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Hello, hello.

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You got cat today.

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So Scott is traveling and

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I'm actually traveling this

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week for work.

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I'm going to be in

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Connecticut for a couple of

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days and not going to be

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able to do my normal Wednesday,

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five PM podcast.

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So I figured maybe I should

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just go on now and give you

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guys an update because I

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have a really funny story

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from Saturday night to tell you about.

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And I didn't want two weeks

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to go by before we talked about it.

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So, um,

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I'm struggling with this background.

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Should we do this or should we do this?

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I'm not really sure.

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I'm going to leave it with

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Lunch with Clydesdale

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because that's really the

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show that it's on.

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I am guest co-host for the day.

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So hopefully you guys will

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jump in and chat with me

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for a little bit and we'll

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get right into it.

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So I don't have a whole lot of time.

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I do have to go back to work.

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But let's see what happened.

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What happened?

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um elbow update I yes aaron

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um the christmas tree is

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gone I hope you're happy I

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was really getting tired of

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the bullying it would have

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been right there um now

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there's a lamp there so

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anyway yes progress um

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thursday would I talk to

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you guys friday night

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thursday I went to pt I am

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completely cleared to do whatever I want

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Um,

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so your girl is doing whatever she

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wants with that elbow.

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Let me tell you.

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Um,

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I still have a few more appointments to

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go to like once a week,

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they do some like deep tissue stuff.

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My bicep is still really bothering me.

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Um, so I'm trying to take care of that,

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but, um, all is well with that.

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And I'll weave in some workout stories too,

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as we go through the week.

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So Thursday night, um,

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let's see what I do Thursday night.

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I had a friend who retired

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from the bank I used to work at and he

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reached out to me to tell me

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that they were doing a

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happy hour for him at this

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local bar down the street.

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So I popped in there for a

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drink and met some old

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people that I used to work with.

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It was super fun.

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And then we are going to get

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into the theme for this week.

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Aside from guys not being honest,

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my friends bailing on me.

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My girlfriends are usually pretty good

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co-pilots and hanging out

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and being available and doing things.

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And I try my best to

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accommodate my schedule for them.

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Some of my friends have some

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weird schedules where they

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work on Saturday or they work on Sunday,

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so they can't go out until Monday night.

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And I don't really have to

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get up early if I don't need to.

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And so I'm up for anything whenever.

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But Thursday night,

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I had planned to go to this

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fundraising happy hour with

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some girlfriends of mine.

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And that was the plan for my second stop.

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And by the time I got to my second stop,

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they all were like, nevermind.

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We're I'm sitting at home

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drinking a glass of wine or

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I'm doing this or doing that.

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So they bailed.

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No problem.

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I did not want to go to that

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fundraiser by myself.

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So I sort of circled back

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around and I was already there,

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but I drove back to closer

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to my house and I went to, um,

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this place called Nick's pizza,

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which is like newly opened.

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I don't know if I told you

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guys about my buddy, Eddie,

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who was the bartender at

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the Mexican restaurant.

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Um,

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underneath me um when I say

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underneath me I live on top

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of a mexican restaurant so

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um eddie's sort of my

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wingman he's a super fun

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guy but he doesn't work

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there anymore he works at

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this place called next so I

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know if I went to the bar

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and just ate my dinner

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there I'd have at least

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somebody to talk to um so I

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went there it was really

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crowded as I'm waiting for

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a bar show to open up this

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guy taps me on the shoulder

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and it's somebody that I've

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known for years and years

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he was actually a bartender

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at another place that my

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ex-husband and I used to go to

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for a long time,

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like every Saturday night for decades.

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Anyway,

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so he and I sit at the bar together

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and have dinner.

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Well,

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part of me was excited because I got

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to catch up with my friend.

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But the other part of me was like, damn,

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I'm like trying to go out,

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be by myself and meet people in real life,

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just like everyone's been

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telling me to do.

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And now it appears like I'm with this guy,

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which was not a date.

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He's engaged.

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Um, but Eddie comes up and says hi to me,

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introduces himself to my friend.

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And the first thing I say to

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Eddie is this is not a date.

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And my friend looks at Eddie and was like,

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wait, it's not a date.

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I thought this was a date

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and he was just joking around,

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but it was really kind of funny.

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So anyway,

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we're chit chatting and having a

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good time.

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And I purposely stay, um,

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until after my friend leaves again,

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because I was trying to go

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there and meet people.

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And, uh, you know,

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when you're sitting with a guy,

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it doesn't matter.

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Like, gosh,

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I think even if I go out like

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with my brother,

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to the mall or something.

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People are going to assume

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that we're a couple.

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It's just kind of

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interesting how that works.

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Um, but anyway, that was Thursday night.

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Had a good time.

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Obviously didn't meet

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anybody in real life.

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Friday, um, Friday morning, we did Diane,

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um, at the, at brainwine CrossFit.

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Um, they do mayhem programming.

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So if you guys follow mayhem,

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I guess a bunch of people did Diane,

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but for those of you that don't know,

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Diane is one of my favorite

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benchmark workouts and your

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girl is a handstand pushup wizard.

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Um,

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but I have not, um,

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I haven't done handstand

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pushups since before my surgery.

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So I went and pulling a

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barbell is probably not the

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best thing for me to do

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either because when my elbow locks out,

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that's when it gets sore and irritated.

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So, um,

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I went ninety five pounds on the

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deadlifts, which, you know,

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I know total was smooth,

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but that was really all I can handle.

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But your girl did twenty one

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unbroken handstand pushups in round one.

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I was so excited.

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Hi, Holly.

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Uh,

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Twenty one.

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And they were beautiful, like and no pain.

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And I think the coaches were like,

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what's going on?

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Because I don't think they expected that.

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But it was awesome.

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Now,

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did I fall apart in the round of

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fifteen in the round of nine?

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Yeah, pretty much.

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I did like five, five, three, two.

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And then I think on the round of nine,

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I did like three, three, two, one,

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because I was pretty much dead.

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But I was really excited about that.

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So that was a huge win for

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me on Friday morning.

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Friday lunchtime,

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I went and saw my therapist.

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She's amazing.

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I still love her very, very much.

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And I always feel better

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when I go to see her.

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I'm actually not seeing her

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for like another two weeks

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because I just think

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sometimes I just go there

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to talk to her about whatever.

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And she's probably just as

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entertained as you guys are

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about my crazy life.

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So I did that.

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And then I went and had a

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voice lesson with my friend Gus,

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who is like an opera singer

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and very accomplished.

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And that was super fun.

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He, he tested my range.

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Turns out I have actually a

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pretty good range I'm just

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not comfortable in those

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higher notes but I can

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actually hit them we

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practiced some songs he

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taught me how to breathe

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while I'm singing and how

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to warm up and protect my

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voice so that was like

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super super cool um and

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then I did my normal friday

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night thing with my

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girlfriends we went to um

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this place called the gap

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um had a few drinks then we

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went to this place called

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kirkwood country club

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because it had um this band there ronnie

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Dee and Mikey, Richie B or something.

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I'm going to get the names mixed up.

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It was two guys playing guitar,

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like nineties, you know,

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rock pop music stuff.

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Lots of dancing was happening.

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It was a lot of fun.

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And then we jumped around to

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a couple of other places.

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And I was the designated driver as usual.

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And my friend, one of my friends, you know,

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proceeded to get pretty,

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pretty liquored up.

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So I drove her home.

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Oh,

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one of the bartenders at one of the

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last places we went to

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This guy Butch, he's in a punk band.

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He's a drummer for a punk

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band and he wants to create a trio band,

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him, his son who plays guitar,

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and a female lead singer.

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We talked briefly about

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maybe that would be an

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opportunity for me as well,

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but I don't know how solid

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that idea is or if it's

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even going to work,

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but that was fun anyway.

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So that was Friday night,

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got in really late.

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Saturday morning,

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woke up and went to

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CrossFit again in the morning,

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had a really good partner

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workout with this girl, Jenny,

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who's a beast at my gym.

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My cousin had a baby shower.

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My daughter and I went to that.

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We had some mimosas, had some good food,

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got to see our family a

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little bit and celebrate my

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cousin who's having a baby in June,

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baby girl.

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And then...

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I was supposed to go, here's another,

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my friends are bailing story.

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I was supposed to go to this

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luau fundraiser for the

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green braid project.

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And if you guys know me, um,

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I've supported that

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organization for quite a while.

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Now they do a fundraising CrossFit event.

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That's been in Wilmington

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the last couple of years.

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And I've been like one of

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the event directors for that event.

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Scott has gone down and covered it, um,

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for Clydesdale media in the past as well.

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Um, you know,

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I've brought a lot of judges

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to that organization and done

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like some scoring stuff and

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some other admin work.

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But anyway,

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they were doing this fundraiser

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for pig roast.

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I bought four tickets, spent like,

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I don't know,

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almost three hundred dollars

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on these tickets.

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But the pig roast was like an hour away.

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And so, of course,

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I wanted friends to go with me.

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I had asked a in real life

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guy if he wanted to go and

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he had already made plans.

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So I asked any girlfriends

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that were willing.

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And of course, Friday night,

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when we went out, everyone was like, yeah,

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I'm going to go.

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It's going to be so much fun.

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And then on Saturday,

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everyone starts bailing on

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me at like noon or one

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o'clock and they're like, oh,

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I'm so hung over.

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You know,

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I think I'm going to just chill today.

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So I had a kind of a

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decision to make whether I

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was going to go or not and

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decided not to go.

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I was actually talking to

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this guy on a dating app

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and we were trying to get together.

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We were going to get

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together next Thursday,

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like three days from now,

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because that was the last

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the next time I was available.

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And, uh, we talked on the phone, I guess,

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Friday afternoon,

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and then maybe again on Saturday.

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And I said, Hey, I'm free tonight.

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You know, last minute,

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why don't we get together tonight?

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And he was like, okay, cool.

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We can do that.

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And we sort of hemmed and

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hawed on where we were going to meet.

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He lives.

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Downtown Philadelphia area.

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And I didn't really want to

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go downtown Philadelphia.

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So I picked like a suburb

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that's sort of halfway for both of us.

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And, uh, we were going to,

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he was going to text me

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when he left and I was just

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going to leave.

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He was like, three minutes away.

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I was twenty-five minutes away.

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And we were going to meet and hang out.

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Kenneth, what's up?

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Welcome.

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So I get dressed, shower, do the hair,

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all the things.

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Oh, you can tell me, guys.

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People have very strong

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opinions about the hair.

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Let's talk about this for a second.

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Curly or straight or like curling iron?

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The last episode,

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I think my hair was curled

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with a curling iron.

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I want to know from a guy's

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opinion what you guys think.

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Because every time I ask a guy,

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they're like, oh, it doesn't matter,

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whatever you're comfortable with.

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But I know that's bullshit.

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And I know you have sort of, hi, Jeffrey,

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sort of an opinion on that.

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So let me know.

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I'll be curious to see if we

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like it kind of wild and crazy curly.

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Do we like it straight and refined?

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Or do we like it somewhere in between?

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And I guess, Kenneth,

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we're calling that wavy.

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So we'll see about that.

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Anyway.

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I think I look better with

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it sort of smooth and straight.

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I think it like evens out my

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complexion a little bit.

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I know that's like way too

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girly for everybody for all

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you boys out there.

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Um, but that's my opinion.

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So, uh,

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females weigh in as well because I

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kind of care what you think too.

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I think sometimes we have a better taste.

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Um, anyway, uh, what was I saying?

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Shit.

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Oh, so we were going to,

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I was going to meet this guy.

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So, um,

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He texted me and asked me

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what the dress code was,

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and I told him what I was wearing.

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I was wearing a black tank

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top and these kitten heels.

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I was being a little more

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dressed up than normal.

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I was not my normal skater

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boy outfit with vans and cargo pants.

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I wanted to get dressed up.

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And he was like, oh,

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I have to get dressed up.

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And I said, no, just wear.

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I don't care if you wear

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jeans if there's no real dress code.

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Andrew likes it more straight than curly.

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Thank you, Andrew.

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Thank you for being honest.

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I'm good with that too.

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Jay Birch likes some curl,

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but it matters how you feel in it.

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Yeah, I guess you're right.

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Like if you feel a little

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more confident one way or the other,

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it probably shows through.

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Holly's jealous of my curls.

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Yeah, you know what?

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This is going to make you really angry.

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This is hair from, what's today, Monday?

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This is hair from my date on

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Saturday night.

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And then I slept in it last

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Saturday night.

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I worked out in it Sunday

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morning and did like a

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forty minute high rocks

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workout with lots of running,

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lots of kettlebell swings

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and like one hundred and ten burpees.

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And then I lived my life yesterday,

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slept in it last night and

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just kind of fluffed it this morning.

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So the curls are nice to like.

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For me, low maintenance,

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I can sort of get away with

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not washing it for a while.

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Anyway, back to the story.

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So we're going to,

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we're supposed to meet and

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he sends me a picture of a

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tire with a nail in it.

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And he, I'm going to, we're going to,

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we're going to do a little

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play by play here.

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Cause I think I deleted his messages.

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Um, cause you know, this isn't ending well,

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but we had like almost

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three hundred text messages

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from each other talking

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back and forth the last couple of weeks.

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Um, and it was nothing.

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know we're just kind of

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getting to know each other

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um and phone calls we

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talked on the phone um

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several times anyway so

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let's see he sends me he

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sends me this I don't know

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if you can see this can you

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see this right oh his name

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his name is not joe it's

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like his name is joe um

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anyway so he writes I'm

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gonna flip out and I said

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oh no he said I was running

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to cvs this is elaborate

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guys I was running to cvs

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I'm going to see if anyone

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is open to fix it real quick

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This is at five fifty five on a Saturday.

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And then he comes back in at

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like six fifteen.

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He's like, no, I'm screwed.

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No pun intended.

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No one is open.

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And I said, I'm just sitting here like,

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all right, you have a nail in your tire.

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He had said he had just came

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back from the beach.

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He probably drove two hours

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with him with this nail in his tire.

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Like, just keep driving on it, dude.

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You'll be fine.

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And if not, he has like some coverage.

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It wasn't AAA.

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It was something else.

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because he has like a fleet

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car because he's in sales.

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He said, so I can drive on it,

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but if it goes, but if it comes out,

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it's going to go flat.

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And then I'm thinking like,

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don't you know how to

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change a freaking tire?

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Like criteria number one for

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like an actual man that I

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would be dating would know

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how to do that.

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He said, no, I have BBL.

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It's a fleet vehicle.

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I called them already

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waiting for them to call me

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back to tell me how long.

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And I said, you're home, right?

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And he's like, yeah, why?

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I said,

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I was just making sure you weren't

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still at the beach because

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he was at the beach earlier

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during the day,

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like opening up his beach

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house or something.

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Assuming he even has a beach house,

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he probably doesn't.

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He said, no, I'm home.

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He said, we can go out down here,

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but I feel bad if you have to drive.

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And I said,

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it's not what I had in mind for

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our first encounter.

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I didn't want to go all the way down to,

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he lives in like South Philly.

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I didn't want to do that.

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He said, I get it.

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Trust me.

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I just feel bad.

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I must've gotten it in the

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tire on the way home from the shore.

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Again, elaborate story.

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He said, so are we calling it?

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And he said, if you want,

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I'm not sure when they will

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get here to fix it.

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I don't want to hold you up

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if you can make other plans.

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And then I thought to myself, I was like,

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well,

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can't you just have them come to the

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place where we're going to meet?

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Like you drive it the twenty

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minutes that you have to

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get to where we're meeting

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and then plan on having

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them come there and change your tire.

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Like you're saving some time.

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You still get to see me.

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And again,

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why I'm the dude making solutions here,

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I do not know.

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That's something I need to work on because

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it backfires on me all the

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time and it's not giving off like,

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you know, damsel in distress,

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feminine energy that guys like.

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So anyway, meanwhile,

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I'm like talking to one of

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my girlfriends and she's saying, Oh,

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when are you going out?

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You know, what are you doing?

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And I go to show her the

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picture of the tire because

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I thought like,

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that's easier to say than

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what's going on.

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And so I had downloaded the

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picture that he sent me.

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And I think you probably see

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where I'm going here, but

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I went to pull up the photo

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to send to my girlfriend in

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my photo app and it wasn't there.

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And I was like, oh, that's really weird.

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But then I remembered when

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you save a photo that

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someone sends you and it's got the,

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like all the data behind it

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around when it was taken

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and where it was taken and all that,

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it puts it in your photo

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album in chronological order.

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So it didn't put it at the

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bottom of my thing because

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that's not when the picture was taken.

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So now I'm in Sherlock

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Holmes mode and I am not

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responding to this guy,

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but I am frantically going

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through my phone,

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scrolling the thirteen

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thousand pictures I have

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trying to find this fucking

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tiger picture.

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Of course,

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I can't find it because it's

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like finding a needle in a haystack.

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So I go back to his text and

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I download the picture like

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eighteen times so that it becomes,

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you know,

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this big swath of pictures as

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you're scrolling.

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I finally found it.

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May of twenty twenty four is

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when this picture was taken.

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So he sent me an old photo,

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like purposely crafted this

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whole crazy story about why

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he couldn't meet me.

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Even though he said like,

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you could come down, like what,

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what would we have done if I had said,

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okay, I'll come down and see you.

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Like, was he not going to show up?

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I have no idea, but he kept saying like,

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you know, if I get stuck on the highway,

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I'm screwed.

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Then I'm going to be sitting

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on the side of the road.

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And then he said, you aren't saying much,

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my apologies.

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Cause this is when I was in

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like Sherlock Holmes mode

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and I'm looking through and

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I figured it out.

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And I wrote, sorry,

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not sure what I'm supposed to say.

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And he said, I was just apologizing.

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I feel bad.

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Back it up, back it up.

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A couple, maybe yesterday, day before,

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like I always try to ask

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guys when I'm talking to

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them and I haven't met them yet.

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Like,

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what are some of your red flags or

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what are you

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You know, what are your icks?

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Like,

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I feel like getting to that point

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over text is pretty easy

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because if someone says like, oh,

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I don't want a girl who

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lifts weights or I don't want a girl who,

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I don't know,

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loves dogs or I'm allergic

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to dogs or something,

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all that stuff like matters

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in the very beginning.

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So I said something about, you know,

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I made a joke like, oh,

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we might as well just hold

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our red flags until we meet.

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And he's like, no, no,

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let's talk about them now.

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So he said like,

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I can be stubborn and hardheaded.

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And I was like,

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that's not a red flag in my book,

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but whatever.

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He said, I'm extremely outgoing.

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And sometimes people can be

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intimidated by that.

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And I was, I said, I said, well,

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that's cool.

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Like I want to date an extrovert.

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You guys know, I've talked about that.

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Like I've never dated

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someone who's kind of outgoing.

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I've always dated guys that

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are sort of quiet and

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introverted and that does

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not work for me.

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So we went into this whole

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comment and I said, you know,

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what are some things you

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dislike in a partner?

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He wrote,

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I don't like a liar or

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someone who can't be loyal.

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I need someone who can hold

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their own and doesn't make me there.

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Didn't mean to be there at all times,

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if that makes sense.

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And I'm like, I got you.

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Like, that's fine.

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Honesty is one of my biggest, you know,

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criticalities for someone's personality.

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So anyway, back to, hold on.

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We're going to go to some comments.

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I love that my wife was like, right,

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Corey?

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Isn't that like so cool?

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I love it.

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All right.

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So here we go.

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I just wrote, I said,

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I'm stunned that someone

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that values honesty would

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just wouldn't just say they

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don't want to go out versus

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sending me a picture from

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twenty twenty four

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pretending to have a nail in his tire.

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My job.

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I was like, I got you.

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I should have called him

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because that would have

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been really fun to sort of

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get his like verbal reaction.

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But I didn't feel like

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dealing with him or even

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really talking to him at that point.

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I was going to leave it at that.

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But like he didn't respond.

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And that sort of annoyed me

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that I needed him to like

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I don't know,

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at least apologize or just

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like I needed to know that

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he got the message.

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Right.

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And so I said something.

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I said, you, sir,

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what's wrong with online dating?

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Thanks for validating that for me.

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Because like, come on.

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And his only response was,

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you will be fine.

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Yes,

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I will be fine and I am fine and I'm

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so much finer, not not, you know,

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wasting my Saturday night

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to go out with you.

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So.

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You're like, wow, Saturday night, blown.

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It's six thirty.

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I have nothing to do.

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I'm all dressed up.

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So you know what I do?

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And yes, Holly, isn't that crazy?

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All that effort for a ridiculous story.

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Either way looks bad.

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Either you're a liar or you

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can't solve basic problems.

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Oh, that's like a double negative,

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double negative.

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Hey, Corey says, what a douche canoe.

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Pretty much.

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So so what did I do?

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I decided to go to the place

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where we were supposed to meet anyway,

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because I was

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looking forward to it.

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And I already sort of had it

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in my mind that that's what

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we're going to do.

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There was supposed to be live music there.

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And I went and sat at the bar,

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maybe five minutes into me

00:21:08.678 --> 00:21:09.357
sitting at the bar,

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this older gentleman comes

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and sits next to me.

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We start chatting about soccer.

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We were watching a soccer game on TV,

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a football,

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an international football game.

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Um,

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he had just come from the Philadelphia

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union game, which is a,

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which is a team soccer team.

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I don't know.

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MLS major league soccer.

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Is that a thing?

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Anyway, he was drinking.

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I was drinking my diet Coke

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cause I was by myself and I'm like,

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I don't want to really drink.

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And I just kind of want to

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skip the vibe and see

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what's going on anyway.

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So he's sort of monopolizing

00:21:41.919 --> 00:21:42.818
all my time at the bar.

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Not somebody that I, you know,

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was going to be like dating or,

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or wanting other people to

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think I was dating.

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Cause again, we talked about.

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If you see a man and a woman

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sitting next to each other,

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you sort of make an

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assumption that they're together.

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And again,

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the whole point for me was to

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get out there and to like

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meet new people.

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And I met him.

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His name was Earl.

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Very nice guy.

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However,

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in comes this woman and these three guys.

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And they looked, you know,

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they look to be like maybe my age,

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maybe a little younger.

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And I heard them talking about banking,

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like Discover Bank or

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something like that.

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So I turned around and I

00:22:17.736 --> 00:22:18.616
talked to the girl and I said,

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how do you guys know each other?

00:22:20.030 --> 00:22:21.393
And she said, oh, this is my husband.

00:22:21.413 --> 00:22:22.434
This is my husband's boss.

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And this is the godfather of our children,

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blah, blah, blah.

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And I really got to stop saying blah, blah,

00:22:27.682 --> 00:22:27.843
blah.

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I don't like that.

00:22:30.307 --> 00:22:31.808
Anyway, they...

00:22:32.801 --> 00:22:33.742
We started chatting.

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I went to the restroom.

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I came back and I really

00:22:36.565 --> 00:22:37.685
wanted to go somewhere else

00:22:37.705 --> 00:22:38.666
because it turns out there

00:22:38.707 --> 00:22:40.087
was not live music at that place.

00:22:40.127 --> 00:22:41.990
There was like a live DJ and

00:22:42.029 --> 00:22:43.570
I really wanted to see some live music.

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And she told me that she was

00:22:45.792 --> 00:22:46.933
going they were going to

00:22:46.973 --> 00:22:48.114
take their boss to a bunch

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of places in that town

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because he had just moved there.

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And they were familiar with all the area,

00:22:53.439 --> 00:22:54.680
all the different local bars.

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And it's like this main

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street of just restaurants

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and bars the whole time.

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Um, so I'm gonna sneeze.

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I think maybe not.

00:23:06.290 --> 00:23:06.871
Should I lost it?

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Okay.

00:23:07.491 --> 00:23:09.053
Um, anyway,

00:23:09.093 --> 00:23:10.513
and I so I looked at her and I said,

00:23:10.814 --> 00:23:12.796
Can I please go with you?

00:23:12.895 --> 00:23:14.876
I just totally invited myself.

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And it was kind of like,

00:23:16.858 --> 00:23:17.919
it was kind of like girl

00:23:17.959 --> 00:23:19.641
code for she knew I was

00:23:20.020 --> 00:23:21.162
sitting next to this guy

00:23:21.201 --> 00:23:23.943
that clearly we weren't like a match.

00:23:24.461 --> 00:23:25.102
Um,

00:23:25.162 --> 00:23:26.663
and I kind of wanted to get away from him,

00:23:26.762 --> 00:23:28.064
not in a mean way,

00:23:28.324 --> 00:23:30.625
not in a like rape whistle way.

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I just,

00:23:31.145 --> 00:23:32.926
it was not how I wanted to spend my time.

00:23:33.907 --> 00:23:34.127
Um,

00:23:34.147 --> 00:23:36.048
so I thanked Earl for the conversation.

00:23:36.229 --> 00:23:37.809
I kindly got up and they

00:23:37.829 --> 00:23:39.270
took me to three other bars

00:23:39.351 --> 00:23:40.392
and we had a blast.

00:23:40.551 --> 00:23:41.573
I have her cell phone number

00:23:41.633 --> 00:23:42.333
and now we're friends.

00:23:43.053 --> 00:23:43.733
Her name is Jennifer.

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And she lives in a town

00:23:45.394 --> 00:23:46.055
pretty close to me.

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And, uh,

00:23:47.635 --> 00:23:48.737
there was like a little bit of

00:23:48.757 --> 00:23:50.317
chemistry between me and one of the guys,

00:23:50.337 --> 00:23:52.019
but he was like, way too young.

00:23:52.506 --> 00:23:54.366
Um, but we chatted a little bit.

00:23:54.386 --> 00:23:54.826
It was funny.

00:23:55.086 --> 00:23:56.587
I was talking to him and

00:23:56.607 --> 00:23:57.209
then he went to the

00:23:57.249 --> 00:23:58.548
bathroom and Jennifer comes

00:23:58.588 --> 00:23:59.210
up to me and she's like,

00:23:59.329 --> 00:24:01.510
so what do you think about so-and-so?

00:24:02.151 --> 00:24:02.731
And I, you know,

00:24:02.751 --> 00:24:04.051
and I just kind of giggled and I was like,

00:24:04.092 --> 00:24:04.853
he's a really nice guy.

00:24:04.893 --> 00:24:06.294
So I think he's too young for me.

00:24:06.334 --> 00:24:06.993
And she's like, oh,

00:24:07.213 --> 00:24:08.035
he's not too young for you.

00:24:08.494 --> 00:24:09.935
And then she told me he was and I was like,

00:24:09.976 --> 00:24:11.836
yeah, he probably is.

00:24:12.217 --> 00:24:15.979
Um, anyway, so that was my Saturday night.

00:24:16.019 --> 00:24:16.898
I thought it was pretty cool.

00:24:17.279 --> 00:24:17.960
Um, just

00:24:18.318 --> 00:24:19.940
crazy craziness about that

00:24:19.960 --> 00:24:21.319
dude with the with the flat

00:24:21.380 --> 00:24:22.500
tire thing that was kind of

00:24:22.520 --> 00:24:26.082
annoying um so sunday

00:24:26.122 --> 00:24:27.423
morning I got home I got

00:24:27.442 --> 00:24:28.563
home early like eleven

00:24:28.603 --> 00:24:29.804
o'clock maybe then just

00:24:29.864 --> 00:24:32.625
like went to bed um sunday

00:24:32.684 --> 00:24:33.746
I did a workout at my

00:24:33.786 --> 00:24:34.445
crossfit gym it was

00:24:34.506 --> 00:24:36.967
actually a hyrox workout it

00:24:37.007 --> 00:24:39.228
was two four six eight ten

00:24:39.288 --> 00:24:40.729
ascending ladder forty

00:24:41.088 --> 00:24:45.611
minutes um burpees no it

00:24:45.631 --> 00:24:46.310
didn't start with burpees

00:24:46.903 --> 00:24:48.223
You had to start with burpees,

00:24:48.324 --> 00:24:49.025
kettlebell swings,

00:24:49.105 --> 00:24:50.826
American kettlebell swings, and V-ups.

00:24:51.467 --> 00:24:53.468
And every four minutes, starting at zero,

00:24:53.548 --> 00:24:54.749
we ran a four hundred.

00:24:55.910 --> 00:24:58.132
So lots of running.

00:24:59.011 --> 00:25:00.393
Like I said, one hundred and ten burpees,

00:25:00.413 --> 00:25:01.314
one hundred ten kettlebell

00:25:01.354 --> 00:25:03.035
swings with this guy.

00:25:04.016 --> 00:25:04.717
And it was totally fine.

00:25:04.936 --> 00:25:06.038
I didn't even have to adjust

00:25:06.077 --> 00:25:07.598
my grip or make a fist on

00:25:07.618 --> 00:25:08.599
the ground or anything else.

00:25:08.619 --> 00:25:11.221
So I felt really good about that.

00:25:12.377 --> 00:25:13.298
What else did I do on Sunday?

00:25:13.317 --> 00:25:14.259
I went shopping.

00:25:14.558 --> 00:25:14.638
Oh,

00:25:14.699 --> 00:25:16.398
I took my mom out to dinner last night.

00:25:16.439 --> 00:25:18.160
We went to this place called

00:25:18.220 --> 00:25:18.920
Kid Chalene's.

00:25:18.940 --> 00:25:20.201
It's a little bar down the road.

00:25:20.240 --> 00:25:21.201
We sat at the bar.

00:25:22.340 --> 00:25:23.561
I was telling her all about

00:25:23.622 --> 00:25:24.842
my stories from the week.

00:25:24.922 --> 00:25:26.482
She, you know, thinks I'm crazy.

00:25:28.804 --> 00:25:29.243
What else?

00:25:29.763 --> 00:25:30.784
I told her that I wanted to

00:25:30.804 --> 00:25:31.765
do something on TikTok

00:25:31.785 --> 00:25:33.164
where she scrolls for me.

00:25:33.244 --> 00:25:34.404
Like she goes through some

00:25:34.444 --> 00:25:35.506
of my dating apps and just

00:25:35.526 --> 00:25:37.026
makes decisions on my behalf.

00:25:38.106 --> 00:25:39.366
And she thought that was really funny.

00:25:39.406 --> 00:25:41.208
So she's also getting...

00:25:42.914 --> 00:25:44.115
She's getting very,

00:25:44.616 --> 00:25:46.818
she used to be like super judgmental.

00:25:47.380 --> 00:25:48.780
Like she hated tattoos.

00:25:48.922 --> 00:25:50.784
She hated facial hair, all this stuff.

00:25:50.844 --> 00:25:52.045
And we walk into this bar

00:25:52.105 --> 00:25:53.405
last night and there's a

00:25:53.445 --> 00:25:56.148
guy sitting by himself eating a burger.

00:25:56.249 --> 00:25:57.310
Clearly he had just played a

00:25:57.351 --> 00:26:00.134
round of golf and very attractive.

00:26:00.153 --> 00:26:03.057
He had like a full beard, a hat on.

00:26:03.564 --> 00:26:05.084
like a tailor-made hat and

00:26:05.104 --> 00:26:07.464
like this vibrant tattoo sleeve.

00:26:07.625 --> 00:26:08.724
And I'm thinking my mom's

00:26:08.765 --> 00:26:09.785
going to look at him and be like,

00:26:09.924 --> 00:26:11.105
oh my God, he's so gross.

00:26:11.125 --> 00:26:11.704
Look at his hair.

00:26:11.724 --> 00:26:12.546
It looks, you know,

00:26:12.605 --> 00:26:14.306
unkempt and uneducated.

00:26:14.365 --> 00:26:15.786
And she's very judgy about

00:26:15.806 --> 00:26:16.346
that kind of stuff.

00:26:16.846 --> 00:26:18.426
And she actually said to me, she's like,

00:26:18.906 --> 00:26:20.946
that guy's attractive.

00:26:20.967 --> 00:26:23.227
And I was like, mom, what are you doing?

00:26:23.887 --> 00:26:25.067
So she's coming around or

00:26:25.107 --> 00:26:27.288
maybe she's just starting to deal with,

00:26:27.528 --> 00:26:29.008
you know, what my type is or whatever.

00:26:29.068 --> 00:26:29.509
But anyway,

00:26:30.469 --> 00:26:31.308
I thought that was really funny

00:26:31.348 --> 00:26:31.848
that she did that.

00:26:32.328 --> 00:26:34.730
Corey, what do you have to say here?

00:26:34.769 --> 00:26:35.490
This is a lot, buddy.

00:26:35.589 --> 00:26:36.351
Your problem, Kat,

00:26:36.371 --> 00:26:36.891
is that you don't look

00:26:36.931 --> 00:26:37.750
anywhere near thirty two.

00:26:37.810 --> 00:26:39.031
So new people you meet don't

00:26:39.092 --> 00:26:40.652
think that a guy who's thirty.

00:26:40.832 --> 00:26:41.913
Yeah, I mean, I guess so.

00:26:42.053 --> 00:26:42.252
I mean,

00:26:43.012 --> 00:26:45.173
he he might not have thought that either.

00:26:45.193 --> 00:26:45.753
But guess what?

00:26:45.854 --> 00:26:47.615
Like when we left that night,

00:26:48.075 --> 00:26:50.076
all four of us stood outside.

00:26:50.175 --> 00:26:51.757
No, one, two, three, four,

00:26:51.797 --> 00:26:52.977
all five of us stood

00:26:53.017 --> 00:26:55.278
outside the bar and I had

00:26:55.298 --> 00:26:57.038
like seven blocks to walk to my car.

00:26:57.522 --> 00:26:58.463
And they were all going sort

00:26:58.503 --> 00:26:59.644
of in the opposite direction.

00:26:59.784 --> 00:27:00.664
And I like gave everyone a

00:27:00.704 --> 00:27:02.005
hug and said like, so nice to meet you,

00:27:02.025 --> 00:27:02.346
whatever.

00:27:02.925 --> 00:27:05.227
Um, hi Jody.

00:27:05.487 --> 00:27:08.128
Um, no one offered to walk me to my car,

00:27:08.288 --> 00:27:09.249
which I was kind of annoyed.

00:27:09.348 --> 00:27:09.788
I would, I mean,

00:27:09.828 --> 00:27:10.829
I didn't need the guy that

00:27:10.890 --> 00:27:12.290
I thought was cute to walk me to the car,

00:27:12.310 --> 00:27:13.371
but even like the couple,

00:27:13.892 --> 00:27:15.491
if that were me and we

00:27:15.531 --> 00:27:16.932
picked up this single woman

00:27:17.313 --> 00:27:18.794
for the night and she had

00:27:18.913 --> 00:27:19.835
seven blocks to walk,

00:27:19.934 --> 00:27:21.015
I probably would have

00:27:21.134 --> 00:27:22.415
offered to drive her to her car,

00:27:22.455 --> 00:27:23.436
walk her to her car, whatever.

00:27:23.836 --> 00:27:25.518
But anyway, not a big deal.

00:27:25.738 --> 00:27:25.798
Um,

00:27:26.826 --> 00:27:27.807
But you're probably right.

00:27:28.086 --> 00:27:30.348
It's just funny because, again,

00:27:30.588 --> 00:27:31.769
the attention that I get

00:27:31.930 --> 00:27:34.192
when I'm out is mostly from older men.

00:27:35.232 --> 00:27:35.792
And I don't know if they're

00:27:35.813 --> 00:27:37.114
just like so damn confident

00:27:37.134 --> 00:27:42.719
and they don't give a shit or what.

00:27:42.739 --> 00:27:43.598
But yeah, Corey,

00:27:43.659 --> 00:27:44.619
I know you would have offered me to walk.

00:27:44.640 --> 00:27:46.261
And I've talked to other

00:27:46.281 --> 00:27:47.261
people and they said the same thing.

00:27:47.281 --> 00:27:47.762
So anyway.

00:27:48.960 --> 00:27:50.721
Um, so Sunday was good.

00:27:51.201 --> 00:27:52.522
We went out, like we did that.

00:27:52.643 --> 00:27:54.384
I kind of explained to her, you know,

00:27:54.804 --> 00:27:56.325
what I'm looking for and what I'm doing.

00:27:56.404 --> 00:27:58.727
And, you know, she's like my biggest fan.

00:27:58.787 --> 00:27:59.708
So that was really fun.

00:27:59.728 --> 00:28:01.009
She did not wear her hearing aids though.

00:28:01.028 --> 00:28:01.788
So it was kind of annoying

00:28:01.828 --> 00:28:02.609
because I had to repeat

00:28:02.630 --> 00:28:04.211
myself a million times and

00:28:04.270 --> 00:28:05.211
I felt like I was yelling

00:28:05.571 --> 00:28:06.231
and the whole bar could

00:28:06.271 --> 00:28:07.633
probably hear what I was talking about.

00:28:08.233 --> 00:28:10.755
Um, so that was kind of weird, but anyway,

00:28:11.175 --> 00:28:13.156
um, we did, we did talk a little bit.

00:28:13.942 --> 00:28:14.083
Um,

00:28:14.103 --> 00:28:16.045
then what happened then last night I

00:28:16.105 --> 00:28:17.005
spent like most of the

00:28:17.045 --> 00:28:18.705
evening actually talking to, um,

00:28:18.766 --> 00:28:19.666
a new guy that I matched

00:28:19.686 --> 00:28:20.627
with on Facebook dating.

00:28:21.488 --> 00:28:23.750
Um, we have a lot in common.

00:28:24.410 --> 00:28:26.590
Um, we just texted back and forth.

00:28:26.612 --> 00:28:27.392
We didn't talk on the phone,

00:28:27.872 --> 00:28:30.294
but we were up until like,

00:28:30.334 --> 00:28:32.915
like two thirty in the morning texting.

00:28:33.635 --> 00:28:34.557
I had to sort of call it

00:28:34.576 --> 00:28:35.557
because I was like, I was,

00:28:35.656 --> 00:28:36.298
I was super tired,

00:28:36.317 --> 00:28:37.798
but I was enjoying the conversation.

00:28:38.479 --> 00:28:40.480
Um, he needs to ask me out though.

00:28:40.621 --> 00:28:41.780
He has not asked me out yet.

00:28:41.800 --> 00:28:42.461
And, um,

00:28:43.378 --> 00:28:44.138
We're going to we're going

00:28:44.159 --> 00:28:45.558
to not make any moves until that happens,

00:28:45.578 --> 00:28:47.559
because like I've talked about,

00:28:47.680 --> 00:28:48.619
I need to meet people in

00:28:48.660 --> 00:28:50.539
person to see if there's

00:28:51.221 --> 00:28:52.840
like that chemistry spark

00:28:52.861 --> 00:28:54.300
physical attraction piece.

00:28:55.981 --> 00:28:57.102
And I don't like to get too

00:28:57.122 --> 00:28:58.582
attached to somebody over

00:28:58.642 --> 00:28:59.602
text before then,

00:29:00.082 --> 00:29:00.741
because then it makes it

00:29:00.781 --> 00:29:03.022
even harder or more

00:29:03.063 --> 00:29:04.843
complicated or complex when

00:29:04.863 --> 00:29:06.624
you do meet in person.

00:29:06.763 --> 00:29:10.203
I don't want the feelings to

00:29:10.223 --> 00:29:13.244
like be caught before we actually meet.

00:29:13.806 --> 00:29:14.487
because then I'm going to be

00:29:14.527 --> 00:29:15.207
really disappointed.

00:29:16.407 --> 00:29:19.590
Jody Lynn says, do not text anything.

00:29:19.770 --> 00:29:20.711
Oh, you wouldn't say on the phone.

00:29:20.791 --> 00:29:22.313
Yeah, no, I don't do that.

00:29:24.515 --> 00:29:26.435
We definitely didn't do

00:29:26.455 --> 00:29:27.017
anything like that.

00:29:27.076 --> 00:29:29.338
Heidi, my baby.

00:29:29.439 --> 00:29:31.380
Hi, I miss you.

00:29:31.400 --> 00:29:32.401
Heidi met a guy once and his

00:29:32.421 --> 00:29:33.721
voice was super high deal breaker.

00:29:33.781 --> 00:29:34.603
Yeah, that's true.

00:29:35.824 --> 00:29:37.765
The good thing, well, I mean, not for me.

00:29:37.805 --> 00:29:38.486
I have no idea what this

00:29:38.526 --> 00:29:39.406
guy's voice sounds like,

00:29:39.446 --> 00:29:41.028
but I sent him all the

00:29:41.067 --> 00:29:42.388
links to my YouTube shit

00:29:42.429 --> 00:29:43.349
because I figure...

00:29:43.972 --> 00:29:45.334
that person's going to find out anyway.

00:29:46.074 --> 00:29:46.854
Um,

00:29:46.894 --> 00:29:49.255
so I sent him my seven interview where

00:29:49.275 --> 00:29:50.715
it talks about me being on TRT.

00:29:51.476 --> 00:29:52.616
Um, and it talks about, you know,

00:29:52.636 --> 00:29:53.896
when I was married and have my gym.

00:29:55.137 --> 00:29:58.538
Um, and then, um,

00:29:58.638 --> 00:30:00.720
I sent him the Clydes or I

00:30:00.759 --> 00:30:01.599
sent him the dating,

00:30:01.779 --> 00:30:03.601
one of the dating episodes or whatever.

00:30:03.701 --> 00:30:05.582
So it kind of is helpful for guys.

00:30:05.662 --> 00:30:07.482
Cause I, you really get to feel,

00:30:07.903 --> 00:30:08.742
you get a feel for my

00:30:08.803 --> 00:30:09.743
personality and what I'm

00:30:09.784 --> 00:30:11.804
like on these videos.

00:30:13.005 --> 00:30:13.184
Uh,

00:30:14.836 --> 00:30:16.196
he said he was hot but I

00:30:16.237 --> 00:30:17.977
couldn't do it yeah I mean

00:30:18.037 --> 00:30:20.018
sometimes that's a

00:30:20.218 --> 00:30:21.357
definitely a deal breaker

00:30:21.939 --> 00:30:23.058
what does this mean judy

00:30:23.179 --> 00:30:25.220
jody obligatory mother's

00:30:25.539 --> 00:30:29.480
bag bag I don't know what

00:30:29.500 --> 00:30:31.061
that means trish your

00:30:31.082 --> 00:30:34.063
auntie yeah um the the

00:30:34.123 --> 00:30:35.844
smallest possible dose five

00:30:35.923 --> 00:30:37.044
units every five days

00:30:37.838 --> 00:30:40.099
Um, it's like barely, I had to get like,

00:30:40.681 --> 00:30:43.541
uh, half a milliliter vials or, um,

00:30:43.561 --> 00:30:45.544
syringes just to administer it.

00:30:45.703 --> 00:30:47.023
I just took it this morning, actually.

00:30:47.664 --> 00:30:48.365
Um, every five days,

00:30:48.724 --> 00:30:51.126
my levels are like hovering around to.

00:30:51.146 --> 00:30:53.288
I think something like that.

00:30:54.048 --> 00:30:55.769
Um, they were at,

00:30:55.788 --> 00:30:56.609
they had actually at one

00:30:56.670 --> 00:30:58.250
point been at a eight hundred,

00:30:59.371 --> 00:31:00.412
which is super scary.

00:31:01.011 --> 00:31:02.113
Um, but I swear to God,

00:31:02.353 --> 00:31:03.334
you guys have seen me

00:31:04.074 --> 00:31:05.375
through that eight hundred

00:31:05.968 --> 00:31:07.709
uh spike and the dip and I

00:31:07.729 --> 00:31:08.689
don't think you would have

00:31:08.729 --> 00:31:10.690
noticed like I didn't you

00:31:10.710 --> 00:31:11.490
know my voice didn't get

00:31:11.530 --> 00:31:14.031
any lower I didn't uh you

00:31:14.051 --> 00:31:15.032
know my body didn't change

00:31:15.073 --> 00:31:15.972
very much the only thing

00:31:15.992 --> 00:31:16.933
that the only thing that

00:31:16.973 --> 00:31:18.094
testosterone that I notice

00:31:18.153 --> 00:31:19.734
on my body is that like I

00:31:19.755 --> 00:31:20.714
have to shave my legs

00:31:20.955 --> 00:31:22.056
pretty much every day like

00:31:22.536 --> 00:31:23.416
my hair growth is a real

00:31:23.457 --> 00:31:25.337
thing um you know I get

00:31:25.357 --> 00:31:26.458
like a random hair like on

00:31:26.478 --> 00:31:27.499
my thigh that I've never

00:31:27.538 --> 00:31:28.659
had before which I can't

00:31:28.700 --> 00:31:30.881
stand um but my waxer is

00:31:30.901 --> 00:31:31.601
like my best friend

00:31:32.720 --> 00:31:33.640
But yes, I am on that.

00:31:33.759 --> 00:31:35.840
I feel like it balances out

00:31:36.060 --> 00:31:37.000
my hormones a lot.

00:31:37.361 --> 00:31:43.261
I don't have, oh, you're funny.

00:31:44.162 --> 00:31:46.282
I definitely don't have the

00:31:46.323 --> 00:31:49.383
kind of female problems

00:31:49.722 --> 00:31:51.544
that most women going

00:31:51.564 --> 00:31:53.324
through menopause go through.

00:31:53.344 --> 00:31:55.424
I'm trying to keep that PG,

00:31:55.525 --> 00:31:57.065
but I don't have those

00:31:57.105 --> 00:31:58.625
kinds of symptoms or issues.

00:31:59.785 --> 00:32:01.986
And before I went, I actually,

00:32:02.006 --> 00:32:02.346
it was funny.

00:32:03.038 --> 00:32:04.178
I went on TRT with

00:32:04.618 --> 00:32:05.699
California Hormones back

00:32:05.719 --> 00:32:07.779
when Sivan was working with me,

00:32:09.119 --> 00:32:10.000
or I was working with them.

00:32:10.661 --> 00:32:12.921
And I think I was taking too much.

00:32:13.601 --> 00:32:15.862
And that's when my levels

00:32:15.882 --> 00:32:16.561
got kind of high.

00:32:16.622 --> 00:32:18.682
And I sort of, instead of, I panicked.

00:32:18.742 --> 00:32:21.864
Instead of like just reducing my dosage,

00:32:22.223 --> 00:32:23.625
I just went off of it cold turkey.

00:32:23.724 --> 00:32:24.384
And let me tell you,

00:32:24.444 --> 00:32:26.246
when you go off of that shit cold turkey,

00:32:26.905 --> 00:32:27.306
not fun.

00:32:28.280 --> 00:32:30.502
I started developing the worst hot flashes,

00:32:30.742 --> 00:32:32.224
the worst menopause symptoms,

00:32:32.285 --> 00:32:36.107
not the not like the female part stuff,

00:32:36.147 --> 00:32:37.869
but the hot flashes were like real.

00:32:38.009 --> 00:32:38.970
I was getting like I was

00:32:38.990 --> 00:32:40.332
getting them like every twenty minutes,

00:32:40.652 --> 00:32:43.954
like full flop sweat, hot flashes.

00:32:44.015 --> 00:32:45.355
And I definitely think that

00:32:45.655 --> 00:32:46.737
stopping that testosterone

00:32:47.176 --> 00:32:47.938
caused part of that.

00:32:48.739 --> 00:32:49.479
But I went on.

00:32:49.579 --> 00:32:50.460
I'm taking estrogen and

00:32:50.500 --> 00:32:52.402
progesterone from my OBGYN

00:32:52.602 --> 00:32:53.903
and I'm taking testosterone

00:32:53.982 --> 00:32:54.683
kind of on my own.

00:32:55.507 --> 00:32:55.707
Um,

00:32:55.886 --> 00:32:57.768
I buy it online and I administer it

00:32:57.807 --> 00:33:00.128
myself and my primary care

00:33:00.169 --> 00:33:01.409
doctor knows that I'm on it

00:33:01.869 --> 00:33:02.789
and she's very good at

00:33:03.069 --> 00:33:04.009
monitoring my blood.

00:33:04.371 --> 00:33:06.530
So, you know, she can't prescribe it.

00:33:06.731 --> 00:33:07.571
She can't give it to me.

00:33:08.332 --> 00:33:09.292
Um,

00:33:09.333 --> 00:33:11.232
but she's very supportive of it and she

00:33:11.272 --> 00:33:12.294
sees, you know,

00:33:12.354 --> 00:33:14.173
how I'm feeling on it and how I'm looking,

00:33:14.654 --> 00:33:15.335
uh, and behaving.

00:33:15.375 --> 00:33:17.155
And she says, you know, more power to you.

00:33:18.155 --> 00:33:20.557
So, um, CrossFit wants to know,

00:33:20.576 --> 00:33:21.877
did I get super jacked at a hundred?

00:33:22.018 --> 00:33:22.877
No, I wasn't.

00:33:24.266 --> 00:33:25.346
I didn't notice anything.

00:33:25.526 --> 00:33:25.965
Like I said,

00:33:26.606 --> 00:33:28.586
you guys have seen me through

00:33:28.686 --> 00:33:29.346
this whole journey.

00:33:29.406 --> 00:33:31.086
I mean, I started it, gosh,

00:33:31.587 --> 00:33:32.468
almost three years ago,

00:33:32.508 --> 00:33:33.587
maybe two and a half years ago,

00:33:33.867 --> 00:33:35.067
back right around the time

00:33:35.087 --> 00:33:36.469
when I did my interview with Sevan.

00:33:36.568 --> 00:33:38.169
And I don't remember when that was exactly,

00:33:38.229 --> 00:33:42.430
but it was probably two years ago.

00:33:42.769 --> 00:33:44.910
I started like two and a half years ago.

00:33:44.970 --> 00:33:45.589
How do you find online?

00:33:46.490 --> 00:33:46.711
Trish,

00:33:46.730 --> 00:33:48.211
if you want to send me a DM on Instagram,

00:33:48.250 --> 00:33:49.050
I can give you the link.

00:33:50.632 --> 00:33:52.692
My son hooked me up with a place.

00:33:54.160 --> 00:33:54.840
where you can get it.

00:33:55.740 --> 00:33:57.063
It's different than the

00:33:57.083 --> 00:33:57.722
place where I got my

00:33:57.762 --> 00:33:58.784
peptides for my elbow,

00:33:58.983 --> 00:34:00.025
which I'm also still taking.

00:34:01.925 --> 00:34:02.906
And I take those every day,

00:34:03.126 --> 00:34:04.528
but I have a vial.

00:34:04.907 --> 00:34:06.108
It probably costs me maybe

00:34:06.148 --> 00:34:06.789
two hundred and fifty

00:34:06.829 --> 00:34:08.030
dollars and I've had it for

00:34:08.070 --> 00:34:09.552
almost a year because I

00:34:09.592 --> 00:34:10.833
take so little of it.

00:34:11.534 --> 00:34:13.574
Really, it's not it's not a lot.

00:34:14.496 --> 00:34:16.637
And Trisha, some states don't allow it.

00:34:16.697 --> 00:34:17.878
Well,

00:34:17.958 --> 00:34:19.179
I can order it for you and then I can

00:34:19.219 --> 00:34:20.059
send it to you if you need

00:34:20.179 --> 00:34:22.461
if you need me to for a small fee.

00:34:24.554 --> 00:34:25.634
I'm going to start my own, uh,

00:34:26.034 --> 00:34:27.835
my own TRT clinic here in a minute,

00:34:27.875 --> 00:34:31.157
but yeah, um, I do buy it online and it's,

00:34:31.376 --> 00:34:32.677
you know, I think it's, you know,

00:34:32.697 --> 00:34:34.018
one of those places where they say like,

00:34:34.038 --> 00:34:34.918
it's for research only.

00:34:34.938 --> 00:34:37.958
It's probably not, um,

00:34:37.998 --> 00:34:42.800
sanctioned by anybody, but, um,

00:34:42.840 --> 00:34:44.601
you think PCPs can, yeah,

00:34:44.702 --> 00:34:45.902
I think they can too,

00:34:45.943 --> 00:34:48.503
but you have to be like clinically low,

00:34:48.824 --> 00:34:49.603
like at zero.

00:34:49.724 --> 00:34:50.684
And for guys you have to be

00:34:50.724 --> 00:34:52.085
under two hundred and like,

00:34:52.804 --> 00:34:53.724
know if a guy's at five

00:34:53.764 --> 00:34:54.445
hundred and he feels like

00:34:54.505 --> 00:34:56.485
crap um and he's having a

00:34:56.525 --> 00:34:57.666
hard time you know building

00:34:57.726 --> 00:34:58.666
muscle mass and he's over

00:34:58.706 --> 00:34:59.606
fifty and he's starting to

00:34:59.626 --> 00:35:03.168
look like a female um what

00:35:03.188 --> 00:35:03.987
are you gonna do like your

00:35:04.007 --> 00:35:04.809
doctor's not gonna give it

00:35:04.829 --> 00:35:07.108
to you um and and a lot of

00:35:07.128 --> 00:35:08.090
the doctors that do they

00:35:08.110 --> 00:35:09.329
give you like pellets or

00:35:09.349 --> 00:35:10.510
they give you cream and all

00:35:10.530 --> 00:35:11.210
that stuff and like

00:35:11.351 --> 00:35:12.190
injecting is really the

00:35:12.231 --> 00:35:13.150
only way to go because you

00:35:13.190 --> 00:35:14.831
can really control the

00:35:14.851 --> 00:35:16.532
dosages and dial it up and

00:35:16.572 --> 00:35:17.552
down you get that pellet

00:35:17.572 --> 00:35:18.672
and it's like in your body

00:35:18.753 --> 00:35:20.552
for a period of time until

00:35:20.592 --> 00:35:21.793
it dissolves and the creams

00:35:21.853 --> 00:35:22.514
don't really work

00:35:23.623 --> 00:35:25.545
So, you know, I'm not a doctor,

00:35:26.025 --> 00:35:27.286
but I know what works for me.

00:35:27.527 --> 00:35:29.148
And I've had experience with

00:35:29.268 --> 00:35:30.327
other people that are close

00:35:30.347 --> 00:35:31.909
to me that have done it and

00:35:31.949 --> 00:35:32.949
have had great results.

00:35:35.311 --> 00:35:36.251
I wouldn't hesitate to do it.

00:35:36.311 --> 00:35:37.532
You just have to have like a

00:35:37.572 --> 00:35:39.213
primary care doctor who

00:35:41.094 --> 00:35:43.157
really is understanding and is willing to,

00:35:43.436 --> 00:35:43.617
you know,

00:35:43.637 --> 00:35:44.657
write your script for that blood

00:35:44.677 --> 00:35:45.677
work probably every six

00:35:45.717 --> 00:35:46.539
months just to make sure

00:35:46.559 --> 00:35:47.458
that some of your other

00:35:47.498 --> 00:35:48.619
levels aren't out of whack.

00:35:49.039 --> 00:35:49.199
You know,

00:35:49.219 --> 00:35:50.360
you shouldn't have high blood pressure.

00:35:50.641 --> 00:35:51.481
You shouldn't have sleep apnea.

00:35:51.802 --> 00:35:53.023
You shouldn't have a heart condition.

00:35:53.835 --> 00:35:56.715
Um, you have to kind of be, um, you know,

00:35:56.735 --> 00:35:58.036
fairly, fairly healthy.

00:35:58.097 --> 00:35:59.436
Otherwise CrossFit says,

00:35:59.476 --> 00:36:00.277
I guess I can cancel my

00:36:00.318 --> 00:36:01.657
natty or not bid for cat.

00:36:01.777 --> 00:36:02.597
Yeah.

00:36:02.717 --> 00:36:04.639
I mean, if that's what you want to call it,

00:36:04.739 --> 00:36:05.639
I mean, if I got, if,

00:36:06.000 --> 00:36:07.239
if I was in a competition

00:36:07.260 --> 00:36:08.920
where they tested my testosterone levels,

00:36:08.981 --> 00:36:10.981
I wouldn't fail the test in

00:36:11.041 --> 00:36:13.402
terms of my levels, just because they're,

00:36:14.242 --> 00:36:15.222
they're within the normal

00:36:15.262 --> 00:36:17.204
ranges or maybe like slightly above,

00:36:17.344 --> 00:36:19.204
but I'm not going to the CrossFit game.

00:36:19.244 --> 00:36:21.885
So you don't have to worry about that.

00:36:22.146 --> 00:36:22.186
Um,

00:36:23.038 --> 00:36:24.099
And yeah, like I said, I mean,

00:36:24.478 --> 00:36:25.679
it's probably helped me

00:36:25.840 --> 00:36:27.820
keep my muscle mass over

00:36:27.860 --> 00:36:29.262
the years when I have gone

00:36:29.302 --> 00:36:31.643
through some peaks and valleys,

00:36:31.804 --> 00:36:32.864
mostly valleys of not

00:36:32.905 --> 00:36:33.945
working out because I'm

00:36:33.965 --> 00:36:35.525
busy with the gym or I got

00:36:35.585 --> 00:36:37.768
injured and things like that.

00:36:41.329 --> 00:36:41.909
Yeah, Andrew,

00:36:42.090 --> 00:36:43.471
I highly recommend just getting,

00:36:43.992 --> 00:36:45.193
you want to get a couple of things.

00:36:45.213 --> 00:36:46.713
You want to get your testosterone.

00:36:46.793 --> 00:36:48.875
You want to get your free testosterone.

00:36:49.414 --> 00:36:49.956
Sometimes that's a

00:36:49.996 --> 00:36:51.657
calculation and you need to get your

00:36:52.768 --> 00:36:56.469
Um, it's like a four letter, um,

00:36:56.989 --> 00:36:59.449
acronym and it's like the

00:36:59.708 --> 00:37:02.130
sexual hormone globulin,

00:37:02.210 --> 00:37:02.889
something or other.

00:37:05.070 --> 00:37:06.891
Um, I'll,

00:37:06.931 --> 00:37:07.751
I'll look that up and let you

00:37:07.771 --> 00:37:08.271
know what that is,

00:37:08.331 --> 00:37:10.030
but those are sort of the

00:37:10.070 --> 00:37:10.851
things you need to look at.

00:37:10.871 --> 00:37:11.612
You also need to look at

00:37:11.632 --> 00:37:13.391
your red blood cell count

00:37:13.992 --> 00:37:15.411
and your hematocrit.

00:37:16.172 --> 00:37:17.253
Um, yes.

00:37:17.333 --> 00:37:18.313
Thank you, Trish.

00:37:21.268 --> 00:37:22.630
Sexual hormone binding

00:37:22.670 --> 00:37:24.050
globulin is what it's called.

00:37:24.490 --> 00:37:27.373
S H B G. Sex hormone binding globulin.

00:37:27.432 --> 00:37:29.313
Yep.

00:37:29.333 --> 00:37:30.213
CrossFit's got it too.

00:37:30.494 --> 00:37:30.653
Yeah.

00:37:30.693 --> 00:37:31.835
That helps to calculate that

00:37:31.875 --> 00:37:33.056
free testosterone because

00:37:33.835 --> 00:37:35.056
my free testosterone is

00:37:35.097 --> 00:37:36.757
completely normal for a female.

00:37:36.838 --> 00:37:39.820
So it's kind of like when you eat food,

00:37:39.860 --> 00:37:41.800
like I'm one hundred and

00:37:41.880 --> 00:37:44.121
forty pounds and I could

00:37:44.181 --> 00:37:46.563
eat a candy bar and my body could absorb,

00:37:47.123 --> 00:37:47.364
you know,

00:37:47.423 --> 00:37:49.364
three hundred calories of that candy bar.

00:37:50.097 --> 00:37:51.018
could have another person

00:37:51.057 --> 00:37:51.858
who also weighs a hundred

00:37:51.878 --> 00:37:52.798
and forty pounds eat the

00:37:52.838 --> 00:37:54.260
same snickers bar and their

00:37:54.300 --> 00:37:55.880
body might consume or might

00:37:55.940 --> 00:37:58.021
absorb you know x number of

00:37:58.061 --> 00:37:59.583
calories like calories are

00:37:59.742 --> 00:38:01.623
is just a generalization of

00:38:02.423 --> 00:38:03.485
what your body needs to

00:38:03.565 --> 00:38:05.646
expend to to digest that

00:38:05.686 --> 00:38:08.827
food um and it's very you

00:38:08.847 --> 00:38:09.889
know it varies person to

00:38:09.909 --> 00:38:10.809
person there's really no

00:38:10.909 --> 00:38:12.090
it's it's all sort of not

00:38:12.130 --> 00:38:14.130
an exact science um and I

00:38:14.150 --> 00:38:15.012
feel like that's the same

00:38:15.052 --> 00:38:15.972
thing with testosterone

00:38:15.992 --> 00:38:17.012
like guys could have

00:38:17.494 --> 00:38:19.916
A twelve hundred testosterone level,

00:38:19.936 --> 00:38:21.016
which you think, oh, my gosh,

00:38:21.056 --> 00:38:22.458
like holy balls, that's crazy.

00:38:23.077 --> 00:38:23.277
But.

00:38:25.659 --> 00:38:27.139
But if they're free,

00:38:27.159 --> 00:38:28.501
testosterone is like within

00:38:28.561 --> 00:38:29.902
normal range or even lower

00:38:29.922 --> 00:38:30.561
than normal range,

00:38:30.601 --> 00:38:31.862
then that's what's like

00:38:31.963 --> 00:38:33.402
bioavailable and in your

00:38:33.443 --> 00:38:34.623
body that is able to be

00:38:34.824 --> 00:38:35.545
used in a sort of.

00:38:37.556 --> 00:38:38.077
What's the word?

00:38:38.297 --> 00:38:39.217
It's not manifesting.

00:38:39.237 --> 00:38:40.958
It's like what's existing,

00:38:41.039 --> 00:38:43.159
what's like available to you,

00:38:43.219 --> 00:38:44.621
bioavailable.

00:38:44.820 --> 00:38:47.081
And so it's not a perfect science.

00:38:47.121 --> 00:38:47.782
And it's, you know,

00:38:47.802 --> 00:38:48.782
you can't just look at one thing.

00:38:48.802 --> 00:38:49.682
And I think primary care

00:38:49.702 --> 00:38:51.063
doctors will give you a test.

00:38:51.103 --> 00:38:52.445
They'll look at your overall

00:38:52.485 --> 00:38:53.864
testosterone levels and be like, oh,

00:38:53.885 --> 00:38:55.206
you're within the, you know,

00:38:55.226 --> 00:38:56.987
the limits that insurance

00:38:57.027 --> 00:38:57.887
covers or whatever.

00:38:58.148 --> 00:39:01.369
And that's that.

00:39:01.389 --> 00:39:02.309
What are you saying here?

00:39:02.349 --> 00:39:03.469
And CrossFit cat thinks a

00:39:03.489 --> 00:39:04.311
thirty eight year old dude.

00:39:04.815 --> 00:39:05.916
Just wants to bang,

00:39:05.976 --> 00:39:07.217
doesn't want to be serious with her.

00:39:07.376 --> 00:39:07.476
Oh,

00:39:07.657 --> 00:39:09.057
someone asking me why I won't go out

00:39:09.077 --> 00:39:09.898
with a thirty eight year old.

00:39:11.460 --> 00:39:12.599
I mean, there's other reasons, too.

00:39:12.639 --> 00:39:14.300
I just think like I've

00:39:14.340 --> 00:39:15.481
experienced a lot more life

00:39:15.501 --> 00:39:16.382
than a thirty eight year old,

00:39:16.422 --> 00:39:18.204
and I think it would have

00:39:18.224 --> 00:39:19.925
to be a very mature thirty

00:39:19.945 --> 00:39:20.385
eight year old.

00:39:20.405 --> 00:39:21.266
It would have to be someone

00:39:21.726 --> 00:39:22.927
whose kids are maybe a

00:39:22.967 --> 00:39:23.927
little bit older than your

00:39:24.027 --> 00:39:25.248
average thirty eight year old.

00:39:29.110 --> 00:39:29.532
What else?

00:39:30.222 --> 00:39:31.063
Yeah,

00:39:31.083 --> 00:39:33.384
they can't be just after me for one thing,

00:39:33.463 --> 00:39:33.804
obviously,

00:39:33.824 --> 00:39:34.485
because that's not what I'm

00:39:34.525 --> 00:39:39.827
around here for.

00:39:39.847 --> 00:39:41.208
Yeah, those levels are also important.

00:39:41.769 --> 00:39:43.630
I don't understand them as much for men.

00:39:43.710 --> 00:39:46.952
I know for women, that's a thing.

00:39:47.032 --> 00:39:48.134
If you want to juice your numbers down,

00:39:48.233 --> 00:39:49.215
drink and sleep terribly

00:39:49.235 --> 00:39:50.014
the night before.

00:39:50.916 --> 00:39:52.556
I actually, the last time I did get tested,

00:39:52.597 --> 00:39:54.097
it was like a day after I

00:39:54.137 --> 00:39:55.759
had taken my microdose.

00:39:56.385 --> 00:39:57.965
So I'm pretty sure that I'm

00:39:58.286 --> 00:39:59.146
in a good spot right now.

00:39:59.186 --> 00:40:00.387
And I know when I got the

00:40:00.427 --> 00:40:02.367
eight hundred level or whatever it was,

00:40:02.427 --> 00:40:03.268
my doctor called me right

00:40:03.288 --> 00:40:04.407
away and she's like, oh,

00:40:04.427 --> 00:40:05.228
we need to do something.

00:40:05.307 --> 00:40:07.168
And I immediately I think I

00:40:07.188 --> 00:40:09.769
was doing I was doing five units,

00:40:10.110 --> 00:40:10.809
maybe every.

00:40:12.670 --> 00:40:13.492
Maybe twice a week,

00:40:13.711 --> 00:40:15.632
maybe even like every three

00:40:15.652 --> 00:40:17.932
days and just kind of doing that,

00:40:17.972 --> 00:40:19.934
so I went to like every four days.

00:40:20.393 --> 00:40:21.333
and never got tested.

00:40:21.413 --> 00:40:22.594
And then I just balanced out

00:40:22.634 --> 00:40:23.534
at every five days.

00:40:23.574 --> 00:40:24.454
I thought that would, you know,

00:40:24.514 --> 00:40:25.235
less is more.

00:40:25.934 --> 00:40:27.056
And so, um,

00:40:27.076 --> 00:40:28.476
that's kind of my sweet spot right now.

00:40:28.596 --> 00:40:29.496
And I'll, I'll,

00:40:29.516 --> 00:40:32.318
I just got it checked maybe a month ago.

00:40:33.077 --> 00:40:33.237
Um,

00:40:33.277 --> 00:40:34.518
so I'll get it checked again in another

00:40:34.559 --> 00:40:35.358
six months and make sure

00:40:35.378 --> 00:40:36.780
that that's the right dosage for me.

00:40:36.800 --> 00:40:37.619
But so far it's been,

00:40:37.880 --> 00:40:38.500
it's been really good.

00:40:38.539 --> 00:40:40.041
No complaints whatsoever.

00:40:41.260 --> 00:40:42.402
Um, yeah.

00:40:42.501 --> 00:40:43.802
And here's my theory on that.

00:40:43.882 --> 00:40:46.282
I feel like, and again, not a doctor, just,

00:40:46.463 --> 00:40:47.704
just like to think about things.

00:40:48.590 --> 00:40:51.992
I feel like we were meant to

00:40:52.132 --> 00:40:55.434
live like four years, forty, fifty years.

00:40:56.074 --> 00:40:57.255
And modern medicine,

00:40:58.137 --> 00:40:59.317
thanks to modern medicine,

00:40:59.617 --> 00:41:01.259
we're living longer lives because,

00:41:01.659 --> 00:41:03.539
you know, don't come after me on vaccines,

00:41:03.579 --> 00:41:04.981
but, you know, we have vaccines, we have,

00:41:05.481 --> 00:41:07.922
you know, antibiotics that can, you know,

00:41:07.963 --> 00:41:09.304
we don't die from pneumonia anymore.

00:41:09.344 --> 00:41:10.945
We don't die from viruses.

00:41:11.266 --> 00:41:12.286
We have medicines that can

00:41:12.706 --> 00:41:13.467
can fix that for us.

00:41:13.487 --> 00:41:14.347
So our lifespan.

00:41:14.844 --> 00:41:17.045
has increased because of modern medicine,

00:41:17.085 --> 00:41:17.565
which is great.

00:41:17.625 --> 00:41:18.505
And because, you know,

00:41:18.565 --> 00:41:19.784
our healthy lifestyles or whatever,

00:41:20.244 --> 00:41:21.204
but your body,

00:41:21.425 --> 00:41:23.085
like the biology in your body,

00:41:23.126 --> 00:41:24.286
you probably were only

00:41:24.346 --> 00:41:26.586
meant to live to be forty or fifty.

00:41:27.027 --> 00:41:29.666
And that evolution of what

00:41:29.706 --> 00:41:31.467
your body can produce and do, I think,

00:41:31.527 --> 00:41:33.648
takes a lot longer than, you know,

00:41:33.688 --> 00:41:34.788
the thousands and thousands

00:41:34.827 --> 00:41:35.548
of years that we've been

00:41:35.568 --> 00:41:38.309
around tracking this kind of stuff.

00:41:39.369 --> 00:41:40.190
So what I think is

00:41:42.867 --> 00:41:44.487
your hormones, you know,

00:41:44.748 --> 00:41:46.047
that your body's producing

00:41:46.568 --> 00:41:48.768
stop around that forty to fifty mark,

00:41:48.789 --> 00:41:50.208
because that's all it was

00:41:50.268 --> 00:41:52.710
ever engineered to cover in

00:41:52.750 --> 00:41:53.869
terms of lifespan.

00:41:54.489 --> 00:41:57.891
And so we need to go in and reproduce it.

00:41:58.130 --> 00:41:59.992
And if it means you have to reproduce it,

00:42:00.411 --> 00:42:03.833
you know, synthetically or even naturally,

00:42:03.873 --> 00:42:05.052
but just we have to add

00:42:05.112 --> 00:42:06.753
things to our bodies to make it

00:42:07.338 --> 00:42:08.478
like that so that we sort of

00:42:08.518 --> 00:42:09.840
maintain that vitality now

00:42:09.900 --> 00:42:10.639
it doesn't mean that we

00:42:10.659 --> 00:42:11.440
should be having babies

00:42:11.460 --> 00:42:12.702
later and I'm not like I

00:42:12.722 --> 00:42:13.742
don't need to grow eggs

00:42:13.802 --> 00:42:14.824
again or anything like that

00:42:15.583 --> 00:42:18.806
um but yeah that's kind of

00:42:18.827 --> 00:42:20.228
a thing hold on wait I want

00:42:20.248 --> 00:42:21.248
to go back to this aaron my

00:42:21.288 --> 00:42:26.092
natural t is total t number

00:42:26.132 --> 00:42:27.092
isn't everything exactly

00:42:27.172 --> 00:42:28.233
like your free is probably

00:42:28.273 --> 00:42:29.173
kind of low and then

00:42:29.293 --> 00:42:30.114
there's things that you can

00:42:30.135 --> 00:42:31.815
do to dial down some of

00:42:31.835 --> 00:42:33.496
those different numbers um

00:42:33.536 --> 00:42:34.518
to get you in a spot where

00:42:34.538 --> 00:42:35.438
you're in a better place

00:42:36.317 --> 00:42:37.056
No wonder those useful

00:42:37.097 --> 00:42:38.077
levels are attracting.

00:42:40.759 --> 00:42:42.179
Yeah.

00:42:42.199 --> 00:42:43.679
But I'm a huge fan of it.

00:42:43.699 --> 00:42:44.159
And like I said,

00:42:44.219 --> 00:42:45.139
I just think it's because

00:42:45.519 --> 00:42:46.320
we weren't meant to live as

00:42:46.340 --> 00:42:46.981
long as we did.

00:42:47.141 --> 00:42:48.762
And if everyone were like to

00:42:48.782 --> 00:42:50.141
get on the bandwagon of

00:42:50.762 --> 00:42:51.503
hormone replacement,

00:42:51.943 --> 00:42:52.742
where it's safe again,

00:42:52.762 --> 00:42:53.503
because I know you hear

00:42:53.523 --> 00:42:56.003
about things like people have, you know,

00:42:56.063 --> 00:42:57.284
certain cancers that are

00:42:58.182 --> 00:43:00.463
hormone sensitive or things like that.

00:43:00.523 --> 00:43:01.623
You probably, you know,

00:43:01.664 --> 00:43:03.643
maybe want to talk to someone about that,

00:43:03.684 --> 00:43:04.864
but I don't know.

00:43:04.943 --> 00:43:05.623
I'm just rolling the dice.

00:43:05.643 --> 00:43:06.403
This is how I want to live.

00:43:06.523 --> 00:43:07.244
This is what I'm doing.

00:43:09.605 --> 00:43:09.885
Sorry.

00:43:10.744 --> 00:43:10.925
Yeah.

00:43:10.945 --> 00:43:13.786
People are dying of cancer or COVID.

00:43:17.686 --> 00:43:19.387
Any life over thirty five is a win.

00:43:19.427 --> 00:43:19.967
Seriously,

00:43:20.527 --> 00:43:22.646
like go back to whatever days

00:43:22.666 --> 00:43:23.286
we're talking about.

00:43:23.327 --> 00:43:24.987
And people did not live this long, guys,

00:43:25.288 --> 00:43:25.547
at all.

00:43:25.588 --> 00:43:27.768
We were not meant to do so.

00:43:27.827 --> 00:43:28.047
Anyway,

00:43:30.003 --> 00:43:31.224
That's all I had, guys.

00:43:32.106 --> 00:43:33.447
I head to Connecticut tomorrow.

00:43:33.527 --> 00:43:34.889
I'll be there Tuesday, Wednesday,

00:43:34.909 --> 00:43:35.469
Thursday.

00:43:37.471 --> 00:43:38.311
I'm really hoping that this

00:43:38.351 --> 00:43:40.134
guy that I'm talking to asks me out.

00:43:41.914 --> 00:43:42.215
What else?

00:43:42.295 --> 00:43:43.315
I band practice tonight.

00:43:44.197 --> 00:43:44.737
Band rehearsal.

00:43:44.818 --> 00:43:45.759
I'm calling it practice.

00:43:45.798 --> 00:43:46.498
It should be rehearsal.

00:43:46.699 --> 00:43:47.519
It's band rehearsal.

00:43:48.521 --> 00:43:49.862
I think I get my tambourine tonight.

00:43:50.682 --> 00:43:51.684
Tim forgot it last week.

00:43:51.744 --> 00:43:52.684
I was very disappointed.

00:43:53.405 --> 00:43:53.565
So...

00:43:55.195 --> 00:43:55.916
We'll see.

00:43:57.577 --> 00:43:57.737
Yeah.

00:43:57.777 --> 00:43:58.998
Just don't get steroid voice.

00:44:00.438 --> 00:44:00.657
I mean,

00:44:01.139 --> 00:44:02.358
the funny thing is my voice is

00:44:02.458 --> 00:44:04.000
already really low anyway.

00:44:05.260 --> 00:44:06.521
So I'm hoping it's not like,

00:44:06.541 --> 00:44:08.521
I hope it doesn't sound too manly,

00:44:08.581 --> 00:44:09.722
but I've gotten that feedback.

00:44:09.782 --> 00:44:10.362
I've posted,

00:44:11.902 --> 00:44:13.423
I post TikTok videos and

00:44:13.684 --> 00:44:14.623
there's so many guys in it.

00:44:14.643 --> 00:44:15.204
They're like, you,

00:44:15.465 --> 00:44:16.184
you kind of sound like a

00:44:16.204 --> 00:44:18.085
drill sergeant or you seem

00:44:18.206 --> 00:44:21.286
really masculine or really, you know, not,

00:44:21.967 --> 00:44:23.387
not feminine or like a mom

00:44:23.467 --> 00:44:24.228
or something like that.

00:44:24.248 --> 00:44:24.829
And I think that's

00:44:25.396 --> 00:44:26.775
more like my coaching voice.

00:44:28.836 --> 00:44:29.177
And again,

00:44:29.217 --> 00:44:31.217
I'm working on all that to sound

00:44:31.257 --> 00:44:32.898
a little softer and look a little softer.

00:44:32.958 --> 00:44:35.657
But Jodi, I'm going to Stanford,

00:44:35.838 --> 00:44:36.338
Connecticut.

00:44:36.617 --> 00:44:37.018
I actually,

00:44:37.117 --> 00:44:38.278
I did have really good pizza

00:44:38.318 --> 00:44:39.179
last time I was there.

00:44:41.179 --> 00:44:42.099
I forget where we were,

00:44:42.139 --> 00:44:43.179
but it was like a famous

00:44:43.380 --> 00:44:45.480
pizza place and it was delicious.

00:44:45.500 --> 00:44:49.001
Hold on.

00:44:49.021 --> 00:44:50.201
People still want to talk about this.

00:44:51.260 --> 00:44:51.981
Maybe you think I need to

00:44:52.001 --> 00:44:53.081
get onto your tube and not yet.

00:44:54.726 --> 00:44:56.628
I still do okay when I'm consistent.

00:44:57.407 --> 00:44:58.628
Yeah, I mean, eleven fifty is great.

00:44:59.489 --> 00:44:59.710
You know,

00:44:59.829 --> 00:45:00.969
most guys that are going on it

00:45:00.989 --> 00:45:03.271
are more like in like the five hundred,

00:45:03.791 --> 00:45:08.434
six hundred, four hundred range.

00:45:08.454 --> 00:45:09.335
Do I feel like it makes you

00:45:09.355 --> 00:45:09.875
better at work?

00:45:09.954 --> 00:45:11.255
No, I have total ADHD.

00:45:11.275 --> 00:45:13.277
It doesn't help with my ADHD whatsoever.

00:45:14.456 --> 00:45:15.697
And because I work from home,

00:45:16.318 --> 00:45:17.998
that's really tough for me.

00:45:18.280 --> 00:45:18.460
I mean,

00:45:18.539 --> 00:45:20.019
I get things done when I need to

00:45:20.039 --> 00:45:20.920
get them done, but

00:45:21.789 --> 00:45:22.190
Um,

00:45:22.210 --> 00:45:23.751
I could definitely focus a little more

00:45:23.871 --> 00:45:24.731
now brain fog.

00:45:24.831 --> 00:45:26.110
It helps with brain fog for sure.

00:45:26.130 --> 00:45:27.871
I've noticed a big difference there.

00:45:28.851 --> 00:45:31.552
Um, yeah, Jody, let me know.

00:45:31.773 --> 00:45:32.152
Hook me up.

00:45:32.233 --> 00:45:33.514
We went to, I think that's where we went.

00:45:33.554 --> 00:45:34.594
I think we went to Sally's.

00:45:35.454 --> 00:45:37.474
Um, cause you remember you guys,

00:45:37.514 --> 00:45:38.255
I talked to you about that

00:45:38.295 --> 00:45:39.416
CrossFit gym I went to too.

00:45:39.456 --> 00:45:41.496
I forget what it was called, but, um,

00:45:41.516 --> 00:45:42.396
that was like right on the

00:45:42.436 --> 00:45:44.117
main drag there in Stanford

00:45:44.177 --> 00:45:45.456
where Sally's is.

00:45:50.150 --> 00:45:51.351
Concert is this huge radiation.

00:45:51.572 --> 00:45:51.771
Yeah.

00:45:51.851 --> 00:45:52.112
I don't,

00:45:52.452 --> 00:45:53.853
I don't know that I want to take it.

00:45:53.914 --> 00:45:55.474
My daughter has ADHD too.

00:45:55.494 --> 00:45:57.096
And she took medicine when

00:45:57.115 --> 00:45:58.496
she was like maybe in

00:45:58.516 --> 00:45:59.318
junior in high school,

00:45:59.597 --> 00:46:00.297
she's in college now.

00:46:00.838 --> 00:46:01.759
And she took it for like

00:46:01.798 --> 00:46:03.119
half a year and she hated it.

00:46:03.260 --> 00:46:04.561
She said it made her like a zombie.

00:46:04.621 --> 00:46:06.362
She hated the way it made me feel.

00:46:07.262 --> 00:46:07.322
Um,

00:46:07.382 --> 00:46:08.543
it's actually given her like some

00:46:08.583 --> 00:46:09.905
anxiety about medicines before.

00:46:09.945 --> 00:46:12.626
Now I don't, I'll take meds all day long.

00:46:13.547 --> 00:46:13.628
Um,

00:46:17.440 --> 00:46:19.021
Jay Burch, never had it tested.

00:46:19.101 --> 00:46:19.722
I am fifty six.

00:46:20.081 --> 00:46:20.262
Yeah.

00:46:20.362 --> 00:46:20.601
I mean,

00:46:20.822 --> 00:46:22.143
if your doctor is willing to test it,

00:46:22.722 --> 00:46:25.403
you should you should do it.

00:46:25.443 --> 00:46:27.643
Not me, the guy there, I'm betting.

00:46:28.025 --> 00:46:31.445
I mean, you don't know until you know.

00:46:31.865 --> 00:46:32.826
So so do that.

00:46:33.726 --> 00:46:34.967
I have heard that the new meds are better.

00:46:35.146 --> 00:46:37.648
I don't I don't find that my ADHD is.

00:46:37.788 --> 00:46:38.347
Well, first of all,

00:46:38.367 --> 00:46:39.367
it's never been diagnosed,

00:46:39.668 --> 00:46:41.489
although I mentioned to my

00:46:41.528 --> 00:46:42.590
therapist last Friday we

00:46:42.610 --> 00:46:43.690
were talking about my daughter.

00:46:44.402 --> 00:46:46.684
And I made like a funny comment, like,

00:46:46.704 --> 00:46:48.324
you know, she probably gets that from me.

00:46:48.764 --> 00:46:49.824
And my therapist just kind

00:46:49.844 --> 00:46:50.965
of like did one of these.

00:46:51.545 --> 00:46:52.525
She didn't say anything,

00:46:52.646 --> 00:46:54.405
but she kind of validated it for me.

00:46:54.425 --> 00:46:55.226
I'm like, oh, shit.

00:46:55.626 --> 00:46:56.226
Is that me?

00:46:56.266 --> 00:46:57.867
Do I have it?

00:46:57.927 --> 00:46:58.387
Probably.

00:47:00.108 --> 00:47:01.068
But it hasn't.

00:47:01.128 --> 00:47:02.708
It's part of my charming personality.

00:47:02.969 --> 00:47:03.949
It's not I don't think it's

00:47:03.969 --> 00:47:04.710
a bad thing right now.

00:47:05.989 --> 00:47:07.268
Am I going to share new pictures today?

00:47:07.409 --> 00:47:09.449
So I don't have my extra screen set up.

00:47:09.550 --> 00:47:11.190
If you guys don't mind

00:47:12.010 --> 00:47:13.911
hanging out for a second, I can.

00:47:14.190 --> 00:47:15.471
Let's see.

00:47:15.590 --> 00:47:16.711
I can hook up this monitor.

00:47:17.972 --> 00:47:21.293
Oh, I don't know.

00:47:21.413 --> 00:47:22.873
Are we doing what kind of

00:47:22.913 --> 00:47:24.193
new pictures are you wanting to see?

00:47:24.213 --> 00:47:25.213
Are we wanting to look at

00:47:25.634 --> 00:47:26.994
dating profile pictures?

00:47:27.014 --> 00:47:28.333
Because I don't really have many of those.

00:47:29.235 --> 00:47:33.896
Oh, no, it happened.

00:47:33.936 --> 00:47:34.456
Okay, there I am.

00:47:35.210 --> 00:47:38.454
Or are we talking about... Wait, wait,

00:47:38.494 --> 00:47:38.693
wait.

00:47:38.713 --> 00:47:39.835
I don't know how this is gonna work.

00:47:39.875 --> 00:47:40.175
Shit.

00:47:42.056 --> 00:47:42.797
I have to go around here to

00:47:42.817 --> 00:47:44.077
look what I'm doing.

00:47:44.798 --> 00:47:48.382
Do you wanna look at... I can't see.

00:47:48.402 --> 00:47:48.782
Hold on.

00:47:48.802 --> 00:47:56.869
Where's my mouse?

00:47:56.969 --> 00:47:57.329
Oh, there it is.

00:47:58.230 --> 00:47:58.610
Lots of them,

00:47:58.650 --> 00:47:59.851
I get told they have anxiety.

00:47:59.931 --> 00:48:03.173
Do you want feet pics?

00:48:06.068 --> 00:48:06.909
Tell me what, Jason,

00:48:06.949 --> 00:48:07.489
tell me what kind of

00:48:07.510 --> 00:48:11.653
pictures you want to look at.

00:48:11.673 --> 00:48:13.916
What I can do, see if I move this camera.

00:48:14.956 --> 00:48:16.418
We'll do it anyway.

00:48:16.777 --> 00:48:17.338
Now you guys are going to

00:48:17.358 --> 00:48:18.519
see the other side of my apartment.

00:48:19.159 --> 00:48:26.286
All right, don't go crazy.

00:48:27.708 --> 00:48:29.369
I'm going to share.

00:48:29.449 --> 00:48:30.469
This is so unprofessional.

00:48:30.891 --> 00:48:33.353
Usually I have my other camera on.

00:48:35.697 --> 00:48:40.300
I think we can do image file.

00:48:40.440 --> 00:48:44.782
And we'll go photos.

00:48:44.882 --> 00:48:46.204
I don't know what you guys want to see.

00:48:47.664 --> 00:48:48.585
I will show you the picture

00:48:48.625 --> 00:48:52.927
of me pregnant because it's hysterical.

00:48:52.947 --> 00:48:53.867
You're going to die.

00:48:54.389 --> 00:48:56.070
We showed short hair pictures before,

00:48:56.090 --> 00:48:57.871
right?

00:48:57.891 --> 00:48:59.112
Dude, look at this.

00:48:59.771 --> 00:49:00.112
Look at that.

00:49:00.472 --> 00:49:01.072
I'm going to sit over here.

00:49:01.092 --> 00:49:01.632
You're not going to be able

00:49:01.652 --> 00:49:02.313
to see me for a second.

00:49:03.454 --> 00:49:04.094
That is your girl.

00:49:05.592 --> 00:49:07.052
Thirty-six weeks pregnant with my son,

00:49:07.072 --> 00:49:07.452
Braden.

00:49:08.233 --> 00:49:09.835
I mean, seriously.

00:49:10.454 --> 00:49:10.896
First of all,

00:49:10.916 --> 00:49:18.501
can we have a moment for the red kitchen?

00:49:18.601 --> 00:49:18.920
And yes,

00:49:18.981 --> 00:49:20.041
I don't feel bad for sharing this.

00:49:20.121 --> 00:49:21.382
My nose was fat, guys.

00:49:21.523 --> 00:49:23.443
That's what my lovely mom told me,

00:49:23.804 --> 00:49:24.985
that your nose was fat.

00:49:25.085 --> 00:49:26.186
I was so big.

00:49:27.286 --> 00:49:28.887
And I don't know if you can see right here,

00:49:29.148 --> 00:49:29.708
fun fact,

00:49:30.449 --> 00:49:34.731
I had a mole inside of my navel.

00:49:36.242 --> 00:49:37.244
like inside my belly button.

00:49:37.585 --> 00:49:42.373
And I had to go get it surgically removed.

00:49:42.534 --> 00:49:43.275
I got it done.

00:49:45.532 --> 00:49:46.592
like two,

00:49:46.771 --> 00:49:48.713
maybe a week before I gave birth

00:49:49.012 --> 00:49:49.873
because it was out there

00:49:50.012 --> 00:49:50.713
and they wanted to do it.

00:49:50.753 --> 00:49:51.733
So I went to the surgical center.

00:49:51.893 --> 00:49:53.934
They, they took my weight down.

00:49:54.155 --> 00:49:55.094
Obviously it was like almost

00:49:55.114 --> 00:49:56.454
two hundred pounds and they

00:49:56.494 --> 00:49:58.076
took out the mole and I left and they had,

00:49:58.195 --> 00:49:59.735
I had like a stereo strip on my belly.

00:49:59.936 --> 00:50:01.117
It was the most painful

00:50:01.157 --> 00:50:02.297
recovery ever because my

00:50:02.356 --> 00:50:05.018
skin was so stretched.

00:50:05.777 --> 00:50:05.978
Um,

00:50:06.197 --> 00:50:07.418
and I had stitches and everything else.

00:50:08.619 --> 00:50:09.639
Seven days later I gave

00:50:09.659 --> 00:50:10.458
birth to Braden and I had a

00:50:10.518 --> 00:50:11.840
C emergency C-section.

00:50:12.699 --> 00:50:12.800
Um,

00:50:13.498 --> 00:50:14.519
I go into recovery.

00:50:15.179 --> 00:50:15.960
He's in the NICU.

00:50:16.001 --> 00:50:17.762
It was like a horrible birth story.

00:50:17.822 --> 00:50:19.543
His APGAR score was like one.

00:50:19.603 --> 00:50:20.824
He was blue, not breathing.

00:50:21.585 --> 00:50:23.025
And I go into recovery with

00:50:23.085 --> 00:50:24.347
no baby and this like

00:50:24.407 --> 00:50:25.668
deflated belly and this

00:50:25.688 --> 00:50:27.309
dairy strip on my belly.

00:50:27.389 --> 00:50:28.811
And the nurse comes in and she's like, oh,

00:50:28.851 --> 00:50:29.710
you got your tubes tied.

00:50:30.811 --> 00:50:33.173
And I was like, what?

00:50:33.233 --> 00:50:34.215
No, I just had a baby.

00:50:34.255 --> 00:50:35.536
Like it freaked me out.

00:50:35.755 --> 00:50:37.157
The fact that I couldn't get

00:50:37.197 --> 00:50:38.538
pregnant right away after

00:50:38.657 --> 00:50:39.358
Brayden was born,

00:50:39.679 --> 00:50:40.699
I was convinced they

00:50:40.798 --> 00:50:42.780
accidentally tied my tubes that day.

00:50:43.581 --> 00:50:46.603
Um, but anyway, maybe two weeks later,

00:50:46.663 --> 00:50:47.443
I got a call back from the

00:50:47.463 --> 00:50:48.784
dermatologist that it was

00:50:49.023 --> 00:50:50.443
suspicious for like

00:50:50.483 --> 00:50:51.445
pre-cancer cells and they

00:50:51.465 --> 00:50:52.264
didn't get all the margins.

00:50:52.284 --> 00:50:53.625
So they had to go back in and do it again.

00:50:54.065 --> 00:50:56.166
And I went back to the

00:50:56.565 --> 00:50:59.327
surgical center and they

00:50:59.387 --> 00:51:00.487
had to like check my ID.

00:51:00.507 --> 00:51:01.387
They were so confused

00:51:01.427 --> 00:51:02.248
because I weighed like

00:51:02.307 --> 00:51:03.668
forty five pounds less than

00:51:03.748 --> 00:51:05.849
I did two weeks prior.

00:51:05.949 --> 00:51:06.590
And they weren't sure I was

00:51:06.610 --> 00:51:07.389
like the same person

00:51:07.409 --> 00:51:08.429
because I didn't look the same.

00:51:09.630 --> 00:51:10.411
It was really kind of funny.

00:51:10.550 --> 00:51:12.831
But yeah, that was my that's my fun.

00:51:13.996 --> 00:51:14.615
My fun story.

00:51:14.635 --> 00:51:14.896
All right.

00:51:17.597 --> 00:51:21.898
How do we do this?

00:51:22.018 --> 00:51:22.099
Okay.

00:51:22.119 --> 00:51:22.298
All right.

00:51:22.318 --> 00:51:22.599
We're back.

00:51:22.619 --> 00:51:23.340
I'm going to unplug this

00:51:23.420 --> 00:51:24.119
monitor too because it

00:51:24.139 --> 00:51:24.820
really screws me up.

00:51:24.880 --> 00:51:25.460
I'm sorry, guys.

00:51:25.840 --> 00:51:26.760
I will do better next time.

00:51:26.800 --> 00:51:29.101
This was like a last minute thing.

00:51:29.161 --> 00:51:30.001
I talked to Scott.

00:51:31.862 --> 00:51:33.003
I talked to Scott and he was like,

00:51:33.043 --> 00:51:35.164
I'm not going on camera

00:51:35.224 --> 00:51:36.744
today because he's on an airplane.

00:51:36.784 --> 00:51:39.686
And so I decided to do this for us today.

00:51:39.965 --> 00:51:42.827
What do we got here?

00:51:44.427 --> 00:51:44.967
What is that?

00:51:44.987 --> 00:51:46.748
That's a lot of signs for a new hospital.

00:51:46.768 --> 00:51:49.650
I don't know what that means.

00:51:49.710 --> 00:51:50.771
Yes, JB.

00:51:51.291 --> 00:51:52.012
Pregnancy nose.

00:51:52.172 --> 00:51:52.572
I had it.

00:51:52.632 --> 00:51:53.753
It was so fat.

00:51:54.092 --> 00:51:54.773
And you know what's funny?

00:51:55.092 --> 00:51:56.293
I'm so self-conscious about

00:51:56.333 --> 00:51:57.094
my nose anyway.

00:51:57.353 --> 00:51:58.255
Ever since I was a kid,

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I wanted a nose job so bad.

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This bone right here that forms your nose,

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this bone on my body is flat.

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You could land a penny on it.

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It's so flat.

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And so it shapes the rest of my nose.

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And I'm Italian, right?

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I've got this like broad

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Italian ethnic nose,

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but it also like turns down

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because my mom has like a Roman nose.

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She's not Italian,

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but she's got this like

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thin English nose that sort

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of points down.

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So it's wide and it points down.

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And I used to sit in front

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of the mirror when I was a

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kid and I would just go like this.

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I'll be like, oh my gosh,

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I just want it like up just

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a little bit and like a

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little bit narrower.

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And I would put, I still do this.

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I put like contour and all

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kinds of stuff on my nose

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because I'm super

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self-conscious about my nose.

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So yeah, that was not fun.

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But yeah, I'll do better next time, guys.

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This will be two weeks, right?

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So not this week, not this Wednesday,

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next Wednesday, um, five PM.

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I should be around.

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Hopefully I'll have some

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more stories for you.

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I'm hoping again,

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the goal is to not be

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talking about dating, right?

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That is the goal of this

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podcast eventually.

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And we have obviously other

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things to talk about like CrossFit and,

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you know, parenthood and relationships,

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hormone replacement therapy

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and all that good stuff.

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So I want to thank you guys for joining.

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We're almost at the hour.

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I do have to go back to work.

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I'm sorry I didn't throw a dart.

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I'm not going to tell you

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hooligans to get back to work.

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That is Scott's deal.

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But I love you and reach out anytime.

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All right.

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Take care, guys.

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Have a great, great Monday.