1 01:00:00,000 --> 01:00:02,708 (upbeat music) 2 01:00:05,375 --> 01:00:06,500 Yeah, I think it was 3 01:00:06,500 --> 01:00:08,000 Robin Williams that said, 4 01:00:08,500 --> 01:00:09,083 and you may have quoted 5 01:00:09,083 --> 01:00:10,000 this on Morning Serial, 6 01:00:10,250 --> 01:00:11,666 but it's, "Every person 7 01:00:11,666 --> 01:00:12,708 you meet is fighting a battle 8 01:00:12,708 --> 01:00:13,750 "that you know nothing about." 9 01:00:14,333 --> 01:00:15,333 So treat them with kindness. 10 01:00:15,625 --> 01:00:16,500 It's one of my favorite 11 01:00:16,500 --> 01:00:17,416 quotes out of Morning Serial. 12 01:00:17,916 --> 01:00:18,916 Do you remember? 13 01:00:19,375 --> 01:00:20,125 Yeah, it was his birthday. 14 01:00:20,916 --> 01:00:21,791 It was his birthday? 15 01:00:24,583 --> 01:00:24,750 Seriously? 16 01:00:26,291 --> 01:00:27,166 I've got a terrible memory. 17 01:00:27,625 --> 01:00:28,583 (laughing) 18 01:00:28,708 --> 01:00:30,750 I don't remember that, but-- 19 01:00:30,875 --> 01:00:31,666 Meg's noticed she has 20 01:00:31,666 --> 01:00:32,875 to catalog everything 21 01:00:33,000 --> 01:00:34,666 that happens in my life for me. 22 01:00:34,666 --> 01:00:35,583 So she's running two 23 01:00:35,583 --> 01:00:36,500 memories out of that. 24 01:00:37,375 --> 01:00:38,500 Incredible brain of hers. 25 01:00:39,333 --> 01:00:39,916 Escalator? 26 01:00:40,500 --> 01:00:41,000 Escalator? 27 01:00:41,000 --> 01:00:41,625 All the way down. 28 01:00:42,125 --> 01:00:42,333 Really? 29 01:00:43,291 --> 01:00:45,083 And I promised myself from that moment, 30 01:00:45,458 --> 01:00:47,291 I mean, I do remember that. 31 01:00:47,958 --> 01:00:49,708 I will pick my family 32 01:00:49,708 --> 01:00:52,208 first, always, from now on. 33 01:00:52,250 --> 01:00:52,666 Yeah, right? 34 01:00:53,000 --> 01:00:54,750 I think it's a bit of that fake it 35 01:00:54,750 --> 01:00:55,875 till you make it sometimes. 36 01:00:56,375 --> 01:00:56,541 Yeah. 37 01:00:57,208 --> 01:00:58,500 In some of the hardest moments, 38 01:00:59,083 --> 01:01:01,041 I have to at least pretend to be strong. 39 01:01:01,541 --> 01:01:02,916 It's like a Taylor Swift song. 40 01:01:03,625 --> 01:01:04,208 Which one? 41 01:01:05,458 --> 01:01:05,500 (laughing) 42 01:01:05,708 --> 01:01:06,750 It's like all of them, honey. 43 01:01:07,791 --> 01:01:07,833 (laughing) 44 01:01:09,000 --> 01:01:10,166 I love me some Tay Tay. 45 01:01:11,000 --> 01:01:11,208 Hot. 46 01:01:13,583 --> 01:01:14,250 Nice, it will look kinda 47 01:01:14,250 --> 01:01:16,041 spicy hot, temperature hot. 48 01:01:16,041 --> 01:01:16,958 It was temperature hot. 49 01:01:17,166 --> 01:01:17,625 Sexy hot. 50 01:01:17,875 --> 01:01:18,708 Don't put it safe while 51 01:01:18,708 --> 01:01:21,166 we're out off the ship. 52 01:01:21,208 --> 01:01:21,916 Talking about underpants. 53 01:01:23,541 --> 01:01:23,708 Huh? 54 01:01:24,541 --> 01:01:25,083 (laughing) 55 01:01:25,833 --> 01:01:26,833 Welcome to the Mr. and 56 01:01:26,833 --> 01:01:27,875 Mrs. English podcast. 57 01:01:28,208 --> 01:01:28,583 I'm Megan. 58 01:01:29,000 --> 01:01:29,541 And I'm Sean. 59 01:01:29,833 --> 01:01:30,875 We're here to talk about 60 01:01:30,875 --> 01:01:32,500 the wild ride of raising kids, 61 01:01:32,708 --> 01:01:34,791 growing careers, keeping life together 62 01:01:34,791 --> 01:01:36,041 in the middle of all the chaos. 63 01:01:36,750 --> 01:01:37,583 So buckle up, 64 01:01:38,125 --> 01:01:38,875 because we're all in 65 01:01:38,875 --> 01:01:40,125 this crazy journey together. 66 01:01:41,750 --> 01:01:42,500 Thank you, Marina. 67 01:01:42,708 --> 01:01:46,458 This is M&M, six, six, 68 01:01:46,916 --> 01:01:47,458 what was I saying? 69 01:01:47,666 --> 01:01:49,166 Yeah, that's, I think the date. 70 01:01:49,333 --> 01:01:50,000 I think that's Friday. 71 01:01:50,375 --> 01:01:51,250 Yeah, I think you're right. 72 01:01:51,250 --> 01:01:54,500 All right, this is M&M, six, six, so 21. 73 01:01:55,416 --> 01:01:59,666 Land, la-la, land, tater tots. 74 01:02:00,000 --> 01:02:00,541 Ooh. 75 01:02:00,666 --> 01:02:01,791 Get yours in there as well. 76 01:02:02,458 --> 01:02:03,583 Tater tots. 77 01:02:03,958 --> 01:02:05,291 Yep, well, welcome. 78 01:02:05,666 --> 01:02:07,375 It's welcome, everybody. 79 01:02:07,666 --> 01:02:09,375 It's not a weekend for us. 80 01:02:09,375 --> 01:02:10,916 We usually try to do this on the weekend. 81 01:02:10,916 --> 01:02:11,250 We do. 82 01:02:11,875 --> 01:02:14,000 Nor is it really late at night 83 01:02:14,000 --> 01:02:15,125 or really early in the morning. 84 01:02:15,541 --> 01:02:16,958 It is like a nice, hey, we 85 01:02:16,958 --> 01:02:18,166 just finished work for the day. 86 01:02:19,041 --> 01:02:20,041 So we're still fresh. 87 01:02:20,666 --> 01:02:21,041 Kind of. 88 01:02:21,500 --> 01:02:23,333 Kind of, you know, 89 01:02:23,500 --> 01:02:24,375 but we're not just waking 90 01:02:24,375 --> 01:02:25,958 up, drinking our coffee. 91 01:02:26,000 --> 01:02:26,208 Yeah, that's right. 92 01:02:26,208 --> 01:02:28,250 Or are we sipping alcohol, 93 01:02:28,500 --> 01:02:29,125 because it's, you know. 94 01:02:29,375 --> 01:02:30,541 Yeah, we've been nice and lube, 95 01:02:30,541 --> 01:02:32,208 because we've been working all day long. 96 01:02:32,291 --> 01:02:32,625 Yeah. 97 01:02:32,708 --> 01:02:34,291 Yeah, we're not inebriated, 98 01:02:34,291 --> 01:02:36,333 because we're drinking water today, 99 01:02:36,333 --> 01:02:37,625 because we got soccer tonight. 100 01:02:37,875 --> 01:02:38,208 Yeah. 101 01:02:38,208 --> 01:02:39,333 And a couple other activities. 102 01:02:39,750 --> 01:02:40,041 Yeah. 103 01:02:40,333 --> 01:02:41,333 So I don't know if 104 01:02:41,333 --> 01:02:42,083 it's at our best, though. 105 01:02:42,083 --> 01:02:42,958 I mean, I've been staring 106 01:02:42,958 --> 01:02:44,333 at a computer screen all day. 107 01:02:44,333 --> 01:02:44,875 You know when you, 108 01:02:45,708 --> 01:02:46,666 maybe you don't do it as much, 109 01:02:46,666 --> 01:02:47,625 because you're in meetings so much, 110 01:02:47,625 --> 01:02:48,916 but you are staring at people. 111 01:02:48,916 --> 01:02:49,250 Oh, yeah. 112 01:02:50,291 --> 01:02:51,583 But it's like when you have 113 01:02:51,583 --> 01:02:53,000 like a flash bang in your eyes 114 01:02:53,125 --> 01:02:54,458 and you can see, 115 01:02:54,666 --> 01:02:55,791 you know, like the sun, 116 01:02:56,250 --> 01:02:57,000 like after you look at 117 01:02:57,000 --> 01:02:58,250 the sun, accidentally. 118 01:02:58,625 --> 01:03:00,208 Not that I stare at the sun often. 119 01:03:00,708 --> 01:03:02,625 Yeah, I hear that's actually bad for you. 120 01:03:03,125 --> 01:03:03,500 (laughs) 121 01:03:03,625 --> 01:03:05,500 Ironically, it causes retina damage. 122 01:03:05,500 --> 01:03:07,208 I can confirm it is bad for you. 123 01:03:07,541 --> 01:03:08,625 Not through personal experience. 124 01:03:09,125 --> 01:03:10,708 But I feel like I've got that, 125 01:03:10,708 --> 01:03:11,166 because I've been staring 126 01:03:11,166 --> 01:03:12,208 at this computer all day. 127 01:03:12,208 --> 01:03:12,833 I've been doing, 128 01:03:13,416 --> 01:03:14,375 I've been in Excel, 129 01:03:14,708 --> 01:03:16,416 I've been doing accounting stuff, so. 130 01:03:16,500 --> 01:03:17,208 Oh, your favorite. 131 01:03:17,625 --> 01:03:18,333 I've been catching up on 132 01:03:18,333 --> 01:03:20,500 books for the companies. 133 01:03:21,291 --> 01:03:23,416 So I am just a little bit like, 134 01:03:24,500 --> 01:03:26,041 I gotta pull out of that. 135 01:03:26,458 --> 01:03:26,875 You know what I mean? 136 01:03:27,291 --> 01:03:29,166 Because you're just so into the numbers 137 01:03:29,625 --> 01:03:32,166 and you know, debits and credits. 138 01:03:32,541 --> 01:03:34,083 And now I'm back into, okay. 139 01:03:35,541 --> 01:03:36,500 Personality again. 140 01:03:37,000 --> 01:03:37,291 I know. 141 01:03:37,833 --> 01:03:39,083 Tea accounts and personality. 142 01:03:39,375 --> 01:03:41,083 They're kind of at odds with each other. 143 01:03:41,208 --> 01:03:42,000 Yeah, yeah. 144 01:03:42,000 --> 01:03:43,541 No offense to any of the 145 01:03:43,541 --> 01:03:44,666 accountants that are listening. 146 01:03:45,041 --> 01:03:45,958 Oh, no, no. 147 01:03:46,291 --> 01:03:46,500 Yeah. 148 01:03:47,166 --> 01:03:48,875 Being a CPA is a great skill. 149 01:03:49,458 --> 01:03:50,500 It is, it is. 150 01:03:51,416 --> 01:03:52,333 Everybody, I mean, 151 01:03:53,416 --> 01:03:54,583 I don't even know what to say about that. 152 01:03:54,583 --> 01:03:55,708 I know a lot of great accountants. 153 01:03:55,708 --> 01:03:56,541 You work with a bunch 154 01:03:56,541 --> 01:03:56,958 of great accountants. 155 01:03:56,958 --> 01:03:58,291 Oh, I work with a ton of accountants. 156 01:03:58,291 --> 01:03:58,500 Yeah. 157 01:03:59,125 --> 01:04:00,416 And it's funny, 158 01:04:00,416 --> 01:04:01,541 because even they will be like, 159 01:04:01,541 --> 01:04:02,250 yeah, but I'm not a 160 01:04:02,250 --> 01:04:03,125 traditional accountant. 161 01:04:03,500 --> 01:04:04,625 I'm more of a. 162 01:04:04,666 --> 01:04:06,083 It's kind of an inside joke with 163 01:04:06,083 --> 01:04:07,125 accountants though, right? 164 01:04:07,416 --> 01:04:08,416 It's like, there's certain 165 01:04:08,416 --> 01:04:09,583 professions that you're like, 166 01:04:09,583 --> 01:04:12,083 oh, your personality type fits perfect 167 01:04:12,083 --> 01:04:13,000 for that profession. 168 01:04:13,083 --> 01:04:14,041 Yes, yes. 169 01:04:14,041 --> 01:04:14,625 Right? Yeah. 170 01:04:14,625 --> 01:04:15,500 And accountants are one of those 171 01:04:15,500 --> 01:04:16,625 that kind of fit into that. 172 01:04:16,666 --> 01:04:16,916 Yeah. 173 01:04:16,958 --> 01:04:18,291 Which to your point, 174 01:04:18,291 --> 01:04:18,958 you work with some 175 01:04:18,958 --> 01:04:19,666 accountants that are like, 176 01:04:19,791 --> 01:04:20,750 but I'm not the typical accountant. 177 01:04:21,166 --> 01:04:22,833 I'm not that kind of accountant. 178 01:04:25,291 --> 01:04:25,916 In fact, they're all 179 01:04:25,916 --> 01:04:27,083 pretty quick to say that. 180 01:04:27,416 --> 01:04:28,083 That's funny. 181 01:04:28,083 --> 01:04:28,875 Oh, so maybe we are 182 01:04:28,875 --> 01:04:30,000 offending in the accountants then. 183 01:04:30,791 --> 01:04:31,750 It's funny because they 184 01:04:31,750 --> 01:04:34,416 identify as like a finance person. 185 01:04:34,708 --> 01:04:35,708 Just they happen to 186 01:04:35,708 --> 01:04:36,916 have their CPA license. 187 01:04:37,291 --> 01:04:38,083 Yeah, yeah. 188 01:04:39,083 --> 01:04:40,541 Isn't that funny how we all 189 01:04:40,541 --> 01:04:42,208 kind of just identify ourselves 190 01:04:42,875 --> 01:04:46,375 so much with what we do for a living? 191 01:04:46,416 --> 01:04:46,625 Yeah. 192 01:04:47,041 --> 01:04:47,250 Right? 193 01:04:47,500 --> 01:04:49,000 I mean, some of these books, 194 01:04:49,000 --> 01:04:49,875 and I didn't plan on 195 01:04:49,875 --> 01:04:50,833 bringing this up at all, 196 01:04:50,833 --> 01:04:51,875 but some of these books 197 01:04:51,875 --> 01:04:52,750 that I've been reading 198 01:04:52,750 --> 01:04:53,333 and doing the book 199 01:04:53,333 --> 01:04:54,500 review on morning cereal 200 01:04:54,500 --> 01:04:55,500 and just other things, 201 01:04:55,500 --> 01:04:57,333 I mean, it just talks about 202 01:04:57,333 --> 01:04:59,166 just how much people put into 203 01:04:59,916 --> 01:05:01,875 their self-worth of what they do. 204 01:05:01,958 --> 01:05:02,208 Yeah. 205 01:05:02,250 --> 01:05:04,416 And maybe even men more so at times, 206 01:05:04,416 --> 01:05:05,750 because that's, you know, 207 01:05:06,291 --> 01:05:07,958 that's like, you know, going out, 208 01:05:07,958 --> 01:05:08,916 bringing home the bacon, 209 01:05:08,916 --> 01:05:10,458 literally like the caveman in us. 210 01:05:10,500 --> 01:05:11,041 Yeah, yeah. 211 01:05:11,625 --> 01:05:12,958 I think women do it too though. 212 01:05:13,458 --> 01:05:13,666 Yeah. 213 01:05:13,708 --> 01:05:15,958 You know, there's a certain, like, 214 01:05:16,666 --> 01:05:20,208 I identify as a RN, a doctor, 215 01:05:22,125 --> 01:05:24,958 a CPA, like whatever that is. 216 01:05:25,000 --> 01:05:26,125 But not that kind of CPA. 217 01:05:26,166 --> 01:05:27,208 But not that kind of CPA. 218 01:05:29,083 --> 01:05:29,333 (both laughing) 219 01:05:30,208 --> 01:05:31,166 I'm finance and through, 220 01:05:31,458 --> 01:05:33,500 like I can talk to the 221 01:05:33,500 --> 01:05:34,500 accountants I work with, 222 01:05:34,500 --> 01:05:35,208 they will tell you I 223 01:05:35,208 --> 01:05:36,500 often, I'm like, I'm not a CPA. 224 01:05:38,083 --> 01:05:39,833 But yeah, you do, you spend 225 01:05:39,833 --> 01:05:43,041 so much time there doing that. 226 01:05:43,041 --> 01:05:43,333 Mm-hmm. 227 01:05:44,291 --> 01:05:46,458 And then that it takes 228 01:05:46,458 --> 01:05:47,708 just so much investment 229 01:05:47,708 --> 01:05:49,750 in order to get there and 230 01:05:49,750 --> 01:05:51,750 feel like you're producing 231 01:05:52,000 --> 01:05:52,750 and contributing. 232 01:05:53,250 --> 01:05:53,500 Yeah. 233 01:05:54,500 --> 01:05:55,166 I think it would almost be 234 01:05:55,166 --> 01:05:56,750 hard not to take some type 235 01:05:56,750 --> 01:05:58,083 of self-worth out of it. 236 01:05:58,916 --> 01:06:03,208 Yeah, because if you rewind the tape, 237 01:06:03,916 --> 01:06:08,500 or the VHS tape, no, you can do that too. 238 01:06:09,541 --> 01:06:09,666 (mumbles) 239 01:06:11,208 --> 01:06:12,125 (laughs) 240 01:06:12,458 --> 01:06:13,000 It's really good. 241 01:06:15,166 --> 01:06:15,208 (both laughing) 242 01:06:15,208 --> 01:06:17,541 But if you rewind your 243 01:06:17,541 --> 01:06:19,916 career, and I always go back, 244 01:06:19,916 --> 01:06:20,583 I don't think we talked 245 01:06:20,583 --> 01:06:22,125 about it on the podcast yet, 246 01:06:22,125 --> 01:06:23,750 but there was a point in your time 247 01:06:23,833 --> 01:06:24,833 before you were with your 248 01:06:24,833 --> 01:06:27,000 current company in Chicago 249 01:06:27,250 --> 01:06:28,500 where you're actually placing people. 250 01:06:29,708 --> 01:06:32,125 And you saw, you had 251 01:06:32,125 --> 01:06:32,833 some pretty good stories, 252 01:06:33,208 --> 01:06:34,375 resumes and stuff. 253 01:06:34,375 --> 01:06:35,375 Oh, yeah, yeah. 254 01:06:35,666 --> 01:06:37,625 Right, but tell, just for 255 01:06:37,625 --> 01:06:38,958 a fun fact of the resume 256 01:06:39,125 --> 01:06:40,375 about the silverware. 257 01:06:40,958 --> 01:06:42,333 Oh my gosh, yeah, it had 258 01:06:42,333 --> 01:06:44,583 what their duties included 259 01:06:44,583 --> 01:06:46,000 or what they did well, and it was 260 01:06:46,000 --> 01:06:47,875 organizing silverware. 261 01:06:48,125 --> 01:06:49,291 This was on somebody's resume. 262 01:06:49,333 --> 01:06:50,000 This was on someone's 263 01:06:50,000 --> 01:06:51,208 resume, and I was like, 264 01:06:51,875 --> 01:06:54,250 I'm hiring you for a finance position. 265 01:06:54,458 --> 01:06:55,708 Were you at least counting the forks? 266 01:06:56,541 --> 01:06:58,708 No, you were just organizing the forks. 267 01:06:59,291 --> 01:07:00,416 Yet this isn't gonna work. 268 01:07:00,458 --> 01:07:01,458 Wasn't bean counter 269 01:07:01,458 --> 01:07:02,291 or anything like that. 270 01:07:02,291 --> 01:07:02,833 It wasn't. 271 01:07:02,833 --> 01:07:03,583 Work count, yeah. 272 01:07:04,458 --> 01:07:04,500 (laughs) 273 01:07:04,666 --> 01:07:06,250 I also had someone who 274 01:07:06,250 --> 01:07:09,375 his aspiration was to work 275 01:07:09,541 --> 01:07:10,583 in a tall building where 276 01:07:10,583 --> 01:07:12,041 he could use the elevator 277 01:07:12,875 --> 01:07:15,291 to go up to his office. 278 01:07:15,541 --> 01:07:16,500 Did he tell you that or 279 01:07:16,500 --> 01:07:17,375 was that on his, yeah, 280 01:07:17,541 --> 01:07:18,791 that was in the spoken interview. 281 01:07:20,000 --> 01:07:20,541 Somehow this guy made 282 01:07:20,541 --> 01:07:23,500 it past just the resume, 283 01:07:24,000 --> 01:07:26,083 and I ended up talking to this guy, 284 01:07:26,083 --> 01:07:28,291 and I was like, and we're done. 285 01:07:29,208 --> 01:07:30,875 But I'm glad you brought that one up, 286 01:07:30,875 --> 01:07:31,333 because that's the 287 01:07:31,333 --> 01:07:32,541 one I was gonna bring up 288 01:07:33,000 --> 01:07:33,750 was that one in 289 01:07:33,750 --> 01:07:35,291 particular, because if you rewind, 290 01:07:35,666 --> 01:07:38,125 and I know what that guy's talking about, 291 01:07:38,291 --> 01:07:39,041 everybody's got this 292 01:07:39,041 --> 01:07:40,583 fantasy of what you're gonna do 293 01:07:40,583 --> 01:07:41,125 when you grow up. 294 01:07:41,416 --> 01:07:42,416 And some people wanna wear a 295 01:07:42,416 --> 01:07:43,916 suit and a tie and go to work, 296 01:07:44,541 --> 01:07:45,458 and those people wanna 297 01:07:45,458 --> 01:07:47,166 go up into a skyscraper 298 01:07:47,166 --> 01:07:48,208 and take an elevator 299 01:07:48,208 --> 01:07:49,208 up, you know what I mean? 300 01:07:49,625 --> 01:07:51,208 It's kind of the sexy, 301 01:07:53,125 --> 01:07:56,250 that's just the dream scenario is. 302 01:07:56,916 --> 01:07:59,000 And I remember that, 303 01:07:59,000 --> 01:08:01,083 because before I was 304 01:08:01,083 --> 01:08:03,250 in a white-collar job, 305 01:08:04,708 --> 01:08:06,708 during college, I worked blue-collar jobs 306 01:08:07,875 --> 01:08:08,625 for the most part. 307 01:08:08,875 --> 01:08:10,000 I mean, I did some 308 01:08:10,000 --> 01:08:11,041 other white-collar ones, 309 01:08:11,041 --> 01:08:12,291 but I did both, I guess. 310 01:08:12,291 --> 01:08:12,875 You did both, right. 311 01:08:12,875 --> 01:08:14,166 But never a professional job 312 01:08:14,166 --> 01:08:15,916 after I finished college, right? 313 01:08:15,916 --> 01:08:17,333 And then I started working for the bank. 314 01:08:18,083 --> 01:08:19,333 And that was a big 315 01:08:19,333 --> 01:08:21,750 deal for me to finally, 316 01:08:22,208 --> 01:08:23,583 when I was a salaried 317 01:08:23,583 --> 01:08:25,125 employee for the first time, 318 01:08:25,125 --> 01:08:26,666 I mean, again, I thought I 319 01:08:26,666 --> 01:08:29,416 made it at that point in time. 320 01:08:29,875 --> 01:08:31,041 And I did, I rode a 321 01:08:31,041 --> 01:08:33,875 train from the suburbs down, 322 01:08:34,333 --> 01:08:35,875 or I rode the L at the time, right? 323 01:08:35,875 --> 01:08:36,541 Yeah, it was the L, yeah. 324 01:08:36,708 --> 01:08:38,208 I rode the L downtown to 325 01:08:38,208 --> 01:08:39,500 the financial district. 326 01:08:40,125 --> 01:08:41,791 I wore, I did have to 327 01:08:41,791 --> 01:08:42,916 dress up and wore suits 328 01:08:42,916 --> 01:08:43,750 and all that kind of stuff, 329 01:08:43,750 --> 01:08:44,958 and went up to the 27th 330 01:08:44,958 --> 01:08:45,958 floor, I think it was. 331 01:08:46,750 --> 01:08:49,000 So that, to me, that was kind of a, 332 01:08:49,958 --> 01:08:52,958 wow, I had arrived at my young age, 333 01:08:52,958 --> 01:08:54,291 I felt like I had arrived. 334 01:08:54,291 --> 01:08:55,500 Yeah, for sure. 335 01:08:55,833 --> 01:08:57,041 But you had that early on, 336 01:08:57,041 --> 01:08:57,625 almost straight out 337 01:08:57,625 --> 01:08:58,708 of college, didn't you? 338 01:08:58,708 --> 01:09:00,208 I did, yeah, yeah. 339 01:09:00,208 --> 01:09:00,750 In Minnesota. 340 01:09:01,416 --> 01:09:03,791 Yeah, which, so for me, I 341 01:09:03,791 --> 01:09:05,208 got used to it kind of young, 342 01:09:05,500 --> 01:09:09,208 but I mean, although 343 01:09:09,208 --> 01:09:11,583 when I was first working at, 344 01:09:12,041 --> 01:09:14,000 so I started at Marshall Fields, 345 01:09:14,333 --> 01:09:16,041 which was purchased by Macy's, 346 01:09:16,041 --> 01:09:18,125 but that was owned by Target at the time. 347 01:09:18,125 --> 01:09:18,958 Hey, by the way, shout 348 01:09:18,958 --> 01:09:20,125 out to Marshall Fields. 349 01:09:20,500 --> 01:09:22,166 Oh yeah, if anybody, yeah. 350 01:09:22,166 --> 01:09:22,708 Everybody knows, if 351 01:09:22,708 --> 01:09:24,333 you know Marshall Fields, 352 01:09:24,333 --> 01:09:26,166 you're a Gen Xer, you've been around, 353 01:09:26,166 --> 01:09:29,291 you're a Midwesterner, and what were the, 354 01:09:29,291 --> 01:09:30,750 what were those little chocolates called? 355 01:09:31,250 --> 01:09:32,125 Oh, the Franco Mints. 356 01:09:32,125 --> 01:09:33,000 The Franco Mints. 357 01:09:33,166 --> 01:09:35,833 I think Macy's still sells Franco Mints. 358 01:09:35,833 --> 01:09:36,708 Do they, the same ones? 359 01:09:36,875 --> 01:09:37,458 I would think so, 360 01:09:37,458 --> 01:09:38,541 because that was always like a hallmark. 361 01:09:38,875 --> 01:09:40,958 All right, well, DMS, I wanna know 362 01:09:40,958 --> 01:09:41,750 if you put your Franco 363 01:09:41,750 --> 01:09:43,291 Mints in the freezer, 364 01:09:44,333 --> 01:09:45,500 or if you just left them out. 365 01:09:45,958 --> 01:09:46,958 We always left them out. 366 01:09:47,000 --> 01:09:48,166 We were a freezer family. 367 01:09:48,416 --> 01:09:48,833 You were. 368 01:09:49,166 --> 01:09:50,291 Not by my choice, but 369 01:09:50,291 --> 01:09:52,250 that's just, anyways. 370 01:09:52,583 --> 01:09:54,375 Yeah, those were really good. 371 01:09:54,833 --> 01:09:55,375 You were with Marshall 372 01:09:55,375 --> 01:09:56,541 Fields up in Minnesota. 373 01:09:56,875 --> 01:09:58,000 Yeah, but our 374 01:09:58,000 --> 01:09:59,333 headquarters, so it was part of Target, 375 01:09:59,500 --> 01:10:01,208 so it was still part of the corporation, 376 01:10:02,166 --> 01:10:03,750 but the corporate 377 01:10:03,750 --> 01:10:05,583 offices were actually above 378 01:10:06,166 --> 01:10:07,083 the department store, 379 01:10:07,416 --> 01:10:08,166 downtown Minneapolis, 380 01:10:09,041 --> 01:10:09,916 so, and they didn't want 381 01:10:09,916 --> 01:10:10,958 us using the escalators, 382 01:10:10,958 --> 01:10:12,291 it was a huge department store, 383 01:10:12,291 --> 01:10:13,750 I think it's like eight levels, right? 384 01:10:13,750 --> 01:10:15,083 So I mean, it's pretty 385 01:10:15,083 --> 01:10:17,000 big for a department store. 386 01:10:17,958 --> 01:10:18,500 And so we would have 387 01:10:18,500 --> 01:10:19,541 to take the escalators, 388 01:10:20,416 --> 01:10:22,041 and I worked on the seventh floor, 389 01:10:22,625 --> 01:10:23,625 so like it was like 390 01:10:23,625 --> 01:10:26,375 escalator, escalator, escalator. 391 01:10:26,375 --> 01:10:26,916 Oh, really? 392 01:10:26,916 --> 01:10:27,833 Anytime we had to go like, 393 01:10:28,125 --> 01:10:29,166 hey, I'm gonna go grab some lunch. 394 01:10:30,041 --> 01:10:30,500 Escalator? 395 01:10:30,958 --> 01:10:31,416 Escalator. 396 01:10:32,666 --> 01:10:32,875 Really? 397 01:10:33,375 --> 01:10:33,541 Yeah. 398 01:10:34,375 --> 01:10:35,041 That's so funny. 399 01:10:35,375 --> 01:10:37,666 Yeah, so I didn't have an 400 01:10:37,666 --> 01:10:39,250 elevator in my first job, 401 01:10:39,250 --> 01:10:41,125 I had an escalator. 402 01:10:41,166 --> 01:10:41,916 Yeah, wow. 403 01:10:42,166 --> 01:10:42,541 Yeah. 404 01:10:42,541 --> 01:10:43,416 I never knew that story. 405 01:10:43,416 --> 01:10:43,791 Into the corporate offices. 406 01:10:43,833 --> 01:10:44,291 That's hilarious. 407 01:10:45,333 --> 01:10:46,541 Yeah, and then I did 408 01:10:46,541 --> 01:10:47,583 switch over to Target, 409 01:10:48,541 --> 01:10:49,708 and there we used the elevators. 410 01:10:50,000 --> 01:10:50,875 Yeah, yeah. 411 01:10:51,500 --> 01:10:52,333 Well, part of the 412 01:10:52,333 --> 01:10:53,083 reason I brought that up 413 01:10:53,083 --> 01:10:54,958 is because just everybody 414 01:10:54,958 --> 01:10:56,500 identifies with what they do, 415 01:10:56,500 --> 01:10:57,666 you know, like I'm a sales guy, 416 01:10:58,000 --> 01:10:59,791 or like for me, for the longest time, 417 01:10:59,958 --> 01:11:01,541 it was like I'm a banker, 418 01:11:02,041 --> 01:11:03,041 but not that kind of banker. 419 01:11:03,375 --> 01:11:03,541 Yeah. 420 01:11:04,041 --> 01:11:04,541 You know what I mean? 421 01:11:04,541 --> 01:11:05,625 I will say that too, yeah. 422 01:11:05,666 --> 01:11:06,500 Yeah, because a lot of people, 423 01:11:06,500 --> 01:11:07,291 when you say you're a banker, 424 01:11:07,291 --> 01:11:08,666 like, oh, you're a teller. 425 01:11:08,958 --> 01:11:09,166 Right. 426 01:11:09,208 --> 01:11:09,708 That's fine, there's 427 01:11:09,708 --> 01:11:10,958 nothing wrong with being a teller. 428 01:11:10,958 --> 01:11:11,416 Not at all. 429 01:11:11,708 --> 01:11:12,833 But that's not what I did. 430 01:11:13,083 --> 01:11:14,250 So I was like trying to 431 01:11:14,250 --> 01:11:15,500 be, you know, I'm a banker, 432 01:11:15,708 --> 01:11:16,958 but like a lot of people 433 01:11:16,958 --> 01:11:17,958 thought I worked in mortgage 434 01:11:18,208 --> 01:11:18,625 or something like that. 435 01:11:18,625 --> 01:11:19,000 Right. 436 01:11:19,041 --> 01:11:20,833 Like, no, no, no, no, I'm in finance, 437 01:11:21,166 --> 01:11:22,500 I underwrite large deals. 438 01:11:23,125 --> 01:11:24,000 And so there was always like 439 01:11:24,000 --> 01:11:26,291 that kind of like ebb and flow 440 01:11:26,291 --> 01:11:27,750 or that struggle to be like, 441 01:11:28,333 --> 01:11:29,625 how much of my elevator 442 01:11:29,625 --> 01:11:30,958 speech do I give these people 443 01:11:30,958 --> 01:11:32,791 so that they are not a teller, 444 01:11:33,208 --> 01:11:34,000 but I also don't think I'm 445 01:11:34,000 --> 01:11:34,666 the most important person 446 01:11:34,666 --> 01:11:35,125 in the world. 447 01:11:35,625 --> 01:11:37,833 Right, right, there's, in any industry, 448 01:11:38,250 --> 01:11:39,375 if you're not from that industry, 449 01:11:39,375 --> 01:11:40,208 you're not gonna understand. 450 01:11:40,750 --> 01:11:41,625 Like, anyone probably 451 01:11:41,625 --> 01:11:42,291 in the medical field 452 01:11:42,291 --> 01:11:44,250 or like academia, you could talk about 453 01:11:44,250 --> 01:11:44,666 what you did in 454 01:11:44,666 --> 01:11:45,708 academia, and I would be like, 455 01:11:46,166 --> 01:11:47,875 I don't know, so you're like a professor? 456 01:11:48,291 --> 01:11:50,000 You know, I'd be like, I don't know. 457 01:11:50,416 --> 01:11:51,541 Yeah, we dumb it down. 458 01:11:51,666 --> 01:11:52,291 Yeah, yeah. 459 01:11:52,333 --> 01:11:53,041 So you're a teacher. 460 01:11:53,333 --> 01:11:53,583 Yeah. 461 01:11:54,916 --> 01:11:55,791 Because I don't know. 462 01:11:55,791 --> 01:11:56,625 At the college, yeah. 463 01:11:56,916 --> 01:11:57,666 I know there's difference 464 01:11:57,666 --> 01:11:58,541 between tenure and professors 465 01:11:58,541 --> 01:12:01,000 and all that kind of stuff, but yeah. 466 01:12:01,000 --> 01:12:03,041 I mean, I kind of do, but not really. 467 01:12:03,625 --> 01:12:04,583 You're right, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. 468 01:12:04,583 --> 01:12:05,625 We pretend we do, but 469 01:12:05,625 --> 01:12:06,458 yeah, you're a teacher. 470 01:12:07,833 --> 01:12:09,250 That, you know, I don't know. 471 01:12:09,250 --> 01:12:11,625 I guess the point there was just that, 472 01:12:12,291 --> 01:12:14,833 you know, everybody identifies, 473 01:12:14,833 --> 01:12:15,416 and it's just such a 474 01:12:15,416 --> 01:12:16,333 big part of our lives. 475 01:12:16,375 --> 01:12:16,583 Yeah. 476 01:12:17,041 --> 01:12:18,041 Of like, what do you do? 477 01:12:18,041 --> 01:12:18,875 And like, some of 478 01:12:18,875 --> 01:12:19,750 these books I'm reading on, 479 01:12:19,750 --> 01:12:21,291 it's like, well, you 480 01:12:21,291 --> 01:12:23,083 shouldn't define yourself by like, 481 01:12:23,416 --> 01:12:24,708 I'm a finance guy. 482 01:12:24,750 --> 01:12:24,875 Yeah. 483 01:12:24,916 --> 01:12:25,458 I'm in finance. 484 01:12:27,375 --> 01:12:27,541 Yeah. 485 01:12:27,875 --> 01:12:29,958 Because I did a sales aspect to that too, 486 01:12:29,958 --> 01:12:30,875 and I am not a salesman. 487 01:12:31,250 --> 01:12:32,833 There's a sales aspect to what I did 488 01:12:32,833 --> 01:12:33,416 with the portfolio 489 01:12:33,416 --> 01:12:34,500 management and going out. 490 01:12:34,958 --> 01:12:37,083 But I'm like the world's worst salesman. 491 01:12:37,083 --> 01:12:38,166 I'm not the world's worst salesman. 492 01:12:38,208 --> 01:12:38,791 Yeah, no, you're not. 493 01:12:38,833 --> 01:12:40,125 I'm not the typical salesman. 494 01:12:40,375 --> 01:12:40,541 Right. 495 01:12:40,583 --> 01:12:41,375 Right, I had my own 496 01:12:41,375 --> 01:12:43,291 strengths and weaknesses, right? 497 01:12:43,500 --> 01:12:43,708 Right. 498 01:12:43,916 --> 01:12:45,250 I found out what worked for me. 499 01:12:45,916 --> 01:12:46,708 But, you know, 500 01:12:46,708 --> 01:12:47,666 everybody puts these things 501 01:12:47,666 --> 01:12:49,166 on their social media now. 502 01:12:49,166 --> 01:12:50,708 It's like, I got my LinkedIn. 503 01:12:51,041 --> 01:12:51,375 Yeah. 504 01:12:51,375 --> 01:12:54,333 You know, I think I said something like, 505 01:12:55,500 --> 01:12:56,291 at some point it said 506 01:12:56,291 --> 01:12:58,041 something like finance expert, 507 01:12:58,500 --> 01:13:01,333 but Gen X dad or Gen X, 508 01:13:01,333 --> 01:13:03,333 or husband and Gen X dad, 509 01:13:03,333 --> 01:13:04,291 so all these like little 510 01:13:04,291 --> 01:13:06,416 words that we're all trying 511 01:13:06,583 --> 01:13:08,750 to use to define like who 512 01:13:08,750 --> 01:13:11,708 we are over 50 years of life. 513 01:13:11,708 --> 01:13:12,000 Yeah. 514 01:13:12,416 --> 01:13:13,583 I don't know where I'm going with that. 515 01:13:13,583 --> 01:13:15,750 It's kind of out there right now, 516 01:13:15,750 --> 01:13:16,916 but you know, everybody 517 01:13:16,916 --> 01:13:19,125 gets that midlife crisis. 518 01:13:19,458 --> 01:13:20,833 Like what the heck am I, 519 01:13:20,833 --> 01:13:22,000 and what have I been doing? 520 01:13:22,291 --> 01:13:22,833 Yeah, yeah. 521 01:13:22,833 --> 01:13:23,791 So I'm almost done. 522 01:13:25,791 --> 01:13:28,166 I'm getting to the end of doing. 523 01:13:30,375 --> 01:13:30,625 (laughing) 524 01:13:30,625 --> 01:13:32,083 I don't know how that 525 01:13:32,083 --> 01:13:34,333 works, but I'm gonna go with it. 526 01:13:34,583 --> 01:13:34,750 Yeah. 527 01:13:34,750 --> 01:13:35,041 You know? 528 01:13:35,333 --> 01:13:35,708 Yeah. 529 01:13:36,208 --> 01:13:37,791 But, and I think it changes too. 530 01:13:38,000 --> 01:13:40,333 So like, I talked to 531 01:13:40,333 --> 01:13:41,333 someone just this weekend. 532 01:13:41,333 --> 01:13:43,083 She's like, she's telling me, she's like, 533 01:13:43,083 --> 01:13:44,416 I've had nine careers. 534 01:13:44,416 --> 01:13:46,250 And I was like, wow, you know, 535 01:13:46,625 --> 01:13:47,166 I've always kind of 536 01:13:47,166 --> 01:13:48,083 stayed in the same one. 537 01:13:48,500 --> 01:13:50,125 You've had a couple different, you know, 538 01:13:50,125 --> 01:13:51,125 where it was like 539 01:13:51,125 --> 01:13:53,000 entrepreneur, banker, you know, 540 01:13:53,000 --> 01:13:55,000 like maybe you could say 541 01:13:55,000 --> 01:13:57,166 you've had two, but it's like. 542 01:13:57,250 --> 01:13:58,208 I have one primary. 543 01:13:58,458 --> 01:13:59,291 I've been in finance. 544 01:13:59,333 --> 01:14:00,000 One primary, yeah. 545 01:14:00,250 --> 01:14:01,458 But I, it overlapped 546 01:14:01,458 --> 01:14:02,541 with my always trying 547 01:14:02,541 --> 01:14:03,333 to be entrepreneurial. 548 01:14:03,458 --> 01:14:03,875 Exactly. 549 01:14:04,875 --> 01:14:05,166 And so. 550 01:14:05,416 --> 01:14:06,583 Fails and successes of that. 551 01:14:06,916 --> 01:14:07,083 Yeah. 552 01:14:08,166 --> 01:14:09,666 Fails and successes of anything 553 01:14:09,666 --> 01:14:11,750 in what people do for a living, right? 554 01:14:12,500 --> 01:14:14,458 It was just, yeah, it was so interesting. 555 01:14:14,458 --> 01:14:16,541 Cause I was like, it was, 556 01:14:16,750 --> 01:14:18,208 as I was listening to her, 557 01:14:18,208 --> 01:14:19,541 I was like, huh, I wonder 558 01:14:19,541 --> 01:14:20,791 what she defines herself as. 559 01:14:20,791 --> 01:14:22,541 Like I didn't have a whole lot of time 560 01:14:22,666 --> 01:14:24,625 to really get to know this person. 561 01:14:24,916 --> 01:14:25,166 Yeah. 562 01:14:25,416 --> 01:14:25,791 You know? 563 01:14:26,250 --> 01:14:26,458 Yeah. 564 01:14:27,291 --> 01:14:27,875 All I know is that she 565 01:14:27,875 --> 01:14:28,791 loves what she's doing now. 566 01:14:28,791 --> 01:14:30,625 She's a life coach, but it's like, 567 01:14:30,625 --> 01:14:31,708 does she identify herself 568 01:14:31,708 --> 01:14:33,291 as a mom or a grandmother 569 01:14:33,500 --> 01:14:34,875 or you know, whatever, I don't. 570 01:14:35,083 --> 01:14:35,375 Right. 571 01:14:35,583 --> 01:14:37,666 Or life coach, not sure. 572 01:14:38,166 --> 01:14:39,000 Right, right. 573 01:14:39,500 --> 01:14:40,166 I think you just wonder 574 01:14:40,166 --> 01:14:40,625 if some of those people 575 01:14:40,625 --> 01:14:41,125 that are kind of 576 01:14:41,125 --> 01:14:42,875 workaholics that would be labeled 577 01:14:42,875 --> 01:14:44,833 a workaholic, you know, they'd be, 578 01:14:45,250 --> 01:14:46,750 they would first say 579 01:14:46,750 --> 01:14:48,083 that they're a banker 580 01:14:48,083 --> 01:14:48,916 or whatever it might be. 581 01:14:49,041 --> 01:14:49,291 Right. 582 01:14:49,333 --> 01:14:49,666 Right. 583 01:14:50,125 --> 01:14:50,333 Yeah. 584 01:14:51,791 --> 01:14:51,916 And then, literally, it 585 01:14:51,916 --> 01:14:53,250 might pop into their head to say, 586 01:14:53,625 --> 01:14:54,625 oh, but I'm also married 587 01:14:54,625 --> 01:14:56,000 and I've got three kids. 588 01:14:56,000 --> 01:14:56,208 Yeah. 589 01:14:56,500 --> 01:14:56,708 Yeah. 590 01:14:56,958 --> 01:14:57,500 You know what I mean? 591 01:14:58,000 --> 01:14:59,208 Whereas for me, I mean, I 592 01:14:59,208 --> 01:15:00,416 always remember struggling 593 01:15:00,583 --> 01:15:03,833 early in my career when we had kids, 594 01:15:04,125 --> 01:15:05,291 when we started to have children, 595 01:15:06,416 --> 01:15:07,916 I asked someone that I 596 01:15:07,916 --> 01:15:09,000 looked up to and I said, 597 01:15:09,000 --> 01:15:10,583 hey, do I go to this bank event 598 01:15:11,166 --> 01:15:14,750 or do I go to my son's first of this? 599 01:15:14,750 --> 01:15:15,833 I don't even remember what it was. 600 01:15:15,833 --> 01:15:17,125 It was probably something at daycare. 601 01:15:17,125 --> 01:15:17,875 Do you remember? 602 01:15:18,416 --> 01:15:19,166 Yeah, it was his birthday. 603 01:15:19,875 --> 01:15:20,708 It was his birthday? 604 01:15:21,833 --> 01:15:22,000 Yeah. 605 01:15:23,541 --> 01:15:23,833 Seriously? 606 01:15:24,416 --> 01:15:24,625 Yeah. 607 01:15:25,041 --> 01:15:27,000 We had his birthday party already, 608 01:15:27,291 --> 01:15:28,041 but it was his actual-- 609 01:15:28,041 --> 01:15:29,083 It was his actual birthday? 610 01:15:29,083 --> 01:15:30,083 It was his actual birthday. 611 01:15:30,125 --> 01:15:30,958 It was like on a Tuesday 612 01:15:30,958 --> 01:15:31,875 or something like that. 613 01:15:32,791 --> 01:15:33,791 And so I was gonna be 614 01:15:33,791 --> 01:15:35,250 gone at a bank event. 615 01:15:35,708 --> 01:15:36,416 For the whole day, was I 616 01:15:36,416 --> 01:15:37,166 gone for the whole day? 617 01:15:37,166 --> 01:15:38,000 I can't remember that part. 618 01:15:38,000 --> 01:15:39,125 See, this is everybody, 619 01:15:39,500 --> 01:15:40,500 I've got a terrible memory. 620 01:15:40,958 --> 01:15:41,166 So. 621 01:15:42,916 --> 01:15:44,000 I don't remember that, but-- 622 01:15:44,250 --> 01:15:44,958 Meg's noticed she has 623 01:15:44,958 --> 01:15:46,083 to catalog everything 624 01:15:46,333 --> 01:15:47,958 that happens in my life for me. 625 01:15:47,958 --> 01:15:49,833 So she's running two memories out of that 626 01:15:50,666 --> 01:15:51,750 incredible brain of hers. 627 01:15:52,375 --> 01:15:53,250 It's really small head. 628 01:15:53,333 --> 01:15:54,208 So that's what it was. 629 01:15:54,208 --> 01:15:55,208 Good to remember that it was his 630 01:15:55,208 --> 01:15:57,500 birthday, but I asked. 631 01:15:57,500 --> 01:15:59,333 I was like, should I be home 632 01:15:59,333 --> 01:16:00,500 for my son's first birthday? 633 01:16:00,791 --> 01:16:02,041 I've already had the birthday party, 634 01:16:02,291 --> 01:16:03,208 or should I go to the thing? 635 01:16:03,208 --> 01:16:04,583 And I was still young in my career. 636 01:16:04,625 --> 01:16:04,833 Yeah. 637 01:16:06,250 --> 01:16:08,083 And that banker said, 638 01:16:08,083 --> 01:16:09,625 you should probably go to the bank thing. 639 01:16:10,041 --> 01:16:10,958 Because he chose the 640 01:16:10,958 --> 01:16:12,333 career aspect of that first. 641 01:16:12,750 --> 01:16:13,500 And I did, I listened 642 01:16:13,500 --> 01:16:14,500 to him, and I went to it, 643 01:16:14,500 --> 01:16:15,083 and I missed it. 644 01:16:15,375 --> 01:16:16,250 And the whole time I was 645 01:16:16,250 --> 01:16:17,750 there, I was so mad at myself. 646 01:16:18,125 --> 01:16:19,750 And I promised myself from that moment, 647 01:16:20,750 --> 01:16:21,958 I do remember that. 648 01:16:22,583 --> 01:16:24,000 That was the moment I said, 649 01:16:24,958 --> 01:16:26,708 I will pick my family 650 01:16:26,708 --> 01:16:29,166 first, always, from now on. 651 01:16:29,583 --> 01:16:30,500 And I don't think I've 652 01:16:30,500 --> 01:16:31,916 ever not done that since. 653 01:16:31,916 --> 01:16:32,625 No, no. 654 01:16:33,250 --> 01:16:35,208 But my point to that, again, was just, 655 01:16:36,208 --> 01:16:37,833 I would much rather say 656 01:16:37,833 --> 01:16:38,958 I'm a husband and a dad 657 01:16:38,958 --> 01:16:39,708 before I would say I 658 01:16:39,708 --> 01:16:41,875 was a banker in finance. 659 01:16:41,875 --> 01:16:42,583 Yeah, yeah. 660 01:16:43,166 --> 01:16:45,000 I actually did a, someone, I 661 01:16:45,000 --> 01:16:45,875 had to do like an about you 662 01:16:45,875 --> 01:16:46,958 or something like that at work. 663 01:16:47,541 --> 01:16:49,958 And what I did was I 664 01:16:49,958 --> 01:16:51,375 put together a whole, 665 01:16:52,250 --> 01:16:53,166 like the whole first part 666 01:16:53,166 --> 01:16:54,958 of it was all of the titles 667 01:16:54,958 --> 01:16:56,500 that I hold, not 668 01:16:56,500 --> 01:16:57,708 actually my title at work. 669 01:16:57,750 --> 01:16:58,625 Yeah, yeah. 670 01:16:58,708 --> 01:17:00,500 And it was like my chief laundry officer, 671 01:17:00,791 --> 01:17:03,041 and chauffeur, and head chef, 672 01:17:03,666 --> 01:17:05,500 and all the things I 673 01:17:05,500 --> 01:17:07,208 was like, cheerleader. 674 01:17:07,791 --> 01:17:09,708 It was all the things that I do 675 01:17:09,958 --> 01:17:14,291 that take up a lot more of my brain power 676 01:17:14,583 --> 01:17:20,083 and my time than what I 677 01:17:20,083 --> 01:17:21,000 actually get paid for. 678 01:17:21,291 --> 01:17:22,291 Yeah, yeah. 679 01:17:22,833 --> 01:17:24,083 It was actually really cool. 680 01:17:24,083 --> 01:17:26,958 I was on a call just earlier this week 681 01:17:26,958 --> 01:17:29,416 with someone holds a 682 01:17:29,416 --> 01:17:31,666 significantly higher title than me. 683 01:17:31,666 --> 01:17:32,208 And he was like, hey 684 01:17:32,208 --> 01:17:33,458 guys, I need to leave early 685 01:17:33,458 --> 01:17:37,291 because I have to go do my dad job now. 686 01:17:38,000 --> 01:17:39,125 And it was, it was the middle of the day. 687 01:17:39,125 --> 01:17:40,500 I don't know what he had, 688 01:17:40,500 --> 01:17:41,333 but it was just such a 689 01:17:41,333 --> 01:17:42,958 perfect example of like, 690 01:17:43,583 --> 01:17:44,375 yeah, I think he's got 691 01:17:44,375 --> 01:17:45,291 his priorities right. 692 01:17:45,750 --> 01:17:46,541 How old is he? 693 01:17:48,416 --> 01:17:49,625 I don't know, but I was-- 694 01:17:49,625 --> 01:17:50,333 He's just a guess. 695 01:17:50,625 --> 01:17:52,000 Our age, a little older. No, I think he's 696 01:17:52,000 --> 01:17:52,875 probably a little older. 697 01:17:52,875 --> 01:17:54,458 Yeah, I bet he's in his 50s. 698 01:17:55,041 --> 01:17:56,166 Yeah, because kids are in college. 699 01:17:56,375 --> 01:17:57,291 I assumed it was kind 700 01:17:57,291 --> 01:17:58,083 of a graduation thing, 701 01:17:58,291 --> 01:17:59,791 but it was just so cool because I'm like, 702 01:17:59,833 --> 01:18:01,375 that's someone who's 703 01:18:01,375 --> 01:18:02,625 done really, really well 704 01:18:02,625 --> 01:18:03,708 in their career, highly 705 01:18:03,708 --> 01:18:05,583 thought of in the workforce. 706 01:18:06,916 --> 01:18:08,375 But you would never question, 707 01:18:09,416 --> 01:18:10,166 you wouldn't question his 708 01:18:10,166 --> 01:18:11,291 commitment to the company either. 709 01:18:12,541 --> 01:18:13,500 But you never question 710 01:18:13,500 --> 01:18:14,583 where his priority is. 711 01:18:14,625 --> 01:18:14,875 Yeah. 712 01:18:15,250 --> 01:18:15,875 It was really cool. 713 01:18:17,083 --> 01:18:19,541 I respect that greatly just because, 714 01:18:19,791 --> 01:18:20,541 I mean, similar to the 715 01:18:20,541 --> 01:18:21,833 example I gave earlier, 716 01:18:22,250 --> 01:18:24,125 you know, who you're choosing business, 717 01:18:24,375 --> 01:18:26,333 or you're choosing, you know, life, 718 01:18:26,333 --> 01:18:27,375 your family and whatnot. 719 01:18:28,166 --> 01:18:29,875 And I'll just never forget, 720 01:18:29,875 --> 01:18:30,791 I actually mentioned it 721 01:18:30,791 --> 01:18:33,291 on morning cereal this week 722 01:18:33,666 --> 01:18:34,958 or previous week when 723 01:18:34,958 --> 01:18:36,000 people watched this, 724 01:18:36,666 --> 01:18:38,916 but it was leave work early day. 725 01:18:39,541 --> 01:18:41,958 And I think it was the day I messed up 726 01:18:42,041 --> 01:18:43,916 on the, I uploaded the 727 01:18:43,916 --> 01:18:44,833 wrong morning cereal. 728 01:18:44,833 --> 01:18:45,416 So if you listen to morning 729 01:18:45,416 --> 01:18:46,708 cereal, I know last Tuesday, 730 01:18:47,166 --> 01:18:48,416 I uploaded the wrong one. 731 01:18:48,416 --> 01:18:49,916 It took an hour for it to change. 732 01:18:50,250 --> 01:18:52,125 So the full real version's out there 733 01:18:52,125 --> 01:18:53,041 if you guys want to go back. 734 01:18:53,500 --> 01:18:54,375 But that was the day I 735 01:18:54,375 --> 01:18:55,958 literally said when I was younger, 736 01:18:56,541 --> 01:18:57,708 it was frowned upon to 737 01:18:57,708 --> 01:18:58,708 have work-life balance. 738 01:18:58,708 --> 01:18:59,416 Yeah, yeah. 739 01:18:59,583 --> 01:18:59,833 Right? 740 01:18:59,833 --> 01:19:02,041 It was like, you had to beat the boss in, 741 01:19:02,041 --> 01:19:03,750 you had to stay as late as the boss did. 742 01:19:03,875 --> 01:19:04,125 Yeah. 743 01:19:04,750 --> 01:19:08,166 And I just remember that 744 01:19:08,166 --> 01:19:09,416 killed me because I remember, 745 01:19:09,500 --> 01:19:12,125 you know, we had to get on the train, 746 01:19:12,750 --> 01:19:13,583 which was an hour. 747 01:19:13,625 --> 01:19:14,083 Was an hour. 748 01:19:14,375 --> 01:19:15,916 From downtown Chicago, all 749 01:19:15,916 --> 01:19:16,666 the way out to the suburbs. 750 01:19:17,166 --> 01:19:17,541 And then it was 751 01:19:17,541 --> 01:19:18,833 another 30 minute ride home 752 01:19:19,208 --> 01:19:20,500 from the train station. 753 01:19:20,500 --> 01:19:21,083 Yes, it was. 754 01:19:21,291 --> 01:19:23,958 And so, you know, I got 755 01:19:23,958 --> 01:19:26,625 in at 7.15 in the morning 756 01:19:27,125 --> 01:19:28,166 on the first train. 757 01:19:28,166 --> 01:19:29,500 We literally the first train out. 758 01:19:29,500 --> 01:19:29,958 Yeah, we were. 759 01:19:30,458 --> 01:19:32,833 And then getting back on a late train. 760 01:19:32,833 --> 01:19:33,250 I mean, you're not 761 01:19:33,250 --> 01:19:34,250 getting home till eight o'clock. 762 01:19:34,541 --> 01:19:36,166 And if we had a family at that time, 763 01:19:36,250 --> 01:19:38,916 which we did, a young family at least, 764 01:19:40,166 --> 01:19:41,375 I couldn't live that 765 01:19:41,375 --> 01:19:43,958 life and be that removed 766 01:19:44,166 --> 01:19:45,375 from family for that long. 767 01:19:45,375 --> 01:19:47,166 But that was the expectation at the time. 768 01:19:47,916 --> 01:19:49,041 I liked the fact that now 769 01:19:49,041 --> 01:19:50,041 people are getting that, 770 01:19:50,041 --> 01:19:50,333 you know, that 771 01:19:50,333 --> 01:19:52,125 work-life in most industries. 772 01:19:52,541 --> 01:19:53,125 I think there are still, 773 01:19:53,958 --> 01:19:57,083 banking is an old boy's industry. 774 01:19:57,125 --> 01:19:57,375 Yeah. 775 01:19:57,375 --> 01:19:57,583 Right? 776 01:19:57,708 --> 01:19:58,625 Like things don't 777 01:19:58,625 --> 01:19:59,916 change there as quickly. 778 01:19:59,916 --> 01:20:02,458 I mean, they are very, I 779 01:20:02,458 --> 01:20:03,375 don't know how to say it. 780 01:20:03,625 --> 01:20:04,250 You know, I got a lot 781 01:20:04,250 --> 01:20:05,250 of friends and colleagues 782 01:20:05,416 --> 01:20:06,916 that are still in there and they know. 783 01:20:07,541 --> 01:20:09,500 It's much more of the traditional-- 784 01:20:09,708 --> 01:20:10,666 Traditional old boys. 785 01:20:11,541 --> 01:20:14,500 50s view of how you treat your career. 786 01:20:14,916 --> 01:20:16,208 Exactly, exactly. 787 01:20:16,541 --> 01:20:17,416 It's a little bit slower 788 01:20:17,416 --> 01:20:19,208 to evolve compared to yours. 789 01:20:19,208 --> 01:20:20,208 There's a little more forward. 790 01:20:20,250 --> 01:20:21,791 Right, it absolutely is. 791 01:20:22,125 --> 01:20:23,625 And how they view some of that. 792 01:20:23,833 --> 01:20:25,791 But my whole point there too was, 793 01:20:26,166 --> 01:20:27,958 if you are a true 794 01:20:27,958 --> 01:20:29,583 professional, you're good at your job. 795 01:20:30,416 --> 01:20:31,416 You should be able to have 796 01:20:31,416 --> 01:20:32,250 a little bit of flexibility 797 01:20:32,541 --> 01:20:33,375 in there because I don't 798 01:20:33,375 --> 01:20:34,541 know how in today's world 799 01:20:35,375 --> 01:20:37,083 you can do it without that flexibility. 800 01:20:37,416 --> 01:20:37,916 I don't know. 801 01:20:38,166 --> 01:20:39,291 I really don't. 802 01:20:39,958 --> 01:20:41,500 I don't think I could. 803 01:20:41,875 --> 01:20:43,541 And I fell into that trap 804 01:20:43,541 --> 01:20:45,000 early in my career of the, 805 01:20:45,250 --> 01:20:47,250 I mean, I worked all the time 806 01:20:47,250 --> 01:20:49,000 when I was younger in my career. 807 01:20:49,125 --> 01:20:49,333 Yeah. 808 01:20:49,833 --> 01:20:50,500 All the time. 809 01:20:50,625 --> 01:20:51,833 You're a very hard worker. 810 01:20:51,833 --> 01:20:52,458 In fact, we have 811 01:20:52,458 --> 01:20:53,625 conversations every now and again 812 01:20:53,625 --> 01:20:54,583 where there's just like, 813 01:20:54,958 --> 01:20:57,000 hey, let's touch base here a little bit. 814 01:20:58,000 --> 01:20:59,041 Like, let's have a 815 01:20:59,041 --> 01:21:01,083 refocus moment, you know? 816 01:21:01,083 --> 01:21:01,958 Like you're doing incredible, 817 01:21:02,416 --> 01:21:04,708 but you're starting to 818 01:21:04,708 --> 01:21:06,291 lose orbit around the family. 819 01:21:06,541 --> 01:21:07,833 Yeah, yeah, for sure. 820 01:21:08,500 --> 01:21:09,458 I need to be brought back. 821 01:21:09,916 --> 01:21:11,541 I remember when we first started dating, 822 01:21:12,791 --> 01:21:14,166 I may have said this on the podcast, 823 01:21:15,791 --> 01:21:16,750 but I would take you 824 01:21:16,750 --> 01:21:19,166 downtown, my office is downtown. 825 01:21:19,500 --> 01:21:19,958 On a leash. 826 01:21:21,500 --> 01:21:22,500 It sounded like I would 827 01:21:22,500 --> 01:21:23,541 take you out for a walk. 828 01:21:24,125 --> 01:21:25,250 Go ahead, you would take me downtown. 829 01:21:26,458 --> 01:21:27,458 You'd take me by the hand. 830 01:21:27,500 --> 01:21:28,375 I'd take you by the hand. 831 01:21:28,916 --> 01:21:30,500 I would drop you off at the bars 832 01:21:30,875 --> 01:21:32,250 and then I'd go into the office. 833 01:21:32,291 --> 01:21:32,666 The bars? 834 01:21:33,125 --> 01:21:34,166 Yeah, because you'd go out 835 01:21:34,166 --> 01:21:35,500 with some of your colleagues. 836 01:21:35,500 --> 01:21:36,041 This is Minneapolis? 837 01:21:36,333 --> 01:21:36,666 This is Minneapolis. 838 01:21:37,250 --> 01:21:37,875 Yes, yes, yes, yes. 839 01:21:37,875 --> 01:21:38,708 Yeah, and I would drop 840 01:21:38,708 --> 01:21:40,625 you off with friends. 841 01:21:41,000 --> 01:21:41,750 We weren't married yet. 842 01:21:41,750 --> 01:21:42,291 We were not. 843 01:21:42,791 --> 01:21:43,875 And I would go into the office, 844 01:21:44,000 --> 01:21:46,416 get some work done on a Saturday night, 845 01:21:46,416 --> 01:21:47,291 and then you'd call me 846 01:21:47,291 --> 01:21:48,125 and be like, hey, I'm ready. 847 01:21:48,375 --> 01:21:49,333 You can come, you know, 848 01:21:49,333 --> 01:21:50,125 get me and be like, okay. 849 01:21:50,791 --> 01:21:51,666 And all your friends were like, 850 01:21:51,666 --> 01:21:53,125 she's totally cheating on you. 851 01:21:54,375 --> 01:21:55,208 You're like, no, she's not. 852 01:21:55,208 --> 01:21:56,625 She really is probably working. 853 01:21:56,625 --> 01:21:57,500 I know her well enough. 854 01:21:58,375 --> 01:21:58,833 And I was. 855 01:21:59,500 --> 01:22:01,041 I was sitting alone in 856 01:22:01,041 --> 01:22:03,375 a cubicle, typing away. 857 01:22:04,583 --> 01:22:05,958 Yeah, I mean, you've always had that. 858 01:22:05,958 --> 01:22:06,833 You have that today. 859 01:22:07,458 --> 01:22:11,291 I mean, you are a great worker. 860 01:22:12,166 --> 01:22:14,833 Anybody that has you as an employee 861 01:22:14,958 --> 01:22:16,458 is blessed to have you as an employee 862 01:22:16,458 --> 01:22:18,041 because you dedicate, 863 01:22:19,125 --> 01:22:21,458 you're just all in on it 864 01:22:21,458 --> 01:22:22,958 as much as you possibly can. 865 01:22:22,958 --> 01:22:23,916 As much as I can. 866 01:22:23,958 --> 01:22:25,583 While also being all in our family 867 01:22:25,583 --> 01:22:26,250 because I don't think 868 01:22:26,250 --> 01:22:27,458 other than a few conversations 869 01:22:27,458 --> 01:22:29,083 that we've had throughout our marriage, 870 01:22:29,208 --> 01:22:30,916 where it's like, hey, bring the orbit 871 01:22:30,916 --> 01:22:32,375 a little bit closer back to home. 872 01:22:33,583 --> 01:22:35,708 And likewise, you've said that to me too, 873 01:22:35,708 --> 01:22:37,458 because I don't do as 874 01:22:37,458 --> 01:22:38,875 much, yours is more of an orbit 875 01:22:38,875 --> 01:22:39,583 where you just start getting 876 01:22:39,583 --> 01:22:40,791 a little bit bigger and wider. 877 01:22:41,916 --> 01:22:43,625 Mine is more of a feather in the cap, 878 01:22:44,250 --> 01:22:45,125 where it's like, I'm a 879 01:22:45,125 --> 01:22:46,875 rocket ship away from the family 880 01:22:47,333 --> 01:22:48,875 versus an orbit, right? 881 01:22:49,291 --> 01:22:50,750 Yeah, and it'll be like, okay. 882 01:22:51,083 --> 01:22:51,833 And you're like, steer 883 01:22:51,833 --> 01:22:53,208 the rocket ship back home. 884 01:22:53,875 --> 01:22:55,458 Because you'll just be so laser focused. 885 01:22:56,000 --> 01:22:56,250 Yeah. 886 01:22:57,375 --> 01:22:58,666 Yeah, we always say, I was like, yep, 887 01:22:58,708 --> 01:22:59,916 you have a bee in your bonnet. 888 01:23:00,166 --> 01:23:01,166 That's right, I'm like, 889 01:23:01,166 --> 01:23:02,000 yeah, bee in my bonnet. 890 01:23:02,000 --> 01:23:02,708 Bee in your bonnet. 891 01:23:02,708 --> 01:23:03,458 I'm like, yeah, you have a 892 01:23:03,458 --> 01:23:04,541 bee in your bonnet right now. 893 01:23:05,333 --> 01:23:06,750 Yeah, it's just, you gotta get it done. 894 01:23:07,000 --> 01:23:07,833 You gotta get it done, 895 01:23:07,833 --> 01:23:09,125 but I think that's also 896 01:23:09,125 --> 01:23:11,583 a true partnership that you and I have, 897 01:23:12,250 --> 01:23:15,000 is that you do check each other 898 01:23:15,125 --> 01:23:16,458 when you get a little too 899 01:23:16,458 --> 01:23:18,625 focused outside of the family. 900 01:23:18,625 --> 01:23:21,208 And it's like, hey, you gotta come back. 901 01:23:21,208 --> 01:23:21,458 Yeah. 902 01:23:21,750 --> 01:23:25,041 And it's just a good check and balance, 903 01:23:25,041 --> 01:23:26,083 good open communication. 904 01:23:27,041 --> 01:23:27,583 Because a lot of times you 905 01:23:27,583 --> 01:23:28,708 don't realize you're doing it 906 01:23:28,708 --> 01:23:30,416 and you certainly don't mean to do it. 907 01:23:30,458 --> 01:23:33,708 Yeah, I think switching 908 01:23:33,708 --> 01:23:35,458 gears a little bit on that point, 909 01:23:35,458 --> 01:23:37,083 and again, this is nothing we're gonna 910 01:23:37,083 --> 01:23:38,625 remotely go into today. 911 01:23:38,625 --> 01:23:40,000 Not that we had anything really prepared. 912 01:23:40,500 --> 01:23:40,916 This was one of the 913 01:23:40,916 --> 01:23:41,208 days where we were like, 914 01:23:41,208 --> 01:23:42,208 what are we gonna talk about? 915 01:23:42,458 --> 01:23:43,833 Clearly we actually had something. 916 01:23:43,875 --> 01:23:46,166 Let's sit down and talk, but, you know, 917 01:23:47,458 --> 01:23:48,583 being married, being 918 01:23:48,583 --> 01:23:50,333 together for 20 years, 919 01:23:50,333 --> 01:23:50,791 and there's people 920 01:23:50,791 --> 01:23:51,500 that have been together 921 01:23:51,500 --> 01:23:52,916 for 50 years listening to this, 922 01:23:52,916 --> 01:23:53,833 or people that have been 923 01:23:53,833 --> 01:23:55,791 together for one year, who knows? 924 01:23:55,916 --> 01:23:56,125 Yeah. 925 01:23:58,125 --> 01:24:01,125 Talking, openly talking with 926 01:24:01,125 --> 01:24:03,333 your spouse, your loved one, 927 01:24:03,583 --> 01:24:05,166 is just so key, and 928 01:24:05,166 --> 01:24:06,125 we're really good at that. 929 01:24:06,458 --> 01:24:07,291 But we talked about this 930 01:24:07,291 --> 01:24:08,500 weekend a little bit too is, 931 01:24:09,791 --> 01:24:10,958 you know, I don't know 932 01:24:10,958 --> 01:24:11,666 if you would rate that 933 01:24:11,666 --> 01:24:13,000 on a scale of one to 10 of like, 934 01:24:13,250 --> 01:24:15,583 you know, we are open about everything. 935 01:24:15,833 --> 01:24:17,125 There's not anything we 936 01:24:17,125 --> 01:24:18,125 don't know about each other. 937 01:24:18,500 --> 01:24:19,708 And that's very true of us. 938 01:24:19,708 --> 01:24:20,833 I mean, on most 939 01:24:20,833 --> 01:24:22,458 things that are, you know, 940 01:24:23,208 --> 01:24:24,750 not embarrassing or not 941 01:24:24,750 --> 01:24:26,458 super personal, you know? 942 01:24:26,958 --> 01:24:27,583 We're open with each 943 01:24:27,583 --> 01:24:28,375 other on those things. 944 01:24:28,708 --> 01:24:30,166 But there is some level, I think, 945 01:24:30,166 --> 01:24:31,291 that's still even with 946 01:24:31,291 --> 01:24:33,625 us, as close as we are, 947 01:24:34,416 --> 01:24:35,083 you know, like we just 948 01:24:35,083 --> 01:24:37,375 don't go there sometimes. 949 01:24:37,666 --> 01:24:38,625 And, you know, whether 950 01:24:38,625 --> 01:24:41,750 that's A, B, or C, you know, 951 01:24:41,750 --> 01:24:42,791 if that's insecurities 952 01:24:42,791 --> 01:24:43,833 or just embarrassment 953 01:24:44,125 --> 01:24:45,500 or whatever it might be, 954 01:24:46,500 --> 01:24:47,708 to me that's interesting 955 01:24:47,708 --> 01:24:49,250 that as close as we are, 956 01:24:49,833 --> 01:24:51,875 there are still some of those just dark, 957 01:24:52,958 --> 01:24:53,958 and they're not secrets, 958 01:24:54,375 --> 01:24:55,166 but they're just those, 959 01:24:56,375 --> 01:24:57,541 you know, how would you explain that? 960 01:24:57,583 --> 01:24:58,083 I would say they're 961 01:24:58,083 --> 01:24:59,416 more like insecurities 962 01:24:59,416 --> 01:25:01,000 that you don't necessarily voice. 963 01:25:01,583 --> 01:25:01,791 Like-- 964 01:25:02,750 --> 01:25:05,000 Yeah, those dark corners of your brain. 965 01:25:05,333 --> 01:25:06,750 Yeah, that it's like, 966 01:25:07,875 --> 01:25:09,166 I don't like sharing 967 01:25:09,166 --> 01:25:10,875 that at all, you know? 968 01:25:10,875 --> 01:25:12,625 Like as raw as I can 969 01:25:12,625 --> 01:25:13,791 be, like there's just, 970 01:25:15,166 --> 01:25:16,208 it's just an insecurity. 971 01:25:16,500 --> 01:25:18,833 And what's probably ironic is that 972 01:25:19,333 --> 01:25:20,500 we know it about each other. 973 01:25:20,916 --> 01:25:23,166 Like you probably know it about me, 974 01:25:23,166 --> 01:25:24,666 she's super insecure about that, 975 01:25:24,666 --> 01:25:25,375 and she just doesn't 976 01:25:25,375 --> 01:25:26,375 talk about it, you know? 977 01:25:27,625 --> 01:25:27,833 Yeah. 978 01:25:28,375 --> 01:25:29,541 Don't you think we should though? 979 01:25:31,208 --> 01:25:33,125 Well, sometimes, it's not that we don't, 980 01:25:33,125 --> 01:25:34,416 and it's just sometimes it's, 981 01:25:35,041 --> 01:25:36,250 we don't share it all the time. 982 01:25:36,291 --> 01:25:37,458 I think that's a 983 01:25:37,458 --> 01:25:38,916 personality and a family thing. 984 01:25:38,916 --> 01:25:40,750 Oh, I think so, for sure. 985 01:25:41,291 --> 01:25:41,916 Just shook the whole 986 01:25:41,916 --> 01:25:43,166 table, I hit the microphone. 987 01:25:44,666 --> 01:25:45,416 I just gave everybody a 988 01:25:45,416 --> 01:25:46,458 little bit of motion sickness, 989 01:25:46,666 --> 01:25:47,375 they were sorry about that. 990 01:25:48,333 --> 01:25:51,166 (laughing) I talk with my hands too much. 991 01:25:52,000 --> 01:25:55,875 I'm a very handsy talker. 992 01:25:56,708 --> 01:25:58,041 A demonstrative talker. 993 01:25:58,041 --> 01:25:59,291 A demonstrative talker, yeah. 994 01:25:59,625 --> 01:26:00,791 Handsy can have a 995 01:26:00,791 --> 01:26:01,708 totally different meaning. 996 01:26:02,250 --> 01:26:04,083 That guy that's like, how are you? 997 01:26:04,625 --> 01:26:06,458 He has like the long touchdown, the arm. 998 01:26:07,833 --> 01:26:09,708 No, yeah, no, handsy has a 999 01:26:09,708 --> 01:26:11,000 very bad, you're not handsy. 1000 01:26:11,000 --> 01:26:11,541 Just for the record, 1001 01:26:11,541 --> 01:26:12,291 you're not supposed to go, 1002 01:26:12,291 --> 01:26:13,583 no, you're supposed to like hit him and 1003 01:26:13,583 --> 01:26:14,541 be like, get off me. 1004 01:26:15,708 --> 01:26:17,333 Tell those guys like that, those guys, 1005 01:26:17,333 --> 01:26:18,708 I can't stand creepy guys like that. 1006 01:26:19,125 --> 01:26:20,208 I haven't had a guy 1007 01:26:20,208 --> 01:26:23,166 like do that, I would, ugh. 1008 01:26:23,625 --> 01:26:23,833 Anyway. 1009 01:26:24,166 --> 01:26:24,666 What we were talking 1010 01:26:24,666 --> 01:26:26,000 about just, you know, 1011 01:26:26,625 --> 01:26:27,458 it's a family thing 1012 01:26:27,458 --> 01:26:28,500 and a personality thing. 1013 01:26:28,500 --> 01:26:29,916 I know it's a personality thing, I leave, 1014 01:26:30,125 --> 01:26:32,750 I wear my emotions on my sleeve and I, 1015 01:26:33,125 --> 01:26:34,666 it helps me to talk about 1016 01:26:34,666 --> 01:26:35,541 some of those tough things. 1017 01:26:36,041 --> 01:26:37,000 And you're opposite, you 1018 01:26:37,000 --> 01:26:39,166 don't wanna expose that, 1019 01:26:39,166 --> 01:26:40,250 you don't wanna talk about that. 1020 01:26:40,250 --> 01:26:41,666 I wanna solve it in my own head, 1021 01:26:42,333 --> 01:26:43,125 as opposed to getting it 1022 01:26:43,125 --> 01:26:44,166 out and talking about it. 1023 01:26:44,916 --> 01:26:46,500 It's, I don't know why 1024 01:26:46,500 --> 01:26:48,791 I've always been that way, 1025 01:26:48,833 --> 01:26:50,750 so whether it was a learned thing, 1026 01:26:50,750 --> 01:26:52,583 whether it was just who I 1027 01:26:52,583 --> 01:26:54,666 am as a person, you know? 1028 01:26:56,083 --> 01:26:58,000 In tough moments, I tend to 1029 01:26:58,000 --> 01:27:01,416 go inward to solve a problem 1030 01:27:01,416 --> 01:27:03,500 or to ruminate on it, 1031 01:27:03,500 --> 01:27:04,875 whereas you tend to go outward. 1032 01:27:05,458 --> 01:27:06,041 Yeah, well, I mean, I 1033 01:27:06,041 --> 01:27:07,708 know like, there's families, 1034 01:27:07,958 --> 01:27:09,250 your family is a little bit like that, 1035 01:27:09,541 --> 01:27:10,625 one side of my family is 1036 01:27:10,625 --> 01:27:11,250 a little bit like that, 1037 01:27:11,250 --> 01:27:11,708 it's like, hey, 1038 01:27:11,708 --> 01:27:12,708 everything's always perfect. 1039 01:27:13,208 --> 01:27:14,500 We don't talk about if 1040 01:27:14,500 --> 01:27:15,750 it's not perfect, like, 1041 01:27:16,166 --> 01:27:16,791 you know what I mean? 1042 01:27:18,000 --> 01:27:19,916 I'm not saying that from a perspective 1043 01:27:19,916 --> 01:27:20,875 that people are fake 1044 01:27:20,875 --> 01:27:22,000 or that they're not real 1045 01:27:22,000 --> 01:27:23,000 and they can't be real, 1046 01:27:23,458 --> 01:27:25,708 but it's just the way the family dynamics 1047 01:27:25,708 --> 01:27:27,250 have evolved over time, that it's like, 1048 01:27:27,250 --> 01:27:28,291 let's just, let's not 1049 01:27:28,291 --> 01:27:29,125 talk about the things 1050 01:27:29,125 --> 01:27:30,708 that are not perfect. 1051 01:27:31,000 --> 01:27:31,375 Yeah, yeah. 1052 01:27:31,791 --> 01:27:34,625 You know, and that, as you know, for me, 1053 01:27:36,666 --> 01:27:38,500 I wasn't brought up in a 1054 01:27:38,500 --> 01:27:39,750 family, I don't know how. 1055 01:27:40,541 --> 01:27:41,333 I think yours is just 1056 01:27:41,333 --> 01:27:42,708 more of a personality thing. 1057 01:27:42,708 --> 01:27:44,000 Is mine a personality thing? 1058 01:27:44,000 --> 01:27:44,458 Oh, 100%. 1059 01:27:45,041 --> 01:27:46,375 Where it's like, I wanna talk about it. 1060 01:27:46,875 --> 01:27:49,500 I'd rather rip the band-aid 1061 01:27:49,500 --> 01:27:50,833 off and just get it out there, 1062 01:27:51,291 --> 01:27:52,666 because then I feel better about it, 1063 01:27:52,666 --> 01:27:53,958 but I guess it's hard 1064 01:27:53,958 --> 01:27:55,000 because I know it doesn't make 1065 01:27:55,000 --> 01:27:56,500 other people feel better all the time. 1066 01:27:56,500 --> 01:27:56,708 Right. 1067 01:27:57,000 --> 01:27:57,416 You know? 1068 01:27:57,833 --> 01:27:59,875 Yeah, yeah, and I don't 1069 01:27:59,875 --> 01:28:01,750 know that there's probably 1070 01:28:01,750 --> 01:28:02,625 a little bit of, there's 1071 01:28:02,625 --> 01:28:03,541 a healthy balance of both. 1072 01:28:03,875 --> 01:28:04,416 Yeah, because there's 1073 01:28:04,416 --> 01:28:05,708 times when I'll see you 1074 01:28:05,708 --> 01:28:06,875 struggling with something, I'm like, 1075 01:28:07,333 --> 01:28:08,041 man, I wish we could 1076 01:28:08,041 --> 01:28:09,125 just talk about that. 1077 01:28:09,791 --> 01:28:10,791 But I know that's not 1078 01:28:10,791 --> 01:28:12,416 something she's open to. 1079 01:28:12,458 --> 01:28:13,416 Yeah, it's just like-- 1080 01:28:13,416 --> 01:28:15,041 You know, just that little, 1081 01:28:15,708 --> 01:28:16,666 and that's why I just 1082 01:28:16,666 --> 01:28:17,333 bring it up for people 1083 01:28:17,333 --> 01:28:18,375 that are watching, it's 1084 01:28:18,375 --> 01:28:19,708 just interesting that even in, 1085 01:28:21,500 --> 01:28:22,333 I would say you and I have 1086 01:28:22,333 --> 01:28:23,625 a really good relationship, 1087 01:28:23,625 --> 01:28:24,208 but even in our 1088 01:28:24,208 --> 01:28:26,083 relationship, there's just those things 1089 01:28:26,083 --> 01:28:28,125 that are just hard, it's 1090 01:28:28,125 --> 01:28:29,458 the back of the brain things, 1091 01:28:29,458 --> 01:28:30,333 those things that touch 1092 01:28:30,333 --> 01:28:33,333 too close to self-worth. 1093 01:28:33,416 --> 01:28:35,166 Yeah, for sure. 1094 01:28:35,916 --> 01:28:39,458 I think for me, it's a 1095 01:28:39,458 --> 01:28:40,875 lot about timing too. 1096 01:28:41,916 --> 01:28:43,916 Like, I usually do tell 1097 01:28:43,916 --> 01:28:46,416 you, and it's not that I hide, 1098 01:28:46,666 --> 01:28:47,833 I don't actually hide 1099 01:28:47,833 --> 01:28:49,166 anything, if you were to ask me, 1100 01:28:49,166 --> 01:28:50,291 what's really bothering you? 1101 01:28:50,291 --> 01:28:50,958 You know, I would tell 1102 01:28:50,958 --> 01:28:52,583 you, and it's just like, 1103 01:28:52,583 --> 01:28:53,250 if it's something 1104 01:28:53,250 --> 01:28:55,000 that I'm struggling with, 1105 01:28:55,458 --> 01:28:56,375 I'm insecure about 1106 01:28:56,375 --> 01:28:57,958 something, a lot of times, 1107 01:28:57,958 --> 01:28:58,916 I need to work it 1108 01:28:58,916 --> 01:29:00,625 through in my own brain enough 1109 01:29:00,958 --> 01:29:02,208 to then be able to share it. 1110 01:29:03,291 --> 01:29:04,083 I think that's true. 1111 01:29:04,583 --> 01:29:05,541 I think that's true. 1112 01:29:06,708 --> 01:29:07,458 Just, yeah. 1113 01:29:09,791 --> 01:29:10,958 I've kinda always been that way. 1114 01:29:11,416 --> 01:29:12,458 Yeah, that's probably 1115 01:29:12,458 --> 01:29:13,333 true of everybody too. 1116 01:29:13,333 --> 01:29:14,958 There's times when I'm like, not ready, 1117 01:29:15,250 --> 01:29:17,125 like I'm still way too raw. 1118 01:29:17,166 --> 01:29:18,541 This is still way too raw, 1119 01:29:18,791 --> 01:29:20,916 like give it a half minute. 1120 01:29:21,250 --> 01:29:21,916 I've been getting better 1121 01:29:21,916 --> 01:29:23,416 about telling people that too, 1122 01:29:23,416 --> 01:29:25,208 like, nope, nope, nope, it's not yet. 1123 01:29:25,500 --> 01:29:26,250 Yeah, yeah. 1124 01:29:27,166 --> 01:29:28,666 You know, so, I don't know, 1125 01:29:28,666 --> 01:29:30,000 humans are just interesting. 1126 01:29:30,583 --> 01:29:31,583 We were talking about, 1127 01:29:31,583 --> 01:29:33,500 you've got a minor in psychology. 1128 01:29:35,416 --> 01:29:37,000 My undergrad is in psychology. 1129 01:29:38,500 --> 01:29:40,125 Which is why I went back for my MBA. 1130 01:29:41,083 --> 01:29:43,375 But, you know, I think 1131 01:29:43,375 --> 01:29:45,333 not that we're psychologists 1132 01:29:45,333 --> 01:29:47,333 or psychiatrists, but 1133 01:29:47,333 --> 01:29:49,916 it's fascinating humans 1134 01:29:50,625 --> 01:29:51,750 and then the way that they, 1135 01:29:53,208 --> 01:29:54,708 it's just the way that people are. 1136 01:29:55,000 --> 01:29:55,458 You know what I mean? 1137 01:29:55,458 --> 01:29:56,458 It is fascinating to 1138 01:29:56,458 --> 01:29:58,625 see how different people 1139 01:29:58,833 --> 01:30:01,250 react to different situations, you know, 1140 01:30:01,250 --> 01:30:04,250 all these different, you know. 1141 01:30:05,458 --> 01:30:06,500 I think what I'm trying 1142 01:30:06,500 --> 01:30:07,541 to get at is that just, 1143 01:30:07,583 --> 01:30:08,833 it gives us this extra 1144 01:30:08,833 --> 01:30:12,500 lens through which we look 1145 01:30:12,500 --> 01:30:14,166 at our lives, through which we look at 1146 01:30:14,166 --> 01:30:15,625 our children's lives. 1147 01:30:15,625 --> 01:30:16,791 You know, from this 1148 01:30:16,791 --> 01:30:19,166 psychology kind of perspective 1149 01:30:19,333 --> 01:30:21,083 that we had a little bit of schooling in. 1150 01:30:21,833 --> 01:30:24,666 And it's just, I don't know, I find it, 1151 01:30:25,291 --> 01:30:26,041 just because I've grown 1152 01:30:26,041 --> 01:30:27,666 up in tough situations, 1153 01:30:27,666 --> 01:30:29,125 I've dealt with my own situations. 1154 01:30:29,500 --> 01:30:30,250 I've been depressed 1155 01:30:30,250 --> 01:30:31,333 before when I was younger. 1156 01:30:32,375 --> 01:30:35,541 I think people are frail. 1157 01:30:36,291 --> 01:30:36,750 Oh yeah. 1158 01:30:37,416 --> 01:30:38,541 And we all pretend to 1159 01:30:38,541 --> 01:30:39,750 be strong, not pretend, 1160 01:30:40,291 --> 01:30:41,208 like we talked about. 1161 01:30:41,500 --> 01:30:43,250 No, I think we do pretend to be strong. 1162 01:30:43,250 --> 01:30:43,541 Heaven flows. 1163 01:30:43,916 --> 01:30:44,125 Right? 1164 01:30:44,416 --> 01:30:45,583 I think it's a bit of 1165 01:30:45,583 --> 01:30:46,958 that fake it till you make it 1166 01:30:46,958 --> 01:30:47,416 sometimes. 1167 01:30:47,833 --> 01:30:48,041 Yeah. 1168 01:30:48,541 --> 01:30:50,500 In some of the hardest moments, right? 1169 01:30:51,083 --> 01:30:55,583 Like, I think there is some degree of, 1170 01:30:57,000 --> 01:30:59,000 I have to at least pretend to be strong. 1171 01:30:59,291 --> 01:31:00,791 It's like that Taylor Swift song. 1172 01:31:01,541 --> 01:31:02,083 Which one? 1173 01:31:03,625 --> 01:31:04,708 It's like all of them, honey. 1174 01:31:05,666 --> 01:31:08,250 (laughing) I love me some Tay Tay. 1175 01:31:08,250 --> 01:31:08,916 There is one in 1176 01:31:08,916 --> 01:31:10,166 particular, I've heard the, 1177 01:31:11,000 --> 01:31:12,208 some of her songs are better than I 1178 01:31:12,208 --> 01:31:12,833 thought they would be. 1179 01:31:12,833 --> 01:31:14,041 Actually, she's not bad. 1180 01:31:14,041 --> 01:31:15,750 Oh my gosh, she's totally grown on me. 1181 01:31:15,791 --> 01:31:17,208 Yeah, she's grown on me a little bit too. 1182 01:31:17,208 --> 01:31:18,666 But there's the one where she's like, 1183 01:31:20,458 --> 01:31:21,625 she's crying or something like that, 1184 01:31:21,625 --> 01:31:23,416 and she goes out and she does a concert. 1185 01:31:24,041 --> 01:31:24,666 But it's like fake it 1186 01:31:24,666 --> 01:31:25,791 till you make it basically. 1187 01:31:27,208 --> 01:31:28,041 I can't remember the name of it. 1188 01:31:28,083 --> 01:31:29,416 Anyways, it fits what 1189 01:31:29,416 --> 01:31:30,500 we're talking about right now 1190 01:31:30,500 --> 01:31:31,125 and what you're saying. 1191 01:31:31,375 --> 01:31:32,083 Yeah, yeah. 1192 01:31:32,500 --> 01:31:34,666 I think there's something to that. 1193 01:31:34,750 --> 01:31:36,000 Tay Tay's got it all down. 1194 01:31:36,958 --> 01:31:38,625 But it's those people, yeah, 1195 01:31:38,625 --> 01:31:39,750 Tay Tay's got it all put together. 1196 01:31:39,791 --> 01:31:40,416 She really does. 1197 01:31:40,625 --> 01:31:41,416 Yeah, until her and 1198 01:31:41,416 --> 01:31:43,166 Kelsey find it, you know. 1199 01:31:43,583 --> 01:31:44,250 Hopefully it's just a 1200 01:31:44,250 --> 01:31:45,250 happy ending with those two. 1201 01:31:45,291 --> 01:31:46,541 I really, you know what? 1202 01:31:47,083 --> 01:31:48,375 Everyone deserves a happy ending. 1203 01:31:48,791 --> 01:31:49,041 That's right. 1204 01:31:49,083 --> 01:31:50,041 Yes, yes. 1205 01:31:51,291 --> 01:31:52,708 But maybe to sum this whole thing up, 1206 01:31:52,708 --> 01:31:57,208 we got less deep topics here, 1207 01:31:57,208 --> 01:31:59,208 but when you find yourself 1208 01:31:59,208 --> 01:32:00,708 opening up to people about that, 1209 01:32:01,375 --> 01:32:03,083 that's what brings you close, right? 1210 01:32:03,416 --> 01:32:04,500 And that's why we 1211 01:32:04,500 --> 01:32:05,250 were able to get so close 1212 01:32:05,250 --> 01:32:05,958 because we have opened 1213 01:32:05,958 --> 01:32:07,041 up so much, you know. 1214 01:32:07,041 --> 01:32:07,500 That's why you're so 1215 01:32:07,500 --> 01:32:08,083 close with your children 1216 01:32:08,083 --> 01:32:09,166 because you've shared 1217 01:32:09,166 --> 01:32:11,041 everything with them from an age. 1218 01:32:12,000 --> 01:32:13,291 And your friends are like 1219 01:32:13,291 --> 01:32:14,666 that too, you know what I mean? 1220 01:32:14,666 --> 01:32:15,875 And best friends are like that 1221 01:32:15,875 --> 01:32:17,041 where you've just shared so much 1222 01:32:17,041 --> 01:32:18,541 and they know so much about you. 1223 01:32:19,291 --> 01:32:22,333 Those relationships are so great to have. 1224 01:32:22,958 --> 01:32:24,625 And they're hard to come by. 1225 01:32:25,166 --> 01:32:25,375 Yeah. 1226 01:32:25,958 --> 01:32:27,833 I think it was Robin Williams that said, 1227 01:32:28,291 --> 01:32:28,916 and you may have quoted 1228 01:32:28,916 --> 01:32:29,791 this on Morning Serial, 1229 01:32:30,083 --> 01:32:31,500 but it's, "Every person 1230 01:32:31,500 --> 01:32:32,500 you meet is fighting a battle 1231 01:32:32,583 --> 01:32:33,583 that you know nothing about." 1232 01:32:33,916 --> 01:32:34,125 Yeah. 1233 01:32:34,166 --> 01:32:35,250 So treat them with kindness. 1234 01:32:35,500 --> 01:32:36,291 It's one of my favorite 1235 01:32:36,291 --> 01:32:37,375 quotes out of Morning Serial, 1236 01:32:37,375 --> 01:32:38,125 out of all of them. 1237 01:32:38,166 --> 01:32:39,458 It really is because 1238 01:32:39,458 --> 01:32:42,000 everybody has baggage. 1239 01:32:42,000 --> 01:32:44,958 Everybody has dark corners of their mind, 1240 01:32:44,958 --> 01:32:47,958 whether they share them really openly, 1241 01:32:47,958 --> 01:32:49,208 whether they share them with a small, 1242 01:32:49,291 --> 01:32:50,250 select group of people, 1243 01:32:50,250 --> 01:32:52,458 or whether they choose to hold that close 1244 01:32:52,458 --> 01:32:53,791 and only share it when they're ready. 1245 01:32:54,000 --> 01:32:54,208 Yeah. 1246 01:32:54,916 --> 01:32:56,083 Everybody has it and 1247 01:32:56,083 --> 01:32:57,416 everyone's carrying something. 1248 01:32:57,416 --> 01:32:58,291 Because at nine out of 1249 01:32:58,291 --> 01:32:59,541 10, you're gonna go through, 1250 01:32:59,541 --> 01:33:00,583 if you go down the line 1251 01:33:00,583 --> 01:33:01,500 of people on the sidelines 1252 01:33:01,875 --> 01:33:03,083 or your friends at a party, 1253 01:33:03,708 --> 01:33:06,750 and you could snap your fingers 1254 01:33:06,750 --> 01:33:08,291 and they had to be real with you. 1255 01:33:08,333 --> 01:33:08,541 Yeah. 1256 01:33:08,791 --> 01:33:10,666 Like, how are things going in your life? 1257 01:33:10,666 --> 01:33:13,833 What's, is anything causing you trouble? 1258 01:33:14,250 --> 01:33:15,708 Or is anything causing you pain? 1259 01:33:16,291 --> 01:33:17,500 Nine out of 10 of them would be like, 1260 01:33:17,791 --> 01:33:19,708 "Oh my God, I am struggling with this." 1261 01:33:19,750 --> 01:33:21,500 Or, "This is killing us right now." 1262 01:33:21,500 --> 01:33:21,708 Yeah. 1263 01:33:21,958 --> 01:33:23,250 But we all go to the sideline 1264 01:33:23,250 --> 01:33:24,125 and we pretend everything's 1265 01:33:24,125 --> 01:33:25,375 great and everything's good. 1266 01:33:26,416 --> 01:33:29,041 That's the way humans have evolved. 1267 01:33:29,250 --> 01:33:30,208 Hey, it is-- 1268 01:33:30,208 --> 01:33:30,750 Sappy stuff. 1269 01:33:31,291 --> 01:33:32,500 But it's all life, right? 1270 01:33:33,500 --> 01:33:34,500 It's part of the struggles 1271 01:33:34,500 --> 01:33:36,291 because then how do you show up 1272 01:33:36,291 --> 01:33:38,250 in the midst of that really tough thing? 1273 01:33:38,875 --> 01:33:41,333 Still be a great parent, a great spouse, 1274 01:33:42,125 --> 01:33:45,041 a great, if you work, a great worker. 1275 01:33:46,458 --> 01:33:50,291 And sometimes that gets to be a lot. 1276 01:33:50,875 --> 01:33:51,166 Yeah. 1277 01:33:51,333 --> 01:33:52,583 To then carry it and you're like, 1278 01:33:52,583 --> 01:33:54,875 "Plus I have this whole other monster 1279 01:33:54,875 --> 01:33:55,958 that I'm dealing with." 1280 01:33:56,041 --> 01:33:57,500 Yeah, you gotta get it out. 1281 01:33:57,500 --> 01:34:00,791 We tell our kids that even good emotions 1282 01:34:01,000 --> 01:34:02,458 and bad emotions, if you 1283 01:34:02,458 --> 01:34:03,958 don't let your emotions out, 1284 01:34:04,333 --> 01:34:06,333 they can start to poison you, whether 1285 01:34:06,333 --> 01:34:06,916 they're good or bad. 1286 01:34:06,916 --> 01:34:08,583 It's like, I remember when I was, 1287 01:34:08,583 --> 01:34:10,166 I told my oldest this all the time, 1288 01:34:10,166 --> 01:34:11,166 I remember being younger 1289 01:34:11,166 --> 01:34:13,375 when I was still living 1290 01:34:13,375 --> 01:34:14,208 in my parents' house 1291 01:34:14,208 --> 01:34:16,000 and I didn't wanna smile. 1292 01:34:16,291 --> 01:34:20,083 I didn't want people to share or to know 1293 01:34:20,791 --> 01:34:22,166 that I had a happy 1294 01:34:22,166 --> 01:34:23,375 emotion at some point in time, 1295 01:34:23,375 --> 01:34:24,458 like riding a roller coaster. 1296 01:34:25,041 --> 01:34:26,000 Because so much at that 1297 01:34:26,000 --> 01:34:27,041 point in time was so dark. 1298 01:34:27,666 --> 01:34:28,708 I almost didn't want people to know 1299 01:34:28,708 --> 01:34:29,500 that I could have a 1300 01:34:29,500 --> 01:34:30,791 moment that wasn't heavy. 1301 01:34:31,041 --> 01:34:32,000 Right, right. 1302 01:34:32,750 --> 01:34:33,625 And that probably 1303 01:34:33,625 --> 01:34:34,916 poisoned me a little bit, 1304 01:34:34,916 --> 01:34:36,250 not letting those 1305 01:34:36,250 --> 01:34:38,041 emotions out, good or bad. 1306 01:34:38,625 --> 01:34:39,625 I let plenty of bad ones 1307 01:34:39,625 --> 01:34:40,833 out probably, which is good. 1308 01:34:41,750 --> 01:34:45,625 But anywho, my last point to that is, 1309 01:34:46,000 --> 01:34:46,583 it's what makes us 1310 01:34:46,583 --> 01:34:47,708 all human and it's fun. 1311 01:34:48,166 --> 01:34:49,708 Because we went to that movie last night, 1312 01:34:49,708 --> 01:34:51,625 we saw "MI 7 689." 1313 01:34:52,166 --> 01:34:52,875 Final Reckoning? 1314 01:34:52,875 --> 01:34:53,333 Final Reckoning. 1315 01:34:54,166 --> 01:34:55,083 I'm gonna go with that one, 1316 01:34:55,083 --> 01:34:55,666 because I don't even know. 1317 01:34:55,708 --> 01:34:56,333 Final Reckoning. 1318 01:34:56,541 --> 01:34:57,375 And I'm sitting there 1319 01:34:57,375 --> 01:34:58,291 watching the end of it 1320 01:34:58,291 --> 01:34:59,000 and I'm like trying, 1321 01:34:59,375 --> 01:35:00,666 because our kids make fun of us 1322 01:35:00,958 --> 01:35:02,625 when we cry in some of these movies. 1323 01:35:02,833 --> 01:35:04,083 That are emotional, they just pull 1324 01:35:04,083 --> 01:35:05,125 emotions out of you. 1325 01:35:05,166 --> 01:35:06,833 Which is why you watch movies. 1326 01:35:07,041 --> 01:35:07,875 Yeah, human emotions. 1327 01:35:07,875 --> 01:35:09,250 I love that movies can do 1328 01:35:09,250 --> 01:35:10,333 that, the good ones can do that. 1329 01:35:10,333 --> 01:35:10,791 So I'm sitting there 1330 01:35:10,791 --> 01:35:13,666 trying to like, not cry. 1331 01:35:14,583 --> 01:35:16,000 I got made fun of because I cry 1332 01:35:16,000 --> 01:35:17,125 and you hit it better than I did. 1333 01:35:17,125 --> 01:35:18,958 The girl next to me is sobbing. 1334 01:35:20,458 --> 01:35:21,291 Who's not with our 1335 01:35:21,291 --> 01:35:22,166 family, with her family. 1336 01:35:22,208 --> 01:35:23,291 She's sobbing. 1337 01:35:24,000 --> 01:35:25,791 I love that because 1338 01:35:25,791 --> 01:35:26,833 that's what makes us all human. 1339 01:35:27,666 --> 01:35:28,500 But we don't wanna 1340 01:35:28,500 --> 01:35:29,375 look at the other person 1341 01:35:29,375 --> 01:35:29,875 because it's like, oh 1342 01:35:29,875 --> 01:35:30,875 my God, I'm so weak. 1343 01:35:31,875 --> 01:35:33,000 And in the end, we're not 1344 01:35:33,000 --> 01:35:34,958 weak, we're all, we're all, 1345 01:35:35,250 --> 01:35:35,791 just human. 1346 01:35:36,583 --> 01:35:37,125 All human. 1347 01:35:38,375 --> 01:35:39,500 And just doing the best 1348 01:35:39,500 --> 01:35:41,125 we can with what we've got. 1349 01:35:41,416 --> 01:35:42,458 That's right, that's right. 1350 01:35:42,708 --> 01:35:44,166 My grandma used to always say that, 1351 01:35:44,166 --> 01:35:46,416 she's like, everyone's just doing the 1352 01:35:46,416 --> 01:35:47,375 best they can, honey. 1353 01:35:48,750 --> 01:35:50,041 Wise words from a wise woman. 1354 01:35:50,583 --> 01:35:51,125 She didn't call me honey, 1355 01:35:51,125 --> 01:35:52,125 she called me dear, but yeah. 1356 01:35:52,583 --> 01:35:52,791 Dear. 1357 01:35:54,375 --> 01:35:54,958 If you know, you know. 1358 01:35:55,291 --> 01:35:57,083 If you know, you know on that one. 1359 01:35:57,291 --> 01:35:58,833 Yeah, so. 1360 01:35:59,416 --> 01:36:01,125 Well, that was a long tangent there for, 1361 01:36:01,416 --> 01:36:02,458 that was almost the whole show. 1362 01:36:03,083 --> 01:36:04,208 Wow. Yeah. 1363 01:36:04,625 --> 01:36:05,083 Super deep. 1364 01:36:05,500 --> 01:36:07,000 That was a deep one, that's right. 1365 01:36:07,000 --> 01:36:07,791 Sometimes you just. 1366 01:36:07,833 --> 01:36:09,000 Yeah, deep thoughts. 1367 01:36:09,500 --> 01:36:10,125 And I don't have 1368 01:36:10,125 --> 01:36:11,625 anything I need to get out, 1369 01:36:11,625 --> 01:36:12,625 it's just kind of turned there. 1370 01:36:12,875 --> 01:36:13,083 Yeah. 1371 01:36:14,166 --> 01:36:15,750 No, I feel like we've got 1372 01:36:15,750 --> 01:36:16,791 a little more off script 1373 01:36:16,791 --> 01:36:17,875 on the last few. 1374 01:36:18,125 --> 01:36:19,833 I have no idea, but we've 1375 01:36:19,833 --> 01:36:21,041 been able to fill the whole time 1376 01:36:21,041 --> 01:36:23,208 without having a whole lot of scripted. 1377 01:36:24,000 --> 01:36:24,750 Yeah, yeah. 1378 01:36:25,458 --> 01:36:27,541 I mean, I don't know, 1379 01:36:27,541 --> 01:36:28,708 lighting it up a little bit. 1380 01:36:29,333 --> 01:36:30,791 The gravy train keeps 1381 01:36:30,791 --> 01:36:32,000 coming to our house. 1382 01:36:32,583 --> 01:36:33,750 I guess maybe it hasn't 1383 01:36:33,750 --> 01:36:34,750 the last couple of days, 1384 01:36:34,750 --> 01:36:35,666 but I mean, we are 1385 01:36:35,666 --> 01:36:37,125 still getting packages from, 1386 01:36:38,375 --> 01:36:39,500 quote unquote, Sam Smith. 1387 01:36:39,958 --> 01:36:40,208 That's right. 1388 01:36:41,000 --> 01:36:42,541 We told some people, we've told some 1389 01:36:42,541 --> 01:36:43,375 people on the podcast, 1390 01:36:43,375 --> 01:36:43,666 we've told some 1391 01:36:43,666 --> 01:36:44,666 people at the soccer game, 1392 01:36:44,958 --> 01:36:45,708 we're actually getting people 1393 01:36:45,708 --> 01:36:46,500 that are raising their hands 1394 01:36:46,500 --> 01:36:47,708 for some of the items. 1395 01:36:48,041 --> 01:36:49,250 Which is fantastic. 1396 01:36:49,250 --> 01:36:49,458 Fantastic. 1397 01:36:50,083 --> 01:36:52,458 Happy to make 1398 01:36:52,458 --> 01:36:53,583 somebody else's life better. 1399 01:36:53,625 --> 01:36:54,125 Yes. 1400 01:36:54,166 --> 01:36:54,666 For something that 1401 01:36:54,666 --> 01:36:55,708 was just chance for us. 1402 01:36:56,083 --> 01:36:56,333 Yeah. 1403 01:36:56,541 --> 01:36:56,750 Yeah. 1404 01:36:57,041 --> 01:36:57,791 Cause it's not things 1405 01:36:57,791 --> 01:36:59,500 that were necessary. 1406 01:36:59,541 --> 01:37:00,500 We don't need it, yeah. 1407 01:37:00,500 --> 01:37:01,833 I'm happy to give it to someone else. 1408 01:37:01,833 --> 01:37:03,916 Even if I do need it, I didn't. 1409 01:37:04,041 --> 01:37:07,083 We didn't buy this or we didn't order it. 1410 01:37:07,083 --> 01:37:09,708 We weren't intending on any of this. 1411 01:37:10,041 --> 01:37:12,125 So if it makes someone's life better. 1412 01:37:12,125 --> 01:37:13,000 But it has been like two 1413 01:37:13,000 --> 01:37:14,125 days since we've got one. 1414 01:37:14,166 --> 01:37:14,625 I know. 1415 01:37:15,125 --> 01:37:16,000 I think the gravy 1416 01:37:16,000 --> 01:37:17,666 chain's gone off the track. 1417 01:37:18,000 --> 01:37:20,166 I know, after that second steering wheel. 1418 01:37:21,000 --> 01:37:22,625 That second steering wheel, yep. 1419 01:37:23,041 --> 01:37:23,250 Yeah. 1420 01:37:24,166 --> 01:37:26,083 It was fun while it 1421 01:37:26,083 --> 01:37:27,041 lasted though, wasn't it? 1422 01:37:27,541 --> 01:37:28,833 You actually asked today. 1423 01:37:29,125 --> 01:37:29,958 I know, I did. 1424 01:37:29,958 --> 01:37:30,958 You were excited to 1425 01:37:30,958 --> 01:37:31,916 see, well, what's in it? 1426 01:37:32,000 --> 01:37:32,541 What's in it? 1427 01:37:32,833 --> 01:37:34,000 Not because I know 1428 01:37:34,000 --> 01:37:35,125 it's anything that we want 1429 01:37:35,250 --> 01:37:37,166 or certainly need. 1430 01:37:37,750 --> 01:37:39,666 Because of the 1431 01:37:39,666 --> 01:37:42,500 randomness of the purchases. 1432 01:37:44,041 --> 01:37:46,250 I do wonder though, I 1433 01:37:46,250 --> 01:37:47,250 took kind of a step back 1434 01:37:47,291 --> 01:37:47,875 and I was like, I 1435 01:37:47,875 --> 01:37:48,791 wonder if someone looked 1436 01:37:48,791 --> 01:37:50,000 at our Amazon purchases. 1437 01:37:50,250 --> 01:37:50,791 Like if they were all 1438 01:37:50,791 --> 01:37:52,000 going to someone else's house, 1439 01:37:52,000 --> 01:37:54,250 like what they would say about us. 1440 01:37:55,500 --> 01:37:56,958 Oh, that's a really good thought, yeah. 1441 01:37:57,250 --> 01:38:00,375 Because I'm really curious. 1442 01:38:00,708 --> 01:38:02,500 Because this person's 1443 01:38:02,500 --> 01:38:04,166 Amazon packages or purchases 1444 01:38:04,791 --> 01:38:05,500 really leave me 1445 01:38:05,500 --> 01:38:10,208 scratching my head about his life. 1446 01:38:10,750 --> 01:38:11,500 Well, I think they 1447 01:38:11,500 --> 01:38:12,541 know we have a doc sound 1448 01:38:12,541 --> 01:38:13,625 because we order a lot of 1449 01:38:13,625 --> 01:38:14,791 stuff with that little dog. 1450 01:38:14,833 --> 01:38:15,250 We do. 1451 01:38:16,500 --> 01:38:18,250 We order toilet paper, so we're humans. 1452 01:38:18,708 --> 01:38:19,291 Yeah, yeah. 1453 01:38:19,875 --> 01:38:20,625 And we order-- 1454 01:38:22,000 --> 01:38:22,208 Paper towels. 1455 01:38:22,750 --> 01:38:24,875 Paper towels, so we're messy humans. 1456 01:38:24,916 --> 01:38:25,666 We're messy humans. 1457 01:38:26,541 --> 01:38:28,750 Some of the main ones that we do. 1458 01:38:29,250 --> 01:38:30,458 Yeah, those are the ones that come on 1459 01:38:30,458 --> 01:38:31,375 in consistent basis. 1460 01:38:32,625 --> 01:38:33,708 I think the only thing I 1461 01:38:33,708 --> 01:38:34,958 buy on there is the dog stuff. 1462 01:38:35,666 --> 01:38:37,500 Yeah, I don't buy much on it anymore. 1463 01:38:37,875 --> 01:38:38,750 Yeah, occasionally. 1464 01:38:39,208 --> 01:38:39,458 I just go back. 1465 01:38:40,666 --> 01:38:42,916 Oh, oh, socks for our 1466 01:38:42,916 --> 01:38:44,625 children, our boys in particular. 1467 01:38:45,375 --> 01:38:46,500 One boy in particular. 1468 01:38:46,750 --> 01:38:47,916 One boy in particular. 1469 01:38:47,916 --> 01:38:48,875 He just goes through socks, 1470 01:38:49,833 --> 01:38:51,375 wears holes in them left and right. 1471 01:38:51,375 --> 01:38:51,875 It's because he doesn't 1472 01:38:51,875 --> 01:38:53,125 wear shoes with them outside. 1473 01:38:53,416 --> 01:38:53,583 Right. 1474 01:38:54,208 --> 01:38:57,916 He also wears socks all the time. 1475 01:38:58,541 --> 01:39:00,041 Yeah, so that's what it says about us. 1476 01:39:00,083 --> 01:39:00,500 Yeah. 1477 01:39:00,500 --> 01:39:02,166 That we're a regular all-American family. 1478 01:39:02,541 --> 01:39:04,166 Yeah, who really likes socks? 1479 01:39:04,583 --> 01:39:05,916 The dog and 2.5 kids. 1480 01:39:06,208 --> 01:39:06,416 Yep. 1481 01:39:06,958 --> 01:39:07,958 Yep, that's what we are. 1482 01:39:08,291 --> 01:39:11,375 It's what, are you, well, we have three, 1483 01:39:11,625 --> 01:39:12,541 but we probably shouldn't 1484 01:39:12,541 --> 01:39:13,625 say we have two and a half. 1485 01:39:13,625 --> 01:39:14,125 That's what we do. 1486 01:39:15,041 --> 01:39:15,500 Well, that's probably, I 1487 01:39:15,500 --> 01:39:16,333 was just doing the average. 1488 01:39:16,375 --> 01:39:16,708 Yeah, yeah, yeah. 1489 01:39:16,708 --> 01:39:17,291 It's the average American. 1490 01:39:17,541 --> 01:39:17,916 Yeah. 1491 01:39:17,958 --> 01:39:19,375 Yeah, that's not me 1492 01:39:19,375 --> 01:39:20,291 putting down one of our children. 1493 01:39:21,166 --> 01:39:22,625 So which one is the half? 1494 01:39:22,625 --> 01:39:23,208 I think they know. 1495 01:39:26,791 --> 01:39:27,458 Depends on the day. 1496 01:39:28,500 --> 01:39:29,500 All right, well, we're getting closer 1497 01:39:29,500 --> 01:39:30,375 and closer to vacation, 1498 01:39:30,625 --> 01:39:32,208 so we're trying to get that figured out. 1499 01:39:32,291 --> 01:39:32,541 Yep. 1500 01:39:32,583 --> 01:39:34,666 We've got most of the time for the dog 1501 01:39:34,666 --> 01:39:35,416 sitting in the house, 1502 01:39:35,416 --> 01:39:36,333 sitting taken care of. 1503 01:39:36,416 --> 01:39:37,416 Yes, which is fantastic. 1504 01:39:37,833 --> 01:39:39,166 If you're in the area down here 1505 01:39:39,166 --> 01:39:40,083 and you know us fairly 1506 01:39:40,083 --> 01:39:41,083 well, raise your hand. 1507 01:39:41,083 --> 01:39:41,583 We have a couple of 1508 01:39:41,583 --> 01:39:42,291 days that we need someone 1509 01:39:42,291 --> 01:39:43,500 to come let the dogs hand out. 1510 01:39:43,500 --> 01:39:43,708 Yep. 1511 01:39:45,166 --> 01:39:46,708 Or if you know a really good dog sitter. 1512 01:39:46,750 --> 01:39:48,416 Or if you know a really good dog sitter. 1513 01:39:48,416 --> 01:39:50,291 Our dog sitter is getting married, 1514 01:39:50,291 --> 01:39:51,791 so congratulations to her. 1515 01:39:51,791 --> 01:39:53,958 We're super excited about that for her. 1516 01:39:54,625 --> 01:39:55,458 Which means my mom is 1517 01:39:55,458 --> 01:39:56,125 actually taking over 1518 01:39:56,125 --> 01:39:57,166 a little bit with the dog sitting. 1519 01:39:57,166 --> 01:39:57,916 She's happy to house 1520 01:39:57,916 --> 01:39:58,916 it, but the dog sits, 1521 01:39:58,916 --> 01:39:59,791 a thing for her. 1522 01:40:00,208 --> 01:40:01,500 My mom is not a dog lover. 1523 01:40:01,500 --> 01:40:02,416 She's not, no. 1524 01:40:02,500 --> 01:40:04,333 And to be fair, neither am I. 1525 01:40:04,333 --> 01:40:04,541 No. 1526 01:40:05,166 --> 01:40:07,000 I barely even like our dog. 1527 01:40:07,000 --> 01:40:07,250 Yeah. 1528 01:40:07,875 --> 01:40:10,291 But I do want her to be taken care of. 1529 01:40:10,333 --> 01:40:10,625 Yeah. 1530 01:40:10,666 --> 01:40:12,000 The dog, my mom too. 1531 01:40:12,500 --> 01:40:13,541 Well, absolutely. 1532 01:40:15,500 --> 01:40:16,916 But she has to work, so 1533 01:40:16,916 --> 01:40:17,833 there's a couple days in there 1534 01:40:17,833 --> 01:40:19,041 that she needs to be relieved. 1535 01:40:19,583 --> 01:40:19,791 Yeah. 1536 01:40:20,416 --> 01:40:21,333 As will the dog. 1537 01:40:22,166 --> 01:40:24,333 For that reason, specifically. 1538 01:40:25,375 --> 01:40:26,500 Yeah, and fed I suppose too. 1539 01:40:26,750 --> 01:40:27,625 And fed, yeah. 1540 01:40:27,625 --> 01:40:28,125 Oh, she'll let you 1541 01:40:28,125 --> 01:40:29,000 know if she needs food. 1542 01:40:29,291 --> 01:40:29,583 Yeah. 1543 01:40:30,041 --> 01:40:31,333 But she is a sweet puppy. 1544 01:40:32,833 --> 01:40:33,500 That's the fun part. 1545 01:40:33,500 --> 01:40:33,708 You know you're 1546 01:40:33,708 --> 01:40:34,500 getting close to vacation, 1547 01:40:34,500 --> 01:40:35,583 you're like, here's 1548 01:40:35,583 --> 01:40:36,375 the things we gotta get 1549 01:40:36,375 --> 01:40:37,625 to make sure we're ready to go. 1550 01:40:37,666 --> 01:40:37,875 Yeah. 1551 01:40:38,291 --> 01:40:39,333 We got all the passports and all that 1552 01:40:39,333 --> 01:40:39,958 kind of stuff ready. 1553 01:40:39,958 --> 01:40:40,250 Yeah. 1554 01:40:40,291 --> 01:40:41,500 But now we're talking about sunscreen, 1555 01:40:41,708 --> 01:40:42,791 we're talking about the fanny packs, 1556 01:40:42,833 --> 01:40:43,833 we're talking about how 1557 01:40:43,833 --> 01:40:45,583 to keep the passport safe 1558 01:40:45,750 --> 01:40:48,208 while we're out off the ship. 1559 01:40:48,458 --> 01:40:49,125 We're talking about underpants. 1560 01:40:50,791 --> 01:40:50,875 Huh? 1561 01:40:52,791 --> 01:40:53,000 (laughing) 1562 01:40:54,041 --> 01:40:56,208 Well, we're gone for a while, 1563 01:40:56,208 --> 01:40:57,458 and I was like, I don't think our boys 1564 01:40:57,458 --> 01:40:58,458 have enough underwear. 1565 01:40:59,291 --> 01:41:00,000 I know, yeah. 1566 01:41:00,500 --> 01:41:01,375 They need to go through it quickly. 1567 01:41:02,000 --> 01:41:02,291 Yeah. 1568 01:41:04,000 --> 01:41:04,833 The Amazon people will 1569 01:41:04,833 --> 01:41:06,000 know we need socks and undies. 1570 01:41:06,416 --> 01:41:06,625 Yes. 1571 01:41:07,791 --> 01:41:08,458 Because we are the 1572 01:41:08,458 --> 01:41:09,666 average American household. 1573 01:41:10,333 --> 01:41:11,500 So Sam Smith, if you're out there. 1574 01:41:11,916 --> 01:41:13,208 (laughing) 1575 01:41:13,916 --> 01:41:14,791 Mikey socks please. 1576 01:41:15,250 --> 01:41:17,250 We need vacation stuff now. 1577 01:41:17,541 --> 01:41:17,833 Yup. 1578 01:41:17,875 --> 01:41:18,708 Since I was doing Amazon. 1579 01:41:19,125 --> 01:41:19,833 So the bird feeder, 1580 01:41:19,833 --> 01:41:20,791 stop with the bird feeders 1581 01:41:20,791 --> 01:41:21,708 in the ear care. 1582 01:41:22,208 --> 01:41:23,666 Yes, bird feeders in ear care, 1583 01:41:23,666 --> 01:41:25,166 I think we are settled on. 1584 01:41:26,541 --> 01:41:28,500 If anybody wants bird 1585 01:41:28,500 --> 01:41:29,458 feeders in ear care, 1586 01:41:29,458 --> 01:41:30,166 well we actually have 1587 01:41:30,166 --> 01:41:30,375 the ear care solved. 1588 01:41:30,416 --> 01:41:32,833 Both of the ear care is spoken for. 1589 01:41:32,833 --> 01:41:33,625 It's spoken for. 1590 01:41:33,666 --> 01:41:33,916 Yeah. 1591 01:41:34,208 --> 01:41:35,416 We will be delivering that. 1592 01:41:35,625 --> 01:41:36,333 So I didn't realize that 1593 01:41:36,333 --> 01:41:37,250 was such a hot commodity, 1594 01:41:37,250 --> 01:41:37,958 but it is. 1595 01:41:37,958 --> 01:41:38,500 I didn't either. 1596 01:41:38,791 --> 01:41:40,125 A lot of hands were raised for those. 1597 01:41:40,750 --> 01:41:41,500 Not joking, I had 1598 01:41:41,500 --> 01:41:42,500 pictures of them on my phone, 1599 01:41:42,500 --> 01:41:44,000 and they're like, yes, that's a good one. 1600 01:41:44,000 --> 01:41:45,208 And I was like, it is yours. 1601 01:41:47,833 --> 01:41:48,458 That's so funny. 1602 01:41:49,250 --> 01:41:49,833 All right, well let's 1603 01:41:49,833 --> 01:41:50,916 sum up our last week 1604 01:41:52,583 --> 01:41:54,500 with our words of the week. 1605 01:41:54,875 --> 01:41:55,500 Words of the week. 1606 01:41:56,875 --> 01:41:58,500 Okay, so everybody think of your words. 1607 01:41:58,833 --> 01:42:00,458 We got our words for 1608 01:42:00,458 --> 01:42:01,750 sum up our last week. 1609 01:42:02,500 --> 01:42:02,833 Yes. 1610 01:42:02,833 --> 01:42:04,125 See if anybody gets the same one. 1611 01:42:04,125 --> 01:42:04,625 All right, here we go. 1612 01:42:05,291 --> 01:42:06,708 One, two, three. 1613 01:42:07,375 --> 01:42:07,916 Hot. Inertia. 1614 01:42:09,000 --> 01:42:09,166 Hot. 1615 01:42:11,291 --> 01:42:12,250 Nice, what kind of 1616 01:42:12,250 --> 01:42:14,000 spicy hot, temperature hot? 1617 01:42:14,000 --> 01:42:15,000 It was temperature hot. 1618 01:42:15,125 --> 01:42:17,041 Sexy hot, okay, temperature hot, it was. 1619 01:42:17,833 --> 01:42:18,541 Temperature hot. 1620 01:42:19,208 --> 01:42:20,500 I feel like that was pervasive. 1621 01:42:20,791 --> 01:42:22,291 Every time I went outside, I was like, 1622 01:42:22,833 --> 01:42:24,208 oh my gosh, are we ready for summer? 1623 01:42:24,208 --> 01:42:24,666 Because we had some 1624 01:42:24,666 --> 01:42:25,791 humidity down here too, 1625 01:42:25,791 --> 01:42:27,333 which I don't like humidity. 1626 01:42:28,416 --> 01:42:29,875 My word, yeah. 1627 01:42:31,291 --> 01:42:31,708 Good night. 1628 01:42:32,166 --> 01:42:32,875 Good night. 1629 01:42:33,791 --> 01:42:35,166 Yeah, it was hot. 1630 01:42:35,458 --> 01:42:35,625 Yeah. 1631 01:42:36,000 --> 01:42:36,958 It was hot, I don't know, that's the 1632 01:42:36,958 --> 01:42:37,625 beginning of summer. 1633 01:42:37,666 --> 01:42:38,458 Yeah, yeah. 1634 01:42:38,500 --> 01:42:39,416 Just the beginning too. 1635 01:42:39,750 --> 01:42:42,625 Yeah, I felt cooked after Saturday, 1636 01:42:42,625 --> 01:42:43,625 being outside all day. 1637 01:42:43,625 --> 01:42:44,250 Yeah, we didn't even 1638 01:42:44,250 --> 01:42:45,083 get into the track meet 1639 01:42:45,083 --> 01:42:46,416 and being out there all day long. 1640 01:42:46,625 --> 01:42:47,958 You were the only one at 1641 01:42:47,958 --> 01:42:50,000 the tent without a tent. 1642 01:42:50,041 --> 01:42:51,416 I was the tent without the tent, yeah. 1643 01:42:51,583 --> 01:42:52,208 Merchandise sales. 1644 01:42:52,541 --> 01:42:54,666 Yeah, and bronze did now. 1645 01:42:55,208 --> 01:42:55,500 Yeah. 1646 01:42:56,666 --> 01:42:57,500 Anyway, and yours, 1647 01:42:57,750 --> 01:42:59,083 maybe unpack that one a bit. 1648 01:43:00,125 --> 01:43:01,708 Mine was inertia, which I don't know 1649 01:43:01,708 --> 01:43:02,875 if I'm using it correctly, but I just-- 1650 01:43:02,875 --> 01:43:03,458 I think that's a good one. 1651 01:43:03,458 --> 01:43:04,125 I feel like I'm just 1652 01:43:04,125 --> 01:43:05,541 being swept up in the inertia 1653 01:43:05,541 --> 01:43:06,208 of everything we've 1654 01:43:06,208 --> 01:43:07,083 gotta get done right now. 1655 01:43:07,583 --> 01:43:09,041 So true. With work and school 1656 01:43:09,500 --> 01:43:10,333 ending and getting 1657 01:43:10,333 --> 01:43:11,375 into the summer activities 1658 01:43:11,375 --> 01:43:12,083 and getting through the 1659 01:43:12,083 --> 01:43:13,500 vacations and all that kind of stuff. 1660 01:43:13,875 --> 01:43:15,708 That is just kind of 1661 01:43:15,708 --> 01:43:18,166 pushing, pulling at the same time. 1662 01:43:18,166 --> 01:43:19,041 It's the inertia of it. 1663 01:43:19,041 --> 01:43:19,250 Yeah. 1664 01:43:20,500 --> 01:43:21,666 June is gonna be like 1665 01:43:21,666 --> 01:43:23,166 that, just buckle up. 1666 01:43:23,958 --> 01:43:24,500 Buttercups. 1667 01:43:25,375 --> 01:43:25,833 Yeah. 1668 01:43:25,833 --> 01:43:27,375 Yep, yep, that's what it is. 1669 01:43:27,666 --> 01:43:28,416 All right, inertia. 1670 01:43:28,875 --> 01:43:30,208 I think that was way better than mine. 1671 01:43:30,291 --> 01:43:31,625 We're into June, so by 1672 01:43:31,625 --> 01:43:32,291 the time we get into this, 1673 01:43:32,291 --> 01:43:33,500 we'll be even more into June. 1674 01:43:34,000 --> 01:43:34,791 June's gonna go fast. 1675 01:43:35,416 --> 01:43:36,500 Half the people I know, I feel like, 1676 01:43:36,500 --> 01:43:37,500 are on vacation already. 1677 01:43:38,333 --> 01:43:40,666 So those are moving super quick. 1678 01:43:40,875 --> 01:43:41,666 Yeah. As well. 1679 01:43:42,875 --> 01:43:43,291 And these are the 1680 01:43:43,291 --> 01:43:44,500 months we wanna slow it down. 1681 01:43:44,500 --> 01:43:45,125 We didn't even get in 1682 01:43:45,125 --> 01:43:45,916 the pool last weekend. 1683 01:43:46,333 --> 01:43:49,833 No, but A, we didn't have time. 1684 01:43:50,875 --> 01:43:52,708 One of our kids is an ear infection, so. 1685 01:43:53,208 --> 01:43:53,375 Yeah. 1686 01:43:53,666 --> 01:43:54,666 We'll have plenty of time 1687 01:43:54,666 --> 01:43:56,291 over the next week or two. 1688 01:43:56,333 --> 01:43:56,958 You say that. 1689 01:43:57,500 --> 01:43:58,750 Knock on wood. Knock on wood. 1690 01:43:59,166 --> 01:44:00,375 Hope to be in it this weekend. 1691 01:44:00,750 --> 01:44:02,916 All right, well, I'll let 1692 01:44:02,916 --> 01:44:03,916 you sign us off this time. 1693 01:44:03,916 --> 01:44:04,625 I always do the sign offs this time. 1694 01:44:04,791 --> 01:44:06,583 Oh, you're a better sign-offer than I am. 1695 01:44:06,583 --> 01:44:07,333 I don't know that that's 1696 01:44:07,333 --> 01:44:08,791 been proven in the court of law. 1697 01:44:10,666 --> 01:44:11,666 You have a court of law for this? 1698 01:44:13,166 --> 01:44:13,791 Who knows anymore? 1699 01:44:14,791 --> 01:44:15,000 Honestly. 1700 01:44:16,500 --> 01:44:18,166 T.O.J.'s gonna get involved in this one. 1701 01:44:19,291 --> 01:44:22,083 Yeah, I, no comments. 1702 01:44:22,083 --> 01:44:22,708 I gotta stay off of 1703 01:44:22,708 --> 01:44:23,583 that one for the most part. 1704 01:44:24,500 --> 01:44:25,125 All right, well, hey, 1705 01:44:25,333 --> 01:44:26,208 thank you so much for joining. 1706 01:44:26,708 --> 01:44:28,000 Appreciate it, as we always do. 1707 01:44:28,875 --> 01:44:30,166 We will see you guys next week. 1708 01:44:30,166 --> 01:44:30,958 Have a great week. 1709 01:44:31,000 --> 01:44:31,875 Have a great week. 1710 01:44:31,916 --> 01:44:33,041 All right, see ya. See ya. 1711 01:44:34,833 --> 01:44:38,083 (upbeat music)