The Unburdened Leader

One of the most challenging aspects of leadership is facing bullies.
 
…the bullies from our past.
 
...the bullies in our present.
 
...and the bullies between our ears.
 
We live in a culture that normalizes—and even elevates—bullies in the name of entertainment. Our culture encourages us to enjoy the suffering of others instead of empathizing with the personal pain of the bullied. Our culture increasingly urges us to see bullying as a sign of strength.
 
When in truth, the culture of bullying is fueled by shame, fear, and violence. It perpetuates a right to retribution that dehumanizes. It ruins lives and lacks accountability, compassion, and empathy.
 
That’s why it’s more important than ever these days to take a stand. To face the bully, the oppressor, the abuser, the betrayer and say: enough. No more. Not now. Not ever again.
 
Gemma Went is my guest today. She’s here to share about when she decided to push back on both the internal and external voices that said she should not pay time or energy to a recent bullying and public shaming experience.
 
Gemma is an Online Business Mentor + Digital Growth Strategist based in the UK and works with entrepreneurs and business owners across the globe achieve great things and smash their goals through her proprietary frameworks and systems, all based on three core principles: Mindset + Strategy + Action, which make up her MSA Approach™.
 
Listen to the full episode to hear:

* How Gemma made a careful and values-based decision to take a stand against a bullying experience in adulthood
* The impact her childhood bullying experience had on her decision to take a stand
* The important work she did to heal, grow, and lead the trauma of being bullied rather than it leading her
* The vulnerability in asking for help

 
Learn more about Gemma Went:

* Gemmawent.co.uk (http://www.gemmawent.co.uk/)
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* Follow Gemma on Twitter (https://twittercom/gemmawent)
* Connect with Gemma on LinkedIn (https://linkedin.com/in/gemmawent)

 
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Show Notes

One of the most challenging aspects of leadership is facing bullies.

 

…the bullies from our past.

 

...the bullies in our present.

 

...and the bullies between our ears.

 

We live in a culture that normalizes—and even elevates—bullies in the name of entertainment. Our culture encourages us to enjoy the suffering of others instead of empathizing with the personal pain of the bullied. Our culture increasingly urges us to see bullying as a sign of strength.

 

When in truth, the culture of bullying is fueled by shame, fear, and violence. It perpetuates a right to retribution that dehumanizes. It ruins lives and lacks accountability, compassion, and empathy.

 

That’s why it’s more important than ever these days to take a stand. To face the bully, the oppressor, the abuser, the betrayer and say: enough. No more. Not now. Not ever again.

 

Gemma Went is my guest today. She’s here to share about when she decided to push back on both the internal and external voices that said she should not pay time or energy to a recent bullying and public shaming experience.

 

Gemma is an Online Business Mentor + Digital Growth Strategist based in the UK and works with entrepreneurs and business owners across the globe achieve great things and smash their goals through her proprietary frameworks and systems, all based on three core principles: Mindset + Strategy + Action, which make up her MSA Approach™.

 

Listen to the full episode to hear:

  • How Gemma made a careful and values-based decision to take a stand against a bullying experience in adulthood
  • The impact her childhood bullying experience had on her decision to take a stand
  • The important work she did to heal, grow, and lead the trauma of being bullied rather than it leading her
  • The vulnerability in asking for help

 

Learn more about Gemma Went:

 

Learn more about Rebecca:

What is The Unburdened Leader?

Meet leaders who recognized their own pain, worked through it, and stepped up into greater leadership. Each week, we dive into how leaders like you deal with struggle and growth so that you can lead without burnout or loneliness. If you're eager to make an impact in your community or business, Rebecca Ching, LMFT, will give you practical strategies for redefining challenges and vulnerability while becoming a better leader. Find the courage, confidence, clarity, and compassion to step up for yourself and your others--even when things feel really, really hard.