1 01:00:00,000 --> 01:00:01,500 (upbeat music) 2 01:00:04,250 --> 01:00:05,208 Welcome to Cancun everybody. 3 01:00:05,583 --> 01:00:06,458 Welcome to Cancun. 4 01:00:07,000 --> 01:00:09,041 I believe they would say bienvenidas. 5 01:00:09,333 --> 01:00:10,000 Hola español. 6 01:00:10,875 --> 01:00:11,250 Pocito. 7 01:00:11,541 --> 01:00:12,791 Yeah, no, no, I tricked you. 8 01:00:13,541 --> 01:00:14,583 It's a good thing we won the Powerball. 9 01:00:15,000 --> 01:00:15,833 My plan for the day was, 10 01:00:16,375 --> 01:00:17,125 I'm gonna sit in the cabana 11 01:00:17,125 --> 01:00:18,000 and then I'm gonna get in 12 01:00:18,000 --> 01:00:18,916 the pool for a little bit 13 01:00:18,916 --> 01:00:19,416 and then I'm gonna 14 01:00:19,416 --> 01:00:20,541 come back to the cabana 15 01:00:20,541 --> 01:00:22,375 and then maybe go back in the pool. 16 01:00:23,041 --> 01:00:23,666 That was the day. 17 01:00:23,958 --> 01:00:25,041 It rained from the side. 18 01:00:25,416 --> 01:00:26,958 It rained from the other side. 19 01:00:27,333 --> 01:00:28,500 It rained from the bottom. 20 01:00:29,541 --> 01:00:30,500 It was raining from the bottom. 21 01:00:30,958 --> 01:00:31,875 I think I just ate a bug. 22 01:00:33,208 --> 01:00:34,416 That makes us smile outside. 23 01:00:34,666 --> 01:00:35,083 Absolutely. 24 01:00:36,208 --> 01:00:37,916 Oh man, if I was a billionaire, 25 01:00:37,916 --> 01:00:40,375 I could see myself having 26 01:00:40,375 --> 01:00:42,791 this in the backyard somewhere. 27 01:00:42,791 --> 01:00:44,208 I can't be exact same thing. 28 01:00:44,791 --> 01:00:47,208 How spoiled am I? 29 01:00:47,458 --> 01:00:50,333 I just sound like this spoiled girl 30 01:00:51,083 --> 01:00:52,750 and then I was like, well you know what? 31 01:00:53,750 --> 01:00:54,250 She fits. 32 01:00:56,250 --> 01:00:56,708 So. 33 01:00:57,041 --> 01:00:57,208 So. 34 01:00:58,000 --> 01:00:59,083 No, no, I'd do that all over. 35 01:01:00,583 --> 01:01:01,500 Welcome to the Mr. and 36 01:01:01,500 --> 01:01:02,500 Mrs. English podcast. 37 01:01:02,916 --> 01:01:03,250 I'm Megan. 38 01:01:03,625 --> 01:01:04,208 And I'm Sean. 39 01:01:04,500 --> 01:01:05,541 We're here to talk about 40 01:01:05,541 --> 01:01:07,166 the wild ride of raising kids 41 01:01:07,166 --> 01:01:08,166 and growing careers, 42 01:01:08,541 --> 01:01:09,625 keeping life together in 43 01:01:09,625 --> 01:01:10,708 the middle of all the chaos. 44 01:01:11,416 --> 01:01:13,416 So buckle up because we're all 45 01:01:13,416 --> 01:01:14,791 in this crazy journey together. 46 01:01:16,833 --> 01:01:17,625 We are recording. 47 01:01:20,375 --> 01:01:21,791 All right, we are recording. 48 01:01:23,500 --> 01:01:25,125 Welcome to Cancun everybody with us. 49 01:01:25,125 --> 01:01:25,750 Welcome to Cancun. 50 01:01:26,333 --> 01:01:28,291 I believe they would say, "Vienvenidas." 51 01:01:28,833 --> 01:01:29,958 Yes, si. 52 01:01:31,708 --> 01:01:32,500 Ablo espeñol. 53 01:01:33,291 --> 01:01:33,625 Pockito. 54 01:01:34,291 --> 01:01:35,375 How many times have we said that? 55 01:01:35,375 --> 01:01:36,083 We've said it quite a few 56 01:01:36,083 --> 01:01:38,625 times in the last few days. 57 01:01:39,166 --> 01:01:40,041 Yeah, yeah, just a few. 58 01:01:41,041 --> 01:01:41,625 Just a few. 59 01:01:42,166 --> 01:01:42,625 They get really, 60 01:01:42,833 --> 01:01:45,208 people here are super kind 61 01:01:45,458 --> 01:01:46,750 and they get really excited 62 01:01:46,750 --> 01:01:47,666 when you start to speak 63 01:01:47,666 --> 01:01:48,416 a little bit of Spanish 64 01:01:48,416 --> 01:01:49,250 and that's when they ask 65 01:01:49,250 --> 01:01:50,041 and they get really excited 66 01:01:50,041 --> 01:01:50,791 and you have to let 67 01:01:50,791 --> 01:01:51,666 them down and be like, 68 01:01:51,833 --> 01:01:52,833 sorry, not a whole lot. 69 01:01:52,833 --> 01:01:53,666 Not as much as I wish. 70 01:01:54,000 --> 01:01:54,791 Si no, hablo espeñol. 71 01:01:55,958 --> 01:01:56,500 No, no. 72 01:01:56,791 --> 01:01:57,500 No, no, pockito. 73 01:01:58,000 --> 01:02:00,208 One person asked me how many we want. 74 01:02:00,208 --> 01:02:00,666 I said, "Don't." 75 01:02:00,916 --> 01:02:02,083 She said, "Ablo espeñol." 76 01:02:02,375 --> 01:02:03,458 I said, "No, no, I tricked you." 77 01:02:05,000 --> 01:02:06,583 (laughing) Got you. 78 01:02:07,166 --> 01:02:08,208 Although we really should. 79 01:02:08,583 --> 01:02:09,416 I'm just a stupid American. 80 01:02:09,666 --> 01:02:11,166 I speak one language. 81 01:02:11,166 --> 01:02:11,666 One language. 82 01:02:12,166 --> 01:02:12,375 Barely. 83 01:02:13,250 --> 01:02:13,958 I mean, well. 84 01:02:14,958 --> 01:02:15,875 And how funny is that? 85 01:02:16,416 --> 01:02:18,500 Both of our kids who are taking Spanish 86 01:02:19,625 --> 01:02:20,458 came up to me this past 87 01:02:20,458 --> 01:02:21,041 week and they're like, 88 01:02:21,250 --> 01:02:22,000 "Isn't it funny that I'm 89 01:02:22,000 --> 01:02:23,125 getting a better grade in Spanish 90 01:02:23,125 --> 01:02:24,000 "than I am in English?" 91 01:02:24,750 --> 01:02:25,791 (laughing) 92 01:02:27,708 --> 01:02:28,500 Yeah, that's about right. 93 01:02:28,541 --> 01:02:29,166 That's about right. 94 01:02:29,625 --> 01:02:30,416 It's a tough language. 95 01:02:30,916 --> 01:02:31,833 It is, it is. 96 01:02:32,166 --> 01:02:32,875 Well, I don't know how 97 01:02:32,875 --> 01:02:35,291 much in post I can take out, 98 01:02:35,291 --> 01:02:36,000 but we've got some 99 01:02:36,000 --> 01:02:38,250 authentic Mexican music 100 01:02:38,250 --> 01:02:39,833 being played down on the patio below us. 101 01:02:39,833 --> 01:02:40,750 We do, yeah. 102 01:02:40,958 --> 01:02:41,500 Looks like there's a 103 01:02:41,500 --> 01:02:43,166 little bit of a fiesta 104 01:02:43,375 --> 01:02:44,333 going on down there. 105 01:02:44,875 --> 01:02:45,458 Looks fantastic. 106 01:02:46,208 --> 01:02:47,333 Maybe we join it later. 107 01:02:47,333 --> 01:02:47,875 Or maybe it's a 108 01:02:47,875 --> 01:02:49,000 private one, I don't know. 109 01:02:49,000 --> 01:02:50,583 It looks pretty public to me. 110 01:02:50,583 --> 01:02:50,833 Yeah. 111 01:02:51,250 --> 01:02:53,083 Or we just join it from up here, so. 112 01:02:54,208 --> 01:02:54,250 (laughing) 113 01:02:54,416 --> 01:02:56,083 Well, I hinted at it, if 114 01:02:56,083 --> 01:02:57,666 anybody listened to the last one, 115 01:02:57,666 --> 01:02:58,750 I hinted at Cancun. 116 01:02:59,166 --> 01:03:00,125 We came down to Cancun 117 01:03:00,125 --> 01:03:01,750 for our 18th anniversary. 118 01:03:02,000 --> 01:03:02,625 Happy anniversary, my love. 119 01:03:02,625 --> 01:03:03,625 Happy anniversary, love. 120 01:03:03,625 --> 01:03:04,750 It was two days ago 121 01:03:04,750 --> 01:03:05,916 now, so we just did a quick 122 01:03:05,916 --> 01:03:08,791 three nights, four days down here. 123 01:03:09,125 --> 01:03:10,625 We had never actually been to Cancun. 124 01:03:10,666 --> 01:03:13,458 No, no, been to Mexico a few times, but. 125 01:03:14,000 --> 01:03:15,625 In fact, technically we met in Mexico. 126 01:03:15,958 --> 01:03:16,041 We did. 127 01:03:16,041 --> 01:03:17,875 Because we met in Cozumel. 128 01:03:18,000 --> 01:03:18,666 Cozumel, yep. 129 01:03:18,708 --> 01:03:21,500 So, but we've never been to Cancun. 130 01:03:21,500 --> 01:03:21,958 That's right. 131 01:03:22,416 --> 01:03:22,458 So. 132 01:03:22,458 --> 01:03:22,916 That's right. 133 01:03:24,291 --> 01:03:25,000 An amazing time. 134 01:03:25,291 --> 01:03:26,708 So, thank you to Cece, 135 01:03:26,958 --> 01:03:28,125 who is watching the kiddos 136 01:03:28,375 --> 01:03:30,583 and allowing us to have this time away. 137 01:03:30,916 --> 01:03:31,541 That's right. 138 01:03:32,000 --> 01:03:32,750 Because it is so nice. 139 01:03:33,500 --> 01:03:34,583 This is the first time 140 01:03:34,583 --> 01:03:37,333 that we've been on a couple's 141 01:03:37,375 --> 01:03:38,541 getaway, a couple just 142 01:03:38,541 --> 01:03:40,500 as you and me getaway. 143 01:03:40,500 --> 01:03:40,750 Right. 144 01:03:41,791 --> 01:03:42,500 In eight years. 145 01:03:42,791 --> 01:03:42,916 Yeah. 146 01:03:42,958 --> 01:03:44,125 Because we did a getaway 147 01:03:44,125 --> 01:03:45,666 for our 10 year anniversary, 148 01:03:46,750 --> 01:03:47,666 and then now 18. 149 01:03:48,000 --> 01:03:48,250 Yeah. 150 01:03:48,250 --> 01:03:49,708 Because we wanted to do a 15 again. 151 01:03:50,000 --> 01:03:50,291 Yeah. 152 01:03:50,333 --> 01:03:52,083 And 15 just got away from us. 153 01:03:52,166 --> 01:03:53,000 It really did. 154 01:03:53,000 --> 01:03:54,083 We were building a house. 155 01:03:54,375 --> 01:03:55,250 I mean, there was a lot 156 01:03:55,250 --> 01:03:57,875 going on, I think, in year 15. 157 01:03:59,583 --> 01:03:59,875 Yeah. 158 01:04:00,458 --> 01:04:01,250 But, you know, I was 159 01:04:01,250 --> 01:04:03,208 talking to a friend a while ago 160 01:04:03,541 --> 01:04:06,083 about anniversary trips, and she's like, 161 01:04:07,041 --> 01:04:09,250 they didn't make it for their 15th, 162 01:04:09,250 --> 01:04:10,000 so she's like, we're just 163 01:04:10,000 --> 01:04:10,958 gonna do it on our 16th. 164 01:04:10,958 --> 01:04:12,125 Because she's like, it doesn't 165 01:04:12,125 --> 01:04:13,708 matter if it's a round number 166 01:04:13,958 --> 01:04:15,625 or a Hallmark anniversary, 167 01:04:15,916 --> 01:04:17,208 just do it on any 168 01:04:17,208 --> 01:04:18,166 anniversary that you can. 169 01:04:18,458 --> 01:04:18,708 Yeah. 170 01:04:18,708 --> 01:04:20,000 And I was like, that's fantastic. 171 01:04:20,500 --> 01:04:21,583 Yeah, we do it on the sixes. 172 01:04:21,625 --> 01:04:25,458 So six, 12, 18, 24, 30, 36, 27, 14, 14. 173 01:04:25,666 --> 01:04:26,708 Did we really on our sixth? 174 01:04:26,708 --> 01:04:27,583 No, that'd be good though. 175 01:04:28,083 --> 01:04:29,375 Well, we did on our 10th either, so. 176 01:04:30,041 --> 01:04:30,208 Sure, sure. 177 01:04:30,208 --> 01:04:30,875 That's our new thing. 178 01:04:31,208 --> 01:04:32,500 Okay, on the sixes. 179 01:04:32,750 --> 01:04:32,958 Yeah. 180 01:04:33,791 --> 01:04:34,375 So it's been good. 181 01:04:34,375 --> 01:04:35,708 Today we got a lot of rain, 182 01:04:36,500 --> 01:04:37,666 and so we were inside a little bit, 183 01:04:37,666 --> 01:04:38,666 but we did see it was 184 01:04:38,666 --> 01:04:39,916 really cool, lightning. 185 01:04:40,833 --> 01:04:43,000 Literally just like maybe a quarter mile 186 01:04:43,333 --> 01:04:45,541 off of our balcony here in the ocean. 187 01:04:45,625 --> 01:04:46,000 Yeah. 188 01:04:46,083 --> 01:04:47,333 And it rocked everybody. 189 01:04:47,333 --> 01:04:47,875 There were still a couple 190 01:04:47,875 --> 01:04:49,666 people in the pool that quickly. 191 01:04:51,750 --> 01:04:52,333 Evacuated. 192 01:04:52,458 --> 01:04:53,291 Evacuated the pool. 193 01:04:54,041 --> 01:04:54,708 Yeah, yeah. 194 01:04:55,208 --> 01:04:55,416 Good. 195 01:04:56,333 --> 01:04:57,541 No, I was just gonna say it, 196 01:04:57,541 --> 01:04:58,625 but how nice has it been 197 01:04:58,625 --> 01:05:00,708 to just not have anything 198 01:05:00,708 --> 01:05:01,666 to do for a day? 199 01:05:01,708 --> 01:05:03,250 Oh my gosh, yeah. 200 01:05:03,250 --> 01:05:04,708 I was telling you the first day, 201 01:05:05,875 --> 01:05:07,125 because when we came in, 202 01:05:07,125 --> 01:05:08,416 and if anybody's been down to Caribbean 203 01:05:08,625 --> 01:05:09,583 in the last few years, 204 01:05:09,583 --> 01:05:10,500 there's been some 205 01:05:10,500 --> 01:05:12,125 seaweed issues down there. 206 01:05:12,125 --> 01:05:12,791 Like we went to St. 207 01:05:13,000 --> 01:05:14,000 Thomas a few years ago. 208 01:05:14,291 --> 01:05:14,625 Yeah. 209 01:05:14,625 --> 01:05:15,500 The seaweed was horrible. 210 01:05:15,500 --> 01:05:16,416 It's a certain kind of 211 01:05:16,416 --> 01:05:17,416 seaweed, I don't know, but they're-- 212 01:05:17,625 --> 01:05:18,166 Sargum or something? 213 01:05:18,166 --> 01:05:19,541 Sargum, seaweed, something like that. 214 01:05:19,583 --> 01:05:20,958 As you're flying over, 215 01:05:20,958 --> 01:05:24,083 I remember flying to St. 216 01:05:24,416 --> 01:05:25,708 Thomas and looking out, 217 01:05:25,708 --> 01:05:26,333 and you could just see 218 01:05:26,333 --> 01:05:29,000 these huge island blobs 219 01:05:29,000 --> 01:05:30,958 of the seaweed just making 220 01:05:30,958 --> 01:05:33,000 its way on the ocean currents. 221 01:05:34,000 --> 01:05:35,625 And we really didn't, I didn't 222 01:05:35,625 --> 01:05:36,583 know what it was at the time, 223 01:05:36,583 --> 01:05:38,125 but when we got there, 224 01:05:38,833 --> 01:05:41,125 the beaches were unusable. 225 01:05:41,666 --> 01:05:44,958 There was two feet of 226 01:05:44,958 --> 01:05:46,416 seaweed that had just washed up 227 01:05:47,333 --> 01:05:49,125 onto the beaches, all the 228 01:05:49,125 --> 01:05:50,000 way up onto the beaches, 229 01:05:50,375 --> 01:05:53,583 and it went out 80 yards into the sea. 230 01:05:54,041 --> 01:05:55,291 Just completely piled up, 231 01:05:55,291 --> 01:05:56,416 almost as far as you could see, 232 01:05:57,041 --> 01:05:57,333 honestly. 233 01:05:57,750 --> 01:05:57,958 Yeah. 234 01:05:58,333 --> 01:06:01,041 And so you couldn't use the water, 235 01:06:01,250 --> 01:06:02,083 you couldn't see the 236 01:06:02,083 --> 01:06:04,291 water, couldn't see the beach, 237 01:06:05,000 --> 01:06:05,958 but maybe even worse, 238 01:06:07,125 --> 01:06:09,541 the stench, the smell. 239 01:06:10,000 --> 01:06:11,833 Oh, the smell is one you don't forget. 240 01:06:12,083 --> 01:06:13,000 No, no. 241 01:06:13,000 --> 01:06:14,791 Yeah, it was horrendous. 242 01:06:15,541 --> 01:06:15,875 Horrendous. 243 01:06:16,458 --> 01:06:18,250 And I had forgotten it 244 01:06:18,250 --> 01:06:22,791 until our first night here. 245 01:06:25,375 --> 01:06:26,125 There's a bit of the 246 01:06:26,125 --> 01:06:28,125 seaweed, so it's not quite as clear, 247 01:06:29,416 --> 01:06:30,750 and the smell was 248 01:06:30,750 --> 01:06:32,000 definitely there the first night. 249 01:06:32,250 --> 01:06:33,250 But thank God, the smell 250 01:06:33,250 --> 01:06:34,041 went away the last two days. 251 01:06:34,041 --> 01:06:35,125 We haven't had the smell at all. 252 01:06:35,166 --> 01:06:35,791 Not at all. 253 01:06:35,833 --> 01:06:36,791 Which was a lifesaver. 254 01:06:36,791 --> 01:06:38,125 I can handle not getting into the ocean, 255 01:06:38,125 --> 01:06:39,291 because I don't have to have the ocean. 256 01:06:39,875 --> 01:06:41,458 I like to sit by the pool. 257 01:06:41,833 --> 01:06:42,875 Yeah, the pool is 258 01:06:42,875 --> 01:06:43,875 amazing here, by the way. 259 01:06:44,250 --> 01:06:46,708 And we had, onboarding 260 01:06:46,708 --> 01:06:49,000 was the name of our crew. 261 01:06:49,666 --> 01:06:52,500 Onboarding was the best cabin steward. 262 01:06:52,500 --> 01:06:52,916 That's right. 263 01:06:53,083 --> 01:06:53,791 He was fantastic. 264 01:06:54,250 --> 01:06:54,500 That's right. 265 01:06:54,916 --> 01:06:56,750 So we rented cabanas right by the pool. 266 01:06:57,000 --> 01:06:58,000 And if you guys don't do cabanas, 267 01:06:58,000 --> 01:06:58,916 cabanas is the way to go. 268 01:06:59,500 --> 01:06:59,750 Oh, totally. 269 01:06:59,750 --> 01:07:01,375 I mean, it's worth the money. 270 01:07:02,208 --> 01:07:03,583 Just to have your place, you don't have 271 01:07:03,583 --> 01:07:04,708 to fight people off, 272 01:07:04,958 --> 01:07:06,416 or good places by the pool, 273 01:07:06,416 --> 01:07:07,375 just rent the big cabanas. 274 01:07:07,375 --> 01:07:08,583 We figured that out 275 01:07:08,583 --> 01:07:10,166 about half a decade ago. 276 01:07:10,208 --> 01:07:11,083 Yeah, yeah. 277 01:07:11,208 --> 01:07:12,000 And ever since, it's 278 01:07:12,000 --> 01:07:13,166 like, oh, that's ours. 279 01:07:13,708 --> 01:07:14,458 Yeah, it's our spot. 280 01:07:15,166 --> 01:07:16,625 Anyways, but you get the people who come, 281 01:07:16,625 --> 01:07:17,833 and they serve you and stuff like that, 282 01:07:17,833 --> 01:07:18,708 and they take good care of you. 283 01:07:18,791 --> 01:07:19,833 But day one was-- 284 01:07:20,416 --> 01:07:21,500 Onboarding was his name. 285 01:07:21,833 --> 01:07:23,208 His name tag said onboarding. 286 01:07:24,458 --> 01:07:26,916 So onboarding must have been new. 287 01:07:27,500 --> 01:07:28,666 Just, you know, context clues here. 288 01:07:28,916 --> 01:07:30,583 Yeah, I don't know, yeah. 289 01:07:31,416 --> 01:07:34,083 I don't know his name, but yeah, 290 01:07:34,083 --> 01:07:35,125 onboarding was really good. 291 01:07:35,375 --> 01:07:37,208 Yeah, but we had Jesus today. 292 01:07:37,208 --> 01:07:38,125 And we had Jesus today. 293 01:07:38,791 --> 01:07:40,250 The pool was a lot busier today, 294 01:07:40,250 --> 01:07:42,875 so Jesus had his hands full. 295 01:07:43,583 --> 01:07:45,166 With quite a few different people. 296 01:07:45,916 --> 01:07:46,708 Yesterday it was like 297 01:07:46,708 --> 01:07:48,000 us and, I don't know, 298 01:07:48,583 --> 01:07:49,083 four other people in the pool. 299 01:07:49,458 --> 01:07:50,791 Yeah, it was fairly empty yesterday, 300 01:07:51,125 --> 01:07:51,750 which is, I don't 301 01:07:51,750 --> 01:07:52,791 think we were coming down 302 01:07:52,791 --> 01:07:54,291 at a peak tourist time. 303 01:07:55,125 --> 01:07:56,250 So yesterday we had most of the pool, 304 01:07:56,250 --> 01:07:57,125 but ourselves was just fantastic. 305 01:07:58,625 --> 01:08:00,041 But today it was better from a 306 01:08:00,041 --> 01:08:01,041 people-watching standpoint, 307 01:08:01,333 --> 01:08:03,333 which is always enjoyable to do. 308 01:08:04,333 --> 01:08:04,958 Because there was a 309 01:08:04,958 --> 01:08:05,833 lot more people there. 310 01:08:05,833 --> 01:08:07,208 There were some stewardesses that came in 311 01:08:07,208 --> 01:08:08,625 that were very lively. 312 01:08:10,000 --> 01:08:11,333 Just some different groups 313 01:08:11,333 --> 01:08:12,416 and whatnot that came in. 314 01:08:12,833 --> 01:08:14,375 But it was interesting, 315 01:08:14,375 --> 01:08:15,458 we had talked about it. 316 01:08:16,333 --> 01:08:17,083 And I had mentioned it on 317 01:08:17,083 --> 01:08:18,125 Morning Serial last week 318 01:08:18,125 --> 01:08:19,708 on one of the quotes just talking about, 319 01:08:19,708 --> 01:08:21,958 deep down, I think most people are good. 320 01:08:22,333 --> 01:08:23,208 There's a lot of differences. 321 01:08:23,416 --> 01:08:23,750 There was a lot of 322 01:08:23,750 --> 01:08:24,541 craziness out in the world 323 01:08:24,583 --> 01:08:26,416 that Megs and I would love to get into, 324 01:08:26,416 --> 01:08:27,416 but we don't want this 325 01:08:27,416 --> 01:08:28,333 to be a political show. 326 01:08:30,583 --> 01:08:31,583 And as much as those 327 01:08:31,583 --> 01:08:34,000 differences could tear us apart, 328 01:08:35,166 --> 01:08:36,083 in the end, I think a 329 01:08:36,083 --> 01:08:37,958 lot of us, most of us, 330 01:08:38,791 --> 01:08:41,083 are good people who are 331 01:08:41,083 --> 01:08:42,500 able to be kind to other, 332 01:08:43,708 --> 01:08:44,791 we're not looking at skin color, 333 01:08:44,791 --> 01:08:46,166 we're not looking at this or that, 334 01:08:46,166 --> 01:08:47,458 we're not being judgmental. 335 01:08:48,416 --> 01:08:50,416 And it was cool today, I thought, 336 01:08:50,416 --> 01:08:51,500 because we're people-watching, 337 01:08:51,750 --> 01:08:53,291 which does insinuate a 338 01:08:53,291 --> 01:08:55,500 little bit of judgment initially. 339 01:08:56,166 --> 01:08:57,166 It can, yes. 340 01:08:57,375 --> 01:08:58,000 Right, right. 341 01:08:58,000 --> 01:08:59,916 And I'm not suggesting, we're above that, 342 01:08:59,916 --> 01:09:00,458 because people-watching 343 01:09:00,458 --> 01:09:01,458 is great, it's great fun. 344 01:09:01,625 --> 01:09:02,833 Most of you probably enjoy it too. 345 01:09:03,916 --> 01:09:05,208 But it down poured. 346 01:09:05,833 --> 01:09:06,250 Down poured. 347 01:09:07,000 --> 01:09:07,791 So, yeah. 348 01:09:08,583 --> 01:09:10,000 Soaking, I mean. 349 01:09:10,500 --> 01:09:12,791 We tried to outlast it for a minute 350 01:09:12,791 --> 01:09:13,291 by just putting a 351 01:09:13,291 --> 01:09:14,083 couple of towels over us. 352 01:09:14,250 --> 01:09:15,000 Yeah, uh-huh. 353 01:09:15,041 --> 01:09:15,916 And then the command 354 01:09:15,916 --> 01:09:16,833 just started leaking, 355 01:09:16,833 --> 01:09:18,583 and it was like a waterfall on top of us. 356 01:09:18,583 --> 01:09:19,541 We were just kind of laughing, 357 01:09:20,208 --> 01:09:21,416 and the stewardesses are like, 358 01:09:21,416 --> 01:09:22,708 "Oh, come on, just get in." 359 01:09:22,708 --> 01:09:23,333 Just get in the pool. 360 01:09:23,333 --> 01:09:25,416 Because we looked like the stuffy people 361 01:09:25,416 --> 01:09:26,708 in the command, and they were like, 362 01:09:26,958 --> 01:09:28,083 "I don't want to get wet." 363 01:09:28,208 --> 01:09:28,791 Right, right. 364 01:09:29,083 --> 01:09:29,625 Even though it's 365 01:09:29,625 --> 01:09:31,166 literally now just pouring, 366 01:09:31,458 --> 01:09:33,500 like it was pooling until the command 367 01:09:33,500 --> 01:09:34,416 it could take no more, 368 01:09:34,458 --> 01:09:37,541 and then it just like was a downpour. 369 01:09:37,833 --> 01:09:39,041 It was deluge in the kadana. 370 01:09:39,583 --> 01:09:41,333 And stewardesses, or flight attendants, 371 01:09:41,333 --> 01:09:43,208 are in the pool like, "Just get on in." 372 01:09:43,250 --> 01:09:44,166 I'm sorry, was that an old term? 373 01:09:44,416 --> 01:09:45,083 Stewardesses, it was. 374 01:09:45,333 --> 01:09:46,208 Flight attendants, my apologies. 375 01:09:47,083 --> 01:09:48,125 Anyway, does it, yeah. 376 01:09:48,791 --> 01:09:51,333 Yeah, it was an old, I even thought 377 01:09:51,333 --> 01:09:52,291 I was using the right one. 378 01:09:52,333 --> 01:09:53,708 It's an old school term. 379 01:09:53,708 --> 01:09:54,791 I don't know if it 380 01:09:54,791 --> 01:09:56,291 insinuates anything bad. 381 01:09:56,541 --> 01:09:57,916 It was a meaning by flight attendants. 382 01:09:58,291 --> 01:09:58,500 Yeah. 383 01:09:59,708 --> 01:10:01,291 So, we finally got in. 384 01:10:01,291 --> 01:10:02,125 We just got in. 385 01:10:02,125 --> 01:10:03,625 My whole point to this was we got in, 386 01:10:03,666 --> 01:10:04,875 everybody's laughing, and everybody was, 387 01:10:05,250 --> 01:10:06,833 it downpoured for 25 minutes. 388 01:10:06,833 --> 01:10:07,125 Oh yeah. 389 01:10:07,541 --> 01:10:09,208 Hard, like Forrest Gump where he's like, 390 01:10:09,208 --> 01:10:10,208 "It rained from the side. 391 01:10:10,500 --> 01:10:12,125 "It rained from the other side. 392 01:10:12,458 --> 01:10:13,708 "It rained from the bottom." 393 01:10:14,625 --> 01:10:15,625 It was raining from the bottom. 394 01:10:16,750 --> 01:10:17,333 Totally not. 395 01:10:18,041 --> 01:10:18,541 I don't know if you've 396 01:10:18,541 --> 01:10:20,541 ever been in such a heavy rain 397 01:10:21,083 --> 01:10:23,000 where you're just outside and just like, 398 01:10:23,875 --> 01:10:24,708 "We're just doing it." 399 01:10:24,750 --> 01:10:25,416 But everybody was out 400 01:10:25,416 --> 01:10:26,583 there just like laughing. 401 01:10:27,000 --> 01:10:28,666 This is crazy, you know? 402 01:10:29,208 --> 01:10:29,291 It was. 403 01:10:29,291 --> 01:10:30,750 It was just different. 404 01:10:30,750 --> 01:10:31,916 It just kind of broke the monotony 405 01:10:32,083 --> 01:10:34,791 of sitting in the sun in Cozumel, 406 01:10:34,791 --> 01:10:36,166 which is just so monotonous. 407 01:10:36,791 --> 01:10:38,125 Yeah, yeah, so tough. 408 01:10:38,125 --> 01:10:39,250 But we made friends with them, 409 01:10:39,250 --> 01:10:40,291 and we saw them leaving. 410 01:10:40,500 --> 01:10:41,333 They were catching a flight, 411 01:10:41,333 --> 01:10:42,416 so they're only here for half the day, 412 01:10:42,416 --> 01:10:43,208 and they're like, "Hi, friends." 413 01:10:44,000 --> 01:10:44,166 Yeah. 414 01:10:44,541 --> 01:10:45,458 I mean, it was just so 415 01:10:45,458 --> 01:10:47,791 cool that it's like people 416 01:10:47,958 --> 01:10:49,708 from, you know, in a 417 01:10:49,708 --> 01:10:50,791 totally different country, 418 01:10:51,458 --> 01:10:52,916 and you have that shared experience 419 01:10:52,916 --> 01:10:54,500 that kind of brought everyone together, 420 01:10:55,041 --> 01:10:56,125 and everyone was just 421 01:10:56,125 --> 01:10:57,041 laughing in the pool, 422 01:10:57,041 --> 01:10:58,666 because it was crazy, and 423 01:10:58,666 --> 01:11:00,125 we all found humor in it. 424 01:11:01,041 --> 01:11:02,250 It was just that shared experience 425 01:11:02,250 --> 01:11:03,958 that brought random people together. 426 01:11:04,000 --> 01:11:04,333 Because everybody was 427 01:11:04,333 --> 01:11:05,041 just doing their own thing, 428 01:11:05,041 --> 01:11:05,916 all the little pockets of 429 01:11:05,916 --> 01:11:06,958 people doing their own thing. 430 01:11:06,958 --> 01:11:07,666 And that happened, and 431 01:11:07,666 --> 01:11:08,666 everybody's just looking around 432 01:11:08,666 --> 01:11:09,666 and laughing at each other. 433 01:11:10,125 --> 01:11:10,333 Yeah. 434 01:11:10,750 --> 01:11:11,708 It was cool. 435 01:11:11,958 --> 01:11:13,333 I enjoy those moments 436 01:11:13,333 --> 01:11:14,875 when it's just like, 437 01:11:14,875 --> 01:11:18,416 we really do return to that we're people. 438 01:11:18,625 --> 01:11:18,833 Yes. 439 01:11:19,500 --> 01:11:20,458 Underneath it all, 440 01:11:20,458 --> 01:11:22,250 we're just human beings. 441 01:11:22,291 --> 01:11:23,166 Just human beings. 442 01:11:23,416 --> 01:11:24,458 And most of us. 443 01:11:24,958 --> 01:11:26,666 And there are exceptions to this. 444 01:11:26,666 --> 01:11:28,208 In my years, I figured out there are, 445 01:11:28,250 --> 01:11:31,166 but I think most of us are kind people 446 01:11:31,166 --> 01:11:33,125 that want best for everybody. 447 01:11:33,333 --> 01:11:34,708 I totally agree. 448 01:11:35,000 --> 01:11:36,083 Yeah, so that was fun. 449 01:11:36,375 --> 01:11:37,791 It was, it was, and it 450 01:11:37,791 --> 01:11:39,291 made it just so memorable. 451 01:11:39,500 --> 01:11:39,750 Yeah. 452 01:11:40,708 --> 01:11:41,166 And, you know. 453 01:11:42,708 --> 01:11:43,583 Because yesterday we 454 01:11:43,583 --> 01:11:45,000 had beautiful blue skies 455 01:11:45,875 --> 01:11:46,750 the whole day. 456 01:11:47,000 --> 01:11:47,708 I mean, so it was like, 457 01:11:47,708 --> 01:11:48,958 it's okay that it rained. 458 01:11:48,958 --> 01:11:50,166 I mean, we didn't, not 459 01:11:50,166 --> 01:11:51,125 like we had any plans. 460 01:11:51,750 --> 01:11:53,666 It was our, I told you, 461 01:11:53,666 --> 01:11:54,541 my plan for the day was, 462 01:11:55,125 --> 01:11:55,958 I'm gonna sit in the commando, 463 01:11:55,958 --> 01:11:56,708 and then I'm gonna get in 464 01:11:56,708 --> 01:11:57,625 the pool for a little bit, 465 01:11:57,666 --> 01:11:58,041 and then I'm gonna 466 01:11:58,041 --> 01:11:59,250 come back to the cabana, 467 01:11:59,458 --> 01:12:01,041 and then maybe go back in the pool. 468 01:12:01,750 --> 01:12:02,416 That was the day. 469 01:12:03,208 --> 01:12:04,458 Yeah, that was, you 470 01:12:04,458 --> 01:12:05,583 said that, I laughed at it. 471 01:12:05,583 --> 01:12:06,000 I was like, well, 472 01:12:06,000 --> 01:12:07,666 that's a lot of planning. 473 01:12:07,916 --> 01:12:08,458 Good for you. 474 01:12:08,791 --> 01:12:09,500 It was a lot of planning. 475 01:12:09,750 --> 01:12:10,625 I didn't even got that far. 476 01:12:10,875 --> 01:12:11,708 I was just gonna sit. 477 01:12:12,125 --> 01:12:13,458 Yeah, until I got too hot. 478 01:12:14,375 --> 01:12:15,666 Then I was gonna cool off in the pool. 479 01:12:15,791 --> 01:12:17,416 Yeah, that's right, yeah. 480 01:12:17,666 --> 01:12:18,666 And then when I was cool enough, 481 01:12:18,666 --> 01:12:19,416 I'd get back in the cab. 482 01:12:19,416 --> 01:12:19,958 I was gonna take it as 483 01:12:19,958 --> 01:12:20,791 it comes at that point. 484 01:12:21,166 --> 01:12:21,791 Yeah, you can. 485 01:12:22,125 --> 01:12:23,250 Mostly concerned about my drink. 486 01:12:24,541 --> 01:12:26,000 As long as those keep coming? 487 01:12:27,333 --> 01:12:28,458 Onboarding, where is it? 488 01:12:28,500 --> 01:12:29,500 The player is onboarding. 489 01:12:29,791 --> 01:12:31,666 Onboarding, I need onboarding. 490 01:12:32,750 --> 01:12:33,875 I did miss onboarding today. 491 01:12:34,208 --> 01:12:35,208 Yeah, he was better than Jesus. 492 01:12:36,333 --> 01:12:36,916 Yeah, he was. 493 01:12:37,833 --> 01:12:39,250 Like super attentive, yeah. 494 01:12:39,583 --> 01:12:39,791 Anyway. 495 01:12:40,083 --> 01:12:40,416 He was. 496 01:12:41,583 --> 01:12:42,833 I wish you would've known his name. 497 01:12:43,625 --> 01:12:44,625 Yeah, that would be nice. 498 01:12:45,000 --> 01:12:45,291 Oh well. 499 01:12:45,541 --> 01:12:47,625 Oh well, still onboarding. 500 01:12:47,958 --> 01:12:49,125 Next time onboarding. 501 01:12:49,166 --> 01:12:49,375 Yeah. 502 01:12:50,416 --> 01:12:50,625 Yeah. 503 01:12:50,750 --> 01:12:52,250 So we're leaving tomorrow, 504 01:12:52,458 --> 01:12:54,000 a quick one back home to the grind. 505 01:12:54,041 --> 01:12:55,458 Cece's taking care of the kids today, 506 01:12:55,458 --> 01:12:58,000 which is, she's understanding the grind. 507 01:12:58,000 --> 01:13:00,791 She did the drive for all the soccer 508 01:13:00,791 --> 01:13:01,625 people that watch this. 509 01:13:02,250 --> 01:13:03,208 She did the drive from our 510 01:13:03,208 --> 01:13:05,375 house down 635 to Greenhill. 511 01:13:05,583 --> 01:13:06,541 Yep, yep. 512 01:13:06,583 --> 01:13:08,000 And she came back and like, 513 01:13:08,000 --> 01:13:10,125 I don't know why these coaches think 514 01:13:10,875 --> 01:13:12,375 that people can make this drive. 515 01:13:12,708 --> 01:13:14,291 I'm like, we make that drive four times. 516 01:13:14,333 --> 01:13:15,125 Four times a week. 517 01:13:15,125 --> 01:13:15,500 A week. 518 01:13:15,750 --> 01:13:16,708 Four times a week. 519 01:13:16,750 --> 01:13:17,000 Yeah. 520 01:13:17,458 --> 01:13:20,791 Like, yep, and it is a grind. 521 01:13:21,041 --> 01:13:21,666 It's a grinder. 522 01:13:21,916 --> 01:13:22,791 Oh my gosh, that's a 523 01:13:22,791 --> 01:13:23,958 terrible drive for a night's week. 524 01:13:23,958 --> 01:13:26,125 I'd never looked forward to it. 525 01:13:26,125 --> 01:13:26,625 Why would you? 526 01:13:26,916 --> 01:13:27,083 No. 527 01:13:27,583 --> 01:13:29,500 But it was funny because Cece was like, 528 01:13:30,000 --> 01:13:31,166 she's like, well, you don't tell me. 529 01:13:31,166 --> 01:13:32,958 She's like, I ran, she did that. 530 01:13:32,958 --> 01:13:34,000 She's the generational older. 531 01:13:34,000 --> 01:13:34,375 She did that. 532 01:13:34,375 --> 01:13:34,958 She had four kids. 533 01:13:35,500 --> 01:13:36,541 She ran all of us everywhere. 534 01:13:36,875 --> 01:13:37,083 Yeah. 535 01:13:38,250 --> 01:13:39,583 I know my soccer practices 536 01:13:39,583 --> 01:13:40,875 though weren't that far away. 537 01:13:41,541 --> 01:13:43,000 No, probably not. 538 01:13:43,041 --> 01:13:43,833 Mine was literally 539 01:13:43,833 --> 01:13:45,125 like five minutes away. 540 01:13:45,583 --> 01:13:46,875 Cottonwood Park was not far. 541 01:13:47,500 --> 01:13:48,375 Cottonwood Park, okay. 542 01:13:48,875 --> 01:13:50,583 And then maybe Martinez though. 543 01:13:50,583 --> 01:13:51,416 I can't remember, there was elementary 544 01:13:51,416 --> 01:13:52,333 that was even closer 545 01:13:52,333 --> 01:13:52,916 than Cottonwood Park. 546 01:13:53,125 --> 01:13:53,916 Oh, okay. 547 01:13:53,958 --> 01:13:54,791 And that's where we practiced. 548 01:13:55,208 --> 01:13:55,916 Yeah, yeah. 549 01:13:56,458 --> 01:13:57,625 Most of my family, I 550 01:13:57,625 --> 01:13:58,958 mean, I'm one of five. 551 01:13:59,416 --> 01:14:01,041 So you're right, my mom was always, 552 01:14:01,041 --> 01:14:03,208 we had a color coded calendar. 553 01:14:03,208 --> 01:14:03,500 Yeah. 554 01:14:04,541 --> 01:14:04,958 Because this was 555 01:14:04,958 --> 01:14:06,750 before Outlook and I mean, 556 01:14:07,208 --> 01:14:08,041 all of that, right? 557 01:14:08,291 --> 01:14:09,500 So my mom has this 558 01:14:09,500 --> 01:14:11,541 massive color coded calendar 559 01:14:12,666 --> 01:14:15,083 and it was where everyone needed to be 560 01:14:15,208 --> 01:14:16,500 and who needed to be where. 561 01:14:17,291 --> 01:14:18,500 But most of ours were 562 01:14:18,500 --> 01:14:22,250 within a 20 mile radius probably. 563 01:14:22,750 --> 01:14:22,958 Yeah. 564 01:14:23,041 --> 01:14:24,791 You know, maybe we had to go to Eden 565 01:14:24,791 --> 01:14:25,750 Prairie for something 566 01:14:25,750 --> 01:14:26,666 or you know, but most 567 01:14:26,666 --> 01:14:28,125 of them were on our side 568 01:14:28,125 --> 01:14:28,708 of Bloomington. 569 01:14:29,458 --> 01:14:30,583 And how far is Green Hill from us? 570 01:14:30,791 --> 01:14:31,000 45? 571 01:14:31,541 --> 01:14:34,166 No, no, no, it's like 36 miles. 572 01:14:34,166 --> 01:14:35,458 I think it's 36 miles, 573 01:14:35,833 --> 01:14:38,416 but it is near downtown. 574 01:14:38,750 --> 01:14:40,625 I mean, you're pretty close to. 575 01:14:40,666 --> 01:14:42,041 That's still a long ways. 576 01:14:42,041 --> 01:14:42,916 I mean, when I grew 577 01:14:42,916 --> 01:14:43,625 up in Colorado Springs, 578 01:14:44,666 --> 01:14:46,000 going to Denver was a long ways. 579 01:14:46,666 --> 01:14:48,583 Cause that was like 50 miles away. 580 01:14:48,583 --> 01:14:50,083 The southern side of Denver was right. 581 01:14:50,500 --> 01:14:51,875 Castle Rock was over 30 miles away. 582 01:14:52,250 --> 01:14:53,666 Castle Rock was more than halfway. 583 01:14:53,916 --> 01:14:55,166 And that was still a heck 584 01:14:55,166 --> 01:14:57,458 of a drive on a highway. 585 01:14:58,166 --> 01:14:58,666 And we're driving 586 01:14:58,666 --> 01:15:00,958 literally past Castle Rock 587 01:15:01,416 --> 01:15:03,250 from Colorado Springs every single day 588 01:15:03,666 --> 01:15:05,041 for soccer practice or track practice. 589 01:15:05,750 --> 01:15:07,583 Anyways, nothing that anybody on here 590 01:15:07,583 --> 01:15:08,541 hasn't heard before. 591 01:15:08,791 --> 01:15:09,916 But it's just funny when someone else 592 01:15:09,916 --> 01:15:11,416 has to do our schedule. 593 01:15:11,750 --> 01:15:11,958 Yes. 594 01:15:12,583 --> 01:15:14,750 And I was saying to you, I'm like, 595 01:15:14,750 --> 01:15:17,750 it's amazing how tired, 596 01:15:18,500 --> 01:15:20,333 like I feel like I've slept a lot. 597 01:15:20,583 --> 01:15:22,708 I mean, here, we've slept in, 598 01:15:22,958 --> 01:15:24,833 I've actually turned our phones off 599 01:15:25,208 --> 01:15:26,625 so that there's not even a chance 600 01:15:26,625 --> 01:15:28,375 that the do not disturb doesn't work. 601 01:15:28,375 --> 01:15:29,208 Yeah, yeah. 602 01:15:29,750 --> 01:15:32,000 Cause we just need rest. 603 01:15:32,625 --> 01:15:32,833 Yeah. 604 01:15:33,333 --> 01:15:34,041 Do you feel like you got it? 605 01:15:34,375 --> 01:15:35,583 Yeah, I did. 606 01:15:36,083 --> 01:15:36,208 That's good. 607 01:15:36,208 --> 01:15:37,250 Little recharge to 608 01:15:37,250 --> 01:15:38,416 come back to a short week. 609 01:15:38,458 --> 01:15:40,083 Yeah, which feels amazing. 610 01:15:41,083 --> 01:15:44,083 Like two days, I can do that, right? 611 01:15:44,958 --> 01:15:45,791 Yeah, you should be able to. 612 01:15:46,916 --> 01:15:47,000 (laughs) 613 01:15:47,000 --> 01:15:47,625 I hope so. 614 01:15:48,000 --> 01:15:49,583 (sighs) 615 01:15:50,125 --> 01:15:50,833 Cause we've got quite a few 616 01:15:50,833 --> 01:15:52,083 trips coming up for soccer. 617 01:15:52,458 --> 01:15:54,666 We just booked a bunch of things. 618 01:15:55,166 --> 01:15:56,250 Yes, yes. 619 01:15:57,000 --> 01:15:57,333 Which is, 620 01:15:59,000 --> 01:15:59,833 cause you probably, I was 621 01:15:59,833 --> 01:16:00,916 gonna take us on a different way. 622 01:16:00,916 --> 01:16:01,166 So we're-- 623 01:16:01,500 --> 01:16:03,125 Well, I was just gonna, on that one, 624 01:16:03,125 --> 01:16:04,416 how silly is soccer? 625 01:16:04,666 --> 01:16:06,416 So here's, these are one of those things 626 01:16:06,416 --> 01:16:06,916 that the soccer 627 01:16:06,916 --> 01:16:09,041 guides, you know, I get it. 628 01:16:09,041 --> 01:16:09,833 We do this, we send 629 01:16:09,833 --> 01:16:10,791 ourselves up for this. 630 01:16:11,125 --> 01:16:11,458 Yeah. 631 01:16:11,500 --> 01:16:12,708 But we have a soccer 632 01:16:12,708 --> 01:16:14,750 game on November 1st, right? 633 01:16:15,041 --> 01:16:16,583 And we just added the 634 01:16:16,583 --> 01:16:18,125 Colorado Rapids soccer team 635 01:16:18,125 --> 01:16:21,916 to our ECNL, what is it? 636 01:16:22,666 --> 01:16:22,875 League. 637 01:16:23,333 --> 01:16:23,666 League, thank you. 638 01:16:23,666 --> 01:16:24,625 League's the word I'm looking for there. 639 01:16:25,375 --> 01:16:26,208 So it means we gotta go 640 01:16:26,208 --> 01:16:27,166 to Colorado once a year, 641 01:16:27,166 --> 01:16:29,666 and they gotta come play us right here. 642 01:16:29,666 --> 01:16:30,166 So that's a travel. 643 01:16:30,958 --> 01:16:31,916 And we travel quite a 644 01:16:31,916 --> 01:16:33,458 bit for all these leagues. 645 01:16:33,625 --> 01:16:33,875 Absolutely. 646 01:16:33,916 --> 01:16:35,541 But November 1st, and if 647 01:16:35,541 --> 01:16:36,208 you haven't done the math 648 01:16:36,208 --> 01:16:37,500 there yet, we have to 649 01:16:37,500 --> 01:16:38,750 be there the day before, 650 01:16:38,750 --> 01:16:40,208 which is October 31st. 651 01:16:40,208 --> 01:16:41,000 And to do more of that 652 01:16:41,000 --> 01:16:42,250 math, that is Halloween. 653 01:16:42,708 --> 01:16:43,583 And our children still 654 01:16:43,583 --> 01:16:44,625 want to trick or treat. 655 01:16:45,291 --> 01:16:47,583 So that's ripping their 656 01:16:47,583 --> 01:16:48,916 childhood stuff away from them 657 01:16:48,916 --> 01:16:50,666 a little bit, you know what I mean? 658 01:16:51,500 --> 01:16:52,291 I mean, yeah. 659 01:16:52,333 --> 01:16:52,958 If you have to put the 660 01:16:52,958 --> 01:16:53,875 games on Sunday, then. 661 01:16:53,875 --> 01:16:54,541 It could be a lot, yeah. 662 01:16:54,916 --> 01:16:55,375 You know what I mean? 663 01:16:55,500 --> 01:16:56,375 The thing is, is that we have a game 664 01:16:56,375 --> 01:16:57,375 on Saturday and Sunday. 665 01:16:57,625 --> 01:16:58,500 I know, I know. 666 01:16:59,125 --> 01:17:00,625 But it's like, so I'm 667 01:17:00,625 --> 01:17:01,541 trying to coordinate 668 01:17:01,541 --> 01:17:03,000 like with all the other parents, 669 01:17:03,000 --> 01:17:05,166 because especially for the 11 year old. 670 01:17:05,958 --> 01:17:09,708 Like, this is still a big deal to him. 671 01:17:09,958 --> 01:17:10,958 It's one of his favorites. 672 01:17:11,166 --> 01:17:14,291 It probably, yeah, second to Christmas. 673 01:17:15,666 --> 01:17:17,625 I mean, this kid gets into Halloween. 674 01:17:17,625 --> 01:17:18,708 I'm surprised he hasn't asked 675 01:17:18,708 --> 01:17:20,000 about the Halloween decorations yet. 676 01:17:20,416 --> 01:17:21,375 Yeah, I asked him about it. 677 01:17:21,375 --> 01:17:22,125 I was like, you know that much into 678 01:17:22,125 --> 01:17:22,791 Halloween this year? 679 01:17:22,791 --> 01:17:24,083 I think he's actually a little bummed 680 01:17:24,083 --> 01:17:26,083 because actual Halloween 681 01:17:26,083 --> 01:17:28,041 isn't actual Halloween for him. 682 01:17:28,041 --> 01:17:29,916 Yeah, and Halloween's on a Friday. 683 01:17:29,916 --> 01:17:31,875 So how often do you get a Friday night, 684 01:17:31,875 --> 01:17:33,125 get to go trick or treating, stay out 685 01:17:33,125 --> 01:17:33,916 late with your friends? 686 01:17:34,625 --> 01:17:35,000 You know? 687 01:17:35,541 --> 01:17:37,000 It's like the perfect storm, 688 01:17:37,000 --> 01:17:37,500 and then we're like 689 01:17:37,500 --> 01:17:38,875 ripping back from them. 690 01:17:39,291 --> 01:17:40,666 So hopefully, I mean, 691 01:17:40,666 --> 01:17:42,041 we're getting into Colorado 692 01:17:42,041 --> 01:17:43,041 a little early so that 693 01:17:43,041 --> 01:17:43,875 they can maybe trick or treat 694 01:17:43,958 --> 01:17:47,000 in Colorado with their team. 695 01:17:47,541 --> 01:17:49,750 The 15 year old, he's not 696 01:17:49,750 --> 01:17:50,666 about the trick or treat. 697 01:17:50,666 --> 01:17:51,583 He's more about the, 698 01:17:52,208 --> 01:17:52,791 hey, I wanted to hang out 699 01:17:52,791 --> 01:17:53,416 with my friends. 700 01:17:54,166 --> 01:17:56,500 Right, right, but on the 701 01:17:56,500 --> 01:17:58,375 same hand, or the other hand, 702 01:17:59,500 --> 01:18:02,708 our daughter, she wants to stay, 703 01:18:02,708 --> 01:18:03,458 because we're still trying to decide 704 01:18:03,458 --> 01:18:04,833 if we're both gonna go to Colorado, 705 01:18:05,375 --> 01:18:06,166 since both the boys 706 01:18:06,166 --> 01:18:07,125 are there, both playing. 707 01:18:08,000 --> 01:18:08,833 We leave our daughter. 708 01:18:09,375 --> 01:18:10,000 With somebody. 709 01:18:10,250 --> 01:18:11,000 With somebody, obviously, 710 01:18:11,541 --> 01:18:12,333 because she wants to trick 711 01:18:12,333 --> 01:18:13,208 or treat with her friends. 712 01:18:13,875 --> 01:18:15,250 And we want to rip her out too. 713 01:18:16,041 --> 01:18:17,500 But then we would miss her Halloween, 714 01:18:18,000 --> 01:18:18,791 which last where she 715 01:18:18,791 --> 01:18:19,625 did go with her friends, 716 01:18:19,625 --> 01:18:20,666 and we didn't get to see much of her. 717 01:18:21,541 --> 01:18:22,833 So it's part of that 718 01:18:22,833 --> 01:18:23,833 growing up as a family 719 01:18:23,833 --> 01:18:24,916 that's tough for us when 720 01:18:24,916 --> 01:18:27,291 it's like, I want to be there, 721 01:18:27,583 --> 01:18:28,708 even though you don't want me there, 722 01:18:28,708 --> 01:18:29,416 you didn't even notice I'm 723 01:18:29,416 --> 01:18:30,791 there, but for you and I, 724 01:18:30,791 --> 01:18:32,083 I know we just, even from 725 01:18:32,083 --> 01:18:33,333 just standing across the room 726 01:18:33,333 --> 01:18:36,041 watching them enjoy their life. 727 01:18:36,791 --> 01:18:39,041 Halloween as a child, with their friends. 728 01:18:39,625 --> 01:18:40,791 That makes us smile inside. 729 01:18:41,125 --> 01:18:41,625 Absolutely. 730 01:18:42,041 --> 01:18:42,875 I think I just ate a bug. 731 01:18:43,791 --> 01:18:44,583 (snorts) 732 01:18:45,000 --> 01:18:45,666 Swallowed a bug. 733 01:18:46,375 --> 01:18:47,083 Swallowed a bug. 734 01:18:48,458 --> 01:18:48,541 (laughs) 735 01:18:49,666 --> 01:18:51,041 You come in with your 52 cents. 736 01:18:51,500 --> 01:18:51,916 (laughs) 737 01:18:52,083 --> 01:18:53,125 But your rent is in a style. 738 01:18:54,125 --> 01:18:54,541 (laughs) 739 01:18:54,958 --> 01:18:56,333 Great, that is my favorite. 740 01:18:56,333 --> 01:18:57,916 That is my favorite movie of all time. 741 01:18:58,833 --> 01:19:00,500 We are quoting Good Will Hunting, 742 01:19:01,166 --> 01:19:02,666 and yes, Casey Affleck goes, 743 01:19:02,958 --> 01:19:04,083 "I think I swallowed a bug." 744 01:19:04,500 --> 01:19:05,541 I think I swallowed a bug, yeah. 745 01:19:06,291 --> 01:19:07,500 So funny in that film. 746 01:19:08,166 --> 01:19:08,666 Oh my gosh. 747 01:19:08,708 --> 01:19:10,250 I do think that was, anyway, okay. 748 01:19:10,250 --> 01:19:11,541 All right, well we're off, so yeah. 749 01:19:12,583 --> 01:19:13,125 For some of the 750 01:19:13,125 --> 01:19:14,583 photography that watch this, 751 01:19:14,583 --> 01:19:16,166 there are other people that have these, 752 01:19:16,708 --> 01:19:18,291 just over the top sports, 753 01:19:18,291 --> 01:19:19,500 they were not this over the top 754 01:19:19,500 --> 01:19:22,041 when we did this. 755 01:19:22,375 --> 01:19:23,500 You had family members, you 756 01:19:23,500 --> 01:19:24,708 had dance and family members 757 01:19:24,708 --> 01:19:25,500 that did all kinds of 758 01:19:25,500 --> 01:19:26,916 stuff at high levels. 759 01:19:26,916 --> 01:19:27,958 I did stuff at high levels. 760 01:19:29,041 --> 01:19:30,291 And it was never like this. 761 01:19:30,708 --> 01:19:32,125 We would travel, but not like this, 762 01:19:32,458 --> 01:19:33,208 because name the 763 01:19:33,208 --> 01:19:34,333 spaces that we're going to 764 01:19:34,333 --> 01:19:35,458 just in the next six months. 765 01:19:36,458 --> 01:19:37,500 And this is not including track. 766 01:19:38,208 --> 01:19:38,875 Yeah, yeah, because 767 01:19:38,875 --> 01:19:39,500 we haven't even gotten 768 01:19:39,916 --> 01:19:40,458 that schedule yet. 769 01:19:41,500 --> 01:19:46,375 We have San Diego, Colorado, Phoenix, 770 01:19:48,916 --> 01:19:49,375 Jacksonville, 771 01:19:49,375 --> 01:19:51,666 Florida, Richmond, Virginia, 772 01:19:53,083 --> 01:19:55,125 Indianapolis, and Atlanta. 773 01:19:55,833 --> 01:19:56,041 Yeah. 774 01:19:56,833 --> 01:19:58,750 I think I got most of them. 775 01:19:58,750 --> 01:19:59,541 Oh, and that's not 776 01:19:59,541 --> 01:20:01,458 including our trip to California 777 01:20:01,458 --> 01:20:02,041 to go skiing. 778 01:20:03,041 --> 01:20:03,416 Yeah. 779 01:20:03,416 --> 01:20:05,708 Yeah, so like-- 780 01:20:06,500 --> 01:20:07,541 It's a good thing we won the Powerball. 781 01:20:08,208 --> 01:20:08,833 I know, yeah. 782 01:20:10,291 --> 01:20:11,541 We were the ones who won. 783 01:20:12,791 --> 01:20:14,041 And we're letting you know now. 784 01:20:14,375 --> 01:20:14,750 Wing, wing. 785 01:20:15,333 --> 01:20:16,416 So we're doing all this traveling. 786 01:20:17,125 --> 01:20:18,000 Such exotic places. 787 01:20:18,291 --> 01:20:19,375 I know, I know. 788 01:20:19,375 --> 01:20:20,541 How do people do it? 789 01:20:20,541 --> 01:20:21,500 I don't know. 790 01:20:21,750 --> 01:20:22,666 I mean, I guess we're doing 791 01:20:22,666 --> 01:20:23,833 it, but still, it's crazy. 792 01:20:24,125 --> 01:20:25,625 It's crazy to me. 793 01:20:25,666 --> 01:20:27,208 Well, and it's funny, you did that. 794 01:20:27,208 --> 01:20:27,916 So we ended up in the same 795 01:20:27,916 --> 01:20:28,791 spot where I was gonna go 796 01:20:28,791 --> 01:20:30,041 and take us on a tangent. 797 01:20:30,041 --> 01:20:30,458 Oh, okay. 798 01:20:31,083 --> 01:20:32,333 Because we told our 799 01:20:32,333 --> 01:20:33,541 kids when you turn 16, 800 01:20:33,541 --> 01:20:34,708 you can have a trip, like 801 01:20:34,708 --> 01:20:36,958 in the US, like, you know, 802 01:20:36,958 --> 01:20:40,791 and then, and so our 15 803 01:20:40,791 --> 01:20:41,833 year old was talking to you 804 01:20:41,833 --> 01:20:42,500 about like, hey, I'm 805 01:20:42,500 --> 01:20:44,166 turning 16 in a couple months. 806 01:20:44,500 --> 01:20:46,583 Like, where do I wanna go? 807 01:20:47,791 --> 01:20:50,750 And it's like, oh my gosh, 808 01:20:50,750 --> 01:20:52,291 you're already going so many places. 809 01:20:52,708 --> 01:20:53,958 Yeah, where do I, yeah, yeah. 810 01:20:54,458 --> 01:20:55,666 First off, I don't think 811 01:20:55,666 --> 01:20:57,291 they know it's within the US. 812 01:20:58,000 --> 01:20:59,458 I think it's anywhere they wanna go. 813 01:20:59,500 --> 01:21:01,250 Oh, okay. 814 01:21:01,333 --> 01:21:02,458 Is what they think it is. 815 01:21:03,166 --> 01:21:04,083 So that might be 816 01:21:04,083 --> 01:21:05,541 something we want to confirm 817 01:21:06,250 --> 01:21:07,333 and clarify, yeah. 818 01:21:07,916 --> 01:21:08,416 I mean, I mean. 819 01:21:08,416 --> 01:21:09,291 I mean, I'm all for 820 01:21:09,291 --> 01:21:10,708 it if he's like, Bali. 821 01:21:11,708 --> 01:21:13,750 I know, I would love to go to Bali, yeah. 822 01:21:14,333 --> 01:21:15,125 And we'll be happy to 823 01:21:15,125 --> 01:21:15,875 take you guys there, 824 01:21:16,333 --> 01:21:17,333 give you a Bali background. 825 01:21:17,625 --> 01:21:18,041 Exactly. 826 01:21:19,250 --> 01:21:20,250 Okay, well, we might 827 01:21:20,250 --> 01:21:21,000 need to make this work. 828 01:21:22,625 --> 01:21:23,333 But you know, to your 829 01:21:23,333 --> 01:21:25,666 point, yeah, I mean, yeah. 830 01:21:25,666 --> 01:21:27,166 Cause we're going to Tahoe for skiing. 831 01:21:27,500 --> 01:21:27,791 Yep. 832 01:21:28,416 --> 01:21:29,541 Or use it California, yeah. 833 01:21:29,875 --> 01:21:30,041 Yeah. 834 01:21:30,541 --> 01:21:32,250 Is Tahoe in California or is it Nevada? 835 01:21:33,083 --> 01:21:33,875 We fly in the-- 836 01:21:33,875 --> 01:21:34,750 Oh, we fly into Reno, 837 01:21:35,125 --> 01:21:35,916 but I think we're skiing 838 01:21:35,916 --> 01:21:37,458 on the California side. 839 01:21:37,458 --> 01:21:38,291 Yeah, I don't know, 840 01:21:38,291 --> 01:21:39,333 the geography over there. 841 01:21:39,333 --> 01:21:40,166 So anyways, yeah, we 842 01:21:40,166 --> 01:21:41,000 got to figure that out. 843 01:21:41,583 --> 01:21:43,791 Maybe, I floated the idea 844 01:21:43,791 --> 01:21:46,416 that maybe that trip anywhere 845 01:21:46,916 --> 01:21:48,750 gets pushed out to your 18th year. 846 01:21:50,250 --> 01:21:51,041 How did he take that? 847 01:21:51,333 --> 01:21:52,541 I didn't, I floated it with you. 848 01:21:52,541 --> 01:21:56,416 Oh, I was like, oh, we did, okay. 849 01:21:56,500 --> 01:21:57,333 That's a percent subject. 850 01:21:57,375 --> 01:21:57,958 We need to pay the 851 01:21:57,958 --> 01:21:58,750 barrel ball a little more. 852 01:22:00,833 --> 01:22:01,333 We really do. 853 01:22:02,375 --> 01:22:03,208 Oh my gosh. 854 01:22:03,875 --> 01:22:04,916 There's a lot of, I mean, 855 01:22:05,166 --> 01:22:08,500 there is just a lot of stuff 856 01:22:08,625 --> 01:22:11,791 that comes with the level 857 01:22:11,791 --> 01:22:13,125 that our kids are playing at, 858 01:22:13,125 --> 01:22:13,500 I think. 859 01:22:14,291 --> 01:22:14,458 Yeah. 860 01:22:14,458 --> 01:22:18,000 And maybe it's that I wasn't aware of 861 01:22:18,000 --> 01:22:19,500 and maybe these were out there. 862 01:22:20,000 --> 01:22:21,291 I wasn't aware of this 863 01:22:21,291 --> 01:22:23,166 kind of level of sports. 864 01:22:23,666 --> 01:22:25,125 I don't think there was at that time. 865 01:22:25,583 --> 01:22:25,958 Yeah. 866 01:22:26,041 --> 01:22:27,041 I don't think there was at the time. 867 01:22:27,041 --> 01:22:30,041 There was some, like, I can never 868 01:22:30,041 --> 01:22:31,041 remember the name of it. 869 01:22:31,041 --> 01:22:32,250 You always remember the name of it. 870 01:22:32,500 --> 01:22:34,041 ODP, that one. 871 01:22:34,291 --> 01:22:36,041 ODP, but there was one for basketball 872 01:22:36,916 --> 01:22:37,750 that I would travel. 873 01:22:38,000 --> 01:22:38,958 That all like that. 874 01:22:39,000 --> 01:22:39,875 Oh, AAU? 875 01:22:40,000 --> 01:22:40,458 AAU. 876 01:22:40,833 --> 01:22:41,708 AAU was the one that I 877 01:22:41,708 --> 01:22:42,500 kind of knew about that 878 01:22:42,500 --> 01:22:43,375 where you do travel and 879 01:22:43,375 --> 01:22:44,250 there's all the top players 880 01:22:44,250 --> 01:22:44,958 in the country. 881 01:22:45,000 --> 01:22:45,250 Yeah. 882 01:22:46,750 --> 01:22:48,083 That was one, but by 883 01:22:48,083 --> 01:22:49,458 soccer, we would go to, 884 01:22:49,583 --> 01:22:50,583 we would definitely go to 885 01:22:50,583 --> 01:22:53,458 tournaments in different places. 886 01:22:54,125 --> 01:22:54,958 But our leagues 887 01:22:54,958 --> 01:22:58,416 weren't regional or national. 888 01:22:59,500 --> 01:23:00,708 Right, it wasn't like that. 889 01:23:00,958 --> 01:23:02,541 We qualified for the 890 01:23:02,541 --> 01:23:03,375 Dallas Cup this last year 891 01:23:03,375 --> 01:23:04,458 with both our boys teams. 892 01:23:04,916 --> 01:23:06,083 And they played people from countries 893 01:23:06,083 --> 01:23:07,166 from all over the world. 894 01:23:07,166 --> 01:23:08,375 Like all over the world came. 895 01:23:09,000 --> 01:23:10,750 Like, you got Japanese people, 896 01:23:11,250 --> 01:23:12,833 speaking Japanese, yelling at each other. 897 01:23:12,833 --> 01:23:13,375 You know what I mean? 898 01:23:13,375 --> 01:23:13,583 Yeah. 899 01:23:13,708 --> 01:23:14,708 It was a really cool 900 01:23:14,708 --> 01:23:15,583 experience for everybody. 901 01:23:15,916 --> 01:23:17,458 But that kind of stuff, I 902 01:23:17,458 --> 01:23:18,541 don't think that existed 903 01:23:19,291 --> 01:23:20,833 when we were that age. 904 01:23:21,500 --> 01:23:22,458 I just, you know. 905 01:23:22,875 --> 01:23:25,458 And I've told you before too, 906 01:23:26,125 --> 01:23:28,208 that they were playing at a higher level. 907 01:23:28,208 --> 01:23:29,125 I played for 13 years, 908 01:23:29,125 --> 01:23:29,458 but they were playing 909 01:23:29,500 --> 01:23:31,166 at a higher level than I ever played at. 910 01:23:31,958 --> 01:23:32,083 Yeah. 911 01:23:32,125 --> 01:23:32,375 You know. 912 01:23:32,958 --> 01:23:35,041 Yeah, and maybe it's just where we live 913 01:23:35,041 --> 01:23:36,750 and that wasn't, I don't know, or just 914 01:23:36,750 --> 01:23:37,500 things have changed. 915 01:23:37,500 --> 01:23:38,708 I mean, we are not-- 916 01:23:39,333 --> 01:23:40,166 We do live in one of 917 01:23:40,166 --> 01:23:41,041 the hot spots though too. 918 01:23:41,083 --> 01:23:41,375 We do. 919 01:23:41,416 --> 01:23:41,750 Right? 920 01:23:42,500 --> 01:23:44,000 Yes, Dallas is one of the hot spots. 921 01:23:44,333 --> 01:23:45,041 Dallas, Kansas City 922 01:23:45,041 --> 01:23:45,958 and Southern California 923 01:23:45,958 --> 01:23:47,166 are the hot spots for US soccer. 924 01:23:47,375 --> 01:23:47,666 Exactly. 925 01:23:48,125 --> 01:23:49,500 So maybe that's part of it. 926 01:23:49,500 --> 01:23:49,708 Yeah. 927 01:23:50,375 --> 01:23:52,083 I think Texas in general 928 01:23:52,083 --> 01:23:53,666 though is a hot spot for sports. 929 01:23:54,166 --> 01:23:55,083 Because you hear about, 930 01:23:55,625 --> 01:23:57,083 you know, football is, 931 01:23:58,166 --> 01:24:00,125 I think football is even, oh, baseball. 932 01:24:00,583 --> 01:24:01,291 I think both of those are 933 01:24:01,291 --> 01:24:02,166 more insane than soccer. 934 01:24:02,541 --> 01:24:02,791 Yeah. 935 01:24:03,458 --> 01:24:05,791 I, the things that I hear, like, 936 01:24:06,750 --> 01:24:07,500 baseball will have a 937 01:24:07,500 --> 01:24:08,875 tournament that literally 938 01:24:08,875 --> 01:24:09,875 you'll still be playing a 939 01:24:09,875 --> 01:24:12,583 game at nine or 10 o'clock PM 940 01:24:12,583 --> 01:24:13,666 on a Sunday night before 941 01:24:13,666 --> 01:24:14,625 the kid has to go to school 942 01:24:14,625 --> 01:24:15,083 on a Monday. 943 01:24:15,791 --> 01:24:16,000 Yeah. 944 01:24:17,208 --> 01:24:17,666 Yeah, baseball is 945 01:24:17,666 --> 01:24:18,791 pretty insane right here. 946 01:24:18,833 --> 01:24:19,083 Yeah. 947 01:24:20,000 --> 01:24:21,166 That is a world we don't touch. 948 01:24:21,458 --> 01:24:21,875 Yeah. 949 01:24:21,916 --> 01:24:22,333 Which is crazy. 950 01:24:22,750 --> 01:24:25,083 So yeah, DM us if, you 951 01:24:25,083 --> 01:24:26,416 know, you're a baseball parent 952 01:24:26,708 --> 01:24:28,333 and, you know, what we say about soccer 953 01:24:28,333 --> 01:24:29,750 is resonating with you and you're like, 954 01:24:29,750 --> 01:24:30,833 oh yeah, you guys are just weak. 955 01:24:31,750 --> 01:24:33,541 You wanna know what I have to deal with? 956 01:24:33,541 --> 01:24:34,291 I mean, I'm sure everyone, 957 01:24:34,541 --> 01:24:35,583 if you get to a certain level 958 01:24:35,583 --> 01:24:36,958 and I'm not trying to harp on that, 959 01:24:36,958 --> 01:24:38,916 but I mean, like, our 960 01:24:38,916 --> 01:24:40,000 kids started at rec. 961 01:24:40,500 --> 01:24:42,000 So I know rec doesn't do this. 962 01:24:42,500 --> 01:24:43,333 I know, they, yeah, exactly. 963 01:24:43,750 --> 01:24:45,583 We've graduated to the leagues, you know, 964 01:24:45,583 --> 01:24:48,750 a long time ago, but yeah, 965 01:24:48,750 --> 01:24:49,458 you get to a certain level, 966 01:24:49,458 --> 01:24:50,000 there's all those, 967 01:24:50,000 --> 01:24:50,958 there's those expectations. 968 01:24:51,500 --> 01:24:53,458 And I mean, like, the 969 01:24:53,458 --> 01:24:55,250 coaches, it's their job. 970 01:24:56,000 --> 01:24:58,000 You know, the coach that I had, 971 01:24:58,000 --> 01:24:58,958 he had a whole other job, 972 01:24:58,958 --> 01:24:59,958 he just did that for the fun. 973 01:25:00,000 --> 01:25:00,416 Yeah, yeah. 974 01:25:00,416 --> 01:25:00,833 You know what I mean? 975 01:25:01,125 --> 01:25:01,500 For sure. 976 01:25:01,541 --> 01:25:02,708 These are their jobs. 977 01:25:03,291 --> 01:25:04,291 He's told the parents, like, 978 01:25:04,291 --> 01:25:05,583 I don't get close to the kids 979 01:25:05,583 --> 01:25:08,708 because it's my job to find, you know, 980 01:25:09,125 --> 01:25:10,708 X number of pro 981 01:25:10,708 --> 01:25:12,625 players from this age group. 982 01:25:13,125 --> 01:25:14,000 If I don't find that 983 01:25:14,000 --> 01:25:15,458 number of pro players 984 01:25:15,583 --> 01:25:16,833 from this age group as we 985 01:25:16,833 --> 01:25:18,708 develop them, I lose my job. 986 01:25:19,333 --> 01:25:20,666 So that's his job, is to 987 01:25:20,666 --> 01:25:22,000 find kids that are really good 988 01:25:22,833 --> 01:25:24,000 and then move on. 989 01:25:24,500 --> 01:25:25,875 And when both of our 990 01:25:25,875 --> 01:25:27,458 kids are on that top team, 991 01:25:28,125 --> 01:25:30,041 or top two teams, one's on that top team, 992 01:25:30,041 --> 01:25:31,958 the other one's on the second team, 993 01:25:31,958 --> 01:25:33,500 but they actually have a better record 994 01:25:33,500 --> 01:25:34,666 and ranked higher than the top team. 995 01:25:35,333 --> 01:25:36,208 So we'll take that as 996 01:25:36,208 --> 01:25:38,041 a win for this year. 997 01:25:38,041 --> 01:25:39,083 I mean, maybe last year was different, 998 01:25:39,625 --> 01:25:41,291 but, you know, there's 999 01:25:41,291 --> 01:25:42,166 a lot of pressure there 1000 01:25:42,500 --> 01:25:43,208 on these kids. 1001 01:25:44,041 --> 01:25:46,416 And that is different 1002 01:25:46,416 --> 01:25:47,416 because our oldest and I, 1003 01:25:47,416 --> 01:25:48,250 we talked about it on 1004 01:25:48,250 --> 01:25:50,583 that way out to a game 1005 01:25:50,750 --> 01:25:52,166 just this last week where he's like, 1006 01:25:52,458 --> 01:25:52,875 you don't understand, 1007 01:25:53,125 --> 01:25:54,000 we're under way more pressure 1008 01:25:54,125 --> 01:25:55,250 than you ever had to deal with. 1009 01:25:56,041 --> 01:25:57,791 And I said, that's true and untrue. 1010 01:25:58,208 --> 01:25:58,625 You know what I mean? 1011 01:25:59,125 --> 01:26:00,250 We dealt with all the 1012 01:26:00,250 --> 01:26:01,416 same social pressures, 1013 01:26:01,416 --> 01:26:02,666 we dealt with all that same stuff, 1014 01:26:03,708 --> 01:26:04,750 to what's right and 1015 01:26:04,750 --> 01:26:06,916 wrong, and we had to perform, 1016 01:26:06,916 --> 01:26:07,500 and all that kind of stuff. 1017 01:26:07,833 --> 01:26:09,875 But I do agree with social 1018 01:26:09,875 --> 01:26:11,333 media and all that kind of stuff. 1019 01:26:11,333 --> 01:26:13,375 I mean, that does add just an extra-- 1020 01:26:13,625 --> 01:26:14,875 It does. Bit to it, you know? 1021 01:26:15,000 --> 01:26:15,333 It does. 1022 01:26:15,791 --> 01:26:16,750 Getting good grades and 1023 01:26:16,750 --> 01:26:17,750 trying to get into college 1024 01:26:17,750 --> 01:26:18,875 and having a good resume, 1025 01:26:19,333 --> 01:26:20,958 that existed 25 years ago. 1026 01:26:21,208 --> 01:26:22,416 It did. Or whatever it was. 1027 01:26:22,666 --> 01:26:23,333 30 years ago. 1028 01:26:23,583 --> 01:26:24,958 You know what I mean? That existed then. 1029 01:26:25,000 --> 01:26:25,208 Yeah. 1030 01:26:25,416 --> 01:26:26,833 So that's not a new, 1031 01:26:27,416 --> 01:26:28,458 when we're telling him like, 1032 01:26:28,458 --> 01:26:29,541 hey, you need to start doing this, 1033 01:26:29,541 --> 01:26:30,458 you need to start doing this. 1034 01:26:31,125 --> 01:26:31,625 That's not new. 1035 01:26:32,000 --> 01:26:32,500 That's not new. 1036 01:26:32,875 --> 01:26:35,708 I think that getting into college though 1037 01:26:35,708 --> 01:26:37,791 is way more difficult and 1038 01:26:37,791 --> 01:26:40,083 complicated today than it was 1039 01:26:40,583 --> 01:26:41,833 when we were in high school. 1040 01:26:41,833 --> 01:26:44,000 I mean, like, I took my 1041 01:26:44,000 --> 01:26:46,708 ACTs, I applied to a college, 1042 01:26:46,708 --> 01:26:49,041 and I like, literally stapled 1043 01:26:49,041 --> 01:26:50,125 the check to the application 1044 01:26:50,375 --> 01:26:51,000 because you needed to 1045 01:26:51,000 --> 01:26:52,791 send in your application fee. 1046 01:26:54,041 --> 01:26:54,500 And that was it. 1047 01:26:55,083 --> 01:26:57,083 And you sent some of those. 1048 01:26:57,583 --> 01:26:58,083 That was it. 1049 01:26:58,416 --> 01:27:01,041 And like, it wasn't, oh, and what 1050 01:27:01,041 --> 01:27:02,666 activities are you in, 1051 01:27:02,666 --> 01:27:03,333 and what are the social 1052 01:27:03,333 --> 01:27:04,583 services that you've done, 1053 01:27:04,583 --> 01:27:07,208 and what are all of the extracurriculars? 1054 01:27:07,208 --> 01:27:08,875 Like, that wasn't a thing back then. 1055 01:27:11,458 --> 01:27:13,041 It was just the application, 1056 01:27:13,250 --> 01:27:13,833 and are your grades 1057 01:27:13,833 --> 01:27:14,625 good enough to get in, 1058 01:27:14,625 --> 01:27:15,625 and are you willing to pay? 1059 01:27:16,000 --> 01:27:17,375 (laughing) 1060 01:27:18,375 --> 01:27:19,041 Whereas now, there's 1061 01:27:19,041 --> 01:27:22,250 actually a full-blown career 1062 01:27:22,500 --> 01:27:24,333 for people who are helping parents 1063 01:27:24,541 --> 01:27:26,416 through the college application process. 1064 01:27:27,208 --> 01:27:28,666 That's their job, and you can 1065 01:27:28,666 --> 01:27:30,583 hire these people for a fee. 1066 01:27:30,875 --> 01:27:31,125 Yeah. 1067 01:27:31,791 --> 01:27:33,583 It's, I hear parents 1068 01:27:33,583 --> 01:27:34,708 talk about, it's insane. 1069 01:27:34,750 --> 01:27:35,875 Yeah, because as part of it, like, 1070 01:27:35,875 --> 01:27:37,666 we need to talk through, like, 1071 01:27:38,041 --> 01:27:40,375 if you want to play sports in college, 1072 01:27:40,916 --> 01:27:41,291 like, you have to 1073 01:27:41,291 --> 01:27:43,166 have, there's a whole layer 1074 01:27:43,416 --> 01:27:45,000 of promoting yourself. 1075 01:27:45,083 --> 01:27:45,333 Yes. 1076 01:27:45,916 --> 01:27:46,625 When we were younger, 1077 01:27:46,916 --> 01:27:47,958 like, there was no social media 1078 01:27:47,958 --> 01:27:49,083 to be like, oh, hey, 1079 01:27:49,083 --> 01:27:50,166 here's all my highlights. 1080 01:27:50,166 --> 01:27:50,458 You know, you 1081 01:27:50,458 --> 01:27:51,708 actually had to make a tape. 1082 01:27:51,708 --> 01:27:52,833 If you wanted to send somebody, 1083 01:27:53,125 --> 01:27:54,500 something that had no idea who you were, 1084 01:27:54,833 --> 01:27:55,541 because I think one of 1085 01:27:55,541 --> 01:27:57,000 the main ways you got on, 1086 01:27:57,208 --> 01:27:58,375 you got on a list of who the 1087 01:27:58,375 --> 01:27:59,583 best players in the state were, 1088 01:27:59,583 --> 01:28:00,333 and that list would 1089 01:28:00,333 --> 01:28:01,500 get further, you know, 1090 01:28:01,500 --> 01:28:02,375 kind of refined to the 1091 01:28:02,375 --> 01:28:03,291 best players in the country. 1092 01:28:03,666 --> 01:28:03,875 Yeah. 1093 01:28:03,958 --> 01:28:04,333 You know what I mean? 1094 01:28:04,333 --> 01:28:05,708 So if you were on any of those lists, 1095 01:28:05,708 --> 01:28:07,791 you were a nobody at that point in time. 1096 01:28:08,166 --> 01:28:09,416 It was very hard to get all, you know, 1097 01:28:09,583 --> 01:28:10,416 for people to find you. 1098 01:28:10,750 --> 01:28:12,458 But now, I mean, you 1099 01:28:12,458 --> 01:28:13,541 think about like, music stars, 1100 01:28:13,833 --> 01:28:15,291 you know, they get found on YouTube. 1101 01:28:15,791 --> 01:28:18,458 You know, I mean, that didn't 1102 01:28:18,458 --> 01:28:19,791 happen when we were younger, 1103 01:28:20,041 --> 01:28:20,708 because they didn't 1104 01:28:20,708 --> 01:28:21,416 have that availability. 1105 01:28:21,833 --> 01:28:23,000 So I mean, I think that's 1106 01:28:23,000 --> 01:28:24,666 something that makes me nervous 1107 01:28:25,291 --> 01:28:26,458 since that's new to us. 1108 01:28:27,583 --> 01:28:28,875 I don't want to drop that ball either. 1109 01:28:29,458 --> 01:28:31,458 Like, oh, I'm sorry, oldest son. 1110 01:28:31,458 --> 01:28:32,500 We did not know that we 1111 01:28:32,500 --> 01:28:34,125 needed to do all this stuff for you 1112 01:28:34,125 --> 01:28:34,958 and get you out there. 1113 01:28:34,958 --> 01:28:35,375 You have to have your 1114 01:28:35,375 --> 01:28:36,583 own Instagram account 1115 01:28:36,583 --> 01:28:37,291 and all this kind of, 1116 01:28:37,291 --> 01:28:37,708 you know what I mean? 1117 01:28:38,708 --> 01:28:39,375 And I don't want to 1118 01:28:39,375 --> 01:28:40,416 drop that ball for you. 1119 01:28:40,416 --> 01:28:40,666 Exactly. 1120 01:28:40,916 --> 01:28:41,416 Because I don't know, 1121 01:28:42,000 --> 01:28:43,000 the worst thing is not 1122 01:28:43,000 --> 01:28:43,833 knowing what you don't know. 1123 01:28:43,875 --> 01:28:44,666 That's exactly right. 1124 01:28:44,833 --> 01:28:46,000 Yeah, you don't know what you don't know. 1125 01:28:46,250 --> 01:28:47,625 And I always feel bad. 1126 01:28:48,125 --> 01:28:51,500 Like, I feel like I'm much more informed 1127 01:28:51,500 --> 01:28:52,458 by the time our second 1128 01:28:52,458 --> 01:28:53,791 one goes through this. 1129 01:28:54,250 --> 01:28:55,041 Because like the first 1130 01:28:55,041 --> 01:28:56,541 one, I'm like, I didn't know. 1131 01:28:57,041 --> 01:28:58,958 And this could be a gender thing too. 1132 01:28:59,416 --> 01:29:01,041 Like, our daughter is, 1133 01:29:01,500 --> 01:29:02,875 she explains a lot more. 1134 01:29:02,875 --> 01:29:04,625 She talks a lot more in general, right? 1135 01:29:05,166 --> 01:29:07,750 Like, just, I think 1136 01:29:07,750 --> 01:29:08,583 that is a gender thing, 1137 01:29:08,625 --> 01:29:10,541 especially at this type of, this age, 1138 01:29:10,750 --> 01:29:12,041 this pre-teen, early teenage. 1139 01:29:13,375 --> 01:29:16,416 So I was like, oh, that's what that is. 1140 01:29:16,416 --> 01:29:17,250 I had no idea that 1141 01:29:17,250 --> 01:29:18,208 went on at that school. 1142 01:29:19,250 --> 01:29:20,208 Would have been nice to know 1143 01:29:20,208 --> 01:29:20,833 when our third oldest 1144 01:29:20,833 --> 01:29:22,500 was doing it, but, oh well. 1145 01:29:23,291 --> 01:29:24,083 So I feel like I'm 1146 01:29:24,083 --> 01:29:25,333 behind the times because 1147 01:29:27,041 --> 01:29:28,791 I just don't know what I don't know. 1148 01:29:29,083 --> 01:29:29,958 Yeah, yeah. 1149 01:29:30,083 --> 01:29:31,000 And it's not like we've got all the time. 1150 01:29:31,000 --> 01:29:32,375 And he doesn't know what he doesn't know. 1151 01:29:32,416 --> 01:29:33,041 And we don't have time 1152 01:29:33,041 --> 01:29:33,958 to sit and just like, 1153 01:29:33,958 --> 01:29:36,208 try to slow down and figure it out. 1154 01:29:36,291 --> 01:29:36,583 Right. 1155 01:29:36,625 --> 01:29:39,375 Right, I mean, the second you stop 1156 01:29:39,375 --> 01:29:40,583 and think about a moment you're in, 1157 01:29:41,083 --> 01:29:41,958 we're already 15 1158 01:29:41,958 --> 01:29:43,166 minutes past that moment. 1159 01:29:43,166 --> 01:29:43,666 You know what I mean? 1160 01:29:43,666 --> 01:29:44,583 That's just the speed of 1161 01:29:44,583 --> 01:29:46,875 which our lives are moving at. 1162 01:29:46,875 --> 01:29:47,916 That's why a weekend, 1163 01:29:48,166 --> 01:29:49,500 or just a long weekend 1164 01:29:49,625 --> 01:29:50,583 getaway like this is 1165 01:29:50,583 --> 01:29:52,875 just rare and amazing. 1166 01:29:54,000 --> 01:29:54,208 Amazing. 1167 01:29:55,125 --> 01:29:56,166 And we're part of the generation, 1168 01:29:56,166 --> 01:29:57,666 we talked about this at breakfast too. 1169 01:29:58,500 --> 01:30:00,208 Like, we're watching other, 1170 01:30:00,208 --> 01:30:01,375 you can see other couples, 1171 01:30:01,625 --> 01:30:02,583 you know, that are in 1172 01:30:02,583 --> 01:30:03,458 cabandas or whatever, 1173 01:30:03,458 --> 01:30:04,708 and you're like, they've been on their 1174 01:30:04,708 --> 01:30:05,416 phone the whole time. 1175 01:30:05,708 --> 01:30:07,833 Like, they didn't do anything 1176 01:30:07,833 --> 01:30:08,875 other than sit on their phone, 1177 01:30:08,875 --> 01:30:11,291 one of the guys had headphones on for 1178 01:30:11,291 --> 01:30:12,333 like four hours straight. 1179 01:30:12,625 --> 01:30:13,666 Like, we didn't even see them, 1180 01:30:13,666 --> 01:30:14,708 we were out at the pool for 1181 01:30:14,708 --> 01:30:16,291 a good eight hours yesterday. 1182 01:30:17,500 --> 01:30:18,666 I didn't see them have one conversation. 1183 01:30:19,500 --> 01:30:21,083 You know, whereas we 1184 01:30:21,083 --> 01:30:22,291 checked our phones once or twice 1185 01:30:22,291 --> 01:30:24,291 to make sure schedules 1186 01:30:24,291 --> 01:30:25,541 didn't change at home. 1187 01:30:26,083 --> 01:30:26,833 That was about it. 1188 01:30:27,500 --> 01:30:27,958 Put it down. 1189 01:30:28,208 --> 01:30:28,500 Yeah. 1190 01:30:28,958 --> 01:30:31,166 And so it was just time to connect. 1191 01:30:32,208 --> 01:30:33,375 Yeah, yeah. 1192 01:30:33,416 --> 01:30:34,625 I love talking to you about just, 1193 01:30:35,250 --> 01:30:35,958 Yeah, that's right. 1194 01:30:35,958 --> 01:30:36,750 Sometimes just random stuff. 1195 01:30:36,791 --> 01:30:37,500 Yeah, I don't know if they 1196 01:30:37,500 --> 01:30:38,708 were married or not, you know. 1197 01:30:39,291 --> 01:30:40,333 They may or may not have been, 1198 01:30:40,500 --> 01:30:41,041 but I mean, that's 1199 01:30:41,041 --> 01:30:41,958 just, you know, we always, 1200 01:30:42,791 --> 01:30:44,875 we say we're lucky, and you know, 1201 01:30:44,875 --> 01:30:45,875 it's good to look back at 1202 01:30:45,875 --> 01:30:47,291 our 18th anniversary or two, 1203 01:30:47,291 --> 01:30:48,416 is we're lucky to marry 1204 01:30:48,416 --> 01:30:49,916 and find the right person. 1205 01:30:49,958 --> 01:30:50,375 Right. 1206 01:30:50,416 --> 01:30:51,666 You know, our best friends here, 1207 01:30:53,000 --> 01:30:53,875 because, you know, we 1208 01:30:53,875 --> 01:30:54,500 can't sit down there 1209 01:30:54,500 --> 01:30:56,291 and we talk for eight hours straight. 1210 01:30:56,333 --> 01:30:56,500 Right. 1211 01:30:56,791 --> 01:30:57,791 You know, it's not like we're like, 1212 01:30:58,458 --> 01:31:00,000 we don't sit down on the cabandas, 1213 01:31:00,000 --> 01:31:01,708 look out at the, you know, the ocean, 1214 01:31:01,958 --> 01:31:03,125 the pool and then the 1215 01:31:03,125 --> 01:31:06,250 ocean, we're like, so. 1216 01:31:06,291 --> 01:31:08,375 So, what are we talking about? 1217 01:31:10,083 --> 01:31:10,708 (laughs) You know what I mean? 1218 01:31:11,000 --> 01:31:11,208 Yeah. 1219 01:31:11,625 --> 01:31:12,833 It's just like, all right, well let's, 1220 01:31:13,708 --> 01:31:14,541 it's time to catch up. 1221 01:31:14,791 --> 01:31:14,875 Yeah. 1222 01:31:14,916 --> 01:31:15,291 Because we don't even 1223 01:31:15,291 --> 01:31:16,500 have time to talk like that. 1224 01:31:16,500 --> 01:31:17,500 No, no. 1225 01:31:17,541 --> 01:31:18,166 So, I mean, we talked 1226 01:31:18,166 --> 01:31:19,375 about each one of the kids 1227 01:31:19,500 --> 01:31:21,666 individually for hours on end. 1228 01:31:21,791 --> 01:31:22,000 Yeah. 1229 01:31:22,166 --> 01:31:23,625 Just like, what's going on with this kid? 1230 01:31:23,833 --> 01:31:24,500 What are our concerns? 1231 01:31:24,875 --> 01:31:26,416 What are the things we need to focus on? 1232 01:31:26,458 --> 01:31:26,625 Yep. 1233 01:31:26,916 --> 01:31:28,458 You know, not like a deep dive, like, 1234 01:31:28,458 --> 01:31:29,000 let's write this 1235 01:31:29,000 --> 01:31:29,791 down, but just making sure 1236 01:31:29,791 --> 01:31:30,708 we're on the same page. 1237 01:31:30,750 --> 01:31:32,666 Right, right, because each kid needs 1238 01:31:32,666 --> 01:31:33,333 something different. 1239 01:31:34,166 --> 01:31:35,000 They're each at a 1240 01:31:35,000 --> 01:31:36,166 slightly different phase. 1241 01:31:36,875 --> 01:31:37,541 And they each get something 1242 01:31:37,541 --> 01:31:38,708 different from each of us. 1243 01:31:38,791 --> 01:31:39,208 Yes. 1244 01:31:39,208 --> 01:31:40,000 So, it's like, well, what's 1245 01:31:40,000 --> 01:31:40,833 the role you're gonna play 1246 01:31:40,833 --> 01:31:42,208 and what's the role I'm gonna play? 1247 01:31:42,208 --> 01:31:42,750 So that we're making 1248 01:31:42,750 --> 01:31:44,375 sure we're coming at this 1249 01:31:44,375 --> 01:31:47,333 from the same, you know, end point. 1250 01:31:47,500 --> 01:31:47,750 Right. 1251 01:31:47,750 --> 01:31:48,541 From our own directions. 1252 01:31:49,000 --> 01:31:49,958 That's exactly right. 1253 01:31:50,000 --> 01:31:50,208 Yeah. 1254 01:31:51,625 --> 01:31:52,291 But the other thing that 1255 01:31:52,291 --> 01:31:53,083 I thought was really cool 1256 01:31:53,083 --> 01:31:53,708 is that we also talked 1257 01:31:53,708 --> 01:31:55,458 about us and our lives 1258 01:31:55,458 --> 01:31:57,166 and not just our kids, 1259 01:31:57,166 --> 01:31:58,833 because there will come a day 1260 01:31:58,958 --> 01:32:00,958 when they're off married, 1261 01:32:00,958 --> 01:32:02,708 having their own families and everything. 1262 01:32:03,000 --> 01:32:03,208 Yeah. 1263 01:32:04,000 --> 01:32:05,083 You know, they won't require that 1264 01:32:05,083 --> 01:32:06,500 hour-long discussion 1265 01:32:06,833 --> 01:32:07,750 about each one. 1266 01:32:08,041 --> 01:32:08,250 Yeah. 1267 01:32:08,541 --> 01:32:09,916 But it's like, it just 1268 01:32:09,916 --> 01:32:11,000 feels so good to be like, 1269 01:32:11,500 --> 01:32:12,291 we'll still talk. 1270 01:32:12,500 --> 01:32:14,958 Like, we still have plenty to talk about 1271 01:32:15,416 --> 01:32:16,375 outside of just them. 1272 01:32:16,583 --> 01:32:17,916 Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. 1273 01:32:17,916 --> 01:32:20,125 No, and anybody that knows me, 1274 01:32:20,416 --> 01:32:22,583 I wear my emotions on my sleeve 1275 01:32:23,208 --> 01:32:25,500 and I enjoy having those 1276 01:32:25,500 --> 01:32:26,750 conversations of just like, 1277 01:32:26,750 --> 01:32:27,958 hey, so let's just touch base. 1278 01:32:27,958 --> 01:32:28,666 Where are we at? 1279 01:32:28,666 --> 01:32:29,250 What about this? 1280 01:32:29,250 --> 01:32:29,791 What about this? 1281 01:32:30,000 --> 01:32:31,625 Or what can I be doing better? 1282 01:32:31,916 --> 01:32:33,541 You know, and, you know, 1283 01:32:33,666 --> 01:32:34,916 since I'm asking here's something, 1284 01:32:34,916 --> 01:32:35,750 maybe you can do better. 1285 01:32:36,916 --> 01:32:36,958 (laughs) 1286 01:32:36,958 --> 01:32:37,333 You know what I mean? 1287 01:32:38,083 --> 01:32:40,125 And, you know, not in those terms, 1288 01:32:40,500 --> 01:32:43,333 but in a way of just 1289 01:32:43,333 --> 01:32:44,375 making sure that, you know, 1290 01:32:44,375 --> 01:32:45,000 we're touching base 1291 01:32:45,000 --> 01:32:45,916 with each other and like, 1292 01:32:45,916 --> 01:32:48,166 hey, this is frustrating me. 1293 01:32:48,166 --> 01:32:49,666 Or maybe this is something we can do. 1294 01:32:50,083 --> 01:32:51,291 And we both, I think, 1295 01:32:51,291 --> 01:32:52,250 we gave each other things 1296 01:32:52,250 --> 01:32:53,000 to think about. 1297 01:32:53,333 --> 01:32:53,541 Exactly. 1298 01:32:53,583 --> 01:32:55,166 You know, and I don't 1299 01:32:55,166 --> 01:32:55,750 think either one of them 1300 01:32:55,750 --> 01:32:56,791 were things we didn't know. 1301 01:32:56,791 --> 01:32:58,166 It's just a reminder of like, hey, 1302 01:32:58,666 --> 01:33:00,083 these are both points 1303 01:33:00,083 --> 01:33:02,166 that we both struggle with 1304 01:33:02,166 --> 01:33:03,166 that would help the other person. 1305 01:33:03,708 --> 01:33:04,625 And it's just a reminder, 1306 01:33:04,625 --> 01:33:05,083 like, hey, we should 1307 01:33:05,083 --> 01:33:06,208 keep that top of mind 1308 01:33:06,333 --> 01:33:08,875 to try to do that for one another. 1309 01:33:09,208 --> 01:33:10,083 That's exactly right. 1310 01:33:10,083 --> 01:33:11,416 You know, because it is hard 1311 01:33:11,416 --> 01:33:11,958 when you're running a 1312 01:33:11,958 --> 01:33:12,666 million miles an hour 1313 01:33:12,666 --> 01:33:14,000 and I know everybody else is there too. 1314 01:33:14,583 --> 01:33:15,958 It's hard to be like, 1315 01:33:18,833 --> 01:33:20,750 you know, I don't 1316 01:33:20,750 --> 01:33:22,125 wanna say not looking out 1317 01:33:22,125 --> 01:33:23,500 for your best interest or not looking out 1318 01:33:23,500 --> 01:33:24,833 for what you want and your feelings and 1319 01:33:24,833 --> 01:33:25,375 all that kind of stuff 1320 01:33:26,375 --> 01:33:27,916 because that's always the default. 1321 01:33:28,708 --> 01:33:32,750 But there are times when maybe the edges 1322 01:33:32,958 --> 01:33:34,916 move a little bit and I'm like, 1323 01:33:34,916 --> 01:33:35,666 oh, I didn't realize I 1324 01:33:35,666 --> 01:33:36,416 was stepping on your toe. 1325 01:33:36,625 --> 01:33:37,500 Yeah, yeah. 1326 01:33:37,500 --> 01:33:38,166 You know what I mean? 1327 01:33:38,166 --> 01:33:40,916 Yeah, especially in this time of life, 1328 01:33:40,916 --> 01:33:41,625 I think it's really 1329 01:33:41,625 --> 01:33:43,041 important to have those checkpoints 1330 01:33:43,291 --> 01:33:45,625 because you're moving so fast 1331 01:33:46,291 --> 01:33:49,125 that you don't, you miss 1332 01:33:49,125 --> 01:33:50,333 the little things, right? 1333 01:33:50,833 --> 01:33:52,208 And the things of like, oh yeah, 1334 01:33:52,208 --> 01:33:53,208 I know we've talked about that. 1335 01:33:53,208 --> 01:33:54,000 I'm sorry, I really haven't 1336 01:33:54,000 --> 01:33:55,916 been working on that thing. 1337 01:33:55,916 --> 01:33:57,750 You know, that's important 1338 01:33:57,958 --> 01:33:58,583 because I'm just 1339 01:33:58,583 --> 01:34:00,250 juggling everything else. 1340 01:34:00,250 --> 01:34:01,750 And I'm trying not to 1341 01:34:01,750 --> 01:34:03,833 drop a ball and, you know. 1342 01:34:03,875 --> 01:34:04,541 Because like with date nights, 1343 01:34:04,916 --> 01:34:05,666 we used to be really 1344 01:34:05,666 --> 01:34:06,291 good about date nights, 1345 01:34:06,291 --> 01:34:07,041 but this last year we have 1346 01:34:07,041 --> 01:34:07,958 not been good about date nights 1347 01:34:08,333 --> 01:34:09,750 for whatever reason it's been. 1348 01:34:09,750 --> 01:34:11,083 That's one reason why this was so nice. 1349 01:34:11,083 --> 01:34:12,708 It was like an extended date night. 1350 01:34:12,875 --> 01:34:13,583 Extended date night. 1351 01:34:13,625 --> 01:34:15,166 Yeah, to get reconnected. 1352 01:34:15,166 --> 01:34:15,833 Yeah, yeah. 1353 01:34:16,208 --> 01:34:17,125 I think this year's been 1354 01:34:17,125 --> 01:34:18,625 a little bit awkward too 1355 01:34:18,708 --> 01:34:22,708 because I couldn't go anywhere. 1356 01:34:22,708 --> 01:34:24,916 Like, it was awkward for me to go places 1357 01:34:25,000 --> 01:34:27,208 for quite a few months out of the year. 1358 01:34:27,250 --> 01:34:28,416 Yeah, the first six months were, 1359 01:34:29,041 --> 01:34:30,208 four months for sure. 1360 01:34:30,208 --> 01:34:31,083 Four months, you know? 1361 01:34:31,875 --> 01:34:32,041 Yeah. 1362 01:34:32,041 --> 01:34:32,666 We forget that was 1363 01:34:32,666 --> 01:34:33,750 earlier this year then. 1364 01:34:34,291 --> 01:34:34,500 I know. 1365 01:34:35,500 --> 01:34:37,333 I was doing everything. 1366 01:34:37,708 --> 01:34:37,958 Everything. 1367 01:34:38,000 --> 01:34:38,625 Because you couldn't do 1368 01:34:38,625 --> 01:34:40,166 anything for yourself. 1369 01:34:40,416 --> 01:34:42,291 You know, like showering, 1370 01:34:42,291 --> 01:34:43,291 getting dressed, lotion. 1371 01:34:43,291 --> 01:34:43,625 You know what I mean? 1372 01:34:43,625 --> 01:34:44,083 Like it was crazy. 1373 01:34:44,916 --> 01:34:45,250 It's insane. 1374 01:34:45,583 --> 01:34:47,625 And it's not, like, 1375 01:34:48,541 --> 01:34:49,083 obviously it's a 1376 01:34:49,083 --> 01:34:50,958 significant part of my life 1377 01:34:51,000 --> 01:34:53,041 because it was a tough road. 1378 01:34:54,041 --> 01:34:54,625 I'll be honest, that 1379 01:34:54,625 --> 01:34:55,625 was a way tougher road 1380 01:34:55,625 --> 01:34:57,833 than I thought it would ever be. 1381 01:34:57,958 --> 01:34:58,291 Really? 1382 01:34:58,291 --> 01:35:00,333 I've never been ill. 1383 01:35:00,875 --> 01:35:03,166 I've never had a physical 1384 01:35:03,166 --> 01:35:04,583 thing that I've had to overcome. 1385 01:35:05,500 --> 01:35:05,750 Ever. 1386 01:35:06,333 --> 01:35:07,208 I mean, I had surgery 1387 01:35:07,208 --> 01:35:08,333 on my feet when I was 18. 1388 01:35:09,291 --> 01:35:09,500 Okay? 1389 01:35:09,958 --> 01:35:10,916 You mean like a major, 1390 01:35:11,291 --> 01:35:12,333 you've been sick before. 1391 01:35:12,333 --> 01:35:13,125 I've been sick, but 1392 01:35:13,125 --> 01:35:15,625 even then, even being sick. 1393 01:35:15,625 --> 01:35:17,500 I mean, I get migraine headaches. 1394 01:35:17,833 --> 01:35:18,250 I was gonna say the 1395 01:35:18,250 --> 01:35:20,458 migraines are something that, 1396 01:35:20,750 --> 01:35:22,000 it's gotta be similar to that. 1397 01:35:22,041 --> 01:35:25,625 But it's a max 24 hour thing, 1398 01:35:25,625 --> 01:35:27,250 like on the worst ones, right? 1399 01:35:28,083 --> 01:35:29,791 I've never had something that it's like, 1400 01:35:30,166 --> 01:35:33,625 oh crap, this is pretty bad. 1401 01:35:33,833 --> 01:35:34,708 I mean, it's not life 1402 01:35:34,708 --> 01:35:36,291 threatening or anything like that, 1403 01:35:36,708 --> 01:35:38,375 but I was not expecting 1404 01:35:38,375 --> 01:35:40,083 the road to be so long. 1405 01:35:40,250 --> 01:35:40,500 Yeah. 1406 01:35:40,875 --> 01:35:41,791 And it felt long. 1407 01:35:41,791 --> 01:35:43,375 I remember sitting in bed and being like, 1408 01:35:43,375 --> 01:35:44,666 will I ever get to sleep 1409 01:35:44,666 --> 01:35:45,833 without my brace again? 1410 01:35:45,833 --> 01:35:47,541 Like, will I ever be able to bend my knee 1411 01:35:47,958 --> 01:35:49,291 like I like to while I'm sleeping? 1412 01:35:49,583 --> 01:35:50,916 Sleep not on my back. 1413 01:35:50,958 --> 01:35:51,666 Yeah, sleep not on my 1414 01:35:51,666 --> 01:35:52,791 back where all I can do is. 1415 01:35:53,833 --> 01:35:54,000 Yeah. 1416 01:35:54,500 --> 01:35:55,208 I mean, that was awful. 1417 01:35:55,666 --> 01:35:55,916 Yeah. 1418 01:35:56,875 --> 01:35:57,500 There's way worse 1419 01:35:57,500 --> 01:35:58,250 things, way worse things. 1420 01:35:58,291 --> 01:35:59,541 That was a long haul. 1421 01:35:59,958 --> 01:36:01,166 And it just, I wasn't-- 1422 01:36:01,291 --> 01:36:02,000 Comparatively speaking. 1423 01:36:02,208 --> 01:36:03,375 Comparatively for me. 1424 01:36:03,708 --> 01:36:04,666 And again, so many people 1425 01:36:04,666 --> 01:36:05,750 have so many worse things. 1426 01:36:08,083 --> 01:36:09,208 But that one was tough for me. 1427 01:36:09,250 --> 01:36:09,500 Yeah. 1428 01:36:09,875 --> 01:36:10,791 It felt long. 1429 01:36:11,666 --> 01:36:11,833 Yeah. 1430 01:36:12,958 --> 01:36:14,166 I'm sure it felt long for you too. 1431 01:36:15,125 --> 01:36:15,708 No, not really. 1432 01:36:16,541 --> 01:36:18,958 You had to be so busy during that time 1433 01:36:18,958 --> 01:36:20,708 that maybe it flew for you. 1434 01:36:22,208 --> 01:36:22,958 Yeah, I don't know. 1435 01:36:22,958 --> 01:36:23,625 We talked about it a 1436 01:36:23,625 --> 01:36:24,083 little bit yesterday, 1437 01:36:24,500 --> 01:36:26,583 I think, I'm struggling right now, 1438 01:36:26,583 --> 01:36:27,416 a little bit to find the 1439 01:36:27,416 --> 01:36:28,916 focus of my point here, 1440 01:36:28,916 --> 01:36:29,916 but it was just like, we 1441 01:36:29,916 --> 01:36:30,916 talked about yesterday where 1442 01:36:32,500 --> 01:36:34,250 I just click into, okay, 1443 01:36:34,250 --> 01:36:35,250 this is what we have to do now. 1444 01:36:35,250 --> 01:36:35,583 We were talking about 1445 01:36:35,583 --> 01:36:36,500 your migraines at the time. 1446 01:36:36,500 --> 01:36:36,958 Yeah, yeah. 1447 01:36:37,291 --> 01:36:38,000 Right, because it's like, 1448 01:36:38,416 --> 01:36:39,291 we were trying to distinguish 1449 01:36:39,416 --> 01:36:42,041 between the fact that, you know, 1450 01:36:42,041 --> 01:36:43,083 if you know anywhere that gets 1451 01:36:43,083 --> 01:36:44,625 migraines on a regular basis, 1452 01:36:45,208 --> 01:36:46,416 I was trying to tell Megan, like, look, 1453 01:36:46,750 --> 01:36:47,750 I don't get mad at you 1454 01:36:47,750 --> 01:36:48,750 because of the migraine, 1455 01:36:48,750 --> 01:36:49,541 I'm mad at the migraine 1456 01:36:49,541 --> 01:36:51,166 because it's taking you from us. 1457 01:36:52,000 --> 01:36:53,041 And it almost always does it 1458 01:36:53,125 --> 01:36:54,583 at the most in an opportune time. 1459 01:36:54,583 --> 01:36:55,166 Like, you missed half 1460 01:36:55,166 --> 01:36:56,375 your sister's wedding 1461 01:36:56,375 --> 01:36:57,125 because of a migraine, 1462 01:36:57,666 --> 01:36:58,916 you know, on the day of. 1463 01:36:58,916 --> 01:36:59,583 The day of. 1464 01:36:59,625 --> 01:37:00,041 Like when you were 1465 01:37:00,041 --> 01:37:00,916 supposed to do all in-- 1466 01:37:00,958 --> 01:37:02,083 I was supposed to be getting great, yeah. 1467 01:37:02,125 --> 01:37:02,666 You were crying, you 1468 01:37:02,666 --> 01:37:03,375 felt horrible about it, 1469 01:37:03,375 --> 01:37:04,500 but it took you out, and that 1470 01:37:04,500 --> 01:37:07,458 was a worst case scenario one, 1471 01:37:07,458 --> 01:37:08,458 but there were other ones at the house, 1472 01:37:08,458 --> 01:37:08,916 and so we were just 1473 01:37:08,916 --> 01:37:09,708 talking through, like, 1474 01:37:10,333 --> 01:37:11,625 you know, how to be sensitive around that 1475 01:37:11,625 --> 01:37:13,083 from my perspective, where it's like, no, 1476 01:37:13,666 --> 01:37:14,875 I get frustrated at them 1477 01:37:14,875 --> 01:37:16,416 because they take you from us. 1478 01:37:16,916 --> 01:37:18,541 Not because I have to do extra stuff, 1479 01:37:18,541 --> 01:37:19,250 it's just because we don't 1480 01:37:19,250 --> 01:37:20,625 know if that's for an hour 1481 01:37:20,625 --> 01:37:22,250 or if it's for two days. 1482 01:37:22,916 --> 01:37:24,625 Over a two day period or whatever it is. 1483 01:37:25,208 --> 01:37:27,291 But during that conversation, I was like, 1484 01:37:27,541 --> 01:37:28,333 it has nothing to do with 1485 01:37:28,333 --> 01:37:29,125 the fact that it's like, 1486 01:37:29,125 --> 01:37:29,625 oh, I gotta do all 1487 01:37:29,625 --> 01:37:30,458 this kind of stuff now. 1488 01:37:30,833 --> 01:37:31,625 Because it's just, I click 1489 01:37:31,625 --> 01:37:32,958 in, like, okay, mom's out. 1490 01:37:34,000 --> 01:37:34,875 Mom's out on this. 1491 01:37:34,916 --> 01:37:35,791 We just gotta keep going. 1492 01:37:36,166 --> 01:37:36,750 Like, okay, I'm gonna 1493 01:37:36,750 --> 01:37:37,375 do this, this, this, 1494 01:37:37,375 --> 01:37:38,000 and this, and this now. 1495 01:37:38,416 --> 01:37:38,750 You know what I mean? 1496 01:37:38,750 --> 01:37:41,500 I think during that time frame, you know, 1497 01:37:42,041 --> 01:37:42,833 it was the same way. 1498 01:37:43,083 --> 01:37:46,833 Plus, it was a time to, you know, 1499 01:37:47,125 --> 01:37:48,416 you want to be there 1500 01:37:48,416 --> 01:37:49,375 for somebody that you love 1501 01:37:50,000 --> 01:37:52,333 and care for, and you don't 1502 01:37:52,333 --> 01:37:54,083 want them to want anything 1503 01:37:54,083 --> 01:37:55,291 when you know they're already hurting 1504 01:37:56,000 --> 01:37:58,166 and unable to do it for themselves. 1505 01:37:59,041 --> 01:37:59,458 You know what I mean? 1506 01:37:59,458 --> 01:38:00,000 So, I mean, it wasn't even 1507 01:38:00,000 --> 01:38:01,000 a question at that point. 1508 01:38:01,000 --> 01:38:03,708 It was just focus and go. 1509 01:38:04,041 --> 01:38:04,333 Yeah. 1510 01:38:05,708 --> 01:38:06,916 I didn't even think about it, honestly. 1511 01:38:06,916 --> 01:38:07,541 It was like, what do you need? 1512 01:38:07,541 --> 01:38:08,000 What do you need? 1513 01:38:08,000 --> 01:38:08,333 What do you need? 1514 01:38:08,333 --> 01:38:08,791 What do you need? 1515 01:38:09,416 --> 01:38:10,083 Yeah, yeah. 1516 01:38:10,916 --> 01:38:13,083 It's like, that was tough. 1517 01:38:13,291 --> 01:38:14,333 But it did take away 1518 01:38:14,333 --> 01:38:15,750 from some of our connecting 1519 01:38:16,000 --> 01:38:19,875 because it was much more of a, like, 1520 01:38:20,125 --> 01:38:20,791 you know, you always say 1521 01:38:20,791 --> 01:38:22,083 marriage is a pendulum, right? 1522 01:38:22,500 --> 01:38:23,750 Like, some people really 1523 01:38:23,750 --> 01:38:25,250 have to lean in a lot more 1524 01:38:25,833 --> 01:38:26,916 at other times, and 1525 01:38:26,916 --> 01:38:28,125 like, I think that part, 1526 01:38:28,125 --> 01:38:29,166 those few months, it was 1527 01:38:29,166 --> 01:38:30,250 a lot more of you like, 1528 01:38:30,833 --> 01:38:32,000 I just need to satisfy 1529 01:38:32,000 --> 01:38:33,750 the needs of the moment. 1530 01:38:34,583 --> 01:38:35,416 Like, whether that's I 1531 01:38:35,416 --> 01:38:36,416 need to bring her a coffee, 1532 01:38:36,625 --> 01:38:38,583 or you know, rather than 1533 01:38:38,583 --> 01:38:40,458 like, how are you doing 1534 01:38:40,458 --> 01:38:41,916 and having much more of those 1535 01:38:41,916 --> 01:38:43,583 emotional type conversations? 1536 01:38:43,958 --> 01:38:45,125 Yeah, it was very caregiving. 1537 01:38:46,125 --> 01:38:46,875 Could we talk about it? 1538 01:38:47,458 --> 01:38:48,250 Because you've had to 1539 01:38:48,250 --> 01:38:49,000 do it like when I've got 1540 01:38:49,000 --> 01:38:49,583 kidney stones or 1541 01:38:49,583 --> 01:38:50,458 whatnot, you know, it's like, 1542 01:38:50,958 --> 01:38:51,291 there's nothing you 1543 01:38:51,291 --> 01:38:52,375 can complain about, like, 1544 01:38:52,375 --> 01:38:53,500 oh great, Sean's got a kidney stone, 1545 01:38:53,750 --> 01:38:54,750 you know, now you gotta do all his stuff 1546 01:38:54,750 --> 01:38:56,416 for however long it takes this to happen. 1547 01:38:57,000 --> 01:38:57,208 Yeah. 1548 01:38:57,250 --> 01:38:57,750 You know what I mean? 1549 01:38:57,750 --> 01:38:59,416 It's just, you kind of just lean into it 1550 01:38:59,416 --> 01:39:00,833 and you just kind of get it done. 1551 01:39:00,833 --> 01:39:01,041 And when it's 1552 01:39:01,041 --> 01:39:02,291 something that was that long, 1553 01:39:04,000 --> 01:39:04,750 I mean, like, you know, we 1554 01:39:04,750 --> 01:39:05,625 just changed all the things. 1555 01:39:05,625 --> 01:39:06,250 We were kids started 1556 01:39:06,250 --> 01:39:07,041 doing their own laundry. 1557 01:39:07,541 --> 01:39:07,750 Yeah. 1558 01:39:07,750 --> 01:39:09,125 You know, and like, we just, 1559 01:39:09,125 --> 01:39:09,958 everybody needs to pitch in 1560 01:39:09,958 --> 01:39:10,541 a little bit here. 1561 01:39:10,833 --> 01:39:11,833 It's like I did everything. 1562 01:39:11,833 --> 01:39:12,375 It's like, okay, 1563 01:39:12,375 --> 01:39:14,041 that's, and I had been talking 1564 01:39:14,250 --> 01:39:15,000 for a long time of 1565 01:39:15,000 --> 01:39:15,958 divvying up some of those things. 1566 01:39:15,958 --> 01:39:17,000 The kids are old enough now, 1567 01:39:17,000 --> 01:39:17,833 they should be doing their laundry. 1568 01:39:18,250 --> 01:39:19,541 You don't need to be doing that. 1569 01:39:20,166 --> 01:39:21,500 I think you babied them too much in it. 1570 01:39:21,500 --> 01:39:22,250 So I thought that was good. 1571 01:39:22,500 --> 01:39:23,625 You know, they still don't do it now, 1572 01:39:23,625 --> 01:39:24,958 but at least they do more of it. 1573 01:39:25,250 --> 01:39:25,375 Yeah. 1574 01:39:25,583 --> 01:39:26,791 You know, they change their beds now. 1575 01:39:26,791 --> 01:39:27,666 They bring stuff down. 1576 01:39:27,666 --> 01:39:27,875 Yeah. 1577 01:39:28,375 --> 01:39:29,583 I think that's, I think 1578 01:39:29,583 --> 01:39:31,958 those are life lessons 1579 01:39:31,958 --> 01:39:34,666 or life, not talent, but 1580 01:39:34,666 --> 01:39:36,125 life, things you need skills. 1581 01:39:36,541 --> 01:39:37,416 Yeah. Skills that you need to know. 1582 01:39:38,041 --> 01:39:38,625 Yeah, they're gonna, 1583 01:39:39,250 --> 01:39:40,166 we're raising adults. 1584 01:39:40,500 --> 01:39:40,958 And it was like, at 1585 01:39:40,958 --> 01:39:41,416 what point are you gonna 1586 01:39:41,416 --> 01:39:42,291 let them do it though? 1587 01:39:42,333 --> 01:39:43,291 I know, I know. 1588 01:39:43,375 --> 01:39:45,166 They should not be like me who, you know, 1589 01:39:45,416 --> 01:39:47,333 standing in the basement of 1590 01:39:47,333 --> 01:39:49,000 Burge Hall my freshman year, 1591 01:39:49,291 --> 01:39:50,916 reading the directions on the bottom, 1592 01:39:50,916 --> 01:39:51,791 or you know, of the lid 1593 01:39:51,791 --> 01:39:52,791 of the washing machine. 1594 01:39:53,041 --> 01:39:53,541 Because you've never 1595 01:39:53,541 --> 01:39:54,500 done a little laundry. 1596 01:39:54,500 --> 01:39:55,458 Because I had never done a little laundry. 1597 01:39:55,750 --> 01:39:56,916 Yeah, I just, I don't think that's 1598 01:39:56,916 --> 01:39:58,000 preparing your children 1599 01:39:59,083 --> 01:40:00,083 from my perspective of what 1600 01:40:00,083 --> 01:40:01,416 I want to be you as a parent. 1601 01:40:01,416 --> 01:40:02,958 Yeah, yeah, I want them to be like, 1602 01:40:02,958 --> 01:40:03,708 I know how to do this. 1603 01:40:04,041 --> 01:40:05,208 Maybe they can help out the person 1604 01:40:05,208 --> 01:40:06,875 reading the directions 1605 01:40:07,041 --> 01:40:09,500 next to them, the lid of the laundry, 1606 01:40:09,791 --> 01:40:10,583 the washing machine. 1607 01:40:11,000 --> 01:40:12,083 Right, right. 1608 01:40:14,000 --> 01:40:16,166 Well, it's been fantastic, obviously. 1609 01:40:17,625 --> 01:40:19,375 It's getting late in the day. 1610 01:40:19,416 --> 01:40:20,125 Yeah, yeah. 1611 01:40:21,000 --> 01:40:21,958 Hopefully we're not just 1612 01:40:21,958 --> 01:40:23,375 black bobs on here right now. 1613 01:40:23,416 --> 01:40:25,000 I know, I can't tell, but. 1614 01:40:25,041 --> 01:40:25,583 Tough to tell. 1615 01:40:26,500 --> 01:40:27,583 The post people will 1616 01:40:27,583 --> 01:40:28,500 take care of that, I'm sure. 1617 01:40:28,791 --> 01:40:29,666 Oh, our editors. 1618 01:40:30,500 --> 01:40:31,541 Yeah, the editors, yeah. 1619 01:40:31,541 --> 01:40:32,458 Editors are fabulous. 1620 01:40:32,666 --> 01:40:34,041 They call that post production. 1621 01:40:35,375 --> 01:40:36,416 See, I don't know the biz. 1622 01:40:37,166 --> 01:40:38,375 I don't know the biz. 1623 01:40:39,125 --> 01:40:40,166 I don't think I do either. 1624 01:40:40,666 --> 01:40:43,000 Well, I mean, the sun is going down. 1625 01:40:43,291 --> 01:40:43,958 Yes, it is. 1626 01:40:44,333 --> 01:40:46,708 And we have reservations, so. 1627 01:40:47,375 --> 01:40:49,166 We can't be late for our reservations. 1628 01:40:49,791 --> 01:40:52,083 I mean, oh my gosh, and 1629 01:40:52,083 --> 01:40:53,458 how amazing was the spa? 1630 01:40:53,750 --> 01:40:54,708 Like that water? 1631 01:40:55,625 --> 01:40:56,708 Oh, yeah, the pool. 1632 01:40:57,000 --> 01:41:00,333 The pool, there were four or five 1633 01:41:00,333 --> 01:41:02,000 different types of jets 1634 01:41:02,208 --> 01:41:07,250 that were there for the aqua therapy. 1635 01:41:07,500 --> 01:41:08,458 It was aqua therapy, but 1636 01:41:08,458 --> 01:41:09,916 it was a big pool that had. 1637 01:41:10,000 --> 01:41:11,333 There were two different 1638 01:41:11,333 --> 01:41:12,458 stations on the other side of it, 1639 01:41:12,458 --> 01:41:14,625 but essentially, think of four different, 1640 01:41:14,625 --> 01:41:15,791 so you could stand in 1641 01:41:15,791 --> 01:41:16,750 like four different places, 1642 01:41:17,416 --> 01:41:18,875 back to back to back to back, basically. 1643 01:41:19,375 --> 01:41:20,291 So you could choose 1644 01:41:20,291 --> 01:41:21,958 one, and each one of them 1645 01:41:21,958 --> 01:41:23,208 had a different kind of aqua therapy, 1646 01:41:23,208 --> 01:41:24,000 so a different kind of jet. 1647 01:41:24,541 --> 01:41:25,333 One was like bubblers 1648 01:41:25,333 --> 01:41:26,500 that you could lean into, 1649 01:41:26,500 --> 01:41:27,208 and it was kind of 1650 01:41:27,208 --> 01:41:28,666 like your whole back body, 1651 01:41:28,666 --> 01:41:30,208 but you could lean into it totally, 1652 01:41:30,208 --> 01:41:31,291 and it just felt like 1653 01:41:31,291 --> 01:41:33,000 bubbles pushing against you. 1654 01:41:33,625 --> 01:41:34,375 Then there was one that 1655 01:41:34,375 --> 01:41:35,500 was just like one stream 1656 01:41:35,500 --> 01:41:36,333 coming really hard at 1657 01:41:36,333 --> 01:41:37,083 you, so you could kind of 1658 01:41:37,416 --> 01:41:38,833 get your neck if you wanted to. 1659 01:41:38,833 --> 01:41:39,791 And one was like a huge 1660 01:41:39,791 --> 01:41:41,500 waterfall that was heavy. 1661 01:41:42,083 --> 01:41:43,500 I can't remember what the fourth one was. 1662 01:41:43,541 --> 01:41:44,291 That one was like a little 1663 01:41:44,291 --> 01:41:45,708 one for your shoulders, right? 1664 01:41:45,708 --> 01:41:46,583 It was almost like an arch, 1665 01:41:47,083 --> 01:41:48,500 and the jets just pointing 1666 01:41:48,500 --> 01:41:50,208 so you could get right by your neck. 1667 01:41:50,666 --> 01:41:51,958 This pool was. 1668 01:41:52,500 --> 01:41:54,250 But I remember thinking like, 1669 01:41:55,000 --> 01:41:56,208 oh man, if I was a 1670 01:41:56,208 --> 01:41:57,875 billionaire, I could see myself 1671 01:41:59,041 --> 01:42:01,625 having this in the backyard somewhere. 1672 01:42:01,625 --> 01:42:03,041 I thought the exact same thing. 1673 01:42:03,500 --> 01:42:05,375 I was like, I think I need a 1674 01:42:05,375 --> 01:42:06,500 little bit of each one of you. 1675 01:42:06,500 --> 01:42:07,333 This is why we're never 1676 01:42:07,333 --> 01:42:08,333 blessed with that much money, 1677 01:42:08,375 --> 01:42:10,208 because it's like we're just spinning it. 1678 01:42:10,500 --> 01:42:11,583 We've already spent it. 1679 01:42:11,583 --> 01:42:13,000 Have you been to our spa in the backyard? 1680 01:42:14,041 --> 01:42:14,875 And have you been to, 1681 01:42:14,875 --> 01:42:15,375 you know what I mean? 1682 01:42:15,625 --> 01:42:16,125 I was. 1683 01:42:16,916 --> 01:42:18,166 We got a cabana over here, 1684 01:42:18,166 --> 01:42:19,041 like we just, everything. 1685 01:42:19,791 --> 01:42:21,333 We are so spoiled. 1686 01:42:21,333 --> 01:42:21,958 We are spoiled. 1687 01:42:22,416 --> 01:42:24,125 What did I say when we first got here? 1688 01:42:24,125 --> 01:42:25,125 Oh, you had forgotten something. 1689 01:42:25,125 --> 01:42:26,583 I was like, can we just Amazon it? 1690 01:42:26,583 --> 01:42:29,916 I was like, how spoiled am I? 1691 01:42:29,916 --> 01:42:32,916 Like I just sound like this spoiled girl. 1692 01:42:33,708 --> 01:42:35,250 And then I was like, well, you know what? 1693 01:42:36,375 --> 01:42:36,750 Shoe fits. 1694 01:42:37,208 --> 01:42:39,375 The shoe fits, I'll wear it. 1695 01:42:39,375 --> 01:42:39,708 I am. 1696 01:42:39,750 --> 01:42:40,500 You're not that spoiled. 1697 01:42:41,458 --> 01:42:43,583 You work hard to afford 1698 01:42:43,583 --> 01:42:45,250 the luxuries that we have. 1699 01:42:45,250 --> 01:42:45,916 To be spoiled. 1700 01:42:47,583 --> 01:42:48,291 Whatever they may or 1701 01:42:48,291 --> 01:42:49,208 may not be, I suppose. 1702 01:42:49,500 --> 01:42:50,458 I did think better of 1703 01:42:50,458 --> 01:42:51,416 the fact that Amazon 1704 01:42:51,541 --> 01:42:52,833 probably wasn't gonna deliver us 1705 01:42:52,833 --> 01:42:55,041 something in Cancun. 1706 01:42:55,458 --> 01:42:56,291 Yeah, yeah. 1707 01:42:56,416 --> 01:42:57,000 It was like, well, 1708 01:42:57,000 --> 01:42:58,583 yeah, yeah, that was funny. 1709 01:42:58,583 --> 01:42:59,000 Drop it. 1710 01:42:59,500 --> 01:43:00,250 We won't get you into that 1711 01:43:00,250 --> 01:43:01,291 whole story, but it was funny. 1712 01:43:02,500 --> 01:43:03,250 So all right, well, let's 1713 01:43:03,250 --> 01:43:05,000 let these good people go. 1714 01:43:05,333 --> 01:43:07,833 Let's think of our word of the week. 1715 01:43:09,833 --> 01:43:11,750 Okay, I got mine. 1716 01:43:12,250 --> 01:43:14,458 All right, one, two, three. 1717 01:43:14,625 --> 01:43:15,000 Eighteen. 1718 01:43:16,750 --> 01:43:18,541 Eighteen, okay, I have got to hear this. 1719 01:43:20,500 --> 01:43:21,500 It's our 18th anniversary. 1720 01:43:21,791 --> 01:43:23,208 It made all this possible. 1721 01:43:23,500 --> 01:43:24,583 It made all of this possible. 1722 01:43:25,041 --> 01:43:26,416 Right, I was gonna go with Cabana. 1723 01:43:26,625 --> 01:43:27,875 I was gonna go with, you know. 1724 01:43:27,916 --> 01:43:29,416 I know, I just want one of these. 1725 01:43:29,833 --> 01:43:30,958 Yeah, it was, it's 1726 01:43:30,958 --> 01:43:31,958 been nice, really nice. 1727 01:43:32,458 --> 01:43:33,791 It's been amazing. 1728 01:43:35,333 --> 01:43:36,583 It almost wasn't worth it, 1729 01:43:36,583 --> 01:43:37,750 because we did definitely 1730 01:43:37,750 --> 01:43:42,375 have a whole crunch together. 1731 01:43:43,291 --> 01:43:44,291 It was the last second, we 1732 01:43:44,291 --> 01:43:45,166 were like, we should go away. 1733 01:43:45,208 --> 01:43:46,708 We should go away, yeah. 1734 01:43:47,541 --> 01:43:48,583 We need it, we need it. 1735 01:43:48,625 --> 01:43:51,000 We need this, so, but 1736 01:43:51,000 --> 01:43:52,833 it really, I mean, 18. 1737 01:43:53,125 --> 01:43:53,916 I love that, and then I 1738 01:43:53,916 --> 01:43:55,041 was like, is it the 18? 1739 01:43:55,583 --> 01:43:56,416 And there's those Amaze Balls? 1740 01:43:57,750 --> 01:43:58,708 Yeah, Amaze Balls. 1741 01:43:59,250 --> 01:44:00,333 Someone wouldn't even say that anymore. 1742 01:44:01,458 --> 01:44:02,666 I don't remember when they said it. 1743 01:44:03,000 --> 01:44:03,833 I never said it. 1744 01:44:04,958 --> 01:44:07,166 It's from something, though. 1745 01:44:07,208 --> 01:44:10,666 I'm sure it is, I have no idea. 1746 01:44:11,333 --> 01:44:13,208 But because it has, it's just magical. 1747 01:44:13,625 --> 01:44:15,750 It's, I wouldn't change a thing. 1748 01:44:16,250 --> 01:44:17,458 Even you wouldn't see 1749 01:44:17,458 --> 01:44:17,916 it on your forehead. 1750 01:44:18,250 --> 01:44:18,458 Oh. 1751 01:44:20,625 --> 01:44:22,000 We got a big skin, 1752 01:44:22,291 --> 01:44:22,833 when they're down through. 1753 01:44:23,958 --> 01:44:25,333 They dare him to get me. 1754 01:44:25,541 --> 01:44:25,750 Dare. 1755 01:44:26,458 --> 01:44:27,625 They're trying to come back, yeah. 1756 01:44:28,083 --> 01:44:29,083 Mosquitoes are happening, so we gotta go. 1757 01:44:29,125 --> 01:44:30,291 That means we gotta go, so. 1758 01:44:30,625 --> 01:44:31,500 All right, we'll catch 1759 01:44:31,500 --> 01:44:32,291 you on the other side, 1760 01:44:32,458 --> 01:44:34,791 back in detail, the big D, the dirty. 1761 01:44:35,958 --> 01:44:36,375 Dirty D. 1762 01:44:36,750 --> 01:44:37,500 The dirty D. 1763 01:44:38,000 --> 01:44:38,625 All right. 1764 01:44:39,708 --> 01:44:40,000 Ciao ciao. 1765 01:44:40,291 --> 01:44:41,375 No, no, I'd do that all over. 1766 01:44:41,750 --> 01:44:42,416 I don't like it any more. 1767 01:44:43,291 --> 01:44:44,375 All right, well then, we 1768 01:44:44,375 --> 01:44:46,500 will catch you back in Dallas. 1769 01:44:46,500 --> 01:44:47,041 You will. 1770 01:44:47,041 --> 01:44:47,625 See you on the sidelines. 1771 01:44:48,166 --> 01:44:48,583 Ciao ciao. 1772 01:44:48,833 --> 01:44:49,291 See ya.