1 00:00:14,160 --> 00:00:17,960 Welcome Back to episode 40 of Working Towards Our 2 00:00:17,960 --> 00:00:21,760 Purpose. And today I have a 3 00:00:21,760 --> 00:00:25,280 topic that I want to talk about. I want to talk about how 4 00:00:25,360 --> 00:00:28,160 to actually make a change 5 00:00:29,120 --> 00:00:32,820 and start to work towards something that maybe seems, like, really 6 00:00:32,820 --> 00:00:36,500 overwhelming or, you know, you don't know how 7 00:00:36,500 --> 00:00:39,580 to even think about starting this big task. 8 00:00:40,620 --> 00:00:44,140 So. But before I get into that, I want to talk about a little story, 9 00:00:45,100 --> 00:00:48,860 perhaps that might be helpful. Not sure if it is or not, but we'll see. 10 00:00:50,300 --> 00:00:54,100 So I was going on a walk the other day, and I was looking 11 00:00:54,100 --> 00:00:57,260 at this bush that had, like, a bunch of beautiful flowers on it, and I 12 00:00:57,260 --> 00:00:59,910 kind of, like, just walked up to it to, like, look at it and, 13 00:01:01,110 --> 00:01:04,910 like, smell one of the. The. The flowers, you know, because you got 14 00:01:04,910 --> 00:01:08,390 to stop and smell the roses. And I noticed, like, a bee 15 00:01:08,470 --> 00:01:12,230 working really hard at pollinating one of the flowers. 16 00:01:12,710 --> 00:01:16,310 And for a second, I thought that it was, like, 17 00:01:16,310 --> 00:01:20,110 covered in pollen because it looked, like, kind of fuzzy, but I think I just 18 00:01:20,110 --> 00:01:23,910 didn't have my glasses on or something. But it made me, like, think 19 00:01:24,070 --> 00:01:27,590 about how the bee is working really hard 20 00:01:27,990 --> 00:01:31,730 to pollinate, which benefits 21 00:01:32,050 --> 00:01:35,730 that plant and all the other plants around and, you 22 00:01:35,730 --> 00:01:39,330 know, benefits us because it can pollinate our food sources and create, 23 00:01:40,050 --> 00:01:43,570 you know, tons of vegetables that wouldn't really be able to be 24 00:01:43,890 --> 00:01:47,690 grown otherwise without the bee pollinating. And I'm not, 25 00:01:47,690 --> 00:01:49,930 like, I don't really know that much about bees, but I know that they do 26 00:01:49,930 --> 00:01:52,210 pollination. And 27 00:01:53,730 --> 00:01:56,960 so, anyways, thinking about how this bee is working 28 00:01:57,360 --> 00:02:00,880 hard to do work that is essential for us humans, 29 00:02:01,200 --> 00:02:04,480 but it's just kind of existing and doing, 30 00:02:04,880 --> 00:02:08,080 like, going about its day normally. Like, it's not really thinking about 31 00:02:08,480 --> 00:02:12,320 how it has to work hard, so that way it can pollinate plants and, 32 00:02:13,200 --> 00:02:16,680 you know, benefit all kinds of other species. It's kind of just like living its 33 00:02:16,680 --> 00:02:19,680 life and being in the present moment. And 34 00:02:20,960 --> 00:02:24,510 that kind of got me thinking about, like, how I 35 00:02:24,670 --> 00:02:27,950 envision humans working in the future. Like, 36 00:02:28,750 --> 00:02:31,870 I think, like I alluded to in previous episodes, I think we all have these 37 00:02:32,030 --> 00:02:35,230 special innate talents that are kind of natural to us, 38 00:02:35,630 --> 00:02:39,030 that come easier to us, but a lot of times we don't really end up 39 00:02:39,030 --> 00:02:42,830 getting to use them because we're forced into jobs that 40 00:02:42,830 --> 00:02:46,550 maybe don't align with those values or have been told that maybe 41 00:02:46,550 --> 00:02:50,270 that's not a valuable skill. So I don't know, kind of just the 42 00:02:50,270 --> 00:02:54,080 analogy of that be kind of made me think about, like, how I 43 00:02:54,080 --> 00:02:57,840 want to be working and, like, how I want to be using the 44 00:02:57,840 --> 00:03:01,640 things that I'm good at to make it as if I wasn't really 45 00:03:01,640 --> 00:03:04,120 working, but I'm really helping something 46 00:03:05,800 --> 00:03:09,560 greater, you know, than myself. Um, so I don't know if 47 00:03:09,560 --> 00:03:13,240 that analogy makes too much sense. Um, I'm sure you could kind of, 48 00:03:13,240 --> 00:03:16,960 like, pick it apart, but I. It gave me kind of a nice 49 00:03:16,960 --> 00:03:19,800 visual as far as, like, what I'm trying to do and 50 00:03:21,830 --> 00:03:25,190 kind of changed, like, what this episode was going to be. I was trying to 51 00:03:25,190 --> 00:03:28,910 start, you know, thinking future of, like, what do I want this 52 00:03:28,910 --> 00:03:32,750 podcast to be? What do I want my sort of purpose 53 00:03:32,750 --> 00:03:36,470 to be? And thinking. Overthinking it, really. And 54 00:03:37,510 --> 00:03:41,350 I think, like, I alluded to last episode, I was just thinking, like, 55 00:03:41,430 --> 00:03:45,150 okay, maybe I could be some sort of, like, dream coach or something like 56 00:03:45,150 --> 00:03:48,870 that. But I think I ended up putting a lot of pressure on that, and 57 00:03:48,870 --> 00:03:52,670 I think I picked coach because it's kind of the only thing that I can 58 00:03:52,670 --> 00:03:56,070 see as I've seen other people do it. 59 00:03:56,870 --> 00:04:00,710 So I think perhaps I'm projecting 60 00:04:01,430 --> 00:04:04,950 that into making decisions on 61 00:04:05,110 --> 00:04:08,870 what I want to do now so that I can get to that coaching 62 00:04:10,470 --> 00:04:13,830 goal, when in reality, I don't even know if that's what the goal is, 63 00:04:14,210 --> 00:04:17,570 and kind of making me 64 00:04:17,730 --> 00:04:21,490 go astray and doing things that maybe I 65 00:04:21,490 --> 00:04:25,010 shouldn't be doing anyway. So instead of, like, thinking 66 00:04:25,410 --> 00:04:28,770 about this future thing that, like, I may or may not want to be or 67 00:04:28,770 --> 00:04:32,530 want to do or even could do, thinking about, 68 00:04:32,610 --> 00:04:36,210 like, what I can do now and who I can serve 69 00:04:36,210 --> 00:04:39,930 now, and I think that helps clarify 70 00:04:39,930 --> 00:04:42,790 a lot of things for me. So, 71 00:04:43,670 --> 00:04:47,270 you know, thinking. Thinking about the be as. As this 72 00:04:47,510 --> 00:04:50,710 visualization of, like, how can I be just that be right now? How can I 73 00:04:50,710 --> 00:04:54,510 just exist and do the things that I feel called to now? And how can 74 00:04:54,510 --> 00:04:58,310 that, like, try to help somebody who maybe is an older version 75 00:04:58,310 --> 00:05:02,150 of myself? Um, so I was gonna have a different episode 76 00:05:02,550 --> 00:05:06,310 today, but instead I'd like to talk about, like, how do 77 00:05:06,310 --> 00:05:09,910 you make a change? Cause I feel like that's, like, one thing that 78 00:05:10,390 --> 00:05:14,150 always comes up. Like, maybe maybe you know what it is that 79 00:05:14,150 --> 00:05:17,190 you want to do. You just don't know how to get there. And maybe you 80 00:05:17,190 --> 00:05:20,390 don't know what. What it is, and that could be a whole different episode. But. 81 00:05:21,110 --> 00:05:24,909 But for this episode, I want to talk about three things that, like, you 82 00:05:24,909 --> 00:05:28,390 can do to get yourself to do the thing that seems scary 83 00:05:28,550 --> 00:05:31,990 or the thing that you want, but you think maybe you don't know how to 84 00:05:31,990 --> 00:05:35,540 do it or you don't know how to get there. So the first 85 00:05:35,540 --> 00:05:39,380 thing I think is something that's been coming up a lot for me recently 86 00:05:39,460 --> 00:05:42,580 is to just do the easiest step towards that thing. 87 00:05:43,220 --> 00:05:46,980 I think a lot of times we could be sort of overwhelmed by 88 00:05:48,340 --> 00:05:51,620 seeing other people do things and seeing them, like, do everything 89 00:05:51,620 --> 00:05:55,460 perfectly. And it can kind of overwhelm us and 90 00:05:56,420 --> 00:05:59,380 freeze us into, like, not starting that thing. 91 00:06:01,130 --> 00:06:04,930 You know, just like, a simple example that I've done 92 00:06:04,930 --> 00:06:08,690 recently is, you know, thinking about sharing the music that 93 00:06:08,690 --> 00:06:12,290 I create seems like an overwhelming task for me. I can 94 00:06:12,290 --> 00:06:15,690 publish it, but, like, I never tell anybody about it. And it seems 95 00:06:15,930 --> 00:06:19,730 hard to, you know, go make reels that people make and, 96 00:06:19,730 --> 00:06:23,490 like, try to use your music and market it. And, like, all 97 00:06:23,490 --> 00:06:27,160 of that seems really overwhelming for me. But I 98 00:06:27,160 --> 00:06:31,000 thought of, like, what is the simplest thing that I can do? 99 00:06:31,080 --> 00:06:34,840 Like, what if I just had, you know, a video that didn't have me in 100 00:06:34,840 --> 00:06:37,280 it and I just used, like, a little piece of my song was this little, 101 00:06:37,280 --> 00:06:40,560 tiny, quick thing. I didn't have to edit it. It was just like, a little, 102 00:06:40,560 --> 00:06:44,400 tiny, simple type of video. And 103 00:06:44,400 --> 00:06:46,600 then that seemed easy to me, and I was like, okay, I could do that. 104 00:06:46,600 --> 00:06:50,320 The hard part is going to be posting it, but I can make that video 105 00:06:50,320 --> 00:06:54,090 pretty easily. I don't have to think about, like, what other people are doing or 106 00:06:54,090 --> 00:06:57,330 try to play into trends or anything like that. I could just make this one 107 00:06:57,330 --> 00:07:01,010 thing seemed really scary, but 108 00:07:01,010 --> 00:07:04,850 then once I did it and posted 109 00:07:04,850 --> 00:07:08,649 it, now it seems a lot less scary. So I think part of 110 00:07:08,649 --> 00:07:11,650 the, like, getting started is it's so hard because you've never done it before, 111 00:07:12,210 --> 00:07:15,730 and it can be overwhelming and challenging. 112 00:07:15,810 --> 00:07:19,540 But I think if you can, like, find whatever the easiest 113 00:07:19,540 --> 00:07:22,940 task is, even if it seems, like, totally unrelated, 114 00:07:23,260 --> 00:07:27,100 I think it's, like, just so helpful, even, like, you know, if I couldn't make 115 00:07:27,100 --> 00:07:30,820 that one simple video without me in it, even just posting about, like, 116 00:07:30,820 --> 00:07:34,300 some other sort of music thing, like, maybe that isn't me, 117 00:07:34,300 --> 00:07:37,900 maybe that's helpful, or maybe posting, like, a picture 118 00:07:37,900 --> 00:07:41,620 of a guitar that I'm using or something like that. Um, so just 119 00:07:41,620 --> 00:07:44,940 thinking about, like, what is the one simplest thing you can do to get started? 120 00:07:45,020 --> 00:07:48,370 Because I really think that momentum is a 121 00:07:48,370 --> 00:07:51,730 helpful thing. I mean, it's a law of physics. 122 00:07:52,050 --> 00:07:55,490 So I think once you start moving towards something, 123 00:07:55,730 --> 00:07:59,530 it just becomes that much easier to take the next step. And it 124 00:07:59,530 --> 00:08:03,250 could just, you know, you think it's so easy to, like, look at 125 00:08:03,250 --> 00:08:06,770 other people doing things and being like, oh, I'm so far away from that. I'm 126 00:08:06,770 --> 00:08:09,810 never Gonna be able to make, like, a video of myself or, 127 00:08:11,010 --> 00:08:14,540 you know, whatever it is if it seems impossible. But 128 00:08:15,020 --> 00:08:18,700 you can take one step forward and just, 129 00:08:18,860 --> 00:08:22,540 you know, try to figure out what that step is for you. And 130 00:08:22,860 --> 00:08:26,580 to get to step number two of this three steps, I think the 131 00:08:26,580 --> 00:08:28,900 next thing you can do to try to figure out what that easy step is, 132 00:08:28,900 --> 00:08:32,740 is to just be in the present tense. Because I 133 00:08:32,740 --> 00:08:36,580 think a lot of times we look at what other people are doing 134 00:08:36,580 --> 00:08:39,980 and look at somebody who's been doing something for years, or, 135 00:08:40,620 --> 00:08:44,380 you know, they're an expert at it, or somebody you look up to, 136 00:08:44,940 --> 00:08:48,740 and it can be overwhelming because you're very far away from 137 00:08:48,740 --> 00:08:52,140 that. And maybe eventually you see yourself doing that, 138 00:08:52,300 --> 00:08:55,500 but it's far away from, like, the present tense right now. 139 00:08:56,460 --> 00:09:00,300 And a lot of times I found myself just, like, out thinking and 140 00:09:00,300 --> 00:09:04,100 being like, okay, I want to be. Take the coach, for example. Like, 141 00:09:04,100 --> 00:09:07,090 maybe I want to be a coach in the future. I don't know the first 142 00:09:07,090 --> 00:09:10,770 thing about, like, how to get clients or how to position myself 143 00:09:10,770 --> 00:09:14,090 to even be a coach. I don't know how to do any of that stuff. 144 00:09:14,410 --> 00:09:18,210 So I could easily talk myself out of, like, okay, well, there's no 145 00:09:18,210 --> 00:09:21,610 sense in even doing it because I don't know where to start. 146 00:09:22,569 --> 00:09:25,490 But if you bring yourself back to the present moment, which is kind of what 147 00:09:25,490 --> 00:09:29,130 I was talking about earlier, like, what can I do now to 148 00:09:29,610 --> 00:09:33,410 sort of build something that works towards that that isn't 149 00:09:33,410 --> 00:09:37,040 necessarily that right now? You know, I don't need to build out, like, 150 00:09:37,120 --> 00:09:40,960 a coaching program and a plan and everything. But what I can do 151 00:09:40,960 --> 00:09:44,320 right now is just create podcast episodes, create content 152 00:09:44,480 --> 00:09:48,240 on things that have helped me or things that I'm thinking 153 00:09:48,240 --> 00:09:51,440 about or things that are inspirational. And, 154 00:09:51,920 --> 00:09:55,720 you know, if I keep doing that, then maybe it might 155 00:09:55,720 --> 00:09:59,440 lead to something in the future that is a coach or coach, like, 156 00:10:00,400 --> 00:10:03,910 or something that's community based, which. Which is something else that's important to me. 157 00:10:04,950 --> 00:10:08,790 But what can I do right now to make sure that 158 00:10:08,790 --> 00:10:11,990 I can move forward? And, 159 00:10:13,190 --> 00:10:16,030 yeah, I think bringing yourself to the present tense, there's always something that you can 160 00:10:16,030 --> 00:10:19,190 do and trying to 161 00:10:19,590 --> 00:10:23,190 almost ignore the voice of 162 00:10:23,590 --> 00:10:27,310 the future version of yourself and thinking, even 163 00:10:27,310 --> 00:10:31,160 if it's something like playing an instrument, you know, if I'm not great 164 00:10:31,160 --> 00:10:34,080 at playing an instrument, but I want to be a musician, well, what can I 165 00:10:34,080 --> 00:10:37,800 do today? I could go try to practice this song that I like, 166 00:10:37,800 --> 00:10:41,480 or I could go, you know, learn a couple chords or something. 167 00:10:42,200 --> 00:10:44,760 There's always something that you can do like right now. And I think trying to 168 00:10:44,760 --> 00:10:48,560 bring yourself to the present moment and the present tense, like, what 169 00:10:48,560 --> 00:10:52,280 can I do today? Can help you get to what that next easiest 170 00:10:52,360 --> 00:10:56,040 step is. So those two things along with the third 171 00:10:56,830 --> 00:11:00,470 step, my third step here would be to get a buddy. 172 00:11:00,470 --> 00:11:03,910 Like, get a friend, get an accountability buddy, a 173 00:11:03,910 --> 00:11:07,590 partner, somebody who can help encourage you to do those 174 00:11:07,590 --> 00:11:10,990 first two things that we're talking about. And I think 175 00:11:11,470 --> 00:11:15,230 doing these three steps can help you to actually make a change 176 00:11:15,230 --> 00:11:18,910 for the better. And I've had a bunch or not 177 00:11:18,910 --> 00:11:22,200 change for the better, but a change towards what it is that you want. And. 178 00:11:22,430 --> 00:11:26,230 And so, yeah, getting a buddy, I think that's 179 00:11:26,230 --> 00:11:29,390 kind of been something that I've done for a while. 180 00:11:29,790 --> 00:11:33,470 A while ago, before I quit my corporate job, 181 00:11:33,550 --> 00:11:37,070 I was going to these classes. This was before the pandemic. 182 00:11:37,310 --> 00:11:41,150 I was going to these classes to try to learn about business. And 183 00:11:41,550 --> 00:11:44,750 I noticed a lot of them were kind of just really theoretical and 184 00:11:46,430 --> 00:11:49,510 I don't know, they were okay, but I wasn't really, like, getting that much from 185 00:11:49,510 --> 00:11:53,310 them, you know, And I met somebody at one of them who was 186 00:11:53,310 --> 00:11:56,910 feeling the same, and we were both like, we gotta, like, go do stuff. 187 00:11:56,910 --> 00:12:00,710 Like, thinking about this stuff in theory isn't, like, gonna help us 188 00:12:00,710 --> 00:12:04,550 get there. And the two of us met. We. We 189 00:12:04,550 --> 00:12:08,270 were strangers before that, and we met like every 190 00:12:08,350 --> 00:12:11,710 week for like, three years after the day that we met. 191 00:12:12,110 --> 00:12:15,710 And it was really helpful in 192 00:12:16,030 --> 00:12:19,150 trying to keep motivated and trying to keep going forward. 193 00:12:19,970 --> 00:12:23,730 Um, because by yourself, you, you know, you go in and out 194 00:12:23,730 --> 00:12:27,530 of moods, you. You get excited to 195 00:12:27,530 --> 00:12:30,770 do something, you. You get bummed out about it, you talk yourself out of it. 196 00:12:30,770 --> 00:12:33,490 But if you have a buddy who can kind of like keep you in check, 197 00:12:33,650 --> 00:12:37,370 it's really helpful to. To show up 198 00:12:37,370 --> 00:12:40,570 for the days that maybe you don't feel like showing up. And then. Then you 199 00:12:40,570 --> 00:12:43,930 also have that pressure of, like, you know, maybe I don't wanna show up for 200 00:12:43,930 --> 00:12:47,620 myself today, but I gotta show up for my buddy. Because, you 201 00:12:47,620 --> 00:12:51,300 know, we've made this kind of agreement and it just 202 00:12:51,300 --> 00:12:54,220 works really well. Like I said, I did it for three years 203 00:12:55,180 --> 00:12:59,020 with one friend and we kind of had a bit of a falling out and 204 00:12:59,100 --> 00:13:02,700 don't anymore. But I have another person now 205 00:13:03,100 --> 00:13:06,540 that I talk to weekly and 206 00:13:07,260 --> 00:13:10,580 we talk about what we're working on and what we're trying to 207 00:13:10,580 --> 00:13:14,140 accomplish, and we're actually working on a project together too. 208 00:13:14,740 --> 00:13:17,700 And I've just found it so helpful to be able to 209 00:13:19,220 --> 00:13:23,020 talk about the things that you're dreaming about and you're 210 00:13:23,020 --> 00:13:26,580 thinking about in a nonjudgmental way 211 00:13:26,980 --> 00:13:30,780 and just kind of allow yourself to think big and to dream and 212 00:13:30,780 --> 00:13:34,460 to. To get feedback and to spend 213 00:13:34,460 --> 00:13:37,780 time just thinking about the things that you want to be doing. And. 214 00:13:38,660 --> 00:13:41,300 And yeah, I think it's just. It's just so helpful to be able to, 215 00:13:42,500 --> 00:13:45,780 you know, tell somebody like, hey, I made. I made this real. You know, it 216 00:13:45,780 --> 00:13:49,020 was easy to make, but I'm really scared of posting it. And then they can 217 00:13:49,020 --> 00:13:51,420 encourage you and be like, yeah, just post it. What's the worst that can happen? 218 00:13:51,420 --> 00:13:54,580 You know? You know, I think it's great. You should post it. And 219 00:13:55,300 --> 00:13:58,660 that can be like, the nudge to get you over the edge to make that 220 00:13:58,660 --> 00:14:01,940 step is having. Having somebody there that you can trust. 221 00:14:02,420 --> 00:14:05,460 And like I said, it could. It could be anybody. It could be a friend, 222 00:14:06,420 --> 00:14:09,250 a partner, somebody who you just met, but 223 00:14:09,890 --> 00:14:12,610 somebody that you can trust. And. 224 00:14:13,410 --> 00:14:16,930 Yeah, so. So I think that those three things can be, 225 00:14:17,010 --> 00:14:20,530 like, a key thing to actually get you to make a change 226 00:14:22,130 --> 00:14:25,810 again. The first one is just trying to figure out what the easiest step is 227 00:14:26,370 --> 00:14:30,050 so you can do it and not feel overwhelmed by, 228 00:14:30,050 --> 00:14:33,850 like, having to be perfect. And the second thing would be to be in 229 00:14:33,850 --> 00:14:37,500 the present tense and to think about what you can do right now to figure 230 00:14:37,500 --> 00:14:41,340 out what that step is. And then the third thing, to get a buddy to 231 00:14:41,340 --> 00:14:45,020 inspire you. And yeah, I think 232 00:14:45,500 --> 00:14:49,220 those three things have helped me make changes in my past. They've 233 00:14:49,220 --> 00:14:52,140 helped me kind of quit my job. 234 00:14:53,179 --> 00:14:56,900 You know, that's another example. Like, I was thinking 235 00:14:56,900 --> 00:15:00,580 about, you know, quitting my job the other day or the other 236 00:15:00,580 --> 00:15:04,180 week. And the easiest step for me was to send an 237 00:15:04,180 --> 00:15:07,920 IM to. To ask for a meeting to then say that I'm gonna quit 238 00:15:07,920 --> 00:15:11,680 in the meeting. Like, sending that IM was the 239 00:15:11,680 --> 00:15:15,200 easiest thing I could think of to be able to start the quitting process. 240 00:15:15,760 --> 00:15:19,560 And then I was even getting nervous to do that, and then my 241 00:15:19,560 --> 00:15:23,280 friend texted me, and that pushed me over the edge to make that change. 242 00:15:24,560 --> 00:15:28,000 So this isn't the only way to make a change, but 243 00:15:28,320 --> 00:15:32,000 I'm kind of just thinking about what I've been going through recently and 244 00:15:32,720 --> 00:15:35,600 things I've been working on. And I think that these three things kind of come 245 00:15:35,600 --> 00:15:38,620 to mind, and hopefully they can be helpful for you. 246 00:15:39,260 --> 00:15:42,940 And, yeah, I mean, that's. That's all I got 247 00:15:42,940 --> 00:15:46,460 for the topic today. But to conclude, I think that 248 00:15:46,700 --> 00:15:50,460 I do want to be able to help people and 249 00:15:50,540 --> 00:15:53,740 help previous versions of me. Help. Help somebody 250 00:15:54,060 --> 00:15:57,540 to create something to Encourage them to be 251 00:15:57,540 --> 00:16:01,100 creative, to make music, to, you know, follow a business idea. 252 00:16:01,740 --> 00:16:04,820 And I want to try to be helpful in any way that I can. 253 00:16:05,460 --> 00:16:09,180 So I'm going to put a link in the show notes for a 254 00:16:09,180 --> 00:16:12,980 form that you can fill out if you would like to suggest 255 00:16:13,300 --> 00:16:16,820 something. Maybe you have a question or 256 00:16:17,220 --> 00:16:21,060 a tactic that's helpful or something that you want me to 257 00:16:21,060 --> 00:16:24,460 talk about. I want to open it up and make this 258 00:16:24,460 --> 00:16:28,260 podcast more community based and not just like me talking to a wall. 259 00:16:30,000 --> 00:16:33,800 So yeah, I'm going to put that in the show notes, just be like a 260 00:16:33,800 --> 00:16:37,280 little quick Google form. And I'm also thinking about 261 00:16:37,440 --> 00:16:41,120 setting up a link for a call 262 00:16:41,200 --> 00:16:44,640 to talk with other people. So if you find yourself, 263 00:16:45,599 --> 00:16:49,120 you know, maybe stuck in, in a position and maybe 264 00:16:49,200 --> 00:16:53,000 you need some encouragement, maybe you don't have a buddy, you 265 00:16:53,000 --> 00:16:56,000 can sign up to have a call with me and 266 00:16:56,830 --> 00:16:59,790 kind of just something I thought about this morning about doing and 267 00:17:00,510 --> 00:17:04,030 I really like the idea. I think I like talking to people about these 268 00:17:04,270 --> 00:17:07,550 ideas and these topics that we touch on on this podcast. 269 00:17:07,950 --> 00:17:11,150 And yeah, if you want to, if you want to set up a call, 270 00:17:11,630 --> 00:17:14,430 I'll also leave a link for that. So there'll be two ways to connect. 271 00:17:15,950 --> 00:17:18,670 You could type me a form if you don't want to talk and you can 272 00:17:19,470 --> 00:17:23,070 set up a call to discuss some of these ideas. 273 00:17:23,310 --> 00:17:26,900 And um, I'd love to hear from you and hear your feedback 274 00:17:27,220 --> 00:17:30,740 and yeah, so I will do my poor 275 00:17:30,740 --> 00:17:34,580 ending because I don't never know how to end these things. So 276 00:17:34,580 --> 00:17:38,220 if this was helpful, please share it with somebody who you think would 277 00:17:38,220 --> 00:17:41,620 benefit and I'll talk to you on an 278 00:17:41,620 --> 00:17:43,940 episode real soon. Thanks for listening, 279 00:17:55,690 --> 00:17:59,850 Sam.