217 --> 00:28:07,252
You're going to see you're

587
00:28:07,252 --> 00:28:10,789
you can hear things,
do things that you weren't aware of,

588
00:28:10,789 --> 00:28:13,825
that may have always been
trying to reach you these messages,

589
00:28:14,559 --> 00:28:19,597
but because what you focus on appears
absolutely right.

590
00:28:20,131 --> 00:28:23,134
And the thing is the gratitude,
at the end of the day, what happened?

591
00:28:23,334 --> 00:28:26,771
That was good,
you know, who did you come across that

592
00:28:26,771 --> 00:28:30,075
that day that really made you feel good
or said something really nice?

593
00:28:30,075 --> 00:28:30,675
Or maybe you saw

594
00:28:30,675 --> 00:28:34,646
somebody was really hurting or suffering,
maybe pray for that person.

595
00:28:34,813 --> 00:28:37,749
You may not know their name,
but I'll say so many times, you know, God,

596
00:28:37,749 --> 00:28:41,619
I saw that person
who was having a hard time walking today.

597
00:28:41,853 --> 00:28:45,190
I don't know their name, but you do,
and that's all that matters.

598
00:28:45,190 --> 00:28:47,158
So if each one of us

599
00:28:47,158 --> 00:28:50,328
does our part to go out there
and do something good each and every day,

600
00:28:50,995 --> 00:28:52,630
you know, whatever, I just

601
00:28:52,630 --> 00:28:55,633
I just think that's going to take us,
I think spiritual bonds

602
00:28:55,700 --> 00:28:59,270
or I'm a generational curses
they talk about sometimes could be broken.

603
00:28:59,771 --> 00:29:01,106
Yes. You know,

604
00:29:01,106 --> 00:29:04,109
and the more spiritual bonds
can actually bring us closer together.

605
00:29:04,175 --> 00:29:06,478
Right. Oh my generation.

606
00:29:06,478 --> 00:29:07,979
No, no, we don't want those.

607
00:29:07,979 --> 00:29:09,848
But we've heard about those.
I've read about those.

608
00:29:09,848 --> 00:29:12,851
We got to that generational curse
is being broken right now.

609
00:29:13,084 --> 00:29:14,252
Right now.

610
00:29:14,252 --> 00:29:17,689
But we appreciate you so much
for tuning in to our podcast.

611
00:29:17,689 --> 00:29:18,757
What's good

612
00:29:18,757 --> 00:29:22,927
I'm John Cadillac Seville, Joyce Logan,
my friend, and we appreciate you.

613
00:29:22,927 --> 00:29:24,162
You're part of our family as well.

614
00:29:24,162 --> 00:29:26,030
We wish nothing
but the best for you and your family,

615
00:29:26,030 --> 00:29:28,967
and can't
wait to see you through the lens.

616
00:29:28,967 --> 00:29:30,101
Next time you'll see us.

617
00:29:30,101 --> 00:29:32,337
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there's new technology.

618
00:29:32,337 --> 00:29:34,139
We could see you too. Okay.

619
00:29:35,673 --> 00:29:38,309
That's right.

620
00:29:38,309 --> 00:29:38,910
Yeah. By.