In this episode, DSO responds to a question from a listener named John Rambo, who is feeling anxious about his wife attending a bachelorette party in Vegas. John has been with his wife for almost 13 years and they have three children together. He describes his wife as beautiful and trustworthy, but he still has concerns about the party and worries about potential infidelity. DSO explores two possible explanations for John's anxiety: insecurity and a gut feeling that something is not right. He encourages John to examine his own behavior and communication patterns in the relationship, as well as his level of trust and security. DSO also suggests that John and his wife set clear boundaries and communicate openly about their concerns and expectations.
Key Takeaways:
- Insecurity and anxious behavior can create tension in a relationship and lead to feelings of mistrust.
- Open communication and setting clear boundaries can help alleviate anxiety and build trust in a relationship.
- Trusting your partner and having a sense of abundance can help overcome anxiety and fear of infidelity.
Quotes:
- "There's no right or wrong here, dude. Let's be honest."
- "If she does something stupid enough to let me down, that's on her. Then she loses her husband. That sucks to be her."
- "Insecurity and anxious behavior can create tension in a relationship and lead to feelings of mistrust."
What is Dad Starting Over?
Welcome to the Dad Starting Over podcast! "Starting Over" means different things to different people. It could be that you're newly divorced and starting over fresh with a new life. It could be that you're still married and wanting to hit the reset button and finally do things right within your marriage. Whatever your story may be, you're in the right place.
I'm DSO, the author of books called "The Dead Bedroom Fix", "NOW WHAT?", and "Red Flags". You can learn more about me, my books, one-on-one coaching, and the member-only part of my site called the DSO Fraternity at dadstartingover.com.